Okay, here is my situation, I am about to start college and my HS girlfriend is going to a different school and was doing like a summer internship sort of thing on the other side of the country. Long story short she cheated on me and we broke up. I have recently been reading about PUA stuff since I don't have much experience with other women. So I have started to try approaching while I wait for school to begin.

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My cousin took me to a strip club I guess to try to cheer me up and make me forget about my girlfriend. I did I guess what you would call a lukewarm approach there. I know what you are all thinking, but I talked to one of the girls there for awhile, she is like 19 and is doing it to help save for medical school, which I was actually quite impressed by. My conception of girls who work in those sorts of places are that they are drug addicts and various other messed up women and she wasn't that way at all. Anyway I did get her contact info and she added me to her snap account. She also has an instagram account with a lot of follower which TBH was a little intimidating. She also didn't give me any shit tests or anything. I don't know what my chances are getting further with her but so far so good.

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My second approach I sorta chickened out on but I feel if I was more assertive it would have been a success too. I went to get coffee and I talked up the barista there as they were not very busy when I walked in. She was very receptive and giggled at my jokes and overall was very pleasant and friendly. Again no shit tests, but then again I chickened out getting her # when a bunch of people came in the line behind me. I guess I didn't want to embarrass myself in front of them if she brutally rejected me or something. But I think I may have had a chance, she sorta touched my hand more than was necessary when she handed me my drink. She also didn't charge me for the whipped cream on my americano and it is normally 40 cents extra. So she was extra nice to me all around.

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So anyway I am going to try to cold approach a bunch of women now and see how it works.