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You obviously needed to vent a bit and think. I ain't reading that shit but it's good to do occasionally. Read Models by Mark Manson and it will probably answer your questions.
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:29 PM
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Only if you make it clear you're not looking for LTR. If you're misleading her, you're only getting better at being a dishonest fuckwit.
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/o6vkS2UWm_Q
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:23 PM
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How much of a loser are you to stalk someone on reddit? Lmao.
/r/seduction28/02/20 12:47 AM
2

Difference between wanting something and needing it. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:16 AM
2

Why would you not make a move? You either don't want sex (impossible) or you're delusional.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:06 AM
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Nature abhors a vacuum. Humans are part of nature. Also regarding being needy and needing a response, women often LOVE something you said over text but they won't tell you until they see you in person, so they just won't respond at all.
/r/seduction09/02/20 01:17 AM
15

I think a lot of this advice is aimed at autists anyway. Basically a lot of seduction is just logically explaining how to be social and convey/carry out your desires.
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:39 AM
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Well you could blame them, but if you're interested then just deal wit it. And if they're completely incapable then they're boring so why worry about how little they reciprocate?
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:36 AM
1

Yep she wanted to wait :)
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:19 AM
3

They're right. Confidence and knowing who you are, having solid ideas of your own etc. is super attractive and extremely refreshing. Men and women want the same things.
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:06 AM
1

A lot of people say shit like this which is technically true and most people would agree if you didn't say it in such a sexist, douchey way.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:54 AM
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Pretty wrong there but I'm sure they're all common for most guys. Thanks for the comment! Actually you might be right on the first bit, I'm hoping to get pussy because she ain't that amazing to talk to.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:52 AM
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We're making out on every date.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:48 AM
1

I tried, she knows what's up obviously and declines the offer to go back to my place. Good advice in general though, I'm sure that's a common fuck up.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:48 AM
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Yeah I've done that before, multiple times. Stupid sexual jokes are the worst.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:45 AM
1

Right. So basically I'm chasing... you're right. God damn it. I try not to but I totally still do sometimes.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:43 AM
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Yeah we kiss and touch but nothing else so far. She might just want to wait. But that was just an example.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:42 AM
3

Worked for me too with the hottest woman I've ever been with. She had zero interest in me. But I still think that's a happy accident and would recommend people just approach after IOIs.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:10 AM
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It just makes it easier for beginners if you go with people who show interest, I think. Otherwise you have to get through the initial unsure phase and/or potentially try to turn hundreds of "uninteresteds" in to "interesteds" when you can't even talk to people properly in general. Better to go the path of least resistance.
/r/seduction06/02/20 01:08 AM
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The only time I've asked is after I already have kissed a woman few times. She was shy and we were in public so I asked if it's okay to kiss her. But you gotta say it right, as with everything. I was basically leaning in close for the kiss as I was asking. Don't be a beta cuck asking permission for everything.
/r/seduction05/02/20 11:59 PM
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It's better not to call it punish and reward though. That implies intent.
/r/seduction05/02/20 11:51 PM
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For mods: This is a general question, not about my situation.
/r/seduction05/02/20 11:05 AM
3

You still need to seduce the women who are just DTF. They don't just fuck anyone for showing up.
/r/seduction05/02/20 05:56 AM
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Exactly. That's what this post reaks of, and all posts like it. They get upvoted by women and guys who it makes feel good because then they don't have to do anything.
/r/seduction05/02/20 05:54 AM
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Techniques can help you get a bit of confidence, most people will move on from them unless they're just looking to pick up in bars and clubs.
/r/seduction05/02/20 05:52 AM
18

You sound like a tool
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/20 02:10 AM
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Forget about it. I mean you can try, but just move on mentally and keep approaching.
/r/seduction01/02/20 02:00 AM
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I just had a woman come up to me and I had this sub open, pretty sure she saw it. That's regret.
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:00 AM
2

You're still seeking concrete answers. There are none. There are general qualities and dynamics to conversations but the best way to learn is to practice, like anybody who's social has done. You're only asking because you're nervous and want to have a clear answer that makes it easier. But even the most social people get nervous sometimes. You need to pearn to get past it. Find jumping-off points. Similarities (but don't overstate them like WOW we both like that band!). Actually be present and l…
/r/seduction29/01/20 01:53 AM
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Why not? Try it. I'll try it later for fun and report back.
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:07 AM
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I even bolded it for you I suppose the real question here is how do you deal with someone who's in to you so quickly when it takes you a fair while to really care about someone?
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:09 PM
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You're right. Thanks. Nice username too!
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:09 PM
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Anyways, what's fucked up is my emotional cluelessness lead girls to chase even more because it came off as me not being needy when I was literally just retarded. Yup... me and you both. I think every success I had was pure luck due to being oblivious and sometimes flirting/teasing by accident. And how easy it is to get people to do stuff is a total mindfuck, for sure. I realised people had been doing it to me and I was completely unaware. And there's also things like simply turning the conversa…
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:44 PM
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What's the point then?
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:13 AM
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Saying you dgaf is a lie. You might convince yourself for a while, but you are really just suppressing emotions. If you dgaf, why on Earth would you approach? Accept that you care, but that you need to reorient your emotions. If someone doesn't like you, maybe you can improve in some way, or maybe it was pure chance. Don't take it to heart, as if you are a loser because some interactions don't go well. That's why people quit, because they identify the self with some random person's opinion or sn…
/r/seduction08/01/20 11:59 PM
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This. If you don't give a fuck you wouldn't be approaching in the first place. You have it right, rich_god.
/r/seduction08/01/20 11:48 PM
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Probably because you wouldn't be sleeping with her if you treated her like every other person in your life. It's not like that. But if you see the human side of people, you'll connect way better. When guys put women on a pedestal, it's because they see an attractive woman. Not a person who is female and has interests and hobbies and insecurities and a history etc. and is also attractive.
/r/seduction08/01/20 11:43 PM
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Awesome mentality, thanks
/r/seduction07/01/20 05:20 AM
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That's my worry, not being as deep as it could be. We'll see I guess. You're right about looking at the positives too. I'll just see what I can get out of this.
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:21 PM
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Well yeah not sure I'd put in the effort yet, but good point for learning her language if we get in a LTR.
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:19 PM
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I dunno you deleted them maybe i was looking at them backwards
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:51 AM
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Interesting. But that's not for a relationship. I'll try it if she wants a second date though.
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:49 AM
1

Same as usual as others said. If she asks who you're here with (probably will) just say your mates ditched you and you decided to come out anyway because you wanted to have fun.
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:45 AM
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Exception if you work in different places all the time. Otherwise yeah, just rule that shit out.
/r/seduction03/01/20 05:16 AM
2

Lot of hate for natural game. It's pretty obviously different from classic PUA. Natural game seems almost more like spiritual or philosophical self-development, of which real connection with women and others is very important, and probably necessary.
/r/seduction03/01/20 01:13 AM
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Meet her and find out. You might look different and she might like it. Only one way to find out. You should lose weight though, you look depressed, tired.
/r/seduction03/01/20 01:06 AM
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I have an intermittent lazy eye so this was super difficult for me to start doing. I made almost no eye contact ever for most of my life. I don't know if eye contact is one of the reasons for it, but I've only started being able to connect with people since I started doing it. My whole life I missed this entire friggin reality that contains emotions, connections, interesting dynamics between people, their motivations.... it's really as if I've seen a whole new reality that I just had no ability …
/r/seduction03/01/20 01:02 AM
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Me too mate. At 29 I finally woke up. I'd be surprised if anyone has worse stories than me, tbh. I'm attractive but borderline aspie so just missed so many signals or just didn't know wtf to do, and now that I look back on it, I was scared of fucking up because I didn't know what to do. Which is stupid, I see now. You can't be prepared for escalating unless you try and fuck up a few times. If anyone wants to feel better: I had MILF ask me for coffee at 11PM when I dropped her off at her house. S…
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:53 PM
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The only thing that I think Mark Manson gets wrong is that men and women are attracted to different things. Well, in general it is right, but needs clarification because it doesn't have to be that way. Most men are attracted by physical appearance and feeling wanted because they have a scarcity mindset and low self-value and they don't know what they want in a partner. Women, due to having more options (which breeds an abundance mindset), want to find out more about a guy and have certain other …
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:44 PM
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I agree in a way. Just realised this very recently. I think "extroverts" are people who are afraid or uncomfortable with their own thoughts. "Introverts" are people who are afraid to express themselves honestly with others. Both are a form of avoidance of acknowledging who you really are. They're just different ways to do that.
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:42 AM
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Weird.
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:33 PM
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Don't try to not think of what to say. If you do that you'll be focusing on not trying to think of things to say in advance, and will therefore be thinking too much again. Focus on the present, listen to her and what she's saying, the emotions behind what she's saying and doing. It takes some time but within a few interactions you will start learning to express your true self and what you're actually thinking and feeling, and you'll connect with people on a whole other level, and learn a lot abo…
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:58 PM
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the ones who treated women like people and realized that you get what you want easier if you're forthcoming, communicative and pleasant rather than trying to Use Your Game To Great Effect or whatever. Which part of his post indicates he has disrespect for women? He's literally pissed that he wasn't forthcoming, honest,.communicative etc. He wasn't true to himself, which is the only real way to have a good relationship, and really the only way to have a good life in general.
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:46 PM
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He is right to be. He didn't do something that he really wanted to do. He's truly pissed at himself and that means he will probably be true to himself more in the future. As long as you don't address every negative aspect of yourself in this way, then it's alright, IMO. For me I also needed that anger at those parts of myself that prevented me from acting in order to really feel the pain of not acting. You can come to terms with your prior inability to act WHEN YOU'VE IMPROVED. To be at peace wi…
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:41 PM
1

This anger at myself is what got me to finally start approaching. I ended up yelling at myself out loud one day, just letting it out and getting it through to the emotional parts of my brain that this is worse than being rejected. Living the life of a loser is way worse. Every time I see a pathetic loser who's 40 or 50 and looks depressed as fuck, it reminds me I cannot let myself end up like that. And I basically am like that in many ways still, I'm just younger, so I have to find out how to be…
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:37 PM
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Seriously. Next time you fu*k a pretty girl—have her lay on her stomach, then spread her asscheeks apart and look at it. Sniff it. Is this what you've been chasing? What slowly starts to happen when you reverse course is that girls start chasing you. They can feel that you're not taking their bait, but everyone else is. "So why won't this guy?" She must find out. Is there something wrong with the narrative she's been fed, rewarded, but also imprisoned by all her life? The potential collapse—but …
/r/seduction01/01/20 09:54 PM
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Dunno why you deleted it, it's worth reading. Men and women are good at different things, and have survived largely by exchanging their services. Tiny, initial margins turn into big, long-term advantages. Men are usually not as attuned to these tiny, initial differences in investment as women are. And that, in effect, becomes their advantage. By getting men to make that tiny, initial, emotional, social and energetic investment on the front-end, a cascading effect ensues, and results in a situati…
/r/seduction01/01/20 09:54 PM
1

Situational observation. Just make a random comment something going on, or her. If she doesn't engage at all, move on. I'm a bit of a noob to this but it's become obvious to me that game is just being a well-adjusted human who isn't afraid to show their true self to the world and is looking for people who jive with that, and doesn't worry about it too much if people don't jive with that. Men and women are also almost exactly the same when it comes to seduction. When you fuck it up with a girl, i…
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:40 PM
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Yep. It is instantly, and extremely, polarising. You'll know straight away whether they're up for fucking you or not and you won't waste any time with the ones who aren't. This hyperpolarisation is probably good for one night stands and nothing else.
/r/seduction23/12/19 11:16 PM
1

Rather be working for a paycheck than waiting to win the lottery.
/r/seduction23/11/19 11:10 PM
4

You know, The real reason I stopped you in the middle of the street the other day is because I wanted to find out how your sexy lips would feel on my dick. I would like to do that now. What do you say? How autistic are you? Also you're saying to ask all the questions while also saying to stop being a pussy and take chances. Asking her if she's horny is the opposite of taking a chance. Just do what you want if you think she wants it and stop if she doesn't want it.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:20 AM
1

Just friendly advice: You put random video clips in random places and it's random and distracting. There's no break for the transitions between sections of the video and it makes it a bit difficult to follow. And your tone could be more engaging.
/r/seduction22/11/19 12:57 AM
1

You're relaxed in the morning and stress from the day hasn't accumulated. Meditate.
/r/seduction22/11/19 12:52 AM
1

That's shit PUA which nobody should do anymore. Shit tests are real though. Literally every woman will do them.
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:22 AM
1

How about meet in person first before you put in more effort.
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:17 AM
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Not sure. I think for pros it's standard to escalate as fast as possible. They already met at the gym, do you want to meet again as friends/gym buddies? Or do you want to see if you two can be together? If the latter, ask her to coffee or whatever.
/r/seduction18/11/19 01:45 AM
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It's probably just them being awkward. I've had girls who I was 100% sure hated me, were completely and utterly disgusted by me, but they were actually head over heels for me. Sometimes nervousness comes across as some weird facial expression, which if you're not attuned or you have low self esteem, can seem like they don't want anything to do with you.
/r/seduction18/11/19 01:23 AM
1

Way too many times especially when I was younger. I was a huge pussy back then and rejected their advances, or sometimes didn't realise until wayyy too late that even a slight move by me would've had us fucking.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:44 PM
1

If the female is a human, she's a slut. Just like you and every other human.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:38 PM
2

It's not spin, it's the truth. You have shitty traits pushed on you by society, they are not "you". Changing traits that you have is not manipulation and being yourself doesn't mean you have to keep shitty, unattractive traits just because you were never told they were shitty and unnattractive until you came across game. And if you are just manipulating, any worthwhile partner will see it from a mile away.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:35 PM
3

A FIVE? You're fuckin blind mate. 7 at least.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:28 PM
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Even if you never get laid from it, you'll at least improve your courage and conversation and social skills so that you can meet people in more natural ways and not be a retard. It's already paying off for me and I've only done 6 or so "approaches" where I said one thing and walked off.
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:37 PM
1

Yeah I realise he was wrong now for a very similar reason. Edited my comment.
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:34 PM
1

Confusingly masturbating. lmfao.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:08 PM
5

Totally understandable. It sounded like massive rejection to you, after you were having a good day. Of course that hurts and makes you feel angry to protect yourself from being sad.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:06 PM
4

It's a lot of the responses, not OP. You can see behaviours as manipulation from evil bitches, or a normal woman trying to protect herself from being hurt or getting with a weak beta.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:03 PM
3

I'm glad I figured it out too, I might be getting better at this "understanding other peoples emotions" shit. I do however think that OPs play was alright, regardless of the woman's motivations. He still showed he doesn't need her and she can be more straight forward. EDIT: Actually OP is an idiot. This comment below made me realise. "Because he didn't escalate fast enough, she now feels like she needs to make the move, and drops that she wants to lay down." She asked why he was being weird beca…
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:54 PM
5

Yep it does. And yep it is. I've been wondering with one woman lately if she's manipulative or if it just seems like that due to circumstances and her weirdness. She wants me but is in a relationship. So if she wants to hang out when her relationship is going bad it seems manipulative. OTOH she wants to hang out a lot when nothing in particular is going bad or at least she doesn't mention anything. So I think the key is to look at the whole picture and not just individual behaviours in isolation…
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:43 PM
5

You're doing it wrong then. Don't think about what she's saying, think about what she's feeling. In the obvious way she's saying "leave", but she's also saying "I'm going to bed". So when she says I'm gonna go nap, you can flirt a bit and say something like "well we can go to your bed but you won't get much sleep". Or whatever. They just say whatever to test you, it doesn't reflect anything about their personality. If it turns you off it's probably because it makes you feel bad, which is somethi…
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:28 PM
5

Except you are all like that. Lol. And it's okay. If a girl doesn't do these things she'll probably have a lot of shitty relationships. Men don't realise they do the same weird things that women do.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:21 PM
2

That's a hostile way of looking at things.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:18 PM
8

Everyone responding missed the obvious risk of rape. If you aren't super desparate and respect when she doesn't want to fuck, she might let you fuck.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:16 PM
1

I don't think it's the greatest analogy (deer don't want to be hunted). But almost everyone who says "yikes" (in that passive aggressive, dismissive, judgemental way) is an SJW wanker that you wouldn't want to ever associate with.
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:38 PM
3

That's a great way to interpret the OP even though she didn't mean it like that.
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:22 PM
48

Or maybe she just doesn't realise what she actually wants, like most women. Or really most people in general.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:32 AM
13

If you take up a hobby you're hoping there's at least one potential partner in there who happens to be "likeminded" and not totally incompatible but you just happen to likr the same hobby. That's way worse chances than approaching dozens of women a day. You coould both be in the same shop, and that's pretty much equal amount of similarity to having the same hobby. It doesn't actually matter. Maybe you have only been approached by shitty PUAs. But it's literally the dream of millions of women to …
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:04 AM
1

Well I feel rejection from people I know who reject me at some point for whatever reason, not random people on the street. If you care what they think there's some self-esteem issues there, or issues prioritising importance maybe.
/r/seduction13/11/19 11:19 PM
1

Lol I wanna sign up for tinder just to try this.
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:52 AM
1

You're not a narcissist. You "just" need to learn how to tap in to empathy.
/r/seduction09/11/19 12:19 AM
2

What's thr 2 minute rule?
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:35 PM
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Depends. If you already have a connection it still hurts. Random approaches, yeah it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:17 PM
-1

And then...?
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:10 PM
2

It is impossible to kill your ego 500mcg of acid disagrees.
/r/seduction08/11/19 07:23 AM
2

I only found out about Tyler recently and his videos are pretty good but have a look at the workshop preview (final video in his 6 part series on youtube). Looks like a fucking cult, with all the group-hysteria-induced confidence, erasing your old self/second birth etc.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:16 AM
1

Ah ok cool
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:02 AM
1

Translation: "if we don't end up fucking at least we'll have a good talk". Opposite of friendzoned.
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:09 AM
1

So many women hate this shit though. I tried to do this stuff and it works on some and others find it stupid/childish.
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:02 AM
2

Wrong. You're wrong, plain and simple. Your self esteem is bad because you're basing your value on what other people think of you.
/r/seduction07/11/19 12:56 AM
1

You don't eat pussy? Wtf man...
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:38 PM
3

Yes. Yes. Report back, okay?
/r/seduction05/11/19 11:56 AM
4

Except anxiety is something you need to push through or let go of in order to be happy. I think you're rationalising not doing what you know you should do to be happy.
/r/seduction05/11/19 02:07 AM
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Every day will be the same, dude. That's exactly right. You're waiting for it to change even though you know it won't. Literally just walk past some random chick and say "hi" and wave at her, keep walking. If you have to, fucking run off after you say it. This will change your mindset and your life and open up a path where it's possible to be socially free. It took me 3 days of going out for hours at a time in multiple locations for me to do this, and it felt amazing. Just say Hi to a random ave…
/r/seduction04/11/19 11:40 PM
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BUT APPROACH NOW ANYWAY. YOU CAN WORK ON THAT SHIT AT THE SAME TIME AS APPROACHING!
/r/seduction04/11/19 11:33 PM
1

I had to work, then met a woman the next day. Last two days I went out and approached no one. Excuses excuses. Today just now I finally fucking said "Hi" to a girl. It's nothing but I feel fucking awesome. She was sitting there at the station and wasn't even very good looking, maybe a 5, listening to music, she almost pulled her headphones out but then looked at me weird. Not sure what she thought and don't care, I was laughing to myself about how weird it was and also exciting and easy in the e…
/r/seduction03/11/19 08:03 AM
2

I unintentionally started a week ago or so. Stopped watching porn and naturally stopped masturbating. Interesting, almost forgot until reading this thread.
/r/seduction03/11/19 04:33 AM
1

Which proves it's just an excuse. You can see it positively or negatively.
/r/seduction03/11/19 01:02 AM
1

Thanks mate, really appreciate it.
/r/seduction02/11/19 07:10 AM
1

Hey mate, sure, always open to advice.
/r/seduction02/11/19 06:02 AM
1

Yeah it is just rejection. Like I'd ask for directions or whatever and they'd know my true intention and reject me. I know the only way I'll get over this is practice and realising it's not bad at all.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:41 PM
1

You're bloody awesome mate, thank you. I really like the idea of thinking about fear as a compass pointing toward freedom.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:38 PM
1

Thanks man. I'll do that today even if the woman isn't that great, just for practice.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:34 PM
1

Thanks man. Not sure if it's true but I'll believe it until proven otherwise lol. Will have to become confident and comfortable with myself I guess.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:33 PM
2

Nice tip thanks.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:31 PM
1

Increasing desperation.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:30 PM
1

Also desperation.
/r/seduction30/10/19 11:37 AM
0

Well I didn't do it today, can't change that, can only try again.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:57 AM
2

I have an issue with this. I have an intermittent lazy eye, it'll just occasionally turn out and I look all spaz. So I'm definitely practicing eye contact, because I've learned to control it when I'm calm and present in the moment. Which for me is super difficult when making eye contact, due to years of avoiding it. I made solid eye contact with an easy 9, and also a more confident looking 7, for a good 5 and 3 seconds, respectively. I realised I probably should have also smiled. I probably look…
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:56 AM
1

Thanks so much, man. I mean it, that was just the kind of thing I need to hear. Feels like I've got people with me now.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:48 AM
1

RemindMe! 1 day
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:51 AM
2

Did better than me, man. Keep it up! I think that really must be key, just say shit/approach and open before your brain even has a chance to come up with all the doubts and insecurities and rationalisations.
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:40 AM
2

Your belief was misplaced, but thanks anyway! Failed to quiet my anxious mind and didn't approach anyone. Came close but backed out just before saying hi twice. Will try again tomorrow...
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:33 AM
5

That makes it sound easy actually... Failed today but will try again tomorrow.
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:30 AM
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Just came back. Literally walked around for 2 hours or more and didn't approach once. I came really close a couple of times and just felt blood pressure skyrocketing as I got close and walked in a different direction. FML. I had a real and only slightly complimentary opener that I thought of while walking around too ("Hey, i know this is weird but you look really fashionable and I was wondering if you could tell me a shop to buy good quality, fashionable shoes" is that good?) I hate myself right…
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:14 AM
2

Why are you rejecting people's advice, thinking you know better?
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:32 PM
1

You did a good thing. Not everything has to be seduction. You helped someone out. You approached someone in distress that most people would just walk past because it's easier. That takes courage to overcome the bystander effect. It's not a good example of seduction, but you learned some things, good work.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:53 PM
3

You obviously never tried to listen to anyone else in your life. You think you know everything and sound like an ignorant asshole. Fix your shit, realise that people know things you don't, and that will help you learn to find other people interesting. If you're still an asshole who doesn't care about anyone, make some money and go hire a prostitute.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:08 PM
10

Don't listen to this shit, OP.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:02 PM
12

Can't tell if serious.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:22 PM
1

Good work
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:22 PM
1

Got a wingman? I'm looking for one now after my mate said I'm way too beta, more or less... don't seem confident. At the time I thought I was acting super confident. Could be something you're doing but just don't realise.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:21 PM
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