So I've been having a lot more success recently with women, but I actually dont think that it is due to developing better skills. I think it exclusively comes down to 2 things.

  1. Better awareness. Im really tuned in to a womans emotions and can tell whether or not shes interested almost immediately. I think something just clicked and now I have that awareness, which is mostly just an accumulation of social and physical cues.
  2. When I notice the interest, I act as fast. Get a number, get a date, get any possible excuse to be alone with her (it doesnt matter what it is if shes already attracted).

In combination, I think the awareness and acting fast is leading to a lot more women. The point is I genuinely dont think I'm developing any skills at generating attraction. This isnt a huge deal because I think my base attraction is fairly high, and I could probably just keep operating the same way... But I also think not improving actual seduction skills will lead to a plateau in the long term.

Is this a standard phase in the progression? What are other thoughts?