Texting Potential LTR

MadeThisinTheHosp · 2020-11-16T23:37:31+00:00

It's simple side bar shit that gets old to repeat every day..

Texting will NEVER HELP YOU. Best case scenario, after you're done texting, her attraction to you has not lowered, but the chances of you losing her interest goes up with every text. Women like the mystery, which is why they ACT like they want to unpack it so badly, they wanna see who is EASY to unpack.

So my advice on texting her: sparingly, logistics only. If she starts trying some conversation shit respond way later and a say you were busy (preferably.. you really would be busy)

You wanna be the guy who spontaneously swoops in and gives her the funnest day of the week, not the guy constantly at her disposal that she can use as an emotional tampon

Blackhawk2479 · 2020-11-16T23:51:48+00:00

Why are you pursuing a relationship? That’s not your job, it’s hers.

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-11-16T23:12:42+00:00

Feels like there’s a little more weight

Does it feel that way? Or are you giving it too much weight? Perhaps because you’re investing a little too much prematurely? Before you’ve vetted consciously? Given it a year?

The Strategy is sound. Keep banging and vetting her. If after sufficient time she proves worthy; then consider it. Don’t give your commitment away cheaply. Especially when it’s only potential.

Godspeed and good luck!

Whole-Pea1870 · 2020-11-16T22:43:08+00:00

Nothing changes.

bottomLobster · 2020-11-16T22:45:53+00:00

I would say text even less if you see potential and see her right away. If there should be any hope of working LTR, she must be eager to see you from the start.

naz_bol · 2020-11-16T23:14:10+00:00

How long have you known her?

WIA20XX · 2020-11-17T16:21:54+00:00

The foundation of a long term relationship is her deep sexual attraction to you.

Period.

But your problem is considering chicks you have not fucked as being worthy of a relationship.

She has done nothing yet. She might be a great person/pretty/integrity/chaste, but is she a great partner TO YOU?

Stop thinking blue pill.

Title	Texting Potential LTR
Author	the1truthteller
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	November 16, 2020 10:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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