Hey Seddit i'm a 19 year old college student with the fear of approaching in the day because i don't want to hit on some 16 year old or something. Before you say, "well don't hit on little girls," let me just say that if you saw me you would probably think i was around 16 years old myself. I'm about 5'9-5'10 but i'm pretty skinny, and i get told that i look young for my age. Might have something to do with the fact that i have unnoticeable facial hair (wish i knew how to post a picture or something).

I mainly stick to approaching at bars, clubs or near my college because i know that there is an age limit. So all the women i approach will be around the same age as me. I don't want to run into the awkward situation where i ask a girl how old she is and find out that she is like 3-4 years younger than me. I just wouldn't know a smooth way to eject from that situation without feeling like a complete looser/pedo. For those mid 20-30+ year olds out there that age difference probably doesn't seem like much, but at my age i think that is considered pedo status. I like to go to the movies and mall etc. and would love to approach girls there, but this fear stops me from doing so.

Anyways, i just wanted to know if anyone in the community has run into this problem and has a solution. Or if i'm just doing something wrong by wanting to approach in these spots and should stick to what i'm doing now by staying near age appropriate locations.