So this HB6 matched me on Tinder. I say that I may have one day free before I leave town. So we decide to meet up. Normally, I would suggest just getting drinks and then going back to my place. But it's Sunday and bars are closed. I just say we should hit a coffee spot and then hit my place. The closest thing that I can think of.

So the conversation between her and I was good. But I made two mistakes off the bat. The first being drinking coffee. I was so wired this whole date. I was jittery, and I couldn't hold that slow confident masculine frame. The second mistake I made was eating Tex-Mex food right before. I had to take a shyt the whole date. I really didn't want to take a massive shyt right in the middle of the date so... yeah. That had me stilted too.

I eventually suggest we bounce. Because as the man, you're supposed to lead the date. We get to talking about Netflix and shows, and we decide to watch some at my place. I know it's the first date, but I'm kind of disappointed that I didn't fuck or even kiss her.

I get up in her personal space while we're watching, but we're actually watching the show lol. I put my arm around her and stroke her hair, but she just doesn't really help me out. She doesn't move into a convenient angle for me to kiss her at all or even to put my arm around her so that it's not just hanging there awkwardly. She's laying on her stomach and doesn't spoon with me. I don't want to just jump on her. So I never see a good opportunity. Last time I was in bed with a girl like this, she was grinding her ass against my crotch and made it extremely easy for me to kiss her. I don't know, should I have just turned her around and kissed her? Or is it because it's our first date?

It also didn’t help that my heart was going at a million miles per hour. Not because of nerves, but because of the damn coffee and the fact that I'm out of shape. Idk if she thought I was nervous?

We watch an hour long episode, and then she says she has to go because she has work in the morning. She tells me that she had a good time, and she'll see me when she comes back into town. She doesn't let me kiss her either, she just gives me a big hug. I honestly don't know if it's because I fucked up or if she doesn't wanna fuck on the first date(even though we were in the same bed.) Did I simp out? Although Corey Wayne says that she'll usually put out by the second or third date. If there's a second date, then I can just invite her straight over.

But yeah, let me know what I should've done guys... the vibe just didn't feel right for me to kiss her. Should I have just done it during the show? Am I finished and she'll never hit me back again? I feel like I've been in Game too long to make a mistake like this(if it was indeed a mistake.)

Also, getting in better shape will help to not have my heartrate at ten million miles per hour.

I guess all I can do is text her a bit with value giving texts to keep it warm, don't overpursue, and set up a second date once I get back in town. Drinks, my place, Netflix, smash. Hopefully she doesn't ghost me because I didn't make a move. I don't know. Maybe it was because it was the first date.

Let me know what you guys think in the comments.