Been in the game for a while now, but never been ballsy enough for a lot of daygame. I have been sick of watching cute girls walk past, even giving me the eyes, and I don't say shit. Been doing that for many years and yeah, just incredibly sick of it.

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That's changed recently. Though I don't think this is a "fixed" problem, I have been out doing daygame and getting good results, have some dates set up with some really beautiful girls and feel pretty damn good about it.

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Here's a few things I've learned, I'm sure more lessons are coming:

1- During the day most girls are pretty damn friendly. Just walking up and saying almost anything and being able to carry conversation can go a long way. One great approach I had the other day on two very cute girls was "Were you guys at that restaurant over there? Oh cool what did you have? Was it good?" and then "What are you guys up to tonight" and carried on from there. I have a lot of experience flirting and C/F so it went pretty well and they were asking me when we can hang out and hugging me. Another girl I just walked up and said "What kind of e-cig is that? Oh it's a cigar? What are you up to" and same thing. She had to go to work, but asked me for my number and started texting me.

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2- Most girls are fairly shy at first, and aren't expecting a guy to come up. This seems to be an advantage especially if you just go up casually. I feel like girls just walking around (even really adorable ones) have some sort of approach anxiety, in that they aren't ready for a random conversation. If you can just keep it normal, get to know them, and drop something about them being beautiful they seem to be pretty damn receptive to it.

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3- Getting motivated to go out and do it without a wing can be somewhat of a challenge, but feels so god damn good when you get home and have a new girl texting you. Going from struggling on this for a while to actually doing the damn thing and getting results is helping to prove to myself all of the above.

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4- Finally, I have started a couple of small groups of guys where we're just talking about game. I'm not a coach (not even near that level or want to be), but having a small group of dudes you can get to know and talk about your game, struggles, and achievements can make it feel a hell of a lot more normal to me to do this. I recommend finding a couple guys on here, some forums, or PM me if you want to join a skype group or something. We're using squattincassanova's google sheet for keeping our approaches logged.