Anyone else having trouble turning good first dates into second one's? Let me be clear, these weren't average awkward first dates that didn't go well. These were first dates with good build up, tons of laughter, and making out. There was evidence that the date went well (Random people we met at the bar said we were really cute together, and she messaged me that night thanking me for such a good time.) I waited a couple of days to text her back to plan our next get together, and next thing I know she just disappears. After a few follow up texts with each other and making plans, she bails on the plans and I don't hear from her again. What gives? This has happened twice within the last couple of months, and it's only with girls that I actually like. The one's that I'm so-so about practically beg for second dates.