How to cold approach?

kncrew · 2021-01-24T15:42:15+00:00

First of all you gotta be in your mode. Fresh, cocky but not arrogant. Seem like you know where you’re going, not spinning around in circles.

My go to line is “Hey, I’m looking for a weekend girlfriend, know anybody?”

Answer: I’m somebody(or anything that keeps the convo on her.)

I do a quick three question interview and come up with some sarcastic line at the end. For example. “Can you cook” “Not Really” “oh that’s gunna be a problem for thanksgiving” etc.

Answer: Not me but a friend.

“Oh wow you’re a good friend for watching out for her, let me get your number and we can meet up sometime all together”

Answer: no

Bye Felicia

Answer: what’s a weekend girlfriend?

“Well I’m busy during the week, and I need someone to hang with for the weekend” usually I get a laugh and can continue on the 3 questions.

End with, “alright I’ll just get your number then.”

Is this flawless: no Is it a good start to get numbers in your phone: yes.

This also works with groups of girls. Be sure to pay enough attention to all so they all like you. It may be easier because if you’re cool, they may encourage a friend to give their number up.

You got this bro!

armenian_UwUcide · 2021-01-24T14:25:57+00:00

Ew, no. Learn to improvise. Open with a comment. Introduce yourself. Lead a fun conversation, or anything else.

Rehearsed lines and routines for the sole purpose of getting chicks is cringe and you will rightfully get bitch shields off the wall.

ManthanDhabriya · 2021-01-24T15:19:11+00:00

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daddydropfeet · 2021-01-25T05:33:12+00:00

2 words: inner game.

you're too focused on the outcome. if you're a confident alpha, you have zero fucks to give about what people (strangers) think of you. If you have this frame when you walk out the door - everyone (man or woman) is approachable and you can banter with complete strangers. Now, when a woman catches your eye, and (for added benefit of the doubt) you get some light IOI, go in and start - NOT in a "hello, i'm a stranger, whats your name?" or worse "you're cute" kinda way, go in and banter as you would with an uber driver or a check out clerk, the serving staff or the little old maintenance lady (and if you dont, you should).

marc-home · 2021-01-25T19:35:51+00:00

Cold approaching is some sort of simping.

Title	How to cold approach?
Author	ManthanDhabriya
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	January 24, 2021 2:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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