The Keystone of Attraction

T3hJ3hu · 2011-11-30T16:58:13+00:00

It's been said quite a bit before (usually with the term Outcome Independence), but I like the attention he drew to how it's so easy yet detrimental to put your entire focus on a woman. You end up not thinking about her as an individual, and instead you can only consider her in relation to yourself -- suddenly everything she does somehow reflects your strength and capability as an individual, which funnily enough only proves incredible weakness and insecurity. The worst part is that most guys don't know they're doing it until they finally get to the point where they're not.

phallic_audio · 2011-11-30T18:56:16+00:00

This is awesome. Whenever I see things like these, I feel like the seduction community in general is reaching a point of Renaissance. Then again maybe its just r/seduction.

thechort · 2011-11-30T18:00:09+00:00

I thought this was a really nice explanation of outcome independence and some ways it might come about naturally.

2011-11-30T19:47:22+00:00

Awesome article!

Enthusizer · 2011-11-30T23:46:26+00:00

Freedom from outcome is important but it's also important to keep the other side in mind.

Intent + Freedom from outcome

Intent: Play to Win

Freedom from outcome: The Keystone of Attraction

balr · 2011-11-30T18:16:26+00:00

This is a good article. However, this doesn't really make online dating any easier...

Title	The Keystone of Attraction
Author	JadenLevitt
Upvotes	96
Comments	10
Date	November 30, 2011 11:32 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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