Building compliance / asserting dominance

insickness · 2010-09-17T13:03:02+00:00

Two examples:

I'm in a bar with a girl on our first date. We’re toward the end of our first drink.

I’ve been bantering with her a little. Connecting with her a little. A little bit of physical contact on the arm.

Then I drop all conversation. I could continue to banter or connect, but I don’t. Instead I just sit there and look her in the eye.

I don’t care if it makes her uncomfortable or makes her feel like she has to say something. I’m not smiling. The tension begins to build.

“Let’s get out of here,” I say as I grab her hand and stand up.

“I’m not finished with my drink,” she says.

“I don’t care,” I respond. As she gets up with me I hold her hand and we walk to the door. There's a long hallway between the bar door and the street door and we start making out in the hall.

Second Example (a little more subtle):

I've just met a girl in the supermarket. After a minute or two, we get to talking about what we love to do and how it's good to scare yourself once in a while.

"I like to be nervous," she says.

That's when I turn to her, look her in the eye and say "Are you nervous now?"

MrRisky · 2010-09-17T20:04:14+00:00

"Watch my drink" works really well early on. Often I'll throw a coaster over the top, narrow my eyes at her and tell her not to roofie me.

On a date, sending her to the bar to get the next round is pretty good.

If you walk into a bar or restaurant together, wait until she sits down at the table, then make her move to another seat because you "don't want your back to the door, bar, dancefloor, etc".

rmbarnes · 2010-09-17T19:51:30+00:00

What I'm really looking for is compliance escalation, starting from the early stages of an interaction and building from there.

Title	Building compliance / asserting dominance
Author	rmbarnes
Upvotes	13
Comments	7
Date	September 17, 2010 10:46 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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