I am 24 and am just contemplating my journey. In the past when you are in the player mode you do better in number of girls you could get but it's not deep and real. The problem is once I start becoming a bit involved in the relationship and turn romantic then I turn a bit understanding beta and to gain back need to turn a player.

It's hard to strike a right balance; anyone here who has seen both sides of seduction and have some experience to share or the way you take seduction.

I am more comfortable with stable relationships but I feel you always need to have some player game involuntarily!!