What would you guys do here?

boy_named_su · 2021-02-10T14:08:13+00:00

Just say yes? Sounds like legit logistical discussion.

halflotus2 · 2021-02-10T14:09:37+00:00

She offered a specific reschedule, sounds legit. I’d say yes. Like literally just “Yes.” is fine.

TheDero · 2021-02-10T15:54:04+00:00

stop rp overdosing and fucking reply and say sure. she literally offered a reschedule for valentines day bro

power_cleaner · 2021-02-10T14:35:13+00:00

Or maybe she’s only free on Sunday. I didn’t even realize Sunday was Valentine’s Day. Who cares. Expect a flake especially if you’ve been talking for a while whatever that means.

Just say yeah that works.

Afro_Red_Pill · 2021-02-10T19:32:29+00:00

Posts like this make me kinda sad.

These guys overthink things so much so as not to "lose frame" or not act "alpha" that they're losing women over nothing. They're their own worst enemy.

Stop constantly caring about what some internet strangers think. What do YOU think?

She offered a legit reschedule. If you're free that day - accept.

That's it. Enjoy your date, bro!

SublimePimp · 2021-02-10T16:21:54+00:00

Don’t overthink shit like this. If she’s willing to reschedule that means she’s somewhat interested. It’s easier to do this when you’re talking to/fucking mulitple women. You exude indifference

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-02-10T14:40:39+00:00

if they cancel but get you a counter offer, its reasonable to accept.

my only tip, generally speaking try not schedule dates in advanced. the flake factor is off the charts these days. instead opt for, "day of date" and "zero date bangs". Text a lady Thursday after noon. "lets hang tonight". Balls in her court. If she says yes, say "Ok tonight my place, bring a six pack or bottle of wine"

SeasonedRP · 2021-02-10T18:59:31+00:00

When they decline but give you an alternative date, it means they are still interested. Do it. Don't overthink it.

PreEntertain · 2021-02-10T17:19:31+00:00

"Ok but you're buying!"

mrrooftops · 2021-02-10T18:50:22+00:00

Word of caution. Even though it's a good sign she gave you a specific day for reschedule (rather than raincheck) she's still pulling you into her frame by becoming the date schedule leader. Probably no big deal to her but it's the subliminal message that counts whether you or her like it or not. A high-risk manoeuvre here (and you shouldn't care whether it works out or not) is to say you can't do Sunday because plans (you have a life) but you can do Monday. Remember, you are popular especially over the weekend - that is premium time. Don't let her know you have fuck all to do, don't let her feel you will meet whenever SHE wants.

Rene-Girard · 2021-02-10T21:33:54+00:00

Meet after work. If she's actually into you she'll suggest a) you come over to hers after she's finished work b) she comes to yours c) you guys go out.

That's what young people do if they want to actually see each other. If she's rescheduling to Sunday, it probably means she found another date or party on Saturday, but still wants to keep you on the hook if the date/party is boring.

2021-02-10T18:25:41+00:00

Just give her the bare minimum Netflix & Chill date.

It sounds like she genuinely wants to see you hear as suggested by her attempt to reschedule immediately so no real issue here.

Title	What would you guys do here?
Author	dreamville_647
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	February 10, 2021 1:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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