What do i do next?

Going_to_hell123 · 2022-08-07T20:21:41+00:00

The first thing you wanna do is steer the conversation away from work, whilst it may seem like an easy conversation starter, only talking about work will just lead to you being her "work friend", which is no bueno. What you wanna do next time you see her is build a rapport that doesn't involve work, what I like to do is make jokes about what she does in her free time "you're always running so fast around here, what do are you doing in your free time? Crack?", that's just an example but if you frame it right it's a great way to get her to start talking about her life outside of work without actually asking directly (this is especially great if you're a generally quiet person as she will do most of the talking). Try and find a mutual interest that you can lock onto, that'll be your key to asking her out. If you can't find something you have in common, think about something you like doing that she probably hasn't done (preferably a fun activity) and act like she's crazy for having not done it before then if you feel comfortable enough ask her out towards the end of the conversation or in the next shift if you feel it's too early, but remember, you wanna ask her out as soon as possible to avoid being in the friend zone.

elizabethmar · 2022-08-08T03:36:05+00:00

that’s sweet, maybe ask for her number next time you see her

kettlebell_workout · 2022-08-07T20:11:47+00:00

You sad that you don't like to pretend, then why did you say most cheesy compliment ever about her eyes?

Just be honest, and say what you actually want or like about her.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-08-07T21:31:35+00:00

You already ruined it, this ain't going nowhere.

Ima tell u what I witnessed the other day.

I'm at a gas station that is my normal pitstop after work. There is a cashier there that is easily one of the best looking women I know, she ain't available but we talk as acquaintances since I am a regular. Two smoking hot women are in line in front of me, seemed like they were on vacation, idk their orientation but one of them told the cashier she had the most beautiful eyes. She just said thanks and gave her her change and called me up to get them out of the way and get me cashed out . She literally scoffed as they left and got into a real pissy mood and complained to me that she is so sick of hearing that every day and that it seems fake even if it isn't.

Consider the gravity of this situation, the compliment was from ANOTHER WOMAN and it still turned her off, and she is completely straight. This is how often beautiful women hear the same shit all day every day, and how sick of it they are.

This ain't 1995. Even a genuine compliment can come off as fake just because of the amount of times a woman hears it. Even a chad can be demoted to a Brad by using compliments wrong. I ain't saying compliments are bad, but they have to be recieved as genuinely as they are given. To do this, you never compliment something outside of the woman's control, instead compliment something she is in direct control over, this way it is a compliment unique to her that is more easily recieved as genuine.. Don't say she has beautiful eyes, say you really like what she did with her mascara, don't say she has nice hair, say u like the hairstyle/color.

Now next time you know how not to fuck up.

Title	What do i do next?
Author	artofmajic
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	August 7, 2022 7:55 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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