I have never done the long distance thing, ever. Always been against it, and skeptical of it.

Of course, I had to catch feelings for a plate. I knew she would be moving and it happened anyway. She moved far enough away that it would be a short flight to visit.

We haven’t had a formal conversation about our expectations, but she calls/texts me all day long and goes out of her way to make sure that I know she isn’t talking to other guys.

Im very good on the dating apps, and usually I meet at least one new woman every week. Lately though, I feel somewhat guilty about it and have been blowing them off. I have 2 other long term plates right now, and both constantly want to spend time with me.

How should I handle this situation? This girl and I would only be visiting each other every few months, at least for the next year or two. In the past I would have viewed this as a perfect opportunity to keep her around while adding more plates, but I have apparently grown a conscience in my old age. I also think I am addicted to fucking new women, which is another reason I want to stop.