When I get girls on apps or in person, it seems random to what’s gonna happen when I invite a girl out. The things I run into a lot: I get their ig-> invite them out-> get left on seen. I get their number-> invite them out -> get left on delivered I FaceTime them, text them, go out on a date, try to escalate, they ghost. I suggest a coffee date or a date where we can talk, no dice. Suggest they come over or we get drinks still no dice. They say they’re busy then don’t suggest a time. When they do this I usually move on. I’ve tried taking longer to answer them but that doesn’t seem to work in my favor.

I can’t tell if it’s me trying to close to fast or if I’m misreading the room for them. Most of these girls are in the 8-10 range my physical attractiveness is good so I can get the attention of most women but keeping them around or getting what I want is where I start hitting a wall. I talk to other men who have game and I show them what I text and my ideas and they don’t know what to tell me (other than to avoid the apps and stop trying just let things happen naturally). It seems like the issues I run into are unique because of the type of guy I am but I don’t know many people in my situation who are 6ft +, good looking, financially well off, charismatic and funny, in great shape, and smart. Not trying to flex but it really seems like I intimidate women and the times where it’s worked out (either sex or a relationship) I did very little to nothing to get there. its like this weird balance of not trying but i still want to get what i want. Its a weird spot to be in, most women assume i have a girlfriend or that im a player and neither are true 😂