Question for high volume cold approaches

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-20T07:17:45+00:00

From what I've seen, it's about 50/50 as far as how girls react to seeing you approach other girls. Half of them will find you more attractive because of it and half of them will not like it. It's basically a wash. Not only that, but you never know which girl is going to pull through. It could be that the girl you approached previously wasn't even going to go on a date with you anyway, and then the girl you chose not to approach just in case she sees is the one that would have ended up coming out with you.

I've had it happen a handful of times where I've gone on a date with a girl and she mentioned that she saw me talk to another girl. It's an obvious s*** test. She doesn't actually care because if she did she wouldn't have gone on the date with me.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-19T10:55:33+00:00

I've seen guys like you lurking around parks and malls, hiding in the shadows or prowling the place approaching random women. If I can spot you and see how cringe and weird you are, women have probably already seen you from miles away.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-19T17:48:26+00:00

Yeah just move around. If it's a big enough mall it's unlikely she'll see you again and if she does for all she knows you're just talking to a friend.

One thing I'd say though is that the thing the other comments aren't really indicating is that volume is key when cold approaching.

It's nice in theory to go about your day and just approach the odd special girl you see. Unfortunately that's unlikely to give you the volume you need to be dating regularly. If you approach a couple of girls a week it's unlikely you'll get more than a date every few months if you're lucky.

DaygameCode · 2024-03-19T15:50:03+00:00

Quality over quantity. I’d rather have a longer conversation with less girls than shorter conversations with tons of girls.

VovoSimon · 2024-03-20T16:01:32+00:00

i dont do 8 cold approsches in a hour at some mall, i do it in the streets

Title	Question for high volume cold approaches
Author	slowbreaks
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	March 19, 2024 8:53 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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