I am introverted, so I don't go out a lot. However, when I meet a girl there is a way for me to drive her mad and that she wants you badly.
The introvert mindset is blessing and a curse.
I'll start of why it is a curse:
You don't know how to develop relationship further as your social batteries die out. I would meet a girl at the club or hook up with them. It would be nice for few hours, if not less. However, when social batteries die out you wanna leave early, you don't bother getting their Instagram, if you get their Instagram you don't text them, if you text them you're quite dry in the texts you sent them. This can be quite counter productive for introvert since it removes the possibility of what can or could happen because you were just very exhausted to text.
You don't meet a lot of new people of the people you know. It's simple, when you're introvert you keep your social circle small. Friends you know either think you're weird and don't think it's good idea to meet you with other people or you simply don't have a need to meet other people. Good idea for hooking up with lots of girls is having a girl you know for a while or just met and form a connection system when you meet their girl friends, then their girls friends and so on.
I think it's time to move on with why I think it's blessing:
Not clingy. Most guys that meet girls think you have to be some Casanova and text a lot and have particular set of words in which the girl will sleep with you. The social batteries here have a habit of being a blessing in disguise. As an introvert, until your social batteries run out you will be the best guy a girl has met. Then when they run out, you will not have energy to text a girl. This may appear rather odd for most girls I text with. However, it also creates a massive attraction towards you. I would browse through my phone, Instagram, Reddit and it would say I am active. Not replying to their texts and stuff makes them want you more. Once your social batteries are full again you text them again for a bit then go cold again. It's a good hot-cold system which doesn't need a lot of work to be put in and it's there by default and you don't have to overthink "Am I ignoring her for too long?". If you're not an introvert, I suggest after chatting with a girl for 20-30 minutes you should go relax or play video game and get back at her when you feel like it.
Not caring what other people think or overthinking. When you're an introvert and you're used to not having a lot of friends, you usually by default do not care what others think of you. Ironically, the people who want attention the most will usually obey by the rules and wouldn't dare to do something out of the ordinary that would make others think something bad about them. People who don't want attention and do not care what others think of them will do as they pleasure, but unfortunately (depending how you look at it) this will get you a lot of attention and you will be seen as different from other guys. Girls like those sort of guys. If you have a friend group I suggest to do as you please. Others will admire your boldness and girls will find it very hot. Downside is that a lot of guys will be jelaous of you and conspire against you in order to have you exiled or removed from the group (this happened to me in my most recent friend group. I never sought anything serious with any girls from the group only casual hookups but the guys from the group got jelaous and I was removed). Be wary of who is your friend and who is not. If you see others are plotting that against you, I advise to keep the girl you find most appealing to you and leave the group before they can initiate anything against you.
This is just what I wanted to write from my personal expiriences, if you have any further questions I would love to answer them.
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