Any good techniques for getting in-ur-zone?

Millkovic · 2017-03-11T00:31:23+00:00

Not really a general guide, but when going out, I like to make sure everything is well organized and set up. This way, you have way less worries and you will warm up faster. ALWAYS begin preparing earlier (you can't get ready to go out in 10 minutes unless you want to look sloppy).

Start by cleaning your house (especially the room) -- no one likes spending time in dirty environment. TRUST ME, this is the most important thing...why? Your goal when going out (probably) is to f-close. You can't f-close if your house is dirty. Here is where the endless circle starts. Since your house is dirty (even a bit), you will make excuses in your head and you won't approach anyone because "if I can't f-close, there is no point in k-closing which means I won't approach anyone" -- bam, whole night ruined.

When your house is clean, it is time for another logistics-related preparation: condoms, spare sheets, spare towel...things like that. Make sure you have some alcohol. There is a great post in sidebar of things that you need to have in your home. When everything is prepared, prepare yourself. Get a shower, trim, apply deodorant, apply wax/paste/gel/cream (yes, you need to) to your hair, find proper clothes (for me, this is very important. Clothes are one of the best tools that can indirectly raise your value), iron the clothes, if you wear leather shoes -- polish them, apply perfume (no, one spray is not enough especially in a club, also look at perfume latering).

Be ready 20-30 minutes before you have to go out. This will give you some time to relax.

If you are going out alone, come earlier. Get to know the waiters. This requires a whole thread so I will skip this.

If you are going out with your friends, always reserve a table and decide what you're going to drink and who is going to order the bottle with you (if you are splitting). If you know the waiters/owner, tell them you will arrive 10-15 minutes late (after reservations expire). This creates an incredible social buzz. There is an empty table in a fully packed club waiting for someone. After you come, everyone will notice you. Order the drinks (bottles) immediately (you already decided what you are going to drink, right?). If you are splitting with someone, split the money before you come as waiters do not like waiting for you to exchange the money in front of them.

...and the night begins.

Turnaround_TON · 2017-03-11T16:19:09+00:00

I do everything I can to stack the deck in my favor. Most people do that anyways without even realizing it. Everyone's going to do different things to psych themselves up. I like to save my workout or run all day until about 6pm, then when I get back I eat a decent meal and go through some material. Usually that's 25% "canned" stories either from pua stuff that I happen once like or funny stories from my life that I've just practiced telling in the best way. Sometimes I pregame, sometimes I don't, really depends on who I'm with.

A big part is the Uber. Usually we take an Uber to someone's apartment then another to the bar. I usually take the front seat and make conversation with the driver. I like this as a warm-up to get in the zone because: (1) I'm never going to see him again so it's low pressure, (2) the ride literally serves as a transitional period between my apartment and my 'awkward' self and the bar and my 'pua' self, and (3) if I happen to be with people I have social proof that I'm fun and outgoing. You don't even have to be especially interesting because drivers almost never have people approach them for conversion because passengers are always on their phone. I feel like it gives you permission to ask kind of generic questions that let you get elsewhere because you're brand new to each other.

Overnight_Delivery · 2017-03-11T01:07:01+00:00

I've found that for pickup to have reasonable success rates you HAVE to be in a zone. For me any group class like public meditation, yoga, dance class (hip hop or tango) will put me in the zone. The other thing that will put me in the zone is any pro visit. Otherwise if you have any girls you flirt with regularly give them a call (any cashiers you always flirt with?).

The most difficult route is using girls you are attempting at to get in the zone.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-11T21:54:18+00:00

Get ready 30 mins early and then make yourself a drink and blast some 80s. Boom!

Title	Any good techniques for getting in-ur-zone?
Author	wongoli
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	March 10, 2017 8:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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