I had met this girl at a bar while she was taking a break from DJ'ing. It was a good sexual frame from the beginning. It was only about 5 minutes, but I # closed her and made my intentions pretty clear. The second time I saw her, her band was playing at the same bar. I didn't really get much isolation time with her, but did kiss her on the lips and set up a date for 2 nights later immediately after kissing.

So, she shows up to the date and she had brought another dude with her. I couldn't help but be perplexed by this, but I figured I'd view this as a challenge. I decided to just maintain my own reality and make friends with the dude. I just stayed positive, friendly and fun.

Got her isolated a little bit. Then when I tried to escalate she says, "I'm sorry I didn't tell you earlier, but I have a boyfriend that doesn't live here." I told her, it's cool and I have a couple gf's and that I don't really care. I don't believe that she really has a bf.

Continued to escalate (hands on hips and embracing). Before leaving told her that she was turning me on. At that point she made this motion with her hand that either was a wave goodbye or kind of a "hold on".

I'm not sure if I did anything wrong with this girl or if it was just not happening.