*I was asked in a previous thread to post a LR from my journal that I have kept for years now. Here is one that is about 2 years told, right before I started coaching. *

This was one of the biggest lessons that I have learned in pick up on never giving up even though every part of you wants to.

So I was invited out to HBmonroe’s birthday dinner so as I prepared to arrive I looked at the time, 6pm. I was supposed to be with HBireland going to the beach and finishing where I left off but there was something so alluring about pulling HBmonroe that I had to see where this could go. I opened HBmonroe at a self help convention and number closed her that night as we walked out of the event. Today was her birthday and I was going to give her a gift she was not going to forget.

I walked in as she jumped from her chair to embrace me along with her family and the guy she is dating. He is the quietest AFC I have ever met. I think if a mouse farted in the corner he would have had a stroke and died he was so afraid of everything. He was a joke and a half and I capitalized on it by ignoring him and stealing his girl.

Mayson: So what do you want for your birthday and don’t say me cause no wish will get you that

HBmonroe: YOU.

Mayson: Okay I get it your listening skills are not up to par.. lets go outside I have something for you.

I proceeded to take her off her boyfriend’s lap and walk her outside. There I gave her, her favorite flower. She was very excited because she mentioned in passing that it was her favorite the night I met her. Her boyfriend looked at me with anger as she showed off the flower to everyone and I sat there with a smirk.

After dinner she invited us to the bar where there was going to be 4 guys and her… Logistically there was VERY little chance I was going to pull her so I decided to text a couple of girls to go out to the beach and see who would bite. First I texted HBireland who said no she is going to eat with some kid. At this point I was totally let down because I thought she was going to be waiting for me. Next was an old FB but no response. So then I decided to text a girl that recently broke up with her boyfriend let’s call her HBrocker. She responded right away and agreed to meet up.

At this point I was getting in my own head talking about how I dropped the ball with HBireland awhile ago at the club and I was spiraling out of control. My friend Zilch was in the car with me and told me to get off my ass and go see HBmonroe and HBrocker. I told him I wasn’t in the mood. He said to shut up and grow balls and do what I was here to do. Get laid. I dropped him off and took his advice.

I had a couple of drinks with HBmonroe and crew then much to her dismay left to go pick up HBrocker.

DEEP COMFORT: Here is how it went down... I picked her up and started driving all I did was run comfort game and grounded. We talked about sex after getting her to open up and let her guard down and shared stories throughout the night. Then I talked about being spontaneous and I stopped the car in the middle of the road and said:

Mayson: When I was growing up I saw this movie.. (took her hands and brought her toward me) ..in this movie the couple was fighting and he stopped the car.. (I moved her hair back and kissed her in the middle of the street at night)

She smiled and said wow that was smooth.

I thought at this point I could escalate more and so I did. A lot of kino and push pull and I drove to her house. I knew that logistically I could make my way to her place and escalate further. This was the first time that I have hung out with just her and the other times I have seen her has been in passing at a club so this was a big leap for her.

I sat in her driveway and told her that I was not tired, she asked if I wanted to come in and I did. We started watching A TV show and then said to myself it is do or die time when it comes to doing something if I want to even have a CHANCE to get laid. I started talking about childhood games and here is how it went.

Mayson: My favorite game growing up was Simon says.. do you remember that game?

HBrocker: Yah haha totally

Mayson: Okay we are going to play a game ready… ok

HBrocker.. eh… haha ok

Mayson: Simon says put your right hand in my right hand. (done..)

Mayson: Simon says put your left hand in my left hand. (done)

Mayson Simon says sit on my lap (done).. (at this point she is smiling big)

Mayson: Kiss me (she starts kissing me hard and into full blown make out)

I made her work for the kino and that was by FAR the tipping point of the evening. I told her she lost because simon didn’t say with a big smile! She smiled big and I took a step back to let the tension build. I saw that look in her eyes knowing it was on and we started to kiss again. I started to take off her shirt and she said no I am paranoid of people coming downstairs… Ok off to her room.

Even a short walk upstairs calmed her buying temperature a bit. I made her feel relaxed and clothes came off. I teased the girl worse than I have EVER teased anyone. After some foreplay she begged me to fuck her.. literally. I did.

After it was over I asked the question I always ask every girl after we have sex, “When did you know you wanted to have sex with me.” She told me she did not plan this at all and it was like a rollercoaster she didn’t want to end. She said, “one minute I was in the car then next you were inside me.. wow.” I got home at 6am with a smile on my face and one of the best lessons that I have ever learned about failure.

Failure is simply a frame in which you choose to accept or use to your advantage.

Back to reality here…. So reading this now I see a lot of unhealthy things that I did and it’s really funny to watch how gamey I used to be. I remember coming up with that simon says routine and it got me so many make outs in under a minute it was INSAINE. At this point in my “game” I was going through the motions and surprised when I actually got laid. I really had a confidence based on results rather than a confidence based on my internal value. Still this is fun to look back on and it’s one of the reasons I really recommend keeping a journal.