Reconnected with a former LTR who I left when I moved to Aus a few years ago. I have been back for about a year and she has been a plate for a couple of months.We are not in a LTR but she says she's not on apps on numerous occassions without any prompt from me. Low and behold one of my boys screenshots her profile. Pic is from this last week . Profile is new as he is avid on there and has never seen her before. Best course of action ?? Hard next without confronting as they all know what they did wrong?