After reaching physical attraction (kissing, touching whatever) and mental connection on a date i never make it happen to bring the girls to my or their places without subtexting: "we are going to have sex tonight". not that this is a bad thing, cause they were willing to follow my offer most of the times so far. but i was wondering if there's also a "naive" way to go to an isolated place in the middle of the night. an invitation to a place seems like a direct trade, which is very unsexy in my opinion. i want more sexyness and subtle tension. what are your charming ways and tricks to bring her home without being too obvious? are you tricking them? is that even possible (my experience is you can't fool a women, they are emotionally too fucking intelligent)? how to be honest and yet still mysterious?