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Can you be a loner and still be the top percent? I don't have a social circle and I'm fine with that. In trp it's recommended that you are socially savy but I'm about that life.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 04:12 PM
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It's not going to change my happiness. I have to fix myself first. I'm too needy an inpatient. I realize that I have to fix myself. But it's hard, I see couples everywhere, that sight alone brings me down. I'm beta but I can change.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:38 PM
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Thank you for the advice. To be honest, I would not lift or do other things if it was just for me. Maybe something is wrong with me but I don't have any drive. It takes me a while to do to the basic things.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 08:39 PM
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I've been doing great in the past few days. I've taken steps to fix my life. However yesterday was one of those days where the depression got to me. Women. That was the reason why, I went into Monk Mode, approching women got me no where and I sort of gave up. Its sad and disturbing that a simple issue, my dating life(women) is causing so much frustration and depression. I hate feeling like this. I hate having no power. I want to be woman free. I don't care anymore, I want to achieve my goals and…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:13 PM
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I know that this exist and should be expected. How do you get over this? The thought that women can snap their fingers and get laid while others have to grind and life by it's neck to get a glance.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:54 PM
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I'm having trouble with women. I've been approaching but things aren't going the way I hope. Yesterday I was supposed to go out with a chick for drinks but I cancelled. I haven't seen this girl in two weeks since I last approached her and I felt like it wasn't worth pursuing. I've been on dates where It lead to no where and false hope. This girl works in production and she had no time whatsoever. I'm not sure if I wanna really persue women anymore with my shitty track record. Any way to get over…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:47 PM
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Face palm Not this she-man again. Didn't she already get destroyed for the whole Odell Beckman thing. Why is she-he still crying of wolf? Did some attractive guy didnt say "bless you" after she-he sneezed?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 05:35 PM
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That's great to hear. Complaining links to negativity which leads to a horrible mindet. Horrible mindset leads to unproductivity which leads to special snowflake syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:38 PM
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Procrastination for me is something that I struggle with. I really believe that if I got it handled a long time ago my life would have been drastically different. Your advice helps but for me it's just having the discipline and small chunking it step by step.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:31 PM
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I did the same thing. I bought a small laptop and put my gaming laptop on storage. Best decision I made. If I want to play games I need to go pull it out and hookup everything. Just the thought of it made me give up video games all at once.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 07:41 PM
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What a great opportunity. The things that I will give up: Mindless YouTube binging Procrastination Complaining The thing that I will do; Tracking and weighing what I eat
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 06:07 PM
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Great post. Would this be beneficial for someone who is trying to bulk/put some muscle size?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:18 PM
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Great post. Thank you for the information. Any tips on retaining the information? There are so many books that I read over and over but I just can't seem to retain the information. Any ideas?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:11 PM
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Anthony, I'm a huge fan of your work. I really appreciate the hard work you put in for your videos and your company. I learned so much from your (and others contributers) video. I learned so much from the 21 studios and will continue to watch to further my knowledge. Thank you, Anthony and the other speakers as well. Quick question, what are your future plans with your company?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 11:58 PM
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"Women are born and Men are made" That's a great quote to understand and value.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:23 PM
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It does help. Thank you for the input. I do have pride but it's not like yours. Maybe your approach will help.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:09 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Negativity is the main issue I'm dealing with. With this, maybe I'll have a chance to reduce the negativity.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:07 AM
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Great write up. Thank you for the guide. I'm sure you encounterd mental fatigue and negativity. If so, how do you overcome it??
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:36 AM
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Funny because I was like your friend at some point. I wasn't an asshole like that but I secretly hated my best friend when he was living a much better life than I was. A couple of years ago I meet up with him after a long hiatus. His life was in the gutter. He was fat and looked like a mess. For some reason I liked being with him at that time. It made me feel good about myself. I wasn't where I wanted to be at that time as well. I was struggling with all areas of my life. It made me feel better …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 11:14 PM
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Thanks for the tips. All of these sound great.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 12:05 AM
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Wow it's stranger because I feel the same way. I feel like I don't deserve nice things because I fucked up my life. I'm trying to stop masterbating and porn but it's been a bump ride. My social circle is non existent. The only thing that I got going is the gym.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:55 PM
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Hmm I guess you're right. You have to have high SMV or look super attractive to get away with the word "date". I used to ask them out for coffee leaving the word date out. No second meetup. I did ask them out(using the word date) still nothing.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 01:34 AM
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Good post. I have a question. Wouldn't it be better to just ask them to go out on a date? If they say no or don't respond, wouldn't it save you the time and effort trying to get them to like you?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 01:10 AM
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For me it was StarCraft 2. Trying to get to damn Diamond league.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 08:58 PM
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It sounds like to me that you're just waiting for one day to be "alpha". That's not how it works. It's a self development journey that only you how to get to. Friends and acquaintances get you down and being incompetent? drop them, abundance. Those people don't see you as friend or anything. The best thing to do is smile and used them for your own goals. The only person you can rely on is yourself. Life is full of people that come and go. This is where you find out what you need to work on and a…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:58 AM
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Well I do lift, read and do other hobbies. I can manage to give up an hour or two into approaching.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 07:48 PM
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Wait, I'm confused. So I shouldn't spend an hour or two on approaching woman? I thought the point of TRP is sexual strategy?(Wary of single moms, high partner count woman, entitled 18-29 old snowflakes). As humans aren't we striving to better? A lot of post here contradict one another. Is that what TRP is? Different goals for different people?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:16 PM
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Yeah. Im watching DBK at the moment. Vegeta is inspiring but he has his flaws. Goku is great too, one of my favorites but his compassion and kindness is a little too much.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 05:03 PM
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I like "There is always someone better than you" more. For me this pushes me to close the gap between this imaginary rival. This is dumb, but I like to think of my myself as Vegeta, training as hard as I can to surpass Goku.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:44 PM
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I miss posts like this. Great write up. I really agree on the fapping part. Your body is like a car. If it doesn't have oil it's not gonna run properly. I would also add not being to hard on yourself and setting SMAC (Specific Measurable Attainable Challenging) goals. By setting goals you have a quota to reach. I'm getting back out there again after a long hiatus so I fall into the new guy category. An example would be approaching 5 woman. That's it. Once you can knock out approching five you mo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:22 PM
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I would add, How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. The basics of human interaction. The Definite Book of Body Language. The Like Switch by Jack Schafer, a book written by an ex FBI agent on getting people to like you. Getting Things Done by David Allen. Total Recall by Arnold Schwarzenegger. His autobiography. Arnold accomplished so much. A great read to become the best version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 07:54 PM
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Good luck bro. I'm on a similar journey. I hope you achieve your goals and prosper in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 04:38 AM
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Good post, do you have a before and after pictures? No offense, all these points are great but anyone can theorize and put together a list. Any videos of you learning dancing? Whats your profession? Do you have any proof that this works or is it YMMV? I'm not hating at all but I've seen self improvement list like these on this subreddit. What's your ethos? Your word?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 08:33 PM
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I really like the Dresden Files series. Good book to read and enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:36 AM
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Book sounds interesting. Will check it out.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:34 AM
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Total Recall by Arnold Schwarzenegger. This is my all time favorite book. Arnold accomplished so much as a immigrant. It's very inspiring and motivating to read how he became the best at bodybuilding and used the training principles he learned from weightlifting to maximize other areas in his life. This book is so great that I bought the audio book and listen to it at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:27 AM
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It's a trend. It's "easier". Watch later down the line people(society) are gonna start realizing that going up to a girl/guy is the best way.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 05:36 PM
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I'm loving the new designs.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 12:14 AM
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My #1 issue right now is my diet. I have been working out for a long time but I can never achieve the body I desire. I would do well for about a week or month or so and then I'll fall off. I feel like if I got the body and looks that I desire then I'll be able to conquer anything. How do I overcome this?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:56 AM
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Started doing strength training for whole month of October. I'm very proud of my progress so far. Here are my numbers. Start: 10/6/15 Squats: 3X5 70lbs Bench: 3x5 70lbs Overhead Press: 3x5 30lbs Barbell Row: 3x5 40lbs Deadlift: 1x5 90lbs End: 10/30/15 Squats: 3x5 95lbs Bench: 3x5 85lbs Overhead Press: 3x5 45lbs Barbell Row: 3x5 60lbs Deadlift:1x5 130lbs Squats: +15 Bench: +15 Overhead Press: +15 Barbell Row: +20 Deadlift: +40
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:24 AM
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Quick question, how does the guy overcome this? The guy tries but it isn't enough for her. It would suck to be in this position. Next her?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:00 PM
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Yeah I was like that too. It was pointless. For me it was like you can see them and interact with them but that's all you can do with them. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:33 AM
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You hit the nail on the coffin. I had very few sexual relationships with woman. I learned from my last relationship to never complain about my life, no matter how bad it is, no matter how depressed I am, no matter what's bothering me, I learned that if I do she'll see me in a different way and weak. So I'm trying so hard not to be clingy/needy.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:32 AM
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She's not actually messing up my life goals per say. I just got too comfortable and lazy. She encourages me to workout and work on my goals. I like the idea of having another girl...but no luck there.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:29 AM
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Thank you for the information. It's true I don't have a mission. I try to find one but it ends up not being what I truly want.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:26 AM
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You're right. I'm not happy with myself. I'm running aimlessly through life. I try to fix myself TO BE HAPPY but I end up being miserable along the way.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 01:24 AM
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This actually motivates me, thanks. Obviously you had some struggles, care to tell about it?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 01:51 AM
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This is why I stopped online dating. Gaming outside has gotten me more results than that crapfest of OKC. Got catfished twice, never again.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 01:51 AM
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Interesting. I'm gonna try that tomorrow. When I approach them I say "Excuse me, can I say something ______" Or I should stick to saying "Hi"?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:04 AM
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Damn I do the "Excuse me.." Can anyone tell me an alternate thing to say?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:56 AM
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There are always Betas that fall for it. There are circumstance that some of the employees are alpha but the managers/supervisors are beta that they bend the rules just for the girl. It's sad.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:28 AM
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Awesome. I do the same thing in my job. I work in a frozen yogurt place and we give discounts for college students. If students want the discount they need to show their school ID. You would not believe the amount of bullshit I have to hear when I tell them I won't give them the discount when they don't have their IDs. "I'm a student!" "Can I show you next time?" "Please! I forgot it!" "They gave it to me last time without it!" These bitches think they can get anything if they wear a push up bra…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:22 AM
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Women are right, looks don't matter, they can see someone's personality by looking at them.
/r/seduction12/04/15 05:33 AM
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Interesting advice. I run daygame only so I have to incorporate this. It seemed like you failed a lot to get where you are today.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:03 PM
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Interesting point, say if it doesn't matter that much to you, how and where do you approach women? Do you approach them in that mindset and see what you can away with?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:09 AM
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I fell for the click bait
/r/seduction31/03/15 12:32 AM
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This should pop up whenever someone is making a new post.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:57 AM
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Does anyone here mange to save the original post? I wanted to read it from the beginning but it was removed.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:03 AM
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Read the sidebar bro. All of your questions will be answered there.
/r/seduction23/03/15 03:39 AM
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Go ahead, call her then but I have a feeling she won't pick up. If she didn't reply to your text then what makes you think she will pick up? Look at the situation, she wasn't into you. I've been in the same situation countless times, you may have thought you had a "nice connection" but to her it was probably just another conversation.
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:31 AM
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Give another text, if she doesn't respond you move on. She either gave you the wrong number by accident or you put in wrong. Either way there is no use thinking about it.
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:02 AM
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In person you can portray your real personality and show her through your actions and words your a great guy. Tinder is just shallow where they want the BEST, prince charming, makes a lot of money etc. You have a better chance in real life.
/r/seduction14/03/15 07:39 PM
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Don't use tinder then. If its too much, approach in real life and get the woman you want.
/r/seduction14/03/15 07:32 PM
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Take a vacation. This sounds cliche but just go find "yourself". Relax, take a break. Focus on yourself. Stay away from pickup for a while and just live. When's the last time you did something awesome? read a book that is not pickup? enjoyed a movie? Also learn meditation. Meditation helped me. I was like you, needing validation from people and looking at myself like I was some kind of monster. For me(maybe you?) what I realized was that it wasn't more of the validation it was the emotion that w…
/r/seduction01/02/15 05:31 PM
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They do it so they don't have to worry about rejecting you. It's easier(not sure why?) for women to ignore you than reject you on the spot. Giving a fake number or not responding is easier for them.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:52 AM
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Never, women promise to call/text but they never do. They'll ask how to spell your name and everything giving you a false sense of hope that they are interested.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:47 AM
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It does in a sense. If you do approach you will be getting the possibility of hooking up/number/reference etc. If you don't well you'll only be regretting it and so forth.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:37 AM
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If she is willing to change and puts the effort into it then it's fine. There is no use dating someone who is drag or not willing to change. However If you two have good chemistry and communication(able to talk to each other comfortably, she puts in 50% etc) then its all to bad. If you have good qualities then slowly but surely it will rub off on her.
/r/seduction04/01/15 08:34 AM
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I guess, but I cringe sometimes when I go on seddit. I understand it's a place to improve and whatnot but people here don't read the sidebar. Not only that it's become more and more of a a dick measuring contest to see who got laid or more approaches.
/r/seduction29/12/14 04:11 AM
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Honestly this sub wasn't as good as it was years ago. It went from good post to constant question. All of these post can be solved by growing a pair, not giving a fuck, lifting, taking action and practicing, that's it!. This sub should be rename to /r/askseddit because that's all there is to it. I moved on to /r/TheRedPill.
/r/seduction28/12/14 05:29 PM
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Do you have any reference or proof that drinking milk will increase height? Also you forgot to mention posture. Having good posture will make you look taller and confident.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:36 AM
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Same here. I find it very dense. I have to read over and over just to get it. is it me? does anyone else experience the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:03 AM
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I pretend It hurt so much and say "ow". After that I tell her that she's strong and that she stop hitting the gym or tell her the reason why she's strong is because of those big biceps. The point is to be playful back.
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:08 AM
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You should be listing and letting her do all the talking. If not try to talk about yourself and ask her if she's been in those situation. For example if you talk about school ask her if was a party animal and branch off to drinking and teasing her about her being either a party animal or a party pooper. Stuff like that. Watch this video; Nick Sparks, how to hold a conversation.
/r/seduction15/10/14 02:01 AM
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Be spontaneous, watch a few shows or movies, read some headlines. Walk around the park, people watch, play some games with her. Second dates is where I find out more and more deep stuff about the girl. I generally start first by saying something personal that I haven't said in the first date, she goes on to say something personal. Walk around a bit and make out(If I kissed her already on the first date, if not I go for it on the second).
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:55 AM
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Don't think about and just be in the present. Chances are she doesn't even noticed youre a bad kisser, virgin etc. Just go with it. If she calls you out on it just say, you haven't kissed anyone/sleep with in a while. Make up a date and she'll understand.
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:48 AM
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Interesting book list. However the thing about PUA books is that most of them overlap with each other and in some cases have different ideas. For example, book (A) would say that indirect openers are better, while book (B) would say direct openers are better, which one would you believe? If you like reading pua books then go for it. I personally re-read post from seddit, two or three self help books and that's it. I expand my horizon and read interesting books from fiction to fantasy which gives…
/r/seduction12/10/14 06:55 AM
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Yeah, sure. I do daygame. But if you don't have a wingman and it's a great day are you gonna not approach?? I don't like relying on them. For me personally I'm the type to do things on my own and achieve success on my own. I don't like waiting on for someone and vice versa. I understand what you're going through. Having a wing when you're a beginner can help you. I wanted someone to be there with me when I first started, but guess what? The only person you can rely on is yourself. YOU have to do…
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:42 AM
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Check out this thread. It's pretty much a simple step by step process to meet and interact with women.
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:20 AM
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I'm learning seduction on my own at this time. I kinda like doing it alone. Sure its cool to have a wingman to help you approach and motivate you. But for some reason I feel like If I do get a wingman or something similar I'm relying on them to do well and motivate me to approach. It sucks at first, but after you get the hang of it, you'll FEEL better than the other guys that need others to help them approach.
/r/seduction12/10/14 05:13 AM
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Read the sidebar bro.
/r/seduction22/09/14 07:18 AM
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I don't know about you but I love Brad's videos. His videos and advice helped me out A LOT with and without seduction. The key points he hitss as well as the basic yet simple concept of seduction that we all forget from time to time. If I had the money I would sign up for his life style academy.
/r/seduction17/09/14 06:39 AM
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How about...both??
/r/seduction17/09/14 06:35 AM
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Good idea. Out of curiosity how many times did this work?
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:15 AM
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Take a deep breath. This is what you will do. Just go up to a attractive girl, look her in the eyes and simply tell her this; "Really quickly can I tell you something? I think you are very beautiful and I just had to tell you that" After you say that line, she will probably say thanks. You say bye and leave. Don't look back, don't ask for her name. Do this until YOU "feel" comfortable approaching woman.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:08 AM
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Good post. I have a question though. Can a man and woman still be friends after the woman categorized the man in the "friend zone"? I feel like once the woman realized that the man just wants a relationship/sex she see's him as a person she to be careful about. She's afraid that he will want more and categorize him just another sleezey guy who just in the so called friendship just to sleep with her.
/r/seduction14/09/14 03:59 AM
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Can you tell me how you hide you're battleaxe? everyone can see mine.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:37 AM
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Some people write FR and some don't. I personally write them on a notepad and keep it on my desktop for only me to read. I understand where you coming from, seddit lately been turning out to be askseddit in disguise. Nontheless I recommend you use the search(which you probably are using) save some FR and look at it right before you go out.
/r/seduction07/09/14 03:51 AM
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Start small. Ask women for the time. Once you get comfortable start asking them where the nearest coffee/clothing/book store. Once you get comfortable with that start approaching and simply complement them, looks, hair, dress etc. You can read a the books in the world but if you're not taking action then is no point. Baby steps, crawl, walk, jog then run.
/r/seduction18/08/14 03:21 PM
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Just be a regular. Obviously they are being nice for the sake of their job. Just go in there, make small talk and move on. As the interaction increases just make small hints here and there and see whats she says. Also don't do it when there is a line of people behind you. I work as a cashier myself, I'm the one who gets in trouble when their is a line and I'm not doing my job taking care of customers.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:42 PM
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So..what exactly are you really getting out of seddit? If you think seddit is losing its focus then go do something about it or shut up. What do you expect? Solid gold advice all the time? You do realize that once you get the basics down it all about practice, re-adjusting, practice, repetition, practice. So who cares if someone is posting FR or whatnot. If you don't like it there are other pua forums.
/r/seduction30/04/14 04:41 AM
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You're right, thanks.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:46 AM
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Thanks for the encouraging words. I should feel proud that I came this far. Like you said, I should remind myself that I'm a lion not a sheep.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:45 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I'm the type to dwell on the negatives, I have to learn to see the positives. I should give you're method a try and hit them up a week later.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:37 AM
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Thanks. I guess your're right, taking time off will do some good. However I don't really do a lot of pick up throughout the week. So in that time I have, I really want to practice pickup.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:32 AM
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Thanks for the advice and points. I really like the last one. I guess I lost sight what was my main goal, to be a better version of myself. Even though it's a hard goal it's a realistic goal.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:28 AM
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Thanks for the advice, you're right I should reflect on the success I had.
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:08 AM
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"The only person you can rely on is yourself"
/r/seduction09/04/14 04:42 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement man. Hopefull is problem will go away.
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:15 AM
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Yeah, I rather have them reject me properly than hanging me on and wasting my time.
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:14 AM
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Thanks. You're right, I should be looking at it in the long run, but at the same time I feel jealous that these other people pull off number/f closes on their first try or something while I bust my ass getting dud numbers.
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:13 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I agree on what you said that taking too long will make it worse, but for me personally I kinda need to figure out what to say to a girl rather than saying anything onmy mind. Any ideas?
/r/seduction05/04/14 05:10 AM
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It depends on you're goal. What are you aiming with seduction? Getting a girlfriend? being able to approach any cute girl? Mastering seduction? Pickup is a skill that needs to be practiced like anything else. Successful people are successful because they do the things that need to be done in order to achieve that goal. I'm not saying taking a break is bad or anything. Everyone needs a break or sometime off. If you feel like you need a break then go for it.
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:11 AM
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Wow great job, three for three.
/r/seduction28/03/14 02:59 AM
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What I do is meditate and listen to some uplifting music right before. I do daygame mostly, so before I head into the city I get a redeye from Starbucks, listen to some happy uplifting music to get me in the right positive mindset, and meditate in the train before I reach my stop.
/r/seduction28/03/14 02:58 AM
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Yes, I would like to see people around my level and trying these techniques.
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:25 PM
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Was about to ask that too. I guess this FR is proof that it works. Gonna try it now, thanks :)
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:21 PM
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Ah ok, will keep that in mind. Thanks :)
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:14 PM
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Oh yeah? Do you go approach in the street or in stores?
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:22 AM
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Oh ok forgot about that. Really? Five years? That's a long time. I knew my best friend for about three years, know almost everything about him.
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:21 AM
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Great point on the last one. I should state rather than ask, but what if they don't like it? Meaning like me, a random guy deciding we are a having a date all of a sudden?
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:18 AM
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Thanks man and thanks for the advice.I usually leave when I get the number, maybe that's why they don't respond back? Anyway gonna try it out, thanks.
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:16 AM
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Thanks for the advice man, I needed to read this. I'll probably go with either 2 or 3. The first will take some time to do. I should ask for a coffe date in a non open ended way. Are there any other ways to ask a girl out for coffee?
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:14 AM
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Good to hear :)
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:08 AM
1

Ok I'll give it a try. So which lucky lady got married?
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:07 AM
1

Wow, thanks for bringing this up. I just started pickup and I really want to work on my conversational skills. However for me, I need like a minute to pick apart what a woman would say and try to branch it but unfortunately I don't have that time to sit there and think while she feels awkward. Any tips? or just keep practicing?
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:52 AM
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Great job! I'm rooting for you. Make sure to not get too involved with those books. Sure it's great to read and learn but don't get stuck in that cycle that most people get into where they have to read everything and learn everything there is to seduction before they can approach.
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:12 AM
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You can use the 5 second rule, where you count and when you reach 5 you approach.
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:06 AM
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The best way is to just approach and see what happens. You may be successful, you may not be. In the end you're taking that step forward to become better at game. Reading and studying about game is great. You learn a lot but if that's all you do you're going to be stuck going in circles, never moving forward. You could read EVERYTHING about seduction but if you don't make that first move it'll be a waste of time. You'll be so nervous that all that knowledge of seduction that you've been reading …
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:01 AM
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For me I just got tired of being single while my friends got girls. I thought about how my ex left me and it motivated me to approach. If you're AA is really bad maybe you should consider doing it with a wingman or a friend. Someone to motivate and compete with you. If that's not what you're going for, I suggest you do the Five second rule(or three), approach and ask for the time, coffee shop, stores etc. Once you get used to approaching, ask them out, say that their cute, gorgeous etc.
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:52 AM
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Thanks man and thanks for the advice. I'll try it out.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:31 PM
1

Thank you, I needed to hear that.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:30 PM
1

Thanks man, I guess I should give myself credit but I'm the type that needs everything to be perfect. Like you said it's self improvement and I should really analize and think about what am I'm saying.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:21 AM
1

Thanks, I'll look into it
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:12 AM
1

Wow great job! hopefully I'll be able to pull a f-close one day :)
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:26 PM
1

Hmm sounds interesting. I'll give that a try. Thanks :)
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:31 AM
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She told me had a boyfriend at the end so it was alright. We both smiled, I said it was alright and it was worth trying and it was nice meeting you.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:30 AM
1

Lmao I just noticed that right now. A long post like this is bound to have errors :)
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:05 AM
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I know now but there is a chance that she wants to see me. The numbers that I got are from girls that go to school, so they're knda busy :/
/r/seduction21/03/14 02:08 PM
1

Yeah! :)
/r/seduction21/03/14 02:05 PM
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Hmm for me I guess I have to get my mouth moving and warmed up. Talking to strangers first, warm up girl, to make myself feel better. I'm still new in this so I have yet to come up with a "in state"
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:28 AM
1

Hmm...try doing Eric Disco's She's Six Steps Away? Or you can do what I do, do the index card method approach one woman a day and work yourself up from there.
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:11 AM
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Hmm..I would say "Yeah, I just do it only to the pretty ones" "No, do YOU do this all the time!? You're making me feel uncomfortable ;)" Err....something around that line. Just say what you're gut telling you. It may not be a shit test, just go with the flow and smile.
/r/seduction09/03/14 06:06 AM
2

Oh ok, thanks :)
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:00 PM
2

Wow this is great info. Thanks for clearning that up for me, I never really understood abundance mentality. I always thought it was somekind of mindset or zone you have to out yourself in.
/r/seduction07/03/14 02:39 PM
1

I guess working in retail helps? I'm a cashier and I get to talk to woman. I don't really score but I'm working my way up, learning how to listen, asking the right questions, eye contact, smiling etc.. basicly learning how to be socia, and talk to girls. So I guess get a part time job as a cashier or sales person and work yourself up.
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:23 AM
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Dude, if talking to people is a waste of time then how are you going to get good with women?
/r/seduction01/03/14 06:19 AM
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Confidence, is what it is. I can say AA but its confidence that makes it up.
/r/seduction22/02/14 10:28 PM
1

I agree with you. I don't have the balls or the confidence to call them cute or ask them out. Do people think cashier as not succesfull? I never really thought that. Maybe its the type of girls that think that. I feel like if they can how cool I am they can overlook that part of me being a cashier.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:10 PM
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That's the thing I don't know when to escilate. I just say "have a good day" I'm still afraid what they would say if I did.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:06 PM
1

What kind of job?
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:04 PM
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"So do I but he's not here right now, so I can get away with it" "I knew a pretty girl like you is taken" "Oh shit! You too?!" "Whoa hold up, we just meet and your telling me your relationship problems?"
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:47 PM
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Thanks. I did gain some experience, I'm kinda better at talking to women, before I really wanted to tell them "nice earrings" or "long day?" but I couldn't. Now I say it without hesitating.
/r/seduction16/02/14 08:07 PM
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I was cashier at my job today. For some reason I decided to man up, so I talked to almost all the cute girls that I rang up, asking if today is treating them good, commenting on their jewelry etc. I felt....happy today. Even though I was alone I at least talked to women. I made a few of them smile, hell I even made one laugh. It was great. I'm glad you had a good day today OP, I had a good day to.
/r/seduction15/02/14 05:43 AM
1

Good advice. Is their anything else?
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:54 AM
1

Hey thanks for doing this. I(hopefully) will go to the mall tomorrow(If I don't chicken out) to finally take a step forward and getting rid of my AA. Any tips, ideas you can give me?.
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:30 AM
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Must.....save...post! for future motivation!!
/r/seduction12/10/13 05:25 AM
1

Has there been anyone that is everything on this list? the 10% maybe? Successful pickup artist like Mystery, Brad or Tyler?
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:21 AM
1

Yeah I have the same problem. There would be days where I want to change and start learning pickup but I lose motivation due to lack of results.
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:53 AM
1

Thank you for the advice. I really needed to read this. I just realized that I'm way beyond needy. I am going to follow this and give it a shot.
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:16 AM
1

The most interesting hobby? dude your doing it right now, Reading. Reading is a great hobby, able to talk about the books you read as well as telling the story back is great. Once you get accustomed to reading why not do the next best thing,Writing. Able to write the stories you want, either it's a novel or a short story, different genres etc. Reading and writing are great hobbies at no expense. A bit of advice, don't do it for the girls but do it for yourself. If you have the aim of doing for w…
/r/seduction21/08/13 01:00 AM
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As soon as I finish The Way of the Superior Man, and The Rules of The Game I'll go buy this book.
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:49 AM
1

Hahah I like that comparison. I never considered thinking like that, so basically women NEED to get hit on and approached? if not they don't feel satisfied?
/r/seduction31/07/13 05:46 AM
2

Does hypnosis really work?? or is it just BS?
/r/seduction31/07/13 01:28 AM
1

Really? never though of it that way. If they want to be approached what signs or signals should I be aware of?
/r/seduction30/07/13 11:19 PM
1

Your right, thanks.
/r/seduction30/07/13 11:18 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I try to apply the three second rule but I get really nervous. Also I lurk around too much and caring about the people around the area to approach. How do you get over it? or do you just not give a fuck?
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:19 PM
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Nope they call me on my phone, they want to know my friend. Get his mom's number etc. Ever since I got caught drinking my parents are super suspicious of me. They always try to pry in my business as much as they can.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:17 PM
1

Damn, I had a feeling that they Knew that I was trying to approach them. I was in a book store but I felt like the girls there were busy or focusing on reading/buying books. I didn't want to bother them or annoy them. Should I just say HI and leave or not-give-a-fuck and approach them?
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:15 PM
1

Thank you, I'll try to keep that in mind. What do you mean by style? approaching? or the way you hit and flirt with them?
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:12 PM
1

I can't cause I live in a religious house where the rules are the religion. Going at night and drinking is considered "Bad". Since I live with my parents I pretty much have to live by their rules. I can't stay out that late or even drink. I got caught with it once and my parents never trust me anymore. So...yeah I guess Day game is the only option I have.
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:47 AM
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I tired to approach today(first time day game) but I failed. I stood around and I can tell that some of the girls are creeped out. Any tips for a guy trying to get this foot in the door?. I can't do night game so the only option is day game.
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:26 AM
1

Yeah the universe works in mysterious ways. Like for me there are times where the Universe is my bro and places women to approach, but I end up not taking the initiative and going for it which upsets the bro and ends up fucking me over in the long run.
/r/seduction26/07/13 01:58 AM
2

I guess sloppy seconds for me :(
/r/seduction08/07/13 02:01 AM
2

I think I'll go buy some sunglasses.
/r/seduction26/05/13 08:08 PM
2

Wait, so I shouldn't "fake it till I make it"?
/r/seduction27/02/13 01:24 AM
2

How?
/r/seduction27/02/13 01:23 AM
2

What are some ways to approach a girl that is sitting/eating. I go to college and I find some cute girls there sitting in the cafeteria alone. Usually I see them alone, eating or using their smartphones. How should I go about and make my move? I'm afraid if I fail I'll have that long awkward walk to my table where she will see me eating alone lol.
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:28 AM
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I guess you can take some sort of martial arts. The best option is to avoid a fight, fighting someone over a random girl is pointless. Just be friendly, play it cool and leave if she have a boyfriend. There is no need to get in a fight over a random girl who you barley know.
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:02 PM
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Don't forget with a smile and double snapping fingers pointing towards her to emphasize it.
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:52 AM
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