I've been thrust into the world of dating/hooking up as a 6 year closed relationship that started in high school has become open (we just wanna explore more).

So, my Tinder bio says I'm in an open relationship and looking for a hookup or a FWB.

If someone matches me, how forward should I be about things? Should I assume they've read my bio and are fine with that? I'm a tad worried about offending people (thanks, Facebook integration -_- )

Like, "Hey, wanna get dinner?"

or "Hey, wanna come hang out at my place? I've got a bottle of wine with our names on it"

"Wanna get drinks" also isn't always an option, as I'm 22 and get interest from girls that're 19-20 (18 is a bit young imo). In which case, if they do like to drink, I feel like asking them over to drink would be a bit much for the first time? Maybe not, assuming they read my bio? Really just kinda clueless here.

I've gotten a few matches in the days I've been using Tinder (2 I've actually chatted with). One said she'd "get dinner and hang out" this weekend and the other is being super vague about plans.

Just looking for tips for how to approach the situation. Any advice is appreciated (including ways that I can clarify what I'm asking)!