First of all, yes maybe I’m just unattractive lol but basically I’ve been with my husband for almost 5 years and he is so disinterested in me sexually. Any time we do have sex he comes fast and that’s it. And any time I initiate or try to seduce him I’m rejected, he’s killing me self esteem. I think I’m quite open, I am a “try anything at least once” type of person and am very open about my fantasies but he’s not really like that. I have gained about 25lbs so maybe that’s it? We used to do a lot of stuff in public and now any time I try and initiate I get told off like I’m naughty and he’s angry at me (not in a fun way lol) Any advice from men or women who have been in my position would be appreciated. I keep reading “tips on how to seduce your husband” articles but I know he’s either purposefully ignoring my advances or seems embarrassed by me. Help!