Hey, So I'm a guy, 23, from India, I'm finding some issues with escalation, I guess I look decent, and can maintain a decent conversation, so those aren't hurdles for me, but what makes it hard is my lack of confidence to make it sexual, almost every single time I've been sexual with someone, the girl had initialized it, I always felt like if I make a move it'll make me look desperate, and also, unknowingly I give a friendly vibe instead of a sexual one, this has resulted in a loss of so many potential chances I had.
What would you suggest me to be more sexually desired and confident, while still having the ball in my court, and not be afraid to look desperate ???
P.S. I'm from a small town of India, Sex is like a taboo here, So keeping that in mind.
Thanks in advance