Critique my plan

liquidsys · 2011-09-29T21:15:31+00:00

Skip the 'I think you're really cute' stuff.

If she is, she has heard to before and it's boring. If she isn't, what are you doing with her anyway? =)

The problem here is you're already chasing her and you haven't even met yet. You're instantly at a lower value. You're giving her unearned compliments and offering her to buy things for her. Why would you ever do this??

You're having inner game problems because in your head you're planning on putting yourself out there WAY too much.

Your plan is fine, you just need to sand down the rough edges. I'm going to use your plan and talk to her like an alpha instead.

Version of you that has sex with lots of hot chicks: Walk up to her, sit down, don't pay too much attention to her but say something off hand without necessarily looking right at her like "Thanks for saving me a seat." with a little smile. Do this right before class and she'll have a little smile and some tension to think about during the whole class period.

After class, "Thanks again for saving my seat. Walk with me for a minute, I owe you a coffee for the favor." and begin walking before she has a chance to answer.

You're a leader, and confident. Why would she say no? She wouldn't. Walk and she will follow the leader.

I just did the same thing as you, expect my scenario ends with you getting married and pumping out 6 kids. Yours ends up with you jerking off like it was a mission from god into another dirty sock when your roommate leaves your dorm room for 4 and half minutes.

Let me know how it goes.

yokhai · 2011-09-29T20:37:51+00:00

The fact that you have a plan is the critique of the plan. just got sit down and talk to her. About anything.

NeedHelpPUA · 2011-09-29T17:47:54+00:00

<3 it because it's so baller. No confusion, no games, just straight up man stuff.

What to talk about? That's easy. Whatever you want to talk about. The most important thing is that you're not getting all meta in your head, trying to think of the best thing to say next. Instead say what you want to say, and it will come out in the best way possible due to ancient mystical forces.

I have heard from NLP people that... adding... a couple pauses... to your speech makes your communication more effective... but I don't know if it's true.

user1134 · 2011-09-30T00:49:09+00:00

what's wrong with "i think you're really cute" direct openers are bad?,

whatwhywhy · 2011-09-30T02:43:10+00:00

i dislike it. go sit next to her in the dining hall. hey cutiepie we have sex ed together, im needkelpPKA! oh ok your name is jack dawson. small talk, touching, etc, rapport building. do you like this cafeteria stuff jack? i don't i know a really cool place, its called subway, ever been there? lets go sometime.

What I don't like about yours is that you do nothing until the end. there is no attraction, no rapport, nothing, just some random guy named password who said hi and i wanna take you out for coffee. you'll just end up psyching yourself out saying I GOTTA SAY IT I GOTTA SAY IT, 'I-I-I go-gotta g-g-go. Co-coffee?' Well of course you gotta go, the class is over. That line is lame, sorry bro. Do it all at once, or you're gonna make yourself anxious while you're waiting for it to be over.

RakeMonk · 2011-09-29T18:16:02+00:00

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thebaws · 2011-09-29T17:47:52+00:00

Still new here, but I think the "you're really cute" part might not be the best opening line. It doesn't really start any god dialog. Perhaps go with something a little simpler.

"Hey, how's it going" or talk about something relevant going on, ie teacher is boring, or homework assignment was rough etc.. Let the conversation go from there, then ask to finish the conversation over coffee sometime.

Title	Critique my plan
Author	NeedHelpPUA
Upvotes	14
Comments	21
Date	September 29, 2011 5:27 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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