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Day 1

So this girl I met roughly 3 weeks ago Friday at some dinner party(16y/o & me 17), I didn't necessarily meet her while dining but after when we had to squish in the backseat of a car. I was in the middle thus me being squished up against her. Her Canada Goose jacket's fur was all up in my ear so I started talking to her first about her jacket then just casual chit chat. We came to a stop at my primary school with a bunch of people, 3 girls 4 guys. We went to the field and a girl suggested we do a piggy back race down the field. At first I was going to let my more socially awkward friend go for it. But he turned he insisted I went instead. At this point there was one girl left(same girl I was squished up against); just starting to get a little weird her just standing there. So I went up to her and told her to hop on. She did, and we won the race. Hi-5'd and went back into the car squished up against her once again. As time passed we started to separate those who were going home in one car and those who were going to sleep over at the birthday girl's house into the other. Ended up being: birthday girl, guy in junior year, the girl, and me. We got dropped off at birthday girl's house and climbed into her queen sized bed. The girl, her name is Anita. Birthday girl's name is Christine. Junior's name is Josh. We argued about whether if it should be girl girl boy boy or girl boy girl boy when we're in bed and it ended up being girl boy boy girl. I was lying in between Josh and Anita. I have never done this before, as in lying in bed next to a girl. So I didn't know whether if I should of cuddled or whatnot. I decided that if Josh was cuddling with Christine then I would cuddle with Anita. I sit up and look over to see them cuddling, so I lie back down and started slow by pinching her nose, then her arm, then I tickled her waist and then I put my arm around her and pulled her close. this went on the whole night, changing positions so that she was kinda hugging me like you would with a big cushion or stuffed animal, and shared a pillow/blanket. Got her number the next morning and split.

I then called her two days later at night after texting a tiny bit and called her Monday night asking her to be my Valentine. I said we'd go to Wal-Mart and buy a rack or two of ribs and go to my house and cook it together since my dad and his girlfriend was out. "I'm sooo down." she says over the phone after I propose that plan.

Valentine's Day(first date?)

I wake up text her "good morning :)" then left it til school almost ends(she's in a different school than I am). I text her asking if she's still down for ribs and she replies with "noo we'll do that another time :)" At this point I thought to myself, "Wow my first valentine and got flopped on ;(" To my surprise she texts me a minute after, "Wanna come movie with me instead? :)"(she went with a few friends, 3 other girls and a guy) I told her "yeah sure why not, i got flopped on by a girl today anyway" My dad calls me as he was coming home from work and asks me, "Are you really going out with a girl tonight?" I told him, "Yeah" and he says, "Okay." I thought that was a weird question to ask me and thought he'd give me a condom or something(only thought that cause he gave one to my brother which is 2 years younger than I am on his birthday). Then 10 minutes later he comes home and gives me a rose. I looked at him and he says to me, "I'm not encouraging you to chase after a girl and rip off that price tag. A rose with the tag will have a price and will mean nothing. A rose without the tag will be priceless and mean the world." I thanked him and went on my mission to the theatre. As I am going there I started texting her, "Yeah I was just kidding I'm not actually coming lol" she replied with, "omg wooooow jaaackyy" "Sorry, I would love to but I'm bz :)" "What happened to being my date?? :(:(" As I got that text I reached the theatre with my rose and I called her, "Where are you right now?" "Movies." "Okay... I know that but like where?" She looks out the window and sees me, "I SEE YOU" and she starts running out the theatre towards me. I hid the flower quickly behind my back and as she came closer I took it out and said, "Happy Valentines Day" with a great big dumb ol'smile on my face. She gave me a bear hug and we walked into the theatre. I met her friends and one of them asked if we're going out, haha. It was cool of them to walked on ahead and left us behind so we'd be alone. I paid for her ticket, got popcorn and went into the theatre. Her friends sat in the second last row just so they fit and we couldn't sit beside them so we sat behind instead on the last row. Inside I was like, "wow these guys :') don't even know me yet helping a brutha out" When the movie started I didn't know whether I should put my arm around her or not but I thought, "she's my date.. we've already cuddled.." I concluded that it's okay for me to put my arm around her but just when I should do it.. I then started waiting for a soft moment in the movie, but the movie genre being a thriller there isn't much of a soft moment for me to do it(movie: The Grey). So 15 minutes in the movie I stretched out my left arm and put it on her shoulder and she just leaned into me on her own. It felt nice :$ but at the same time 10 mins later my arm was falling asleep and stayed asleep for the next 70-90 minutes LOL. After the movie I bus'd her home and then walked her home gave her a hug and bus'd home myself.

I continued to call her the next night and we talked about greatest fears and whatnot. Asked her to go ice skating on the weekend and she agreed to it.

Official date?

Sunday. Skating starts at 2pm. I went and picked her up from her house and went back to mine since the bus stop to that particular community centre was near my house. I'm carrying the skates for the both of us and we started waiting for the bus. We waited for 5 minutes and then I finally decide to call the bus stop. "I'm sorry there is no service at the time of day.", after calling i thought it was weird that there is no service so I look up at the bus stop sign and it says Monday - Saturday. I laughed hysterically and started walking to the community centre which is like 30 mins away(walking) from that stop. She ran up to me asking where I'm going and I told her to look at the bus stop sign and she started laughing too, especially at the fact that our friend walked by and we said hi. Any who, we started walking to the community centre, flirting our way there. Made comments about how her moccasins are like socks and she poked fun at me when my voice would crack up when I don't pay attention. We get there, paid, and started putting on our skates. It was her first time ice skating and she wears her moccasins without socks. She puts on the skates anyways and I tied it for her and everything. We start skating and she held onto my hands while I was skating backwards helping her get used to the ice and speed and everything. I then proceeded to teach her how to skate and told her to push me instead of me pulling her. She tries and almost topples over, so I pull her towards me then caught her right before she fell. This went on for the next hour or so and as we finished and left the community centre we hopped into a random bus and it brought us to a frozen yogurt shop, Menchies. Got some frozen yogurt, sat down, menched on it and discussed what to do after. I said, "oh it's Christine's birthday today, let's get her something.. Let's bake her some cookies" She agreed to do that so we went back to my house and watched Horrible Bosses while we ate pizza. She got cold so I lent her one of my crewneck sweaters(she still has it to this day). Had a good laugh, then went upstairs to start making the cookies. In the process we had a flour fight and got really messy, cleaned up, washed dishes, she washed I rinsed. The cookies finished as we finished cleaning up so we took it out and took a picture of it. After that, we watched Sorcerer's Apprentice in my room and for half of it she was crossed legged hugging and leaning over my giant teddy bear. I was lying down on the bed with my head held up, I sat up hugged her and pulled her down with me with her saying, "noo it's uncomfortable" she sat back up put the teddy on me and lied down on the teddy on my belly. I brushed her hair back helping her hold it cause she kept holding it with her hand so I just held it for her instead. She fell asleep for a bit and woke up as the movie was ending. The movie ends we get ready and then we headed to Christine's house to give the cookies to her but as we got there after an hour walk she wasn't home, so we went to my friend's house instead. We watched even more movies. Outside was really cold, -12 degrees celcius and her hands were freezing. I started warming her hands up with my hands, cheek, and even my breath. As we were sitting next to each other I was warming up her hands still and out of no where she opened her palms and locked fingers with my left hand. Then she did the same with my other hand, caught me off guard, and I didn't know what to think of it. A few minutes in I started to feel uncomfortable physically so I asked her if she was still cold and she insisted that she was cold even when her hands started getting really warm and started to get clammy. I even broke it off a few times and she went back for it each time. So we were holding hands while watching movies. She fell asleep and we cuddled again. Walked her home the next morning

  • What am I supposed to think?