I'm not a pick-up artist. I haven't slept with hundreds of women. I haven't even slept with 12. Suffice it to say that I enjoy my sex life and am satisfied with the women in my life now.

Seduction is all about how you make the other person feel, guy or girl. It's about making them feel validated, attractive, and horny. It works for dates, it works for cold approaches, it works for geriatric married couples.

When I'm seducing a girl, I'm always thinking "How am I making her feel?" While I'm with her I will give her my undivided attention. I don't check my phone, I don't glance at other women in the area. Eye contact needs to be natural. The whole time I am closely gauging her reactions to jokes, conversation topics, and places on her body that I touch her. These things make her feel good when done correctly.

Physical touch is the single most important factor. This can really be as simple as sitting next to her during a date or placing a firm hand on her arm when introducing myself. The key is to do things she likes and not do things she doesn't like. This is where techniques and lines break down, because everyone is different. Some girls want you to hold their hands, other want you to brush their hair behind their ears, etc. And no one on reddit is going to tell you what the right action is. You just gotta try something and if she doesn't like it she will let you know. You have to accept that yes, you run the risk of creeping a girl out, but you all run the risk of getting your dick wet. If you are gauging her reactions then you'll probably never get to a point where she needs to tell you to stop.

Next, but less important is to listen to whatever she's telling me and I respond in a way that not only demonstrates I heard what she said, but understood it. The most effective way to do this is through sexual innuendo. Sometimes it's enough to just be a good listener and exchange stories, but if you can become an active listener, and what's more use your active listening to bring sex into the conversation you will really blow a lot of women's minds.

Example: Girl - "One time I dressed as an elephant for Halloween" Me - "I can see that. You look like you would be a cute elephant." Girl - "Are you calling me fat?" Me - "I can call you all sorts of things if that's what you're into"

This works because what I'm saying logically follows what she said to me, but it still brings up sex. If she is receptive this will drive her nuts because she knows if she had said something different I would have said something different too. It wasn't just a line I was saving in the back of mind, it was an honest, sincere proposition that caught her off guard. It's direct, polarizing, and effective. While this girl didn't fuck me right then when I said that, we did fuck later that week (don't ask what I names I called her).

Women want to be seduced by a charming, attractive guy. This is not a limitation, it's an invitation. You are not a victim if a woman doesn't fuck you when you didn't even bother to meet her needs for attraction. Be the type of man that makes women feel good, and you will be the type of man that sleeps with women too.

tL;Dr: Make women feel validated, attractive, and horny and they will you. Give them your attention, make your intentions clear, and touch her often.