ended up going on a tinder date today. scheduled it during the afternoon and went to it at night. we meet at a coffee place. she decides not to order anything so i get a black tea. i told her that we could just walk out if she doesn't want to order. so that's what we did. once we left i invited her to my place, she didn't decline so i just kept talking and said we can take her car and park at my place. we get there and i invite her in. she gets comfy and i offer her any refreshments, she declines it. i pull out my laptop and bring up some movie trailers and then sit on my bed. at first she sort of hangs out at the edge of the bed, i'm just fully relaxed and in the moment though so i don't make any comments about that. after a few minutes i let her know she can come in closer to get a better view of the laptop. she does and then i pull her in to cuddle for a bit. eventually i go for the make out, i get it. but it doesn't last that long, she cuts it off after only a few seconds. we go through some more movie trailers and we talk a bit more. i cuddle in as i talk to her, i do this to physically escalate more and potentially get her aroused. we make out a few more times, after about the 3rd time though she tells me that we are not doing this. so i just pull back and start up some soundcloud. we listen to some music for a bit and then i go back to ramp up the escalation. this time she gets up from the bed and stands to the side. i don't react at all and just continue vibing out to some tunes as if nothing happened. i then realized she got up and asked if she didn't like the bed. she said it's not the bed and that she doesn't like "that". i'm guessing "that" was making out with her. then she said she's not into hooking up and said she recently got out of a relationship and yada yada yada. not sure if legitimate excuse but that's irrelevant. she asked what i was expecting and i basically said i'm down for whatever and i just want to enjoy the day and have fun. ultimately she said she didn't want to do "that" so i asked if she had any song requests because we were listening to music before. she said none. i asked if she had any movie trailer requests, she said none. then i just straight up asked what she'd like to do. she asked if we could go outside and walk. i side stepped that question because i knew that was counter-productive to closing. after that she momentarily looked at her phone and made some excuse that she had to get her brother or something. probably was not urgent at all. anyway, i knew that after she pulled out and got up off the bed things weren't going to work so after that i kind of just bsed everything. i told her to drive me back to my car which she did and then i drove back home, the whole time was silent and we said nothing to each other.

seems like girls are interested in just "walking" with me outside on a first date and not really down for the bedroom. also, as a side note i'm surprised that she "recently got out of a relationship" because she wasn't particularly the best looker. i guess that reinforces the fact that almost all girls are able to scrap up some guy (beta or not) to be their boyfriend.

anyway, i went to do daygame yesterday but not today. so far i've gotten 8 numbers from about 80ish approaches so that's a 10% approach to number rate. out of the 8 numbers only 1 has been responsive and we set up a date for tomorrow at 8pm. this chick was the 7th number i got so that's about a 14% number to date rate. that's if the date falls through tomorrow, i.e. no flakes. i'll be daygaming as well tomorrow too, i started logging the daygame reports in a personal online notebook because it was getting excessive to post all the time.