For example I have a female friend that I talk to about a lot of my female interactions. She set up my tinder even. She is aware of all that stuff, and I casually mentioned my friend, and her knowing some of that stuff. And the chick took that as I must really be into her if I'm telling my friend about her, but the reality is my friend is pretty much aware of these interactions as they happen. The two of us hang out and chill, and part of that time is me on tinder and we are both being entertained by my interactions on tinder....other times give the phone to my friend.