Hi there people at /r/seduction !
I'm Stompingduck and I will report me and fiancée's (let's call her Stompingdaisy, as she herself requested ) experience in this field.
I must say we are in no way experts and we will be doing something way out of our comfort zone, so this maybe will be constructive for everyone.
A little bit of background first is needed, I guess. Beforehand I would like to state that I'm not a native speaker of english an thus my language skills are not on point. Should you see anything that's utterly (or even less than that) wrong, PLEASE feel free to correct me openly.
Be me, Stompingduck, male; 23 years old; 1,68m/72kg; athletic (jiu-jitsu purple belt, ex-Public Safety Department specialist); blond; white; long straight hair; bearded.
Be Stompingdaisy, female and bissexual; 23 years old; 1,65m/64kg; athletic (ex-soccer/football junior player, goes to gym everyday); white; long curly hair, tinted black with some curls tinted blue and purple like suicide girls;
We are a VERY nerd couple. How much nerd? Verily. When we could we would spend the night eating pizza and playing Diablo III, or The Evil Within with lights off (she's scared as hell of that game).
She's openly bissexual and I'm straight. For the last 3 years we've been doing threesomes in a weekly basis (we have some friends that like the action and come to our house often). This started when we got engaged, when she told me that she wanted to kiss a girl but she wouldn't want to cheat on me, and her ex boyfriend thought that gays were disgusting and such. After a LOT of talking we agreed on bringing a friend that was bissexual to our house to sleep with us and give her a couple of kisses. Since then we did threesomes in a increasing frequency going from one per month to 2 or 3 per week (as of this week);
But those were with friends that knew what everything was up to and that made the things way easier because we didn't have to seek for a threesome partner, I already HAD friends that liked that.
But now, being extremely comfortable with that, we're seeking a new thrill so we decided to do something way out of our field of expertise - game on, we're going hunting.
That means we will actively go out and seek strangers in the night to hook up. No hookers or such, but common girls we can find. To clarify, we NEVER WENT TO A CLUB BEFORE, neither we have a lot of friends (she has none, actually. But that's a old grudge, and another history entirelly), nor are we comfortable with social skills as dancing, talking to strangers, going out or anything else you deem common for a 23 year old to do.
We will be doing this weekly (probably every Friday because I have the night off my work - I'm as of now a cook) and with no wingwoman/wingman to facilitate. Also, we agreed upon not taking ANY type of alcohol. Nor drugs, we don't do any. That will be a direct, clear, sober experience and we intend to report every fail and success, including conversations and aftermath (so we can get the girl to come over again some other time, obviously).
I'll be the only one writting, because SuicidalTendency doesn't speak english, but should she receive any question directed to her, I will write her answer for her.
Any advice from couples that do/have done this will be a pleasure to follow to test and to report if it worked or not.
Stay tuned. :)
PS: I will probably edit this a lot because I suck at reddit formating.
[EDIT] My fiancée asked what Stompingduck was. I showed her an image of Donald the duck stomping angrily, and she laughed and asked her name to be changed to Stompingdaisy. Clever girl!
Also, she has to dye her hair black because of her job right know, so I updated that info too.
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