I validated her....

LIEX440 · 2021-05-06T15:17:08+00:00

Just don’t do it again😭 it’s that simple

Youngyoda89 · 2021-05-06T15:27:32+00:00

What you should do is stop overthinking gay ass shyt like this. No one gives a fuck. Including her. You shouldn’t either.

jjj2576 · 2021-05-06T15:50:22+00:00

Find something better to do for two hours next time.

Validation is fine when it’s earned.

i-am-the-prize · 2021-05-06T15:52:52+00:00

if the 2 hour FT was not the norm, fine. note:

" that she brings me peace in my unrestful life"

that's fine on it's own. it will make her feel special, nothing wrong with showing kindness for kindness sake (as long as not for a covert contract to be liked back).

But, here is where things would have/could have gone wrong is with:

you: "baby, i'm so stressed at work, my lifts are down, i just can't hack it, i need to see a shrink and . blah blah i'm so glad you're in my life, not sure what Id' do without you..."

(nothing wrong with seeing a shrink, plenty wrong with using it as a virtue/pity signal with a woman)

point is, if you told her: you bring value and make me smile. good. if you told her: I need you. that's pretty much the worst thing you can do.

Women want to be wanted by a strong and high value man. Period. Nothing dries panties more than a needy man. A child needs his mommy, a man does not need his plate/GF.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-05-06T23:18:35+00:00

Just watch what she does. If she gets a big fat head about it, play the dread game.

Title	I validated her....
Author	Acrobatic-Gene5531
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	May 6, 2021 3:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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