Giving compliments

BluepillProfessor · 2015-02-28T17:58:44+00:00

She needs to read NMMNG and get a handle on her own covert contracts. She also needs to be able to speak up when she wants a compliment.

You need to realize that saying "thank you, you are awesome" is not difficult and should not be disingenuous. It is not Alpha or Beta either. It is common courtesy.

A week or so back a guy automated his romantic text messages by programming his phone to randomly send out romantic messages. Giving out compliments for performing a service can be automatic like that.

TLDR: Just do it.

crayonsred · 2015-02-28T19:03:00+00:00

Not enough information. I'd have to understand more about the entire context and relationship.

I will say I think that an emo guilt trip is just a shit test. And should be responded to as one. But to head this stuff, simple thank yous here and there might help.

KyfhoMyoba · 2015-03-01T22:53:10+00:00

I saw something recently on "Love Languages". People have different criteria for how they know that they are loved. I think that there were 5 mentioned: gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. There's a survey or something you can search for - it might be useful to find out how your SO knows that you love her.

Title	Giving compliments
Author	let_terror_reign
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	February 28, 2015 5:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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