How to go out alone?

Tousen71 · 2021-03-30T03:20:50+00:00

You've got two choices:

1) Quiet smokey hipster bar.

Sit at the bar with a drink in your hand. Talk to the people next to you. Girls will probably come in pairs, so get used to starting a conversation with one but entertaining both. Focus on the less attractive one. If you don't, she'll suicide bomb the interaction. Get the hot one's number later. Or if you're really the shit, invite them both over to continue the night.

2) Loud club.

The problem with going out alone is that if it's a wide social environment, you WILL look like a loser. You'll either be drinking alone in full view of others (who will be on dates or in groups) OR you'll be on your phone which is even worse. You need to go to a thumping bar (doesn't matter the genre of music) and walk up and dance with some girl. She won't notice if you're alone and it's actually easier to plan logistics that way. You get her number, grab a few drinks at the bar, take her somewhere quieter, make out, then go home. (Early twenties this will be tough because her friends will be more involved, mid 20's and she's a big girl that can make her own decisions).

That's my advice.

dazednconfuse · 2021-03-30T08:17:06+00:00

Try to become a regular at a bar that has events. Dart league, karaoke, pool tournament, etc. that’s how I made friends in a new city where I don’t know anyone.

NeuroBoss31 · 2021-03-30T22:51:11+00:00

The older you grow you realize that everything is easier alone: meeting new people, picking up girls, having fun.

Going out alone > going out with buddies

(Of course you should still go out with your buddies, but the goal should be bro-fun, not some masqueraded pick up strategy to meet women)

Title	How to go out alone?
Author	Historical-Agency334
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	March 30, 2021 2:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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