Examples of implementing light hearted humour/teasing?

rwtf2008 · 2020-05-16T21:02:57+00:00

Takes practice man but every woman and every situation is different. I once made a dark joke about getting nailed to the couch versus on the couch, luckily she had a dark sense of humour too. Other gals, that wouldn’t fly. I once made a comment in front of two gals of “Why else would I be here?” when one asked if I was working today. One laughed, the other was appalled.

You can blow things out of proportion, say she spills water on your couch you can say “When are you buying me a new couch?” Totally un-proportional to water being spilled.

Perhaps give us some recent examples of where you went wrong so we have a reference point and give better examples.

Report_Topside · 2020-05-16T16:41:51+00:00

This is a VERY broad question. It's hard to give a generalised funny response here other than to say that a quiet confidence and ability to tease someone you are dating is very important. Can you give us some examples of where your humour hasn't worked?

eliziwizard · 2020-05-16T23:13:40+00:00

As a woman, the best advice is to make a joke about something they have an interest in. Like someone else said, making a dark joke won't work for everyone. But if they've said they like dark jokes then push it a lil.

Most women love jokes on organic situations. Also playful teasing on something to do with them doesn't hurt but there is a fine line where it seems like it's bullying. So you need to make sure it's not a regular pattern and maybe do some gesture while teasing. Like a brush on the arm or something similar. This will give security while showing physical affection.

But that's just my opinion

dhiggzzz · 2020-05-16T19:41:47+00:00

I would say you just find things that are slightly different about her and poke at it lightly; it’s kind of like a caricature where they might take someone like Donald Trump and draw his hands extraordinarily small to poke fun at this, but do this with your words. Depends on the girl you’re talking to; poke fun @ her but do it with a smile and she’ll know you’re joking but she’ll love it

champagneshowers11 · 2020-05-16T21:46:53+00:00

Learn to laugh at yourself, beat advice I ever learned

tonybolony408 · 2020-05-17T00:24:20+00:00

I think tone plays a huge part. Gotta learn how to sound sarcastic without sounding cheesy.. But being cheesy can help too if you can pull it off.. Doing it random.. Like out of nowhere calling them ugly isn't gonna fly.. I usually test the waters.. Using random things and seeing how their humor is.. But sometimes I'll say.. "Wow ur shorter than I remember" jus to get close to stand near them.. But it's almost confusing like, is it a compliment? They would usually reply with " is that bad?" But I'll say after.."Nah it's perfect 😏" and leave it at that.. Say it without saying it almost..

stinkyspaghetti1357 · 2020-05-16T23:48:49+00:00

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