I made one friend with a girl from my class, but I ruined our relationship, since I took her out on a date (which she said yes to), only then to awkwardly tell her I liked her and then trying to kiss her without any warning. She turned her cheek and told me she only wanted to be friends. I think she would have said yes if I hadn't tried to go for the kiss that way. Anyway, that's1½ months ago, and since then we haven't spoken much.

Now there is a party coming up on Friday in school, so I was thinking of going up and casually talk with her a little, and then casually ask her whether she wants to dance. If she says no, I'll keep it cool and say "ok".

Would that be ok to do?