Hey seddit, this is my first FR so formatting might be a bit bad. I will talk about my night out with a friend that ended in a close for me even though I got drunk really drunk. As a Swede, this whole sober-game shit is fucking hard due to this congenital fear of strangers and general AA in Sweden.

Preparation, getting in state

Friday afternoon, I had been working all week and my best friend (henceforth reffered to as K) had made plans for going out. I got off work early and met up with K and another friend and bought some booze and ate together. When I got home at about 18.00 and we had scheduled to meet about 20.00, so for me it was time to prepare mentally for a night of heavy drinking as planned. I took a shower, shaved, brushed my teeth etc to get that fresh feeling going out, until I effectively ruined the effects of the shower when I started headbanging to Arch Enemy in my room. But hell, I didn't really care; I was pumped. Besides, I was not planning to go for any closings that night. I opened a beer and sat down to play some DotA in my undies while waiting for K to get ready. Music is a huge state-maker for me so I continued blasting Death Metal on my speakers, singing along while I tore open some noobs online. I felt good, and thus I was ready.

Meetup, Introduction

K was late, as often before. I had gotten a text from our mutual friend who was going to the same place as us, saying she was on her way with two friends. So I decided to move out as I felt I was done at home. I arrived to the bar alone and thought I was the first there, which was good. That gave me time to scout around for other people I knew I could talk to if things got boring or we wanted more drinking-company later. I discovered that I was not there first as a girl HB7 waved me over to the bar, calling my name. I waltzed my way through the crowd and was greeted by a friendly, but enthusiastic hug. She introduced me to her two female friends, one of which I had met at a NYE party. I was asked if I at all remembered her, and I said jokingly: "Well I'm bad with names, but I'm pretty sure your name is [Not HB8-2's name]." No real reaction, but I wasn't really hitting on her. That's just how I talk; full of sarcasm and playfullness. They were all good looking. HB7 and two HB8 I'd say. I said a quick hello to HB8-1 afterwards before I started talking to HB7 again, the only one of them I really knew. We were talking about the NYE party at her place, and exchanging memories and experiences. HB7 was so kind to remind me that some guy had thrown up in the sink and I had been helping him, while happily chugging down a bottle of Minttu. I had no recollection of that, thank you. Anyway we all laughed about it and they told me I was a nice guy for helping when noone else had come close. +1, I guess? A guy arrived who knew all the HB's I was talking to, introducing himself to me as a classmate of theirs and seemed like a generally nice guy. I quickly disarmed him by talking, getting him to qualify himself to me and them rewarding him with a high-5. We all talked while waiting for K to arrive.

K arrives, DHV, Getting a seat

While we stood there talking, K decided to show up about 30 minutes late. HB7 asked me to hold her glass while she said hello to him, and as I had one bottle in each hand (You have to but for at least 50SEK to pay with a card, a beer was 26SEK and I had no cash) so I shrugged and said "No". Instead, HB8-2 held her glass and I started teasing her for being "such a groggluder" (Groggluder is a Swedish expression for a girl who is a heavy drinker and/or is fishing for drinks through flirting). All the while drinking beer out of two bottles myself.

We had been there talking for a while when two of my friends showed up. They are both reasonably attractive girls and I took the chance to demonstrate a bit of DHV by talking to them, telling jokes and making them laugh. K knew one of them aswell and we introduced them to the group. They were not joining us, but the DHV was proven with them and by saying "hello" to everyone else I knew there. Eventually, the HB's found us a place to sit. I sat down next to HB8-1 and started talking. She was a pretty girl, blonde with blue eyes and a healthy amount of confidence. After a while talking to HB8-1, I went to the bathroom and found out that someone had taken my seat, so instead I took the seat inbetween HB8-1 and HB8-2, where their classmate had been before. I had the prime position, and the beer was putting me in a good mood.

Kino, Games, Attention

I did frequent but short kino to both HB8's, especially HB8-1. Gently touching shoulders, knees and leaning in to the person I was talking to, putting my arm around them to get closer to the conversation. I wanted to be everywhere, and I was. After a while, I did the Five word game with HB8-1 and on stake was a beer. I had a bit of a brainfart when I was trying to decide what I would bet, so I turned to K and interrupted his conversation (thus gaining everyones attention) and asked him: "Quick, K! One word, what do you think HB8-1 wants tonight if she wins this bet?" "Cock!" He said, overly excited to have given such a quick answer. Thanks, bud. I know you're reading this. Everyone laughed and I said "Well that might be a bit drastic, let's go for the beer." I won the Five word game and everyone said I was mean, having robbed the poor girl of her beer in a game I had clearly played where winning was the only option for me. HB8-1 teased more than the others, and told me how much of a meanie I was while smiling uncontrolably. After some further conversation along the table where I continously built a good amount of rapport with HB8-1 (We had a lot of mutual interests, so that was easy enough) I started the Two lies, one truth game that got popular all around our table. I was giving my full attention to the speaker and discussed the statements with everyone, very much in charge of the entire game. I could see HB8-1 in the corner of my eye, and I had her attention even when I wasn't even talking to her. "Bingo" I thought, "this might turn out better than I expected".

Shots all around, Closing time, Moving on

Now, why did I buy shots all around? I have no fucking idea. Closing time was coming, and I wanted a shot. I asked K if he wanted one since I was gonna go buy one, and suddenly everyone wanted one. We were now eight. Our friend M had joined us with HB7's older sister, HB9. I thought "Fuck it, I want to get drunk tonight, and I don't want to do it alone." Besides, we had a plan for HB9. Last time we were out with her we got her to give her number to a lesbian bartender, and we wanted to get her drunk again so they could hook up (she's straight or bi for all I know). So I went to the bar, ordered nine 40% shots, and a beer. Nine shots, eight people. I took two, and a beer. I gotta credit this following initiative to K, who insisted my lady at the tabe (bordsdam in Swedish) who was sitting to the right of me, held a speech in my honour for being so kind and generous. Guess who? HB8-1. The pressure was on her to show appreciation of me in front of the others, and she did. Honestly, I was getting drunk and I have no idea what she said, but damn it worked.

The bar was now closing and I set the course for the next palace. My favourite place with cheap beer and one of my close friends was DJ'ing. Once again, DHV knowing people. I assumed the position of leader of the group and led everyone through the snow to the subway. I sat with HB8-1 and HB9 and we were talking and joking, and HB9 drew my name on my hand with a marker. We got off at our stop, and I started walking with HB8-1 close behind me. The others were being slow, so I took the chance to isolate her and told her "Let's go, K knows the way. I want to say hi to [my friend the DJ]". So we started walking. It was a 3-4 minute walk, so I didn't have that much time. Before we rounded the last corner I stopped her and told her we should wait for the others. I remember saying "Hey I really liked talking to you! I just hope we don't lose eachother in the club, there might be a lot of people on a friday" she agreed and amplified, saying it would be a shame if we got separated. By this point, I knew things were going my way, and I said "Give me your number so I can call you when you try to shake me off in there". She laughed and I gave her my phone. She tapped her number in and handed it back to me. When she looked down her pockets for her own cell so I could give my number, I took a step closer and put my arms around her waist. She stopped searching, and looked up on me with eyes filled with excitement. I then said "You won't need my number yet, I'm not planning on losing you yet". She squealed a bit and I gave her a quick kiss and then let go of her, backing off. Before I let go she was trying to initiate more kissing by leaning in herself, but I left her hanging for a bit, making her want me. We waited for about 30 seconds in silence while the others caught up, and then we entered the club.

Fast forward, Getting hammered, Tits

I'm going to fast forward this last bit since I don't remember much and I was getting pretty wankered at this point. We went it, there weren't a lot of people, and I said hello to my DJ friend and the lesbian bartender we wanted HB9 to hook up with. My gay friend was also there, boosting my confidence with compliments of good looks. One hours of talking, dancing with everyone and the occasional makeout with HB8-1 followed. At one point, where I had her up against a wall out of sight from the others, she told me "Just so you know, I'm not sleeping with you tonight." and I replied "Who said anything about bumping uglies? I'm pretty happy where I am right now. There's beer." Smooth, huh? The last hour is really hazy in my memory, but I groped her during a makeout session and she let out an audible moan. My queue. I pulled her into the bathroom and locked the door behind us. There followed a makeout and her boobs got to roam free. Or as free as they could be with my hands on them. Anyway the night ended shortly after as it was closing time for the club. Everyone met up outside and we said our goodbyes. My DJ friend and I took the bus as we live close to eachother.

Final words

Damn this is long. Sorry for that. Also sorry for any missed details, I got drunk as was my initial point. I guess the HB8 was a bonus. Anyway, here's my "game recap" of some deciding moments, moves:

  • Great state going out. Always important. Find your ways to get in state!
  • Huge DHV by leading the conversations at the table, as well as showing I had a lot of friends who enjoyed my company.
  • Befriending everyone. It makes you feel better about yourself, and makes her see you as more of an alpha.
  • Games. I was being playful all the time and making her laugh.
  • Great rapport. Granted, it was easy seeing how we shared mutual interests, but still.
  • Her speech to me. I know that might be hard to adapt into your nights, but I think it helped me out.
  • Kino everything. And everyone, even my best friend K. You're that cool guy.

Your help, please

How do you recommend I proceed with this girl? I have her number and would very much like to ask her out, but I suck at text games. Some ideas would be great! :)

Also, I might write more FR's if you like this one. Perhaps a bit shorter, who knows? edit: some formatting and spelling