Texting for logistics didn't work?

durdensworld · 2020-03-24T00:53:26+00:00

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WIA20XX · 2020-03-24T00:58:47+00:00

Sometimes it just be like that, but.....

Texting for logistics is and has always been bullshit.

I blame Roissy and Roosh for starting this myth, Red Pill mouth breathers who repeat shit, and guys for having zero empathy/human understanding that just follow shit blindly and without thinking.

If you only want to text for logistics, it implies that you have a good relationship with a girl already.

She isn't waiting by the phone for your text because when you got the contact information she didn't invest heavily and continue to think about you after you left.

Was your game that strong when you got the number? If it was the strong, why didn't you make it happen when you met the chick? Classes are optional.

Why guys fail with pickup generally.

Most of the time, when shit goes left, it is because he fucked up the step before.

She says she has a boyfriend before he says a word to her, something is off about his step up.

She is open to chat, he says his shit, and then she brings up the boyfriend - it's something he said in his opener. This can be verbal or nonverbal.

Shit is on fire, and he goes for the number, but now she is hemming and hawing = sexual market value problems, intent problems, trust problems.

He gets the chick home after making out all night, her grabbing his dick at the club, he fucked up the comfort stage.

If you don't build the right foundation, the carpentry can't make up for it.

The bullshit Roosh told you to say in "Game" isn't a magic spell. She is not just going to agree to don't vague shit because you followed the formula.

In your case, being a robot and ignoring what she told you emotionally (tired) is a good reason why she is slow to respond. Needed to have some social intelligence here.

Moreover, getting a number and waiting 3 days didn't help.

Now this chick might have fallen asleep, been getting fucked by her step father, or something else and you have zero patience, who knows.

But mistakes were made prior to this text. Address those

williamskevin · 2020-03-24T01:46:33+00:00

"Want to hang" is not the text of a quality man.

Try: I'm doing <some fun thing> Tuesday. Join me?

rpgedgar · 2020-03-24T00:35:58+00:00

She wasn't interested, and there is no alternate timeline where you said the magic words that would result in a different outcome.

Still, you didn't really text for logistics. Instead, you should just suggest a time/place/activity and tell her to join you.

On the bright side, you went for the cold approach and broke through your comfort zone - good on you. It'll get easier each time you do it.

Snowboard18 · 2020-03-24T01:05:59+00:00

Low interest, don’t text unless she comes back with an interest in meeting up.

nexther · 2020-03-24T01:49:55+00:00

She ignores you, you wait a while then re initiate. I give em one go at this.

power_cleaner · 2020-03-24T05:54:09+00:00

Because only texting for logistics is weird

mikkeldaman · 2020-03-24T07:54:03+00:00

I don't know of a rule of thumb but I usually text the same day at the very least to let them know it was a pleasure knowing them and so that they have my number. No one has ever thought lesser of me for doing that (and realistically... no matter how busy and interesting your life is, you still have two minutes in a day to do that... unless you're not interested or you're playing games) and generally I've received positive responses because things are still hot.

But then again, I go for the calling. I feel like it's a lost art but not only does it put the person on the spot, but it also shows that you're confident enough to go for what you need instead of hiding behind a text message.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-03-24T10:42:52+00:00

You asked her if she wanted to hang, instead of just proposing concrete plans that involve you two. What happens when she says yes to hangout, but then you purpose some goofy shit like going collect pennies on the sidewalk? Then she feels embarrassed for even giving you her number and now she has to ghost you. Whereas when you just tell her exactly what you want to do and when, it takes the pressure off her having to wait for your cringy date idea.

A man makes decisions and he leads. The woman is just in for the ride.

kevkariuki1 · 2020-03-25T00:42:54+00:00

As AMS says women are fickle beings. Their interests and wants change really fast. Not like us, if we're interested today, we'll definitely be interested 3 days later. Women have short attention spans like babies

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-03-24T04:44:57+00:00

“Hang out”

Be direct. Tell a time and place you fucking chump this is basics in sidebar

Title	Texting for logistics didn't work?
Author	durdensworld
Upvotes	3
Comments	28
Date	March 24, 2020 12:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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