Learning Solo

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-12T02:01:39+00:00

Why don't you do daygame? no wing necessary.

TreeDollar · 2014-10-12T00:49:25+00:00

Nobody feels comfortable out alone, at first. I started to solo game after ~5 months doing pickup with wingmen. It was very very hard at first, but as with every uncomfortable exercise, the more you do it the more numb you will become to the discomfort, anxiety and nervousness. Eventually you will feel comfortable and confident walking into a bar/club alone, and this is a rare skill. Remember: all growth happens outside of your comfort zone. I am glad I did it.

Veton1994 · 2014-10-12T03:23:12+00:00

I'm new at this but I approached a girl today, introduced myself, got her number.

Turns out she's going after some other dude and not interested so there's that.

For me, I just don't like regretting shit and rejection is a hell of a lot better than regretting not knowing.

The worst thing that can happen is she says no and you go on with the rest of your day.

3_if_by_air · 2014-10-12T06:39:42+00:00

Came here expecting how to be like Harrison Ford. 1/10 for disappointment.

ArtistBlock · 2014-10-12T05:13:27+00:00

I'm learning seduction on my own at this time. I kinda like doing it alone. Sure its cool to have a wingman to help you approach and motivate you. But for some reason I feel like If I do get a wingman or something similar I'm relying on them to do well and motivate me to approach. It sucks at first, but after you get the hang of it, you'll FEEL better than the other guys that need others to help them approach.

glitch0 · 2014-10-12T09:40:00+00:00

Going out solo is actually pretty fun once you get a bit better at game, although in general I prefer to have a trusty wing with me who pushes me.

Title	Learning Solo
Author	TreeDollar
Upvotes	12
Comments	45
Date	October 12, 2014 12:26 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2izlqr/learning_solo/
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