I'm 17 years old. Help!

koolman101 · 2017-04-30T20:03:06+00:00

You're 17 don't sweat it. Relationships in highschool are BS anyway just work on improving your interactions with women.

One way to do that is to make a lot of female friends it doesn't always have to be sexual. If you're already surrounded by women it'll validate you.

Green-Fork · 2017-04-30T19:56:39+00:00

Why do you want a girlfriend, what are you going to do with her? And why can't you leave this thought of yours for a later time when you will actually like a particular girl?

tyler2733 · 2017-04-30T22:55:24+00:00

In regards to my post, I'm just kind of bitter. I haven't gotten a girl yet and all of my friends have. My Aspergers just kind of fucks me up socially.

bjlmag · 2017-04-30T22:43:18+00:00

Like /u/Green-Fork mentioned, you should ask yourself why you care about these things and what your goals are in regards to girls. Do you want a girlfriend to fill a perceived hole in your current life? Are you just bored? Do you fee like it's just an appropriate thing to do? Are you interested in anyone in particular?

It's hard for us to help in any meaningful way with virtually no context. I'd be happy to help if you can throw out any specific questions, though. If it means anything to you, one of my siblings has Aspergers so I know a bit about how that works.

King_Pyrrhus · 2017-04-30T23:14:42+00:00

Man, don't be so negative.

Get a social job or join a social club so you get used to social cues.

I have Asperger's and I worked in a pub. Granted, my father owned the pub but he was as strict with me as any other staff, if not stricter. The experience worked wonders- where previously I was shy and inexperienced, now I'm full of confidence and am not afraid of engaging anyone in conversation or anything else.

Essentially, don't rely on your Aspergers as an excuse; you're just like any other random person who's awkward. Work on that awkwardness, build character, develop your self physically, mentally, and emotionally, and you will tread far.

Good luck.

NewbieCasanova · 2017-04-30T23:49:43+00:00

First of all, are you taking care of your body, hygiene, personal health? Are you working out and keeping your hair in check? Are you intentionally going out to socialize and meeting new people? If you have all of those check, then work on your inner game. If you have yet to finish any of those, then proceed to do so. People say looks dont matter, but they do. If you look like you take care of yourself you are way more attractive. We're both the same age yet I'm under average at 5'5. I have every right to bitch about being an Asian minority, short and looking average. But i dont let that get in the way of my game. Daygame, night game, social circle game. Hit it all and then come back for advice bro.

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-04-30T22:36:25+00:00

Join the chess and wargames club or computer club. Lots of other aspies there usually.

Title	I'm 17 years old. Help!
Author	tyler2733
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	April 30, 2017 7:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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