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DebateDXBrigade/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:05 PM
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Beauty standards aren't the same for men or women but people still end up with their looksmatch, same goes for status and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:39 PM
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It's a known fact that nerds have low social skills. Also smart people are less interested in sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:38 PM
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L. DiCaprio gets more criticism because his love life is more public. He is infamous for dating women below 25. A lot of male celebrities date women in their 20's, most people don't care. Even L DiCaprio is more a meme than hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:28 PM
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A lot of these men are aware, they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:38 AM
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You cannot be a feminist and cry about 50/50 or expect "princess treatment" from a provider husband. Women should be more assertive in their dating lives. I respect SAHMs but they aren't working hard. I don't care about age gaps between consensual adults: I don't like the infantilization of young ADULT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:22 PM
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Nope, the money a child earns belong to him, the parents only gets to manage it. A lot of lawsuit on the topic. They are laws in California to protect child actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:22 PM
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Well, athletes usually aren't the sharpest tool in the shed. There are also the child actors who discover as adults that they got robbed by their own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:09 PM
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Nope it just means that Sophie Rain is bad at finances. If she was smart she wouldn't be in that situation, notwithstanding that she is still much wealthier than the average Joe. You see the same phenomenon with athletes, artist and actors...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:54 AM
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I never dated a man I wanted to have sex with from the get go. It always took time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:32 PM
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I don't care about being approached in the street as long as men aren't rude nor pushy. I don't have an issue with adult women who decide to do sex work. My issue are the shady working conditiosn with all the human trafficking behind the scenes, and the fact that kids have access to porn. I don't mind Mia Khalifa or Bonnie Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:16 PM
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Only daycare gets criticized, what about the other form of childcare like babysitting or staying with grandparents ? Also the first study is questionned by other specialist while the second one aknowledge that daycare does have some benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:29 PM
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Stay at Home Mom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:09 PM
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The overreliance on dating app is the reason why people struggle to get relationship nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:21 AM
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Rich men marry 304 all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:07 AM
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Why are you comparing yourself to a celebrity ? You think people aren't willing to pay bank for Sydney Sweeney's bathwater ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:58 AM
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You weren't the same person 7 years ago, you weren't fit nor successful. A lot of people don't date in HS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:07 PM
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How do you know they are not genuinely attracted to you ? Are you sure it's not your insecurity talking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:28 AM
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So you got the attention of beautiful women and you are still complaining ? Sounds like you got a severe case FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:50 AM
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My ncount is 1 and I am progressive but I kinda agree sex is so important for men you would think sluts would be preferred for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:53 AM
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On average, women care more about spirituality and have a bigger sense of community. There is a social aspect to church service that cater more to women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:11 PM
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aren't the6 all blue pill? No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:51 PM
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Unless he has some type of agreement with his wife, then this would be cheating so it's not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:50 PM
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It's a moral failing and entitlement if they blame women for their lack of action. Personnally, I don't have a problem with sex work, but looking down on men who pay for sex work is not a "bluepill" thing it's a society thing. Most women regardless of their views on sex looks down on men who pay for sex. Even men tend to shame other men for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:10 AM
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My older brother is average looking and never had a serious relationship but he had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:07 AM
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In my experience, older women don't struggle finding men, their main issue is their fertility windows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:55 AM
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If it's just about the way he dress , then he is gonna be fine. His girlfriend will give him a makeover.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:34 AM
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It depends what you mean by "success" if you meant by number of sexual partners I would say twin 1, if you mean raw attractiveness and quality of relationship then it's Twin 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:21 AM
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I don't use Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:53 PM
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I am not sure the halo effect works the same for women. I just think men care less about women being funny or smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:49 PM
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I am average looking, no Chad has ever approached me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:34 PM
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I consider myself progressive and I don't see anything wrong with saying women are the fairer sex. The beauty industry is centered around us. The problem is women being valued only for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:04 AM
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I agree especially the second paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:57 AM
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Prevalent ? I would say no, but it happens. Interestingly, the men were often the ones who wanted more. But if you want FwB it's better to be straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:10 AM
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Huband material is an ideal and women want to marry a man who is sexually attractive. A husband material is not a man you settle for. Do you think most women are fine with a husband they find unattractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:00 PM
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When a women use the term "husband material" they mean a man who got the whole package which include sexual attractiveness. David Beckham is husband material, Homer Simpson is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:06 PM
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It doesn't work because women aren't complaining about how men only date the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:39 PM
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So you watch straight porn ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:05 PM
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Unless you have a valid reason to insult people, then yes it's immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:22 PM
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So it's wrong by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:31 PM
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I have yet to hear one person provide me with a good reason for slut shaming. I know key/keyhole analogy, but sleeping around being easier for women doesn't make it shameful or immoral, at worst it makes it whatever. I also think it's counterintuitive to hate on the women who are the most willing to sleep with men, while one of men's main grievance is how they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:24 AM
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Firstly, I wonder how many of these women who hate on Bonnie Blue consider themselves feminist. Secondly, feminists don't agree on sex work. Thirdly, most women, feminist or not don't give a fuck about Bonnie Blue, Lily Philips or Mia Khalifa: at worst they just find it gross for sanitary reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:49 AM
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Even men mostly marry in their own social class and there is nothing wrong with it. Also wanting an ambitious man doesn't mean that you don't care about other aspect like personality, looks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:39 AM
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A lot of women who want "ambitious men" actually are ambitious themselves, they are more likely to be educated or to have high paying careers. I don't consider them gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:21 PM
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They would marry younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:11 PM
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Older women are aware that they don't have much to offer to younger guys aside from money and they aren't interested in being sugar mamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:03 PM
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Masculinity and attractiveness are 2 different things. Cavemen are not appealing to women ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:19 PM
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As a woman who lost her virginity late (26), I don't think there is anything wrong with late virgin aside from social awkwardness which usually gets away with experience. Virgins are just late bloomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:28 PM
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If a guy try to sleep with me on first date, I assume he is promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:17 PM
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A good relationship benefit both parties involved. But I think for woman there is a huge status boost associated with marriage which explains why they want to get married more than men. Married woman > girlfriend > single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:44 AM
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Usually when a man rush to marry a woman, it has little to do with the quality of their 6 months relationship, but it's because the man just values marriage (a change of mind that happens often after a LTR breakup).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:32 AM
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She’s the girl who will scoff at an ex getting married to his next partner and will fail to realize that this man invests more in this woman because that woman invested more in him. You mean the ex who didn't want to marry them after 5 years of relationship but then married a woman he just met ? The truth is that more investment =/= better result, sometimes it's just a waste of time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:54 PM
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Compared to 10 years ago, more women are willing to date bi men so even though it's not the majority, women being more progressive is actually true. Also, not dating bi men isn't necessarily related to gender role . My main worry with dating bi men is the STD risk. They are also gay people who won't date bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:49 AM
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Casual sex is overrated : STD and unplanned pregnancy and all types of risk AND bad sex. I also want to build a family with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:37 PM
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50/50 relationships and coffee dates aren't bad. Housewives don't have it hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:11 PM
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Controversy aside, I think SS is more attractive but that pose is not flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:52 PM
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Leo is just a meme now, nobody hates him for his dating habits. Jada Pinkett Smith is the most despised actress in Hollywood after Amber Heard. Brigitte and her husband have been dating for 20 years, even if I think her behaviour is gross, people just accept their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:37 PM
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She probably has a harem of men but he was the least sharp of them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:28 PM
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Your fiance sounds like the type of guy who never bend over to pick up something because it's too "beta".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:15 AM
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They are women who just want sex and aren't interested in relationship but they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:51 AM
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Are you upfront about only wanting casual sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:19 AM
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Nothing, men are much more interested in casual sex than women so it's normal that it's more difficult to get casual sex. You should improve your looks and focus on women who say they are looking for fun, instead of wasting your time with women who want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:17 AM
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I prefer it that way. Men who rush to have sex are a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:08 AM
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I don't mind taking my husband's last name if his last name sounds nice. If his last name is Johnson or Smith, no thank you. It's fine for women to take their husband's last name as long as they are not forced to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:21 PM
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As someone who lost her virginity late, no being a virgin didn't make me popular with men. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:10 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/l_nJiAoYxZw You have a lawyer talking about it. Though in the US, you don't get damages but the dividing of assets and alimony get impacted. In France we can get damages too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:14 PM
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People see him as a hero, even men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:01 PM
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Luigi is not a good example, he is not even seen as a bad guy more of a "Robin Hood" figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:48 PM
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Actually you can sue for damages, only if it leads to a divorce. That's why people hire private detective to stalk their partner before getting a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:52 PM
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Dorothy is not a femcel. As someone who lost her virginity late (26 years old), I never considered myself a femcel either because I never turned hateful toward men. Virgin women not by choice exist, but they are less likely to be man haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:20 PM
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It's okay to ask and it's okay for her to refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:46 PM
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The only guys who are treated as one of the girls are the effeminate and the gays. Building an intellectual connection first is actually a good way to filter and get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:21 AM
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That's a situation where people need to step back from the Internet and touch grass. Plenty of men getting laid even in their 20's, even the mid looking one. And the men who get laid aren't necessarily in the top 20 %. Men who remain virgin for too long do so because they are terminally online, not because they are physically unattractive. Female virginity also increased but men like to focus on women who are stuck in situationship with Chad because ragebait content is more popular (also interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:23 AM
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It's not more awkward than a first date with a someone you met on OLD. and you also have a time limit so even if you don't have nothing in common, it doesn't last too long. As for the rest, there is just a wide variety of people there, I don't think they are "weird".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:53 PM
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I have been to several speed dating events and all of them had more men than women, the host even told me one day that he had to reject many men to make sure the ratio is not too unequal. The host also told me that the chance for a man to get a "like" was 20 % so I think that for men speed dating is actually better than dating apps. I don't think the issue is the quality of men, moreso the compatibility. You have people from different walks of life, and most of them have nothing in common with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:15 PM
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I would love to do all these things with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:09 PM
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All types of men approach women, however only attractive women approach men. Reaction on social media are very exagerrated. Personally, I am bothered by much older men making moves on me but I am NEVER rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:30 PM
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In your situation, explicitly asking would be less uncomfortable for most men, because it gives them a chance to explain why they are not helping you, i.e. because of their bad back. Looking away is MUCH easier than having to justify yourself. Also, let's not forget that most men don't have a good justification like a "bad back". People feel obligated to help when they are asked directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:55 PM
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I don't think most women who seem to struggle lifting stuff or need a seat are pretending. Whether they ask directly or not is not relevant. I also leave my seats for the elderly all the time and I help women with stroller without them asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:38 PM
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College is the main social elevator => better education means better career prospect and better pay. College degree is used as a proxy for intelligence and while it's not always true you can be really dumb and college educated and vice versa, most of the time I do find college educated men to be more cultured, well-travelled and more interesting to talk to. It's a status thing: yes some women are snobs and look down on people who didn't go to college even if they make decent money. I also know s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:56 AM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:39 PM
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Personality plays a huge role in my sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:29 PM
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In my experience, both men and women want their partners to stay the same in ways, and change in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:45 PM
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I don't have a problem with porn only with porn addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:22 PM
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So ... traditional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:38 AM
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They look scary to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:00 PM
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Quantity and quality are related. 2 parents usually do a better job than only one. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:40 PM
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Because that's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:45 AM
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It's not really about whether there is a father, it's about 2 parents household >> single parent household, 2 parents mean higher income and more child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:56 PM
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Yes, I would wait. In fact it would be refreshing compared to pushy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:05 PM
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The problem with apps is that it feels forced, you are basically tring to build a connection with a stranger. It's not really safe either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:40 PM
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It's more about women being high or low maintenance than level of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:00 PM
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Many men eventually realize that women often show more passion and enthusiasm for casual flings while expecting long-term partners to prove their worth Where does this realization comes from ? Did you find her sextape or were you hiding under her bed while she fucked Chad ? Or is it just men assuming that flings are more attractive than boyfriend material ? She becomes a placeholder until you find someone who actually values you. What if you don't ? Then you are stuck with a placeholder forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:55 PM
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The problem is the hypocrisy : they complain about people not falling for their "personnality" while they are themselves equally shallow in their choice of partner. A lot of fat "beauty at every size" activists only date conventionally attractive fit men and would never consider a fat guy. Same goes for the nice guy TM, they are more attracted to Stacey than they are to Becky no matter how nice she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:29 AM
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The problem with the concept of objectification is that it doesn't really make sense imo. If you define it by finding a woman sexually attractive, It's normal for women to want to be objectified by the men they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:33 PM
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All you are saying here is that rich men are more attractive to women, so I am not sure it's really objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:17 PM
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My brother joined a dancing classes : a lot of hookups happen over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:56 AM
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How can a man realize that his wife/gf was more passionate with other men than him ? Is it the infamous case where he found her sextape ? I feel like most of the time it's men writing fanfiction in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:20 PM
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Someone who insist to not use condoms during casual sex is very suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:11 PM
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No, the man really intends it as a compliment No he doesn't. Never heard men tell their wives "they look fuckable today". Everyone knows that fuckable is vulgar word while attractive or hot is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:21 AM
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lol the female equivalent would be wife material which is also a compliment. It don't matter what was intended by the person saying it, the recipient determines if it's something that should be said. No, the intent matters more than what the recipient made up in his nevrotic head. Also "you look fuckable" is crude and vulgar. It's not meant to be a compliment, it's just disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:34 AM
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For women, husband material just means that a guy has the whole package (looks, personnality, status), that he is a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:48 PM
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I don't care about age gaps as long as they are both adults which is not the case in your example. A 50 year old sleeping with a high schooler is gross even if it's legal,especially if it's your child's friend (remind me of Jada's "entanglement" Pinkett-Smith). Also parents don't necessarily have their daughter's best interest in mind and might just pimp her out to some old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:05 PM
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I totally agree that relationships are a partnership and that both should bring something to the table. However, the whole "men provide and protect" is BS. Men in the west don't provide, they generally share bills with their partner, as for "protect" I am always curious to what it means concretely, do men fight off dangerous intruders daily like Chuck Norris ? Most adults I know also cook and clean so I don't see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:54 PM
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I don't have a problem with women being enlisted the same way as men. However, the problem with Ukraine is the women never received military service like the men did so they aren't ready to be sent to war. I also think that armies should be more welcoming toward women, a lot of harassment and sexual abuse toward female soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:12 PM
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It's more status than money. All things equal, a lawyer will be more attractive than a plumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:25 AM
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Most people marry in their social class, women aren't marrying down but they aren't marrying up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:13 PM
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I don't care about sex and I am not materialistic. However, if it turns out, my boyfriend doesn't find me attractive then I guess I would use it as an opportunity to improve my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:02 PM
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Looks is not the only factor, there are others like job/education, age, race, hobbies etc. Personnally, when I "swipe right" on men it's because I found him to have a lot in common with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:35 AM
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I agree. The main issue is the financial dependency which removes the ability to leave for the housewife and highen the risk of domestic violence. Homeschooling is a separate issue but I agree it's usually castastrophic for the kids. There are former housewives who warned women against the tradwife life : Lauren Southern for example is a alt right anti-feminist activist who became a tradwife only to divorce few years later and confessed that she hated the tradlife. There is also that channel cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:22 PM
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The coolidge effect and I think a lot of people confuse love and lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:27 PM
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From my experience American women are by far the worst group of women you can date. Professional women from foreign countries both value education, career and economic success far more and don't have a bitch attitude you see in Americans. This is not traditionnal. I thought men didn't care about women's education, career or economic prospect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:07 AM
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As a western woman, I could care less about passport bro going oversea to find love or casual sex as long as it's consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:06 PM
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4B can't work for the simple reason that humans are sexual beings, they aren't wired for eternal celibacy. I don't see what Engonga has to with this. The elites have always been full of degenerates but it doesn't represent the average people. These elites women's husbands probably have side chicks who have side chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:45 PM
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Because this type of logic results in restricting women's freedom. So women shouldn't drink ? They shouldn't go out at night ? They shouldn't wear sexy clothing or hang out with men who are not relatives ? They shouldn't go on date with men without a chaperone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:19 PM
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I wish you added a photo of dodoria like in your former post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:20 PM
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I have been to several single events: the main issue is the ratio men/women tend to be unbalanced . However, I don't see this phenomenon of top guy getting all the women, for the simple reason I never noticed a man standing out as being better than the other. It's mostly about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:34 PM
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It feels fair for people who aren't attached to traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:15 PM
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She remains my friend but I advise her against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:01 AM
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Because women don't go out of their way to disparage people they find unattractive like men tend to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:37 PM
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I don't mind, I am aware I am average looking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:01 PM
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As a woman that is prude, I don't care about sluts. My motto has always been "Live and let live".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:05 PM
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What type of dancing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:59 PM
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Because the same men who tell women to lower their standards also like to shit on women who settled for their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:44 PM
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They just want easy sex. That's why they go to sextourism hotspot destinations like Thailand, Colombia, DR etc. I don't think they really care about being perceived as desirable either as they also pay escort for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:04 AM
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I lowkey disagree. "Nice guys" might have friends but they aren't really popular either; they aren't party animals. ImE, men who are doing very well socially have no problem getting laid. That said, if a man always get friendzoned they are 2 reasons: they aren't physically attractive or they became "one of the girls" because too effeminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:16 PM
5

I noticed people tend to be much more critical of female politicians than they are of male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:21 PM
1

I had one ONS, the guy was mid and so was the sex. He wanted to date seriously, I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:11 AM
2

https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:13 PM
2

Mediocre means bad/ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:52 PM
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Nerds like to date other nerds. Also Priscilla Chan is not "very mediocre", she is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:11 PM
1

I would tell him to see a dating coach, try speeddating and to be patient. People in relationships aren't necessarily better than him, they were mostly lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:55 PM
1

It's not true. Plenty of losers in relationships and plenty of high value single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:41 PM
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Most women won't date men they find unattractive. Also men who gets casual sex aren't necessarily super hot or manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:56 PM
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Or you can follow a dating coach that is not an edgelord. You don't need to be mysoginistic to be popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:20 PM
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There is a difference between "Looks matters in dating " and "you have to be a 6'0 foot Chad to date women". People lack nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:40 PM
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Personnally, getting matches is easy but building a stable relationship from that is not. We also have the biological clock to worry about which put a lot of pressure and there is always a risk when you date a guy you met on the internet (some men are completely different from the way they present themselves on the internet and some are dangerous). I also think it's relative to the woman, "easier" doesn't mean easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:32 AM
2

People react differentely to negative stimulis, men tend to turn agressive and women become sad and self-hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:14 PM
2

I could care less about objectification especially when it's consensual which is the case of sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:10 PM
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Jenn is not a 6, she is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:59 PM
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What type of strawman is that ? The only people responsible for the behaviour of bad men are bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:51 PM
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According to the men of this sub, the average man is struggling to get laid and is closer to the incel than to a playboy. This type of guy has more sex in relationships than outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:43 PM
1

Men in relationships on average have more sex than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:00 PM
2

Looks matter no matter how old you are. Your partner isn't with you just because you are interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:40 PM
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The man is more at risk. Where did you get the absurd idea that she is more at risk? It's simply not true. Men are attacked at disproportionately higher rates than women when walking alone at night. The argument has always been that it is men doing the attacking. Which is true. But those same men are attacking other men far more often. Which is also true. Ok, my bad I didn't know that. Lastly, both have equal value. So both should be concerned about each others safety. And she should not get pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:25 PM
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Because women are more at risk than men. Also it's weird to be worried about your own safety and not care at all about hers. The idea that your girlfriend has to risk her life just to spend time with you, doesn't bother you ? There are plenty of safer alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:01 PM
1

Why don't you trust your parents ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:55 AM
1

It's less socially acceptable for women to approach men. Also fear of rejection and less incentive. Personnally, I would never approach a guy in public (unless it's a friend/coworker and I felt mutual attraction) but sometimes I make the first move on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:25 AM
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Casual sex doesn't mean banging Chads. Most men I know have had casual sex at least once, most of them aren't chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:23 PM
4

They are more likely to bring their wife home than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:40 PM
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I don't want FwB or exes around my partner but I am fine with female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:12 PM
1

I don't think there is anything wrong with it per se, it's just that the success rate is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:30 PM
1

Then we get the data and find out women are substantially more picky about looks than men Which data ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:18 AM
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I reject every guy who cold approach but I don't have issues with them as long as they are not rude. It's just that I don't see myself date a guy I barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:06 AM
2

They are also ugly and broke men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:27 AM
3

Individualism and modern technology are more to blame than feminism or the sexual revolution. Contrarely to what OP says, I believe that our society is turning sexless not ultrapromiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:55 PM
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I am tired of people blaming feminism and sexual revolution for our love crisis. The truth is that our generation is not more promiscuous than previous ones. Modern women don't have more sexual partners than their ancestors did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:51 PM
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You confuse drama and party lifestyle. Drama is more about seeking fights and toxicity hence the "bad boy" appeal. In your case, your appeal came from leading a rich social life as a musician which is exciting for party girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:40 PM
1

How did you react when she told you she was pregnant ? Did you panic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:47 PM
1

It happened to me many times. I am disappointed and just assume that he wasn't that into me. I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:48 PM
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No, women don't find single dads attractive, they are just more tolerant. There is much more social stigma attached to single moms than single dads. Also a woman who wants to have kids might appreciate a guy who already has experience raising kids and has shown to be an attentive father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:00 PM
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Because they don't want to appear shallow or make their kids shallow, or maybe they don't want to give them complex. As a woman, I was never told I need to improve my appeareance to attract men, but I l know that looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:19 PM
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As a woman who went to speeddatings I talked to the organizer of the event and he told me that a man has 25% chance of receiving a like so basically if he met 4 women he was (almost) guaranteed to receive at least one like. ImE, compatibility matters more than looks, aside from age-range (even this is not always respected) you meet men from all walks of life with very different interest and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:48 PM
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ImO Redpillers are the ones who are obsessed with self-improvement (especially "lifting").
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:44 PM
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My main advice is to stop listening to "dating coaches" on the internet and to not approach dating with negative assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:38 PM
2

At work, via friends, speed dating ...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:29 PM
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She probably doesn't see that as a sacrifice. Some women are happy to quit their jobs and become SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:13 AM
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There are no contradictions. They are friends I see as dating material and others who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:42 PM
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I didn't know who he was and I had to google him. Some women have trash tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:43 AM
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Anglo women are amongst the least materialistic in the world. Broke men can still get a gf here, it's not the case in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:02 PM
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No, it's because most boomers grew up in a pre-internet era when kids spent a lot of time outside and socialized naturally. Boomers' parents never had to "push" them to socialize, just make sure they do it safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:25 AM
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It depends on the mother-daughter relationship. My mom never gave advice beyond "don't have sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:20 AM
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I like nerds and geeks. I find younger men more attractive in general. I prefer them boyish over manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:17 PM
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People expect their parents be dating coaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:06 PM
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In their eyes, LTR has all the advantages of marriage without the inconvenients.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:44 PM
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Emil : dark past ? No thanks. Theo : I am a jurist so we have that in common. Also he is good looking and charismatic. However, I don't think he would be interested in me and we are not compatible in terms of personality and lifestyle. I am not into hiking or exploring nature but I am willing to try. Julian : We are both on the quiet nerdy side. However I dislike the dark academia style and I find taxidermia creepy. James : I like guys who are creative and willing to start their own business. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:06 PM
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It's not like childless people actively choose to date single parents, sometimes the person you are in love with already has kids so you got to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:24 AM
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I am french so what do the cowboy looks like nowadays ? Do they still dress like Clint Eastwood ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:39 AM
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Yes, most women don't see a problem with benevolent sexism,... because it's benevolent, duh. People want the best of worlds men are no different. I also consider myself an egalitarian and I don't mind paying for my share on dates but men always insist on paying so I let them. Eventually I realized that most men like to buy stuff for their gf because it makes them feel manly, and tbh I enjoy receiving gift so I am not complaining. The only difference between me and a more traditionnal woman is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:20 AM
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Men who want relationship and value personality don't push for sex on first date. They don't need to have sex with a woman to know they are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:30 PM
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Conservative men date conservative women. Hookup culture concerns a minority of people. BDSM is a very common kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:13 PM
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Women nowadays want to date their equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:18 PM
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Most of them diet. Some of them go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:09 PM
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Women diet and go to the gym as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:56 PM
0

People are just being politically but everybody knows that looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:55 PM
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While women on average have it easier, I think men largely overrate women's dating ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:46 PM
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There is a difference between wanting a "SEXbot" and a "robot boyfriend". Never once the woman mentionned in your post talk about sexual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:09 PM
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Me too, when I was a teen I had "crushes" on teachers but I was joking around, they weren't people I would consider dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:46 PM
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Some men love to be sole provider because it makes them feel manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:02 PM
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Or maybe these women are just as geeky at heart but are more socially refined and take a bit more care of themselves physically because that's generally expected of women? This.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:45 PM
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I like geeks but if they play video games 24/7 forget it. Educated, good sense of humor, liberal bonus point if they practise a sport. Physically, I prefer black men (but I am open to date other races), 175 cm .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:56 AM
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How old is your gf's uncle ? How many kids and baby mamas does he have ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:20 PM
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Yes, dating is unfair and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:59 PM
2

That was my first thought as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:01 PM
4

It reminds me of the classic adidas outfit I wear to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:04 PM
8

Several factors : higher marriage rate which usually means more divorce a lot of people rush into marriage young with people they don't know that well divorce is easy and destigmatized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:50 PM
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No women aren't entitled to commitment but the problem is that some men lie or act desingenuous about commitment which is why some women may "withhold" sex. Nobody is forcing you to commit to her, you can leave, just be honest about your intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:05 AM
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So embarassed that ... he ran to marry her instead of exploring his other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:33 PM
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They were BOTH playing games and all that mess could have been avoided, if he committed to her in the first place, that's why Matthew is catching strays. I also think that situation was unavoidable, they weren't exclusive and she is a Stacey so her dating someone else was predictable, whether it's to make him jealous or just to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:13 PM
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It doesn't matter WHY she did it, what matters is that she could do it because he wouldn't commit to her. All I see is a man who got beat at his own game. Guess men should commit to the woman they love instead of playing hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:53 PM
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Poor Stafford...married to a blonde Stacey and has 4 beautiful kids. All I have learnt from your sob story is that men value looks above sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:37 PM
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Popular people date each other. I don't see a lot of shy nerdy women dating popular men unless they are really good looking. Extroverted men do much better in dating because they are more assertive and have better social lives with more occasion to meet women. Also who you date influence your own social status. Men date beautiful women not only because they find them sexually attractive but also because it increase their own status in society, hence the term "trophy wife".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:17 PM
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A 8 is NOT average, your sister is really pretty or even beautiful. Also being sexually assaulted is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:31 AM
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That's not true. Plenty of women have been accused of not being real women, especially black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:08 PM
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I feel that RP-ers are just tradcons now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:58 PM
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This is the type of scenario that works better in your head than IRL. Firstly, one has to be a convincing actor to pull that off. There is also no guarantee at all that the woman is gonna react that way with a high chance of being found out and exposed as a massive douchebag. It's not practical and a lot of douchebagery for little result. A whole machiavellian scenario... just to get laid. At this point, you may as well pay for an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:40 PM
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He spontaneously starts crying, and when the woman asks what happened, he takes her to a random grave and tells her it's his mom's grave. Both start crying at the grave. This overload of feelings, emotional intensity, and the powerful emotion of death make women weak at the knees. He takes advantage of this and passionately beds her. What type of sociopathic shit is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:13 PM
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What men truly want is validation, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:41 AM
1

I have seen some left leaning men criticize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:26 PM
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Probably because a lot of tradwife tend to be right wing conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:30 PM
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Questions about your past relationships. A lot of questions either trying to fish for information about how much you make through asking you about your job, or through outright asking. These are normal questions. I think the main issue is the flakiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:47 PM
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Filming yourself crying is a gen z thing. Women are more expressive and communicate much more...sometimes too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:31 PM
1

1 a) if he is poor, 1 b) if he makes a lot of money 2 a) if he is attracted to her 3 a) 4 b) 5 b)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:37 PM
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Anything that gets in the way of commitment: multidating, when the dating phase get way too long, grass is greener syndrome etc. Also, when people's ego gets in the way: when people are more concerned about being "right" rather than trying to solve the issues, inability to take criticism, to apologize or to forgive and move on or to communicate your needs. Negative thinking: prejudice and preconception, overanalysing your partners' actions, assume to worst, spend too much time listening to datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:14 PM
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To make your relationship official in the eyes of society and government : it's also a proof of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:15 AM
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I agree. To give a wage to SAHP/SAHM is the best way to ensure decent fertility rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:02 PM
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Child support and the family house are the two main sources of financial suicide and have nothing to do with marriage. LTR breakups can also lead to court in case of disagreement. Alimony is related to marriage but it's rare nowadays because you need a big wealth gap. Also women can pay alimony as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:38 PM
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"What benefits does a man get from marriage? Why do it?" The same as women. "Does the women have to drop 4k on an engagement ring?" Nobody has to drop 4k for an engagement ring. "Why am I scared? 50% of them end in divorce, flip a coin for financial suicide" LTR can also result in financial suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:03 PM
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Marriage contract don't favor women actually. If you're ready to buy a house with a woman and have kids with her, I don't see why you are so scared of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:38 PM
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For the same reason, black people go after the likes of Candace Owens and Sexxy Red. Feminists go after tradwives because they promote a lifestyle that is seen as harmful for women. Just like Democrats vs Republicans. It's politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:11 PM
2

None of the things you mentionned is comparable to sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:48 PM
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Mostly because of the "bad boy" trope which is very popular in fiction. Women also accept that Looks is the number one factor much more than men when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:25 PM
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Unpopular opinion but I think yes, teachers shouldn't be allowed to have OF accounts. I think teachers should be held to higer standards and it's totally fair for the school to fire a teacher for having an OF account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:16 PM
1

I went on dates nothing came out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:05 PM
1

yeah, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:01 PM
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Woman here, I have been single for 4 years . No hookups, no kiss, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:59 PM
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It's not so different from the US, you sue the man and ask the judge for a DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:45 PM
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https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F15882/personnalisation/resultat?lang=&quest0=0&quest=
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:42 PM
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There is something called conventionally attractive. You are just proving my point: why do you expect a bunch of racist haters to be honest and admit Halle Bailey is beautiful ? Did you know that Sidney Sweeney also have haters who call her ugly on social media ? You misunderstood me: I am not saying that men will pick Halle Bailey over Sidney Sweeney, I am just saying that men would still date Halle Bailey even if she is not their type, because men's type are irrelevant when the woman is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:34 PM
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The drama over the Little Mermaid casting has little to do with her attractiveness. Also you shouldn't take what jealous haters say about her looks seriously, they aren't being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:30 AM
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Well, as a black woman, I disagree. You shouldn't take "type" as gospel, there are plenty of exceptions especially if the woman is beautiful. You think men who prefer Sidney Sweeney would reject Halle Bailey or Dua Lipa ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:51 AM
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I studied a bit of family law in France and a man can totally get baby trapped. Woman can sue a man and establish his paternity in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:30 AM
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Dating apps SUCK, however for many people that's all that's left. Not everyone has a rich social life and get to go out at bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:21 AM
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Because grooming standards are much higher for women than for men and feminists love to reverse the statu quo. Just like feminists will praise stay at home husbands while discouraging women to be sahm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:45 PM
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People get defensive because they are tired of judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:08 PM
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Relationships require people to open up emotionnally. I cannot do that with bad boys because I can't trust them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:32 AM
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As a woman, I disagree. I cannot feel vulnerable with bad boys because they aren't secure. Women who seek bad boys typically seek excitment or they have a dominance kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:11 AM
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Some people don't see the issue with their own behaviour until they are the victim of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:47 PM
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It doesn't matter whether she was there from the start, it's just that once you get married everything you will earn also belong to her and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:59 PM
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"the country, home building, gun toting girl is displaying more traditional values... like a tradwife. And she's the one they seem to be going for." No hate on the american woman but there is nothing traditionnal about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:34 PM
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It's a mix of intrasexual competition and looking down on people who don't strictly fit gender roles. You see the same thing with men who mock Timothée Chalamet and Kpop artists. Lebanon probably have stricter gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:12 PM
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I have seen fat and mediocre men in relationships as well. But at the end of the day being fat and mediocre will seriously reduce your dating options even as a woman (they don't necessarily have a male coworker waiting for them either). They are also plenty of others reasons one struggle to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:59 AM
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Yes, status makes men more attractive but it's more about the fame than the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:30 AM
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I have never met a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who wasn't unattractive and/or socially awkward and the guys who do better than them are superior to them in every metrics minus maybe niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:03 PM
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No, it's flexing. Look at all these female celebs scantily clad on the red carpet, do you think they dress that way just for male attention ? Hot people just like to show off their hotness. That's the main reason women dress sexy: to flaunt their own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:30 PM
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People still want to have kids but have them later in life. Women having kids later in life = less kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:04 PM
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Men really overestimate the number of assholes/bullies who are popular with women. The truth is that they are plenty of men who don't act like that and are popular with women. As for the women who are stuck in relationship with abusers : it's usually because they show their true colors only when they feel that their target are locked down. On the other side, there are also men even HVM who date abusive women. That doesn't mean that acting like Regina George is key to get men's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:28 PM
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Men: status, social skills, looks (in that order) Women: looks and social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:47 AM
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In my case, it's mostly social anxiety. I don't enjoy talking to strangers, especially IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:18 AM
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Nope, as a former law student in France, I can attest that most divorce happens amicably : most people want to move on fast and are mature enough to not try to ruin their partner. By the way fault divorce still exists in my country but has become pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:37 PM
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Nope. I wish settling wasn't so villified. I remember a study that said that most ppl weren't attracted to their spouse when they first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:32 PM
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Replace north indian with black and you have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:24 PM
1

Pretty much everyone crave monogamy : the difference is that some people want to settle down right away and others prefer to play the field until they are ready or find " the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:20 AM
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Some men prefer to let their wives lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:46 PM
1

I don't consider Han solo a asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:23 AM
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The truth is that MOST people are nice but the people who market themselves as "nice guys" aren't especially nice , they just tend to be losers which is why they struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:07 AM
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I never noticed that but my office is female dominated maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:45 PM
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Men who are popular with women are just popular...in general. They are the type of guys with ton of friends who get invited to parties. They are not necessarily assholes they are just guys who are fun to be around. The problem of a lot of self proclaimed "nice guys" is that they confuse being nice with being a straightlaced nerds. Being teasing, flirty or playful doesn't make you an asshole, it just means you have social skills. It's the same for drinking or smoking (weed) in college just make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:27 PM
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And you are extrapolating. Being hot =/= being in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:36 AM
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37 % of men in relationships doesn't mean these men are hot. I know plenty of young women in relationships, very few are with hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:26 AM
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Most women don't spend their youth chasing Chads. Plenty of 20 something women in relationship with average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:02 AM
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Nope, it's just that late 20's early 30's is the age range for settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:17 PM
1

I went to a speed dating last weekend in bar lounge/hostel Paris, it was fine. We were 3 women for 8 men. I talked to the organizer who told me the match rate of a speed dating was around 20%. I think it's much higher than OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:43 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how much money do you pay women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:53 PM
1

Speed dating >>> online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:14 AM
1

No. Unless it's a typical mail order bride situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:34 AM
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"The average women usually has what is considered red flags in the red pill community - a high body count, revealing photos on social media, past trauma etc. " This is not the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:56 PM
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lol what do you mean by distrustful ? Sisterhood doesn't mean that everyone get along. As for the rest it's mostly confirmation bias and yes, misogyny. Plenty of toxic FIL and male coworkers but because the reverse is a cliché people will focus on the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:36 AM
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40-45 years old. Plenty of people have kids in their late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:27 PM
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Abusive is a trendy buzzword, everyone is abusive nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:46 PM
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I don't have a problem with big age gaps, as long as people are adults. I just don't see what a 30+ old man can offer to a 20 years old woman, unless the man is good looking for his age, this woman is dating down imo. If anything, it proves that women aren't as picky as people say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:04 AM
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As a feminist woman, I think it's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:48 AM
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I don't, we just don't talk about relationship. As a 30 year old woman, I am glad my parents don't bother me with that, although they will sometimes make hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:10 PM
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Because men find childish women cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:46 PM
0

Wrong, in fact you can sue your realtor/car salesman for omitting or lying about important details.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:07 AM
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Nope. I think it depends on how you word it. There is a difference between trying something because it seems fun; or trying something because she did it with her ex. The latter can be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:24 PM
1

I disagree about George. George was average but he was quite popular with women, he even dated Izzie who is the local Stacey. There is even a scene where Doctor Sloan wonder why he is so popular with women and Callie explains that is his kindness that attracts them. Cristina may be arrogant but she is extremely talented and the most passionate about her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:48 PM
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A lot of them are actually in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:58 PM
0

I am against the idea of forcing people to be parents, so I think it's okay for fathers to abandon their child. Maybe they should file a paper where they reject their paternal rights. I wouldn't call it financial abortion, you are just abandonning your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:06 AM
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Look at the fat men on my 600 ibs life in relationships or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:42 AM
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They are getting out of trend.Kim K and co.have removed their BBL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:28 AM
2

Pick-me girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:54 AM
1

Pick-me girls aren't SAHM, they work AND do all the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:30 AM
2

Marine Le Pen has always lost the presidential elections, despite tring 3-4 times which shows that she is not that popular. Plus her discourse has always been more politically correct than Donald Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:23 PM
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Sounds like an attempt to shame single moms and stepdads. Stepdads aren't necessarily less attractive than other men. Actually, a good chunk of them have had kids from previous relationships. They also tend to have kids with their new girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:46 PM
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No but it probably means that dating apps aren't for you. You should try a different venue like speed dating or singles' event.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:14 PM
0

No, because you can have an egalitarian marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:45 PM
1

Depends of the women. Some are jealous, some are concerned. I don't get why people assume that the women who criticize this type of relationship are necessarily older. Plenty of young women criticize this type of relationship. When I was 20, I got hit on by older men and I already thought they were creepy. I guess I never saw the appeal of dating old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:28 AM
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There is a gap between complaining about the way your SO dressed and being physically violent. Either way, he still looked like a jackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:00 AM
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I don't mind being the breadwinner or sharing bills. As for initiating sex, I would rather my partner does it because I am shy not because it's his role .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:01 PM
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Because they are promiscuous themselves. Different values. Also looks > n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:01 PM
1

Most women aren't commiting paternity fraud. I think women are getting less desperate to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:00 AM
1

Could you elaborate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:00 AM
0

I don't think kiss without consent is sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:53 AM
1

School / the workplace / clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:57 PM
1

Men don't value relationships and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:13 PM
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And my answer is related to ethics and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:11 PM
1

I am just answering your question in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:06 PM
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Women are the main caretakers in most societies: they do most of the childcare, they also more likely to take care of aging parents and sick partners than men. We also have the almighty pussy, that men would kill for. Restraining agression and strength is not commendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:01 PM
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This question should be asked to men, they are the ones who see women as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:58 PM
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Your relationship status is not necessarily correlated with your dating value. Ppl need to realize that there is also a LUCK factor involved. Plenty of poor, ugly and mean ppl in relationships, plenty of desirable singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:55 PM
16

When it comes to aging, I see racial difference but I don't see gender difference imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:33 PM
3

What about the not "cute" nerdy girls ? Do shy nerds like them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:20 PM
1

I used to be a NLOG and I confirm they are opposites. NLOG reject feminity and tend to be the opposite of boy crazy. Pick-me Girls have no boundaries and wants male validation. The confusion comes from NLOG having a lot of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:50 AM
1

Good looks with golden retriever personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:57 AM
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Husband material is used to describe a guy who is BOTH sexually attractive and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:19 PM
1

No,because I want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:36 PM
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It's not like Mackenzie let herself go, she just aged and doesn't have work done. While Lauren Sanchez is a milf she is pretty fake, I can see some men preferring Mackenzie over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:51 PM
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However, many women are attracted to violent and dangerous men to some extent. Probably because attaching themselves to scary men means protection for them. Whereas as a man I'm more about protecting myself than trying to be close to another man for protection. That strategy works for women because people don't want to mess with the gf or wife of some dangerous guy. On the other hand, associating with dangerous violent people is also dangerous because they can turn that violence against you as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:29 AM
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It's both, depending on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:16 PM
1

I wouldn't do anything special, beside the talk about contraception. I would push him to spend more time socializing outside rather than playing video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:48 AM
1

I know pleny of ugly housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:51 PM
1

James ' appeal does not come from being "bad boy" but from being a good looking jock. Other examples would be Victor krum, Cedric Diggory, Ginny Weasley.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:51 PM
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What type of romantic gesture men do like ? I am genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:45 PM
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ImE the women who complain the most about getting approached are the most attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:28 PM
1

Which country ? The USA ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:16 AM
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Have you ever had a close (meaning not an acquaintance, an actual friend), that is heterosexual, male, and platonic ? Yes. If so, how did it go ? Fine. Did it ever make you feel uncomfortable or were there any times it got bad ? Nope. Did he try to make any moves on you ? Nope Do you think its possible for women to have close male heterosexual friends overall in a healthy way ? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:56 PM
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NO. What is your country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:43 PM
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The both acted petty imo. It's obvious that the guy wasn't just treating her like a "friend" but rather acting out of spite because he was rejected. Friends lend each other money and drop each other off all the time. 7 $ is not a lot of money. On the other hand, she doesn't have to whine about it on social media. Also, she can only blame herself for no bringing her own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:23 AM
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The nice guys that are criticized are the ones who act like sore losers: the guys who can't handle rejection and will blame women for it. The ones that think their nice acts should be rewarded by sexual favors and then blame women for putting them in the friendzone and exploiting their niceness. It's why women take on a cynical stance. Technically you are nice guy just not the type that people hate on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:30 PM
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Women, no diff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:34 PM
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They are already shamed by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:30 PM
1

Attractive men or older men with status. .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:44 PM
2

Personnally, I don't care as long as men are respectful. I see that as a form of "bragplaining".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:54 PM
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It's impossible for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:49 PM
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Because men don't care about it doesn't mean it doesn't matter. People with similar socioeconomic status marry each other all the time. It's also valuable to be able to share bill with your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:31 PM
2

Just like the incels, they are a bunch of sore losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:02 PM
1

With the amount of women simping on Henry Cavill or Harry styles, I don't believe they are hiding that they care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:02 PM
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While It's true women have more options than men, people really overrate their "abundance of choice". Also, they are male celebrities dating toxic men and I don't see people calling them out for their bad tastes in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:57 PM
1

Here is the Oxford language definition of incel: " a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile towards women and men who are sexually active. "
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:35 PM
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Virgin men =/= Incels. Incels refer to Virgin men with a misogynistic streak. Misogyny might not be the root cause of their singlehood but it sure doesn't help their case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:22 PM
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Men age like wine isn't true. However, women value looks much less than men, when it comes to choosing a partner hence the misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:10 PM
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How is it not empowering if they can literally make a living from it ? Also, for feminists there is no such things as "objectifying yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:06 PM
2

Fuckzoned women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:26 PM
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Open sexualisation can be equally performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:59 PM
2

No. Just ignore them or bare minimum civilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:14 PM
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I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:46 PM
2

They have shown no signs of attraction whatsoever during all these years, so I have no reason to believe they are into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:56 PM
1

It's just a way to uplift each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:33 AM
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Just like men, they are women who take rejection well and others who don't. That said, Michael B Jordan does date black women, even if his actual girlfriend is white.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:53 PM
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You don't need to be married to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:00 PM
4

Like what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:14 AM
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And yet they are plenty of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:55 AM
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You think marriage stop people from leaving ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:42 AM
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3.Your partner you've been dating for the last 10 years but that you didn't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:36 AM
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This. Some people forget that sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:22 PM
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Because it doesn't ONLY benefit women and it's not a financial burden if you choose your partner wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:42 AM
3

As a parisian, I believe Paris is overrated. Though it's probably better than the US when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:35 AM
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It's refreshing to see a guy appreciate makeup but most women don't have the skills nor the time to do their makeup good before going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:59 PM
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These women may be fat but they have a nice face plus they are photogenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:32 PM
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They were always well-integrated and sociable girls. The less popular girls I've known haven't gone through this "phase" So not a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:28 PM
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They were always well-integrated and sociable girls. The less popular girls I've known haven't gone through this "phase" So not a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:59 PM
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Some women find agressive guys scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:05 PM
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ImE it's more about the context than about looks. Men who are social and are always at parties get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:14 PM
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The problem is that even if women are attracted they still aren't gonna make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:54 PM
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As a woman, I agree but it's not an american thing in particular. We should encourage women to be more assertive. A lot of women have a passive if not defensive stance when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:17 AM
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It's the push and pull strategy. I don't think lovebombing is bad, if it's sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:19 PM
1

Firstly, age is a component of attractiveness and younger men are more attractive. You seem to be a DILF, so you are an exception. Secondly,age gap may not matter that much for casual sex but it does when it comes to relationships. Chasing college babes is not a wise choice for a mid thirty year old guy who wants to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:45 PM
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The reason men don't blame Chad is because he is too strong. You don't bully someone who is stronger than you. That said, Chads aren't the only ones abandoning kids. On the other hand, single mother are easy target, they are also the visible parts of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:32 AM
2

I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:08 AM
1

What is "rule 6" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:52 PM
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>99% of women don’t want anything to do with 99% of men.< As a woman, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:49 PM
1

Lack of social skills and social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:48 PM
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I disagree with Hiraeth and Kidology. Most young women aren't running after older guys,it's older guys who chase them. Young men aren't locked out of dating, they are just less assertive and have less experience. I will even say that college is the best time to date, you are surrounded by similarly aged single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:30 AM
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Women ime are equally jealous and insecure but they are more honest with their feelings. An insecure woman will just admit she is insecure while men will try hard to rationalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:45 PM
1

Why is the demography so bad if they are tradcons ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:09 PM
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Dating will be the least of their issues. That said with the war, plenty of men would have died, so there will be more women. Some of them will marry out, other will be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:26 AM
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It's totally underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:10 PM
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Strict christian parents who were very against me dating growing up and even as a young adult. Now, they wonder why I am not married yet at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:48 PM
3

These women wouldn't feel the need to wear the burkas if they weren't sexualised in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:04 PM
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Men are gonna sexualize women no matter what they do or wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:25 PM
1

Harry Styles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:46 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:12 AM
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To know if it's sincere you need to see how the local men fare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:03 PM
1

The friendzone is just what happens when your feelings for your friend are unrequited. The rest just depends on the people involved, but for some reason guys focus on the worst case scenario. And in the end, women's point still stands, you can leave if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:32 PM
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Self improvement and the fact that women have it easier in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:15 PM
3

It's not AF/BB, it's the coolidge effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:22 AM
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Assholes get results becasue they hit on more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:22 AM
1

GLEEDEN is probably worse. As a woman, I find OLD scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:59 AM
3

Where are the good women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:54 AM
4

Being nice is not the reason you guys struggle in dating. Stop blaming Mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:08 AM
2

Expecting more out of you doesn't mean more shallow. Also high school girls care about looks and there is a social hierarchy in HS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:59 AM
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Adolescence is when a person is truly desired for whom they really are and not what they can provide, without factors like a job, living alone, having money / a place of their own / a vehicle, etc. coming into play. While teen relationships are formative, they aren't necessarily more genuine. A lot of them are shallow and based on status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:06 PM
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These men are more likely to die alone, than to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:29 PM
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Nope. If it was true, the DUFF wouldn't exist as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:14 PM
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I know plenty of nice girls that haven't went on a date for months, and even then they only go out with me because other men don't engage them. Why don't other men engage these "nice girls" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:39 PM
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They don't have true friends and tend to fail in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:50 AM
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Because she doesn't like you, she likes your green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:58 PM
1

No, because there is no such thing as an absolute right, and cheating is crossing the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:58 PM
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What type of kid go to his mom for dating advice ? Everyone know parents are biased toward their children. My dad also told me I was a beautiful princess, should I sue him for that ? Also, every advice should be taken with a grain of salt, you are responsible for your own dating life and you have to figure out what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:12 PM
3

Statistically, men are more likely to kill their wives than to sacrifice themselves for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:24 PM
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Traditionnally, men weren't chosen based on their looks but based on status and character. Since the dawn of time, men had no qualm fucking and marrying women who clearly weren't attracted to them. Even today, you see men paying for sex via Onlyfans or prostitution. I think that a good chunk of men doesn't really care about being found attractive and that whole stuff about wanting to be desired is actually pretty modern.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:10 AM
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Personnally, I don't think age gaps are inherentely bad but old men who obsess over young pussy and bash women their own age will never cease to be creepy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:44 PM
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Nobody has to follow anyone's advice lol. Also you have it backwards, Women aren't targeting average or ugly men, it's just that these men are the ones asking for advice. No hot men ask for dating advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:50 PM
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Women still try to say personality heavily influences their level of sexual attraction. It's true, charisma and charms are a thing. However casual sex is by definition more shallow , because you have less time to know the person. I fell in love with guys I didn't find attractive at first, but after spending time with them my feelings changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:21 AM
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Sounds like you are just bitter. Hot successful men don't need advice (water is wet) but they are not necessarily rude or pushy or whatever. Men who ask for advice are average or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:09 AM
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Redpill are sex positive for men and sex negative for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:22 AM
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I disagree. Lack of desire doesn't always lead to disrespect or abuse. What you described is just how immature women react. ​ Actually, I know 2 women who are in deadbedroom LTR and both acknowledged that their partners did nothing wrong, and the latter were treated with respect, it's just the spark was not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:19 PM
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According to a study, arranged marriages are happier than love marriage so maybe you are onto something. https://bakadesuyo.com/2011/12/are-arranged-marriages-happier/#:\~:text=One%20says%20arranged%20and%20choice,measuring%20marital%20satisfaction%20and%20wellness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:36 PM
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Because it's illegal . It's also creepy to go to a brother with your dad. If a guy wants to lose his v-card with a prostitute, then he should go alone as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:44 PM
2

Physical attractiveness and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:39 PM
1

You're splitting hairs. No men who wear dress can be considered masculine. Pretty boys aren't necessarily feminine but they radiate that "gay energy" (the twink type). Definitely not manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:27 PM
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As someone who lost her virginity late, I can tell you for sure that most men aren't attracted to virgins . Men have ghosted me as soon as I told them about my virginity. And nowadays, being a virgin female is associated with negative qualities: like being religious, prudish, awkward and needing to be taught everything. The few men who desire virgins tend to be either virgins/ with little experience OR they are tradcons/religious. The former prefer virgins because they aren't confident in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:16 PM
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Yes, I could handle it, I think it's a "bit" easier to make the first move when you are socially expected to do so. I don't think I would be popular with women though, but it's not like I am popular with men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:45 PM
1

Nope, I am also a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:26 PM
2

I am all for women making the first move and I do it all the time on online dating. However, it's not accepted socially which is why it's more difficult to do it IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:24 PM
1

Yes and no. It's not your parent's job to help you get laid but having overprotective, conservative parents can negatively impact your life and by extension you dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:52 AM
4

Maybe "love" was a bit strong. I just think that most men are willing to use money as leverage, especially if it can get them women above their league even if the latter are not really attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:10 AM
39

Men LOVE to pay for sex, and they like to be beta bucks. They don't really care that much about women being "genuinely" attracted to them. Between a hot woman who just cares about their money, and an average woman who genuinely loves them, they would choose the former. It also explains why prostitution and Onlyfans are so popular and why they go out of their way to buy women in 3rd world country. Men love to outearn their wives and provide for them. As a woman who lost her virginity late, I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:29 PM
72

Or they have sex with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:28 PM
1

Nope, I don't see the point. For me it's either ONS, either LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:47 AM
1

That's the loud minority. They are plenty of women who have casual sex and don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:42 AM
4

Not trying to offend you, I think the problem wasn't that you were nice but that you were a straightlace with no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:11 PM
3

In my experience, "nice guys" are just sore losers. People who can't take rejection properly and need to blame the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:54 PM
0

Because the qualities you want from a sexfriend aren't necessarily the ones you want from a husband, and there is nothing wrong with it. Men do this too, when they fuck women they don't want to marry. Both genders seek for stability when they want a relationship while casual sex by definition is more shallow. That doesn't mean that looks are irrelevant for LTR , it's just balanced by other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:16 PM
1

Hypocrisy is a flaw so no it's not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:58 PM
3

Daemon married a whore, I think he is quite the feminist. It's a bit early to call him popular with women though. As for the typical "bad boy" archetype being popular with women, usually it's because the actor is good looking and the bad boy is not as bad as he seems, at least with the heroine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:01 PM
3

It's not about being a bad boy. Your brothers struggled because they weren't assertive enough and also because they didn't "fit in" within the college culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:35 AM
1

Plenty. Dating is not a matter of merit. Plenty of great people are forever single, plenty of low value men/women are in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:24 AM
1

In my experience, these women end up with shallow doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:32 AM
2

Plenty of lonely women out there, but they aren't as loud as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:56 PM
1

Go to parties and club, hit on as many women as you can. Learn to deal with rejection smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:25 PM
6

Too much mental gymnastic. It's totally possible to not see sex as a ressource and feel used for sex. Personnally, If I realized that the guy who pretended to want a relationship, lied to me just to get laid, I would feel used for sex. On the other hand, I never feel used when I have casual sex, because it's something we both agreed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:52 PM
1

You pretend to be educated but you can't wirte properly. Also, sex doesn't cause damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:13 AM
2

Women who feel hurt by casual sex are the ones who seek love at the wrong place. They are also men with he same issue but the validation they get compensate it. Plenty of women want to sow their wild oats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:20 AM
3

The benefit of the doubt exists solely in the court. If people believe you are guilty, then they are gonna be wary of you and it's gonna impact your professional life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:51 PM
2

It's kind of cute tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:56 AM
1

Slut shaming is a strong repellent for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:54 PM
1

Status is social validation. You don't have to be in top 5% to have status. Money is part of status but it's not everything. That's the reason you see educated women rejecting men with no college degrees even when they make money. Chasing status is easier that chasing looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:27 AM
3

lol, In what world do you live where men are the ones shamed for sleeping around ? If you want to sleep around, go do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:39 AM
2

Nope, I don't bond over sex alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:56 PM
1

It's simple. Just look at the type of women Chad dates, Chad dates Staceys. That says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:35 PM
1

Plenty of LVM in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:33 PM
10

"The tendency redpill has to generalize and exaggerate and focus on the bad side of women, for example, I would say is overcorrection" You just proves Blue Pill's point. Red Pill tend to exagerate, which is why it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:11 PM
4

To me, saying a man should not have sex with a much younger woman is no different to saying men should not have sex with men. Bigotry, pure and simple. Except he/she didn't say that. Just explained how it's irrelevant because succes rate is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:37 PM
1

I half disagree with you. Firstly, I don't see in what way TBP is overt simping TBP has no ideology and just criticize TRP. Secondly, no society doesn't look down on men who major in history, litterature or have hobbies unrelated to getting laid. Thirdly, women aren't manipulating men, they are just taking advantage of the market. For example, only fans exist, because they are people (mainly men) willing to pay for it. Women wouldn't have so much leverage if men weren't so thirsty and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:18 AM
-1

Nothing. I am not an helicopter parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:35 PM
1

It's the opposite. The Harem fantasy is about having plethora of desirable women, not about being desired. Men have no qualms paying for sex: whether it's prostitution or sugar daddy or even only fans. Men aren't mad about being BB, they just mad it can't get them a young virgin woman like in the old days. Though you still see men buying young women in poor countries with the green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:24 PM
1

Sex was more transactional back in the day. The truth is that men don't mind paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:52 AM
2

I take it with a grain of salt, when women complain about their "toxic ex". People aren't the most objective when it comes to their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:05 AM
0

I don't see in what way it is contradictory. You can have casual sex and think it doesn't matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:25 PM
1

Charismatic and physically attractive men =/= dark triad trait. The popular jock is not necessarily a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:15 PM
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I work in a association that is 80 % women and I love it there. Great atmosphere. Before that I worked mostly in law firms (2 were mixed gender, one was female dominated ) and only one (a mixed gender) had a good atmosphere. On another note, I remember a documentary about a clan of monkeys which became female dominated after most males died in monkey disputes or some shit, and the researcher noted how the atmosphere of the group greatly improved. It became chiller and less violent. Not sure it t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:01 PM
1

Where ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:09 AM
1

Who said that you need to be a billionaire Chad to get laid ? I think it's a matter of confidence and having reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:05 AM
14

I never understood the obsession americans have with the native american ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:29 PM
12

Fun for who ? I swear dating would be much simpler if people were honest about their intention. Just say "I am not looking for anything serious right now" and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:15 PM
14

Just tell the woman, you want casual sex. There you go, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:56 PM
8

Embarassment mostly. But dating agencies are making a comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:47 PM
1

A. I actually do have male friends, I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:13 PM
2

You think most men in relationships are abused and manipulated ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:32 PM
7

Like I said, nobody force guys to be in relationships. But you can't be in a relationship and moan about being husband/boyfriend material, it is not coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:46 PM
9

Nobody force you to be in a relationship. If dating is such a chore, then why are you in a relationship for ? Go have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:29 PM
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The problem is that any guy who is in a LTR/ marriage is by definition boyfriend/husband material. If you are not happy, then leave your girlfriend and go have casual sex. It also shows that men see relationships as inherentely inferior to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:53 PM
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ImE , women enjoy being chased much more than men love to chase. That said, the few men who enjoy the chase tend to be confident in their attractiveness which is like 20% of men. But these men might enjoy the chase much more than the reward itself. They are the types who lose interest once they get what they want. It's the same thing for women who chase after aloof guys. It reminds me of the appeal of the "tsunderes" in the anime culture. For other men, women who play hard to get are either not …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:08 AM
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But isn’t there also research that shows women who watch porn feel worse about their own bodies that can’t at all compete with porn stars? I started watching porn when I was young but it didn't affect my self-esteem because porn has varied body types. Ironically ,SuicideGirls which is supposed to be a feminist porn website is much less inclusive than mainstream porn. Social media on the other hand is very damaging to women's self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:27 PM
1

I don't think it's complicated. Some women want their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:39 PM
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They seem to justify it by telling themselves they're giving him a chance. Maybe they are sincere, that happened to me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:16 PM
5

But this study claims both genders are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:33 PM
3

RP says only women are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:12 PM
2

Women not wanting to do kinky sex with you doesn't mean, she is not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:50 PM
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Nope, it's because men's egos are heavily tied to sex. Men aren't worried about being good partners, their sexual success is all that matters. Alpha males are by definition men who can get sex without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:42 AM
3

An "awful" strategy that worked for billions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:29 PM
1

a) 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:05 PM
1

They are no rules, people just follow their feels. Yes, people would rather be approached by someone attractive, than someone they deem unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:37 AM
1

Did these women know he was racist and a misogynist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:27 AM
2

When you want to be more than friend, and he/she doesn't. Friendzone happens to both genders but it has a bad reputation for guys only, because spending time with a woman they don't have sex with, hurt their male egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:38 AM
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Do you really flirt with women or are you just acting like a friend ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:58 PM
3

I was a late virgin, I lied about being more experienced than I actually am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:32 PM
1

Because it's easy. Personnally, as someone who have been on both sides of the ghost, It's not a big deal to me. I would feel hurt if someone I have known for years ghosted me but if it's just a few dates, I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:40 AM
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My experience is the opposite, men move on much faster than women. If by moving on you mean finding a new partner. This article also confirms it : https://www.glamour.com/story/why-do-men-get-over-breakups-quickly#:~:text=There's%20a%20reason%20for%20this,Yup%2C%20that%20sounds%20about%20right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:05 PM
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Except women aren't "disgusted" by virgin men, nor do they rant about them, at worst they will just reject them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:07 PM
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Level of difficulty and moral judgement are different things. Because sleeping around is easy for women doesn't mean they should be shamed for it. If anything it makes it whatever. Also you can sleep around and have standards. As for Mia Khalifa, heard she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:59 PM
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C) I never cared about marriage. It has never been a dream of mine. I am not against it either, so if a boyfriend propose to me, I might say yes. That said, I am practical and I think weddings are too expensive (would rather save for a house instead) and I am also shy so saying my vows in public is difficult for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:34 AM
1

Nowadays the same guy gets a mid ex chad fucker with emotional baggage. Where does that assumption come from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:33 PM
2

Elon Musk looks fine for his age. Also, the average man is broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:34 PM
1

Insecure men make bad partners, no matter what you do, they wiill take it negatively. Making them work will be interpreted as "she makes me work because I am no Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:48 AM
1

Improve my looks and go out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:44 PM
1

Where are you going out exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:30 PM
2

Little to no difference. It's just that the term "nice guy" has a negative connotation. It's about a guy with ulterior motives who acts like a people pleaser and lose his shit when he doesn't get "rewarded".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:31 PM
7

Will Smith is immensely popular with women, he just has shit tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:02 PM
14

Being a stepparent = all the disadvantages of being a parent without the advantages. You don't have any recognition but you take part in child rearing. That said, I think case of stepdad being forced to pay child support is rare. It can also be complicated when you don't get along with the kid or when you have to deal with baby daddy drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:52 PM
2

I wear glasses but I know they are not attractive and make me look nerdy. Turn on the tv and you will notice that no celebrities wear glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:55 AM
1

People who complain about thei ex should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:45 PM
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"Revenge is understandable and I usually support that side but here she went with the 'I'm gonna fuck your friend' move, which he probably deserved but it's just too disgusting and hurtful." Well, revenge is supposed to be disgusting and hurtful. I also think she was nice compared to what he did do her. Also, let's not forget that technically she is single, so she is free to sleep with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:11 AM
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STR =/= Casual sex. STR are just falied LTR. It's when you date someone seriously and realize that you aren't into the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:10 AM
1

Most people have good personalities. Terrible personalities are a minority in both genders and can be both good looking and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:19 PM
1

No you didn't, all you say is that women do the same thing which is not the same as being "fine" with it. Plenty of people aren't into multidating. I don't want my boyfriend to fuck other women on the side and I uphold myself to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:49 PM
1

You aren't answering my question. Are men cool with women doing these things ? Are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:46 PM
0

It depends on people. Not everyone hate their ex. If you still think about your ex, years after your breakup then you haven't really moved on. Also it's much more satisfying to see yourself strive, than seeing others fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:40 PM
0

Reverse the gender, would men be cool with women doing any of these things ? If the answer is NO, then you understand why women shun your strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:59 PM
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All the guys I had hookup with were average looking. They were just social and straightforward. What matters is how you present yourself. If you act like a boyfriend then you get treated like one. The same logic applies to the friendzone. Neither. It depends on what you want, if you want a LTR, then being boyfriend is better, if you just want sex, then hookup is more appropriate. Of course, getting into a relationship, JUST to get laid is dumb as hell. Most of my male friends had casual sex but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:44 PM
1

Go out, meet girls. Get rid of your assumptions about dating and women .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:47 AM
1

In person dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:49 PM
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Personnally, it's because I don't like texting. I don't get the people who get offended over late replies, I thought the point of a text is that you don't have to answer right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:52 PM
3

Some women are delusional and watch too much romance movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:42 PM
0

Plenty of average-looking men have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:38 PM
3

Nope. Because there is a big overlap between the guys who have casual sex and the guys who do LTR. Woman A might see you as boyfriend material but Woman B might think differentely. My boyfriend had casual sex with other women before meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:35 PM
1

I don't even see the point of your post.The men here compare themselves to both LTR and casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:26 PM
3

I had 2 ONS, both times the sex was mediocre, I doubt the guys enjoyed it either. I noticed that very few men enjoy casual sex for the sake of it, most of them just crave the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:32 PM
1

Chad is not the best she ever had tough. Because she never actually had Chad in a long term relationship. That's not what the men on this sub claim. ​ The fact that she's basing what she believes she deserve in a LTR on what she got in a short term relationship is precisely the issue I was bringing up. I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:15 PM
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I disagree, in fact I believe it's the opposite. Most men on this sub don't want to be "the best she can get " , but "the best she ever had" , of course they assume that every woman has slept with Chad so they are doomed. On one hand, they will acknowledge that they are average, on the other, they blame women for not giving them the Chad's treatment they think they deserve hence the paradox of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:31 PM
4

Most people cheat because they are bored in their relationship, the other guy doesn't have to be super good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:40 PM
1

No Pill or "blue pill" I guess. I loled at the word "undewhelming". Being brutally honest, I think he needs a haircut and some plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:16 PM
4

Your sister seems happy so it's good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:46 PM
1

I never understood the whole "men and women can't be friends" mindset. Most dudes I know have at least one female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:24 PM
1

Plenty of pretty thots with HVM. Also high n-count =/= character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:36 PM
1

It's not so much that men don't care, just that they don't ask. Also they are more important criterias than n-count like looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:34 PM
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Nope. That's "nice guy" logic. Douchebaggery has little to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:46 PM
2

The 2 guys I had ONS with, were average-looking and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:39 PM
6

I lurked there a few years ago and it was already super mysoginistic. They were already mocking women who got cheated on, or were victims of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:56 PM
1

Confidence can be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:02 PM
1

Fake it til you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:57 PM
3

Male artists, especially rappers, express their sexuality all the time, the only difference is that men sexualize women, while women sexualize themselves. Lil Nas X is a notable exception to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:28 PM
1

I am not criticizing them. I just explained that they were handling the loss of looks well. They seem happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:50 PM
2

I know 2 Tyrones brothers who were jocks in HS but they settled early with their respective HS Stacies. Both couples have two or three kids and became fat. They seem to be handling well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:45 PM
1

18 years old are considered adults in my country and I think it's fine. Also I also know 18 years women who had sex with older people and seem to be doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:40 PM
2

Asked him out on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:12 PM
5

Statistics support this. People tend to date in their own social class and educational level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:57 PM
1

Could you elaborate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:43 PM
4

This study has been cited so many times by men who just see what they want to see and ignore the rest. For example, if only 20 % of men are rated "attractive", women massively messaged men rated "unattractive" while men focused on "very attractive" women. Also I heard that back in the day, the rating system wasn't confidential, people knew how you rated them and the rating system was used as an approach. For example, you see the profile of a woman you find attractive, you rate her 5 stars and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:33 PM
2

I think this applies to both men and women. As a woman who followed the "waiting for Mr. Right " strategy and wasted a lof of years, I took the matters into my own hands to get myself a boyfriend. I think the passive stance is great for woman who are at the very least semi-attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:55 PM
5

Plenty of normies in relationships, I think your problem is your taste in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:18 PM
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I thought that bossy woman x laidback man was a common pairing in the US. Does every relationship need a "leader" ? Personnally, I am not attracted to submissive men at all but I don't like dominant men either. Also the guys who are the most popular with girls aren't necessarily the most masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:09 PM
3

Nope, plenty of women have casual sex for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:35 PM
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You can say the same things about every qualities. Ugly men in relationship, dumb men in relationships, asocial men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:05 AM
1

black wristband or armband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:00 AM
1

Just like men, they are women who want to sow their wild oats before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:47 AM
1

High value people are picky...no surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:28 PM
1

Just hangout with the popular guys and benefit from status halo. You can't be Di Caprio but you can be his friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:23 PM
5

I understand that some people need to take their distance after a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:17 AM
5

Best sex =/= freaky sex. You can have great sex without anal or threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:15 PM
1

ImE, asian women who date white men also marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:40 AM
1

But If porn has actually freed men why are they still whining about not getting laid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:55 PM
2

Not necessarily. Going to college is not a "sacrifice".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:08 PM
0

In my experience, religious women have it the worst. Yes, they are quite a bunch who get married early, but they are also plenty who turn into leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:24 PM
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Yep, a good example would be Cat from Euphoria, she was teased for being a virgin in high school. Personnally, I lost my virginity at 26 and while I wasn't directly shamed for it by my peers, I was kind of looked down upon for having no romantic life whatsoever. Also being a virgin is a turn off for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:50 PM
0

Except they whine more than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:10 PM
3

It's not true, considering men still complain about not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:49 PM
1

For some people, it's better than dying alone. I think it's important fpr people to be real about their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:54 AM
2

Because social skills >>>>>>>>> intelligence. Problem is that a lot of smart people are nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:24 PM
0

Nothing. If anything, I am happy he got rejected, thanks to that we ended up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:17 PM
2

People need to chill when it comes to politics. I don't like Kevin Samuels but I would never wish him death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:05 PM
3

The truth is that there is no secret. Just be attractive and assertive. Everything else is superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:41 PM
2

I feel sorry for Johnny but would men have any sympathy for him if the gender were reversed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:36 PM
2

Andrew Garfield and Dylan O' Brien.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:54 PM
5

I am 28 years old and I can count the number of times I have been hit on on my 2 hands and it's by older dudes. I was at my most popular when I was a minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:10 AM
1

I experienced the opposite. Men are quicker to rebound after a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:52 AM
1

A study that proves that women rebound faster than men after a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:48 AM
1

Source ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:27 PM
1

How can one have backup options without cheating though? Sounds douchey to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:26 PM
1

Most women don't have rebound sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:04 PM
1

Your experience is similar to a lot of men around me who played the game, and eventually settled or are currentely looking for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:29 PM
10

She is a virgin and she wants to wait for marriage. You just want to have sex as fast as possible. You need to let go, you aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:59 AM
1

Because men don't mind paying for sex but women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:28 PM
1

Leo is pulling girls thanks to status and money. He is no sex-symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:29 AM
1

So you like intellectual conversations but that's not the case of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:16 PM
1

Plenty of average men get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:02 PM
2

Still bottom tier amongst celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:34 PM
3

Lame attempt at shaming women who are afraid of being pumped and dumped. Instead of blaming women who "withhold sex", blame men who fake interest in women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:35 AM
1

Sounds like a strawman. None of these men are actually popular with women. Visiting hookers can definitely ruin your image, remember Hugh Grant or Tiger Woods ? Also a lot of people mock DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:56 AM
1

Nope, they just settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:28 PM
2

When I was younger I was hit on by older men all the time, always thought it was creepy and I wasn't the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:05 PM
2

What about all the young women who complain about being hit on by older men ? Are they jealous and misandrist too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:58 PM
1

Just like sorority girls, insta thots and cheerleaders are more popular than the typical nerdy girl. It's more a matter of status than of being good or evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:44 PM
12

Some women don't like their jobs or aren't passionate with their career so they would rather stay at home. As for how hard it is, it all depends on the quality of the SAHM. Some SAHM are lazy and don't do much, others act like perfect soccer moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:28 AM
0

Pornography and gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:35 PM
2

It's irrelevant, Emma Watson may have hit the wall but she is still hotter than the average 20 years old, and it's the same for pretty much every female celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:51 PM
8

As someone who lost her virginity late at 26, I can confirm that being a virgin is a turn off for most men. The only men who value virginity are : virgin themselves, or tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:03 AM
6

He has ugly duckling syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:49 AM
6

The man I am talking looks like Lil Wayne without the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:42 AM
30

A lot of people confuse high value man and manwhore. I know a manwhore who is average looking and I know very attractive men who are LTR oriented. I do believe that attractive men have higher n-count than average, but they are not necessarily big manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:59 PM
1

They don't want to spend time with their spouse. They stay late at work and spend all their free time with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:52 PM
1

I was a kissless virgin until the age of 26 but I wasn't bitter nor angry. I just felt self-conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:50 PM
1

He/She doesn't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:18 AM
1

I suffer from hyperhidrosis aka excessive sweating because of that I tend to get bad BO easily. It affected my self-esteem and my social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:57 AM
1

Wanting financial security doesn't necessarily translate into targeting rich men, for most women it just mean financially stable (not broke, educated...). Also money isn't the only factor in their choice of partner which is why I said that most women aren't goldiggers. If money was the sole criteria most women could do better than their actual partners, after all there is no shortage of old or ugly rich dude who are willing to pay young women a lifestyle, it's just that women aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:39 AM
2

You talk of women as a bunch of goldiggers but that's not true at all, considering that the wage gap is closing down. Personally I don't care what consenting adults do in their free time but if you choose to be a sugar daddy that's on you, nobody force you to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:06 PM
1

You can still get your physical needs met via porn and masturbation. Also while it's true that it's more difficult for men to get casual sex, it's not reserved for Chad. Plenty of average guys have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:55 PM
4

I don't see the problem with it. My issue is when people set standards that they themselves don't meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:06 PM
1

According to Lady Nature, the 2nd one is the winner. That's what it means " to spread your genes".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:02 PM
1

Now, that's surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:12 AM
2

Probably because you're american, and they know how american dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:54 PM
3

I know the three countries well and in my experience US is good for hookups and France is better for LTR. All relationships in France start exclusive, you don't get to date around at the beggining of the relationship and there is no need to DTR. It's easier to meet people and get a boyfriend or a girlfriend in the US but the relationship is more superficial. Frenchmen are more open with their feeling and commit easily. That said, french people are much less likely to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 06:52 PM
1

I don't see the problem with educated and professionnal women wanting educated and professionnal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:30 AM
1

I don't see a lot of hate against either character. ImE, Howard is perceived as "adorkable" just like the rest of his crew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:50 AM
0

How ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:55 PM
1

No, it sounds like drama and there is something regressive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Except LTR aren't necessarily more egalitarian than marriage. So it doesn't matter whether you get married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:51 PM
2

What's the difference between feminine men and "soyboy" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:59 PM
4

Because a lot of women who claim to be "bi" aren't really bisexual, they are bicurious. They just want to try with women but they don't stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:03 AM
2

All the hoes I know have no problem getting LTR. ImE, it's the conservative women who strugle the most getting commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:57 AM
1

I remember watching that 600 ibs tv show and there was that guy who was extremely fat and had a girlfriend. I don't think that girl was sexually attracted to him (unless she had some weird fetishes) but she was supportive and kind. As long as they are happy, I don't see the problem with their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:04 AM
4

Ukraine is NOT an egalitarian country so all your argument falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:27 AM
1

My parents were stricter with me than with my older brother but they were more willing to spend money on me than on my brother. I had to do most of the chores. I had less freedom, I couldn't go out as much or date people even when I legally became an adult, that is until I turned 25 and now they pressure me HARD to get married and have kids . Ironically, it's where their education bit them in the ass cuz it turned me into some type of asocial nerd. My brother is more social and successful in dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:51 PM
0

Sorry :p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:24 PM
0

me (woman) based on face/pictures alone: - 1 : 8 -2 : 6 -3 : 8 - 4 : 6 - 5 : 5 - 6 : 6 - 7: looks underage * - 8: 7 - 9: 8 - 10: 5 - 11 : 4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:42 PM
2

0.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:00 PM
1

Like I explained in the post, there is attraction but not visceral attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:37 AM
1

There is a difference between attraction and visceral attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:34 AM
14

Only had sex twice in my life, it was when I was 26. It made me realize that sex was kinda overrated so I lost interest. 2 years dry spell. I also noticed that men don't want sex for the sake of it (or god forbid "intimacy"), they just want sex for the sake of validation. So nope, I am not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:17 AM
1

Most couple share expense nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:30 PM
1

what do you mean by "negociate" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:07 PM
1

I am not asking you in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:48 PM
2

Ppl want the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:57 PM
0

But did she treat him badly ? Was he unhappy during the mariage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:56 PM
1

But visceral attraction is not necessary to get sex and ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:54 PM
1

Online...as you can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:36 AM
1

Yes of course it's better if your partner is viscerally attracted to you, but isn't it delusional for a chubby man to expect his wife to be viscerally attracted to him ? Is a LTR worthless if it doesn't have visceral attraction ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:32 PM
1

Here is another classic " women have casual sex with Chads yada yada" rant. Firstly, why do men assume that all women have casual sex with Chads ? Secondly, in what way does having sex with Chad in the past impact the way you are perceived ? Do you think virginity makes women more attracted to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:09 PM
0

And yet you've been together for 20 years which is longer than plenty of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:22 PM
0

That thread is proof that men CAN'T handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 PM
2

"It’s the way women describe it. We know they ain’t dating no Brad Pitt just like men ain’t dating no Selena (not Gomez) but I can be just as turned on and lustful for another average homely woman as I can be for Scarlett Johansson." That's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:17 PM
1

I don't have a problem with it as long as it's not an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 PM
2

Ok. In what way does it disprove my point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:12 PM
9

Except commitment is not supposed to be a price to pay to get sex, but something that you are supposed to want for the sake of it. Believe it or not, plenty of 30+ men don't just want sex, they also want relationships. Men shouldn't get in LTR just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:40 AM
2

No they don't. Also, I don't see how being brutally honest will change anything. The result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:34 AM
2

I don't think they are more content, but they are less likely to be bitter/angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:54 PM
1

Some women just love to badmouth their ex and blame him for everything. Whenever I hear someone bashing his or her ex, I take it with a grain of salt. Also "abusive" is a trendy buzzword just like "toxic" or "unhealthy", or " narcissistic".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:08 PM
2

I think people who do have casual sex know the casual sex scene better, than those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:20 PM
3

I don't care about sympathy, just pointing that you are indeed a woman hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:26 AM
1

"despite me never stating this makes women objectively bad people." It does make women look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:38 PM
7

Flying to another country just to get laid is lame imo. Also, there is the risk of STD, and the fact that some sexpats go for underage prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:18 AM
1

0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:14 AM
1

I would be suspicious, if a guy I dated was too curious about my sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:51 PM
0

I am a woman and tbh, if it's you on the photo, you are far from being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:19 PM
1

Men use sex for validation and women know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:09 PM
2

I want a family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:23 PM
1

I don't respect guys who picks fights only to cry and get their ass beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:26 PM
1

I am average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:44 AM
14

Most women had casual sex at least once but very few engage in casual sex regurlaly. All the men I had casual sex with were average-looking. Looks isn't the only factor for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:24 AM
1

Women with daddy issues are more likely to be boy crazy. Also people reproduce the pattern of their parents. Single mothers are more likely to give birth to future single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:08 PM
1

Since when TRP-ers = successful with women ? ImE most of them are bitter assholes who aren't interested in relationships, and when they end up in one, they tend to be toxic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:04 AM
1

I agree about the selfish part, but not all kids without fathers are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:28 AM
4

Because they really want kids, but never found a decent guy to marry. So these women say fuck it I am gonna do this alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:29 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:42 PM
1

The equivalent should be "we can't blame men for rejecting women with emotional bagage". That said, there is a big gap between "emotional baggage" and mental illness or addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:50 PM
0

Nobody is forced to partake in the hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:08 PM
1

I don't blame him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:00 AM
9

Can't blame women for rejecting guys who are depressed and alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:31 PM
2

We can make the same argument about hot men. That said, most people are nice imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:23 PM
-1

Because it's a flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:28 PM
1

Damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:04 PM
1

In that case, humanity goes extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:12 PM
2

I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:27 PM
3

It's the college mentality. Don't force yourself, they are plenty of women who aren't into casual sex, even in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:20 PM
1

Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:28 AM
0

Yep, I don't care about marriage personnally. That said, if we have to do a ceremony and change names, may as well get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:26 AM
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I disagree. I made a thread a long time ago, and I asked men whether they preferred fucking plenty of ugly women or having LTR with a Stacey and all of them preferred the latter. Also, I don't think men love "variety", they just can't afford to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:41 AM
13

I don't see the problem with Libfem hoes, since they seem to be happy with their lives. Pickmeisha tend to be treated like shit, and Hopeless Romantic will be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:05 PM
2

Lost it at 26 in a ONS. I am a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:05 PM
1

So may I ask who is your waifu ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:02 PM
1

Having sex with someone attractive > having sex with someone unattractive So the girls have it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:29 AM
1

No, it's illegal to get a dna test outside of a court case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:43 AM
2

Most sluts I know are average, but not fat or ugly either. As for personnality, they aren't worse that the non slutty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:48 PM
3

It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:38 PM
4

Nothing wrong with it, it happens to women as well. The problem is when you bitch about the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:32 AM
1

Because people are more than their age. Also, plenty of attractive 28 years old, you are just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:23 PM
1

Plenty, especially in the late 20s- early 30 range. Even Chads settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:28 PM
1

That guy will be in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:32 PM
1

Not everything people do is related to biology. Biologically speaking, fucking around is pontless if you don't get kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:59 PM
2

I don't have a problem with men wanting to get laid, but if men really wanted to spread their genes, they would all settle down and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:01 PM
3

And yet plenty of "low value" women in relationships... so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:33 PM
1

I prefer meeting guys IRL. OLD is full of weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:32 PM
2

GIGS and Less incentives to settle down than ever before. Also people nowadays don't want to compromise and seek an ideal. Also men and women don't hate each other outside of internet fringe communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:03 PM
1

Only Staceys have plenty of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:05 PM
3

My parents never married but are still together, so I don't care. Marriage and commitment are 2 differents things. Also the main cause of "divorce rape" is child support which isn't tied to marriage but to kids. Alimony is rare and not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:42 PM
1

I don't care. Also sex work is not a threat for LTR/marriage. A lot of men who use sex work are married or in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:59 AM
5

I felt horny, he was there. Guys were average looking but they were social, and made me feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:57 PM
1

Yes. To me marriage is optional, it's not essential. Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:14 PM
1

Yep, Ghetto girls love ghetto guys but it doesn't mean that RP is true,in fact it's the opposite. One of the core tenets of RP is that all women are the same, when in reality, social class and race are huge factors in women's tastes in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:00 AM
1

Yep a friend of mine. We went on a few dates, it went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:25 PM
2

It reminds me of a conversation, I had with a guy who claimed that men and women can't really be friends, because all men want to fuck their female friends. I asked him whether he wanted to fuck Sally (his obese friend ) and he yelled no. I think when men talk about "women" on this sub, uncounsciously they meant women who are semi-attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:19 PM
1

Well it's true that my libido decrease when I am single. But overall, you can find happiness outside relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:17 AM
1

it means LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:51 AM
2

I dated friends. My actual boyfriend started as a friend. The friendzone is just what happens when you get rejected by a friend. But being friend with someone doesn't automatically disqualilfy you as a potential boyfriend. Some friends are boyfriend material, some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:40 AM
1

Which part of the manosphere isn't about sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:37 PM
1

The manosphere is all about getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:22 PM
2

It's their way of being nice. I think it's hurtful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:12 AM
1

Join a matrimonial agency or get a dating coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:09 PM
2

If you like women with no makeup, then why are you talking to a woman who wear heavy makeup ? They are plenty of women who don't wear makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:58 PM
-2

Declining birth rates is a huge problem in the long run. I think lack of birth control will eventually push people to readjust their sexual behaviour. No more hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:33 PM
-2

The question was how to increase the birth rate without taking away women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:36 PM
-3

According to scientists, there are 2 factors to low birth rates: sex education and access to contraception/abortion women's education Removing birth control, is a good way to increase birth rate without taking away "too much" of women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:56 PM
2

I know sexuality is power but I don't like people who overuse it. These women seem shallow, narcissistic and desperate for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:57 PM
8

Manliness and attractiveness are not necessairily correlated. A man can be manly and unnattractive and vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:06 PM
1

Want to show off their fit body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:53 PM
1

It's not reasonable, just understandable. I understand feeling sad being told by your partner that you aren't the best sex she ever had, but that doesn't mean the sex is bad and that the relationship is worthless. So yeah breaking up over that is dumb. It's also just a matter of ego, so yeah it's insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:52 PM
1

So at least you recognize that most TRP-ers resent women because they don't get laid. Self-improvement is great but not mandatory, plenty of unattractive people in relationships. As for preferences, how you phrase them matter a lot too. I noticed that men tend to be more obnoxious about their tastes, then get surprised when they get shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:24 AM
-1

The redpill basically states that women have their sexual goals and preferences... and resents women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:55 PM
1

You shouldn't base your self-worth on your relationship status. I know very attractive people who are single while all these people on My 600 Ib life are in LTR. The truth is that most people can get a partner if they aren't too picky. As for casual sex, it's more difficult, but manwhores aren't necessarily Chads, in fact, some of them are downright average-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:43 PM
2

Ugly man: Women don't respect me Translation: Women won't fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:59 AM
1

Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:59 AM
3

Nobody is loved unconditionnally. As for lack of empathy, it depends of your complaints, the reverse is also true though. It's not like men in this forum empathies with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:32 AM
1

BeCausE mEn Don'T cArE abOuT wOmeN's JoB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:31 AM
1

To illustrate, when it comes to compliments about appeareance, I don't want a partner who tell me I am beautiful everyday or go on superlatives (it's not sincere and I get embarassed easily) but I appreciate when he notice changes or is precise: for example, he says he likes my hair because I went to the haidresser etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:29 PM
1

Depends on how fat you are in the place. If you are obese, then losing weight makes a huge difference. As for putting muscles, the problem is that unless you are shirtless, the difference is not gonna obvious (except if you have a big dad bod in the first place).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:53 PM
2

They are tradcons but it's not ironic or a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:05 AM
2

I like when my partner show he cares about me, but he shouldn't overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:47 AM
2

I don't like ass-kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:34 AM
1

Yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:21 AM
2

Depends whether he is really funny or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:14 AM
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I would be worried about STDs. I do get retroactive jealousy but it's not really about the number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:05 PM
1

You don't have to free yourself from the notion of winner or loser but you can decide where you put the cursor. Some are happy with being average, some have delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:53 PM
1

FDS are not pick-mes , they are tradcons, being a tradcon doesn't automatically make you a pick-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:04 PM
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It's just proof that conservatism doesn't only hurt women but men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:22 PM
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TRP by far with AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:15 PM
2

Promiscuous people date each other all the time. Also plenty of women sleeping around for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:03 PM
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I don't think they raise their standards so much as the standards are different. Looks matters less for LTR but then they are also other factors: like status, personnality etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:43 PM
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madonna/whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:01 AM
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The average guy need to get off dating apps to increase his dating chances. You should try speed dating or a marriage agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:43 PM
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I am more affectionate with my female friends and they are some subjects, I am not comfortable talking with men like my period issues. That said, It's totally possible for men and women to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:42 AM
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People will have less kids which is problematic on the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:18 PM
3

I did approcah a guy directly and I was called low-value for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:07 AM
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I don't need a reason to be nice. I am nice to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:37 PM
2

I don't think dating straight men and gay men are the same things. However, I think being passive make women pickier and more critical. I remember they did an experiment with reversed gender roles, women being the assertive one and men being passive and they noted how the latter became pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:27 PM
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I actually go out of my way to think of shocking things to say to women just to see their reaction Examples ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:52 AM
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TRP'ers are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:18 PM
1

Stats show that Tinder matches rarely lead to dates, not talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:20 PM
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None of my male friends act like that, even the one I put on the friendzone don't do this. That's not friendship, that's simping. Also it says a lot about your taste in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:11 AM
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If you want a LTR, then it's a better approach. Most men agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:09 PM
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I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:24 PM
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It benefits people who genuinely like casual sex. I don't think it benefits men or women more, I know men who dislike casual sex and women who love it. That said, there is no obligation to partake into the hookup culture, if you don't like it, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:11 PM
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Educated women wanting educated men is not entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:42 PM
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Women who have sex early to manipulate men are usually shooting themselves in the foot. But I agree that the speed at which a woman have sex with a man, is not a good indicator of her level of attraction. I had casual sex with guys I genuinely found "meh".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:36 PM
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I studied law in France and it actually is more subtle than that. The law doesn't explicitely says that spouse should have sex but that they should share a communal life. Sex duty is actually an interpretation by the judge. Refusing sex to your spouse can be considered a fault if it leads to years of deadbedroom, however marital rape is also crime. Also, if your spouse treat you like shit, you should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:17 PM
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The best way to leave the friendzone is to confess your feelings. Either she accepts you as a boyfriend and it's great, either she rejects you and it sucks, but at least you can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:33 PM
2

Sleep around then settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:14 PM
1

Levi is not cruel, mean and distant, just a stoic badass. He is actually not different from Mikasa who is very popular with the male readers. Gojo Satoru and Geto Suguru from JJK. Commodore Norrington from Pirates of Caribbean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:06 AM
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I want kids, don't care about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:38 AM
2

Nope, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:47 PM
1

Bars, clubs are the best options imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:31 AM
7

Getting a boyfriend is not as easy as men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:30 AM
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I was a tomboy when I was young and guys didn't find me attractive. Men prefer feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:13 PM
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People like to complain for the sake of it, I don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:25 PM
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It's cultural. Traditionnally, men had the ressources so they were the one who paid for sex. The market has just started to open up to female clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:29 AM
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There is no such thing as "withholding sex" because people arent't owed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:21 AM
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Not my cup of tea but I am not against it. People who like Casual sex should be free to partake in it and those who don't, can just avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:04 AM
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Source ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:26 AM
4

It's about anal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:05 AM
2

He wasn't competing with 6'2 men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:21 PM
4

Yet, a lot of incels claim that they would date anyone. That said, they can totally get a woman in their league .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:11 PM
1

Brad Pitt, David Beckham, Will Smith, Prince Harry, Barack Obama, Hugh Jackman, etc... All relationship material, all very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:37 PM
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Most of these guys could probably get a girlfriend if they put an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:38 PM
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He wasn't short but he was obsessed with blond Staceys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:33 PM
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>Men only get fat and turn to porn/video games because they tried with women many times and failed. Men don't start out as bitter and woman-hating, they become that through repeated bad experiences. Eventually a man fails every time and decides it's best to not bother. That's when he turns to porn and video games. Chads don't turn to those things because they never had to.< LOL. Most of them aren't even trying. They just sit back and complain about not getting any. Also they want to talk about d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:38 PM
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They are all somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:56 PM
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Black people have different standards on what they find attractive, they don't obsess over skinny women like white people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:53 PM
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It's actually true in many western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:33 PM
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That's a reach lol. Watching "the Bachelor" doesn't mean you are obsessed with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:15 PM
1

Do you have thwarted wolrdview ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:30 PM
1

This guy isn't even part of the incel community but his photo is used as a incel meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:27 PM
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It is really just a show. I don't even see the point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:14 PM
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He doesn't have to imply anything, i can tell a guy is sexually unsuccesful (even when he is posing as a "Chad") just with the BS he post. Guys with little to no experience tend to have thwarted worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:15 PM
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I am fine and I have no regret lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:46 PM
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One day, I had enough being a kissless virgin so I worked on my social skill and downloaded an OLD app , even though I hate OLD. I approach and I get approached. Lost my virginity on a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:22 PM
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>Most men aren't complaining that they can't get their dick wet They are totally complaining about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:55 PM
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I lost my virginity at 25. So I guess I am qualified to answer. The reasons: I don't go out much and I am a bit shy so I don't have a lot of opportunity to meet guys. I used to live with my strict parents too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:46 PM
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Black men have the highest n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:29 PM
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I don't think telling a woman htat she is beautiful is bad advice, though giving flowers is outdated. Both men and women can give bad advice ime, saying that all women give bad advice is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:14 PM
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I want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:11 AM
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It's not really drug and alcohol but the whole party/clubbing aspect that is underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:45 AM
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Whether I give immediate sex or not, has little to do with the guy's level attractiveness. I had casual sex with with men I found average and had made hot men wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:00 AM
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No "Husband masterial" is a guy who has it all whether it's looks, status and personnality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:17 PM
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This is something I noticed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:58 PM
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Nope, because everyone want commitment. Even chads wants to settle down eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:14 PM
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Is that a bad thing though ? At least you had a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:38 PM
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9.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:54 AM
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Ime non-black men don't find black women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:48 AM
3

The article actually pointed out the importance of taking good photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:47 AM
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"You think you are a nice guy but the truth is that you are just a loser." Lily Miran in Hard times That quote sums it up perfectly. For some reason, people confuse being a nice guy and being a loser aka some weak , ugly, nerdy guy at the bottom of the social pole that women find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:39 AM
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So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:09 AM
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I am a woman and I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:17 PM
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Men need to take care of their kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:14 AM
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I choose the manwhore considering he has no STD, virgin men tend to be bitter incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:00 AM
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I don't get you point, back in the day age gaps were the norm, nowadays it's the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:48 PM
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Feminism has reduced the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:15 PM
1

All addictions are mainly a concern for the addicts themselves, not for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:04 PM
1

People spending money on pointless stuff just because they are bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:51 PM
2

Do you know the concept of entertainment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:08 PM
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Firstly, why do people assume that men paying for sex work are desperate and lonely ? Secondly, men aren't getting exploited, manipulated or whatever, they are just paying for a service.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:44 PM
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RP-ers are wanabees manwhores with tradcons values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:37 PM
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I don't see in what way it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:25 PM
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ImE most women don't dress overly sexy or wear too much makeup unless they are in a nightclub or on instagram. Also I don't see the problem with being sexy, women like to be hot, and men like hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:38 PM
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Everyone want to be desired but some men are neurotic about it. Because a woman doesn't have sex with you on first date doesn't mean she is not into you. Because she supposedly had sex with Chad in the past, doesn't mean she doesn't find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:15 PM
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"the next" girls What do you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:39 PM
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She shouldn't have said that. Leave immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:24 PM
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But that's not what empathy is. Sex =/= empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:32 PM
2

I read that book in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:22 PM
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The problem is that most people are average looking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:25 AM
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I am a woman who lost her virginity late and this part is actually true "Among young adults, 1 in 20 is a virgin. Virgins do not seem to have gone through the usual experimentations of adolescence, are less socially driven and reported more health challenges."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:16 PM
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>For evidence, I submit that threesomes and other polygamist sex acts are some of the most common "fetishes" men have. Except most men don't actively pursue threesome because most men are tradcons. Also manwhores =/= Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:19 PM
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That's not your parents' jobs. Nobody taught your parents how to get laid either. That said, helicopter parenting do more damages than the supposed "lies" your parents tell you. Also men raised by single moms are more succesful with girls imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:49 PM
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Differents Apps give different results, and tinder is a big joke. That said you are better off approaching women IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:07 AM
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We are living longer than ever and in better health My mom was over 40 when i was born and she still has a lot of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:37 AM
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A long time ago I have made a thread and asked men to choose between a LTR with a Stacey and a lot of casual sex with Beckies and most of them choose the former. I don't see hot men dumpster dive, average manwhore do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:58 PM
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The problem is not men being unattractive, it's women being passive. A woman not getting hit on is ugly, the reverse is not true for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:48 PM
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Anyone with an attractive partner has to deal with orbiters. It's not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:09 PM
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Never saw an incel that wasn't a hater. Also just to be clear: virgin male =/= incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:46 PM
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Ime Incels gets more hate from other men , than from women. Also incels hate women, so women have no reason to feel sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:37 PM
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Men who fuck a lot of uggos aren't Chads, just manhwores. I know a low N Chad, he only fucks Staceys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:16 PM
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I agree and it's due to social expectations. Men are encouraged to take on a active role while women are supposed to remain passive. Women who approach men are seen as desperate or slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:55 PM
2

Dating in Europe feels more organic while in the US it's more structured and competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:58 PM
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Women can master the "Thicc" look. Historically, beautiful women were a bit on the chubby side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:20 AM
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Except nobody tells me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:04 PM
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As a woman I disagree. Friendship is not about using each other, it's about having fun together. I have plenty of male friends who don't find me attractive, but it's fine, because we have fun. Men and women can enjoy each other's presence without sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:51 PM
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It's because they are immature. They remind me of a bunch of teenagers who see sex as this Holy Grail, and believe it's the only thing worth pursuing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:12 PM
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I don't care because I am not insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:59 AM
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Plenty of average guys cheat and are abusive. It's not just Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:20 PM
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Except it's MEN who push this narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:46 PM
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Your value as a man is more than your n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:59 PM
1

dating =/= traditionnal marriage. People marry less, but they still date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:41 PM
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I prefer american's culture because even though it's shallow, it's also friendlier. It's difficult to make new friends in Europe, because ppl tend to stick to their old group of friends and don't expand. In terms of looks, americans tend to be on the extremes end (very attractive or ugly) while Europeans tend to be in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:48 PM
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Nope. I want to share the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:08 PM
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You are free to hit your wild phase whenever you want. But the idea that only chad can have plenty of sex in college is not true. I will add that most men could have plenty of casual sex if they had good social skills and a rich social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:46 AM
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Black women aren't more honest, they are more ghetto. Ghetto tastes and behaviours. Differents types of girl, different behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:39 PM
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Different types of attractiveness and the "pretty boy" appeal is real. Look at young Leonardo Di Caprio or Orlando Bloom, Tom Holland, Zac Efron etc. they have plenty of fangirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:53 PM
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I can't believe it. A man supporting FDS ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:04 PM
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A BMI of 16 is underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:11 PM
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Firslty, VS' target audience is women not men. Secondly, that's the job market for you, you adapt or you die. Also the modelling world is harsh, most models don't have long careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:02 PM
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I agree about the burden of performance not so much on the pregnancy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:46 PM
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They sleep with older men. Also women are more socially active than men, even in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:05 PM
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Attractiveness =/= N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:17 PM
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Both men and women are superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:28 PM
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I thught it was the reverse. Tomboys are popular, the reverse not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:42 PM
1

Waiting one month is enough to weed out most fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:25 PM
1

You are free to not get married if you don't want to. But you can avoid getting "scammed " by signing a prenup or choosing a rich partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:41 PM
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Mostly Nurture. As for the very popular people, they are rarely just social, they have other qualities (looks, athleticism, smart, money...) which put them above the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:05 PM
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What social contract are you talking about ? Both men and women are hedonistic, it's just that women are judged more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:43 PM
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They are zillions example of men leaving their wife when they realized they could do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:35 PM
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I don't believe in hypergamy because most people date and marry in their own league, that's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:29 PM
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Nope it's because their gender is the trait that stand out the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:47 PM
2

It's not immoral to sleep around and then settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:54 AM
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Comedians joke about their own experience and who they are because it's easy. So Women will joke about their genders all these issues, black comedians will joke about being blacks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:25 AM
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I mostly had male friends in primary and middle school. I got a lot contempt because of it but I never saw the problem. Because a woman has male friends doesn't necessarily mean, that she dislikes women or has some kind of hidden agenda. Personnally, it was because I was a tomboy and I had more in common with boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:53 PM
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They go to Becky because they can't have Stacey. Yes, they are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:50 PM
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I am french and I noticed that the US put more emphasis on the hook-up culture and casual sex. Also the americans tend to be commitmentphobic. US is great for casual sex but France is better for LTR imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:01 PM
1

That's because engineers have Nothing to offer beside their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:58 PM
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The contrast between the fairytales and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:33 PM
1

People tend to match in everyway including personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:07 PM
1

They settle. Or maybe there is more to relationship than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:05 PM
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Nope. All self respecting men who want to avoid infidelity and cuckoldry will want a low n-count woman. Low n-count =/= virgin. Yeah, however the hotter the girl (without makeup), the less likely she is to be promiscuous. They aren't promiscuous but they aren't virgins either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:54 AM
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I am a woman who lost her viriginity late, and I can tell you that my virginity would repel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:46 AM
2

Losing weight is simple, but difficult. It's not just a matter of "will". I know people who put a lot of effort into losing their weight; but are still fat. Also I don't like the whole "unhealthy" excuse to treat fat people badly because everyone knows it's not true.Fat people are shamed because they Don't fit the beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:50 PM
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I think it's both empowering and sexist. It's sexist, because beauty is a female imperative and it's empowering because beauty is power. Historically, the only way for women to climb the ladder was to use her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:29 PM
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Only tradcons and incels want a virgin modest woman.Most men want someone in the middle (not too slutty, not virgin). Also the hotter the girl, the less they care about her being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:06 PM
2

As long as my partner pulls his own weight, I Don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:00 AM
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It depends. My parents never got married and they are still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 08:52 PM
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I don't mind a guy who earns less but I want a guy with a job (no SAHP for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:43 PM
0

I see that mostly with fictional characters, who are usually white, physically attractive and not-so-bad (or redeemable). See Bakugo Katsuki, Kylo Ren, Sasuke Uchiha, Draco Malfoy, Jack Sparrow, Vegeta, etc. Notice how these characters are also popular with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:59 PM
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You are free to date whoever you want, as long as it's legal. That said if the young women don't have kids yet, they might want kids later, and it can creates drama if the relationship is serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:31 AM
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Women enjoy studying much more than men and they are more risk-averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:24 PM
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I know people are gonna downvote me, but I think it's quite common. I know a lot of men who could have moderate success with women, if they put in more effort. Anot no you Don't have to be 6'7 or white.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:20 AM
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just Lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:39 PM
2

I Don't think the average guy gets hit on often if ever, unless he is good looking. That doesn't mean that most guys are unattractive, it's just the gender roles, men are the pursuers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:31 PM
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It's common actually. A lot of men here think that if you aren't Chad, then you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:15 PM
2

Have you heard of the "starter wife" or "a man is as faithful as his options" expressions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:46 PM
1

What do you expect from people beside of a thank you ? I am nice and a "thank you" is enough to makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:18 PM
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People confuse being married and being in a relationship. People still have relationships and kids but marriage has become unecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:29 PM
1

It's understandable but not really valid. Low value people attract low value mates. Expecting Chad/Stacey to be attracted to you, when you were a fat loser is ludicrous. The truth is that people don't necessarily want people who want them at their worst. Many times I have seen people leave their partner once they realize that now they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:17 PM
15

Befriending someone who is more succesful than you, can make you jealous. Gender is irrelevant. How about you befriend a woman/man who is like you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:30 PM
1

Extreme generalities/worldviews. "All men/women are bad." "Society lied to me…"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:45 PM
1

Women always prefer men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:55 PM
1

GIGS: Grass Is Greener Syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 07:31 PM
1

So you had GIGS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 07:17 PM
1

The Cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:22 PM
5

No No. In fact, I think I dodged a bullet, high schoolers can be stupid and cruel. I enjoyed my friends group and I miss the times where the social pressure to have a boyfriend wasn't so big. 27 F.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:08 AM
1

How do they know it's pointless if they don't try in the first place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:21 PM
1

Anyone who is over 10, know that boys who are good looking and outgoing are more popular with girls. The Truth is that there is no secret about sex and dating. The problem is that a lot of boys in HS aren't putting any real effort into trying to get laid, they are too busy being nerdy and playing video games. It's only when they are 20 or something, that they get get into a "virgin crisis", and that they start changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:14 PM
1

I do take it slow and I know a lot of people who do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:04 PM
2

You're renforcing my point. The problem is not that women aren't interesting enough, it's just that men choose with their dicks. Also I find it convenient that men notice a woman's personality only after they had sex, then they wonder why they get called a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:26 PM
6

Men who pump and dump only care about looks in the first place. It's not that the women they see are uninteresting, it's just that they Don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:47 AM
5

I agree about the victim complex. I Don't think the media lie to them though, most movies have attractive male lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:52 PM
2

I Don't care about strength. Tall people just look better (aesthetic).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:34 PM
1

I Don't even have Guy A, let alone Guy B.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:26 PM
3

It's the aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:23 PM
2

Are these guys just hallucinating? They are. Most women set a pretty low bar for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:38 PM
2

I said a long time ago in another thread, that the main problem when it comes to dating is not that women are picky or whatever, it's that they are passive. Society discourages women to be proactive in their love/sex lives and it hurts both genders. That said, the type of women you are describing in your post seems to be very high maintenance. Most women aren't expecting men to be romantic or be mysterious, or impress them in any way, and most men aren't even trying to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:28 PM
1

Virgin women are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:38 PM
2

Tradcon women are more feminine but they are also more materialistic. Also a thread on PPD actually complimenting american women !? Never thought I would see the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:12 PM
5

A 30 year old woman who wants something serious has no time to waste with a 20 years old. Also most women want a man who is genuinely attracted to them, they aren't into the sugar mommas BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:31 AM
3

They date older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:57 PM
9

I think Misogyny is much more common than Misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:31 AM
1

Yes. But mutualizing the costs make it cheaper for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 06:02 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:42 PM
2

The country needs more babies. I think the US should rethink their healthcare system as a whole, not just for pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:40 PM
1

It's called solidarity. Also the country needs more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:32 PM
3

More taxes to pay for the medical fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 05:01 PM
3

The government / state should pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:56 PM
1

Female. Dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:01 AM
3

RedPillers don't like anything that challenge their worldview. By the way, Mark Zuckerberg was already with Priscilla Chan before he got rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:58 AM
8

Giving Birth should be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:38 AM
4

Most women aren't hot though. It's actually called "the Halo effect" or "pretty privilege" and it also benefits hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:42 PM
2

I am an ugly beta girl and I read gay fanfics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:59 PM
1

Divorced men with kids have more baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:22 PM
3

Except MGTOW is full of ressentful misogynistic men and misogyny has become inherent of the movement. It's the same with INCELS, the community was actually created by a woman and it was just a space where people could talk about their inexistent dating lives, then it turned into a misogynistic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:58 PM
-1

The ultimate female fantasy is to be with a high value men. The rest is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 07:37 PM
5

I bet you’ve also seen those girls who are average-looking but can easily get hot guys to commit. Nope, never seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:39 PM
2

You think their low body count is related to the fail of your marriage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:07 PM
3

I am a low n-count and I prefer men with a low n-count. A high ncount man would make me feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:58 PM
3

Differents types of relationships. One is casual sex, other is LTR. When you date someone seriously, you are supposed to take things slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:16 PM
1

Money or low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:51 PM
1

And what point was he making exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:20 AM
3

Both genders are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:03 PM
9

the straight dating market is much more conservative than the gay market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:17 PM
8

It's not that women have ridiculously high standards, it's just that they are less interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:42 PM
1

I don't have a lot of experience so I don't mind dating a male virgin. That said, it's not hypocrite to dislike the concept of virginity and not want to date a virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:22 PM
8

They are physically stronger and are seen as more capable. Traditionally, they are the breadwinners and the family leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:49 PM
11

"Women and children first" is a result of "with great power comes great responsabilities" not of men being seen as more disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:45 PM
1

A woman who prefers to go Dutch because it’s unfair to men to pay for dates with relative strangers for nothing in return is labeled a pick me. That's not defintion of a pick-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:28 AM
6

Men watch porn because it's easily available not because women reject them. Also, the average woman doesn't give a fuck about men watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:15 PM
1

But most people who are single at that age used to be in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:03 PM
4

So you recognize that being single at 28-32 doesn't necessarily make you a leftover. Also, I disagree with you, most women who are single at that age aren't CC riders or single moms. People who settle in college aren't necessarily high-value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:01 AM
3

So you're saying these guys who hate on leftovers women, are leftovers themselves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:55 PM
2

what does "dregs" mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:18 PM
1

"When not attached to the fake lie detector, the male students tended to add one more partner to their sexual history, while the women tended to subtract one." It's not enough to make the self-reported studies worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:14 PM
4

Women are supposed to take a passive role in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:23 AM
3

Black men can get away with being bald imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:49 PM
2

Women prefer men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:25 AM
1

Key word is "attractive". Tbh physical attractiveness is what usually separate the friendzone from boyfriend/girlfriend material. But I am pretty sure all men have female friends they Don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:48 PM
1

Tl;dr.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:12 PM
1

Older men are likelier to be "fat slobs" tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:05 PM
3

That movie was filmed in the Middle Ages. Back then, friends of the opposite sex was seen as suspicious and exotic but nowadays it's Nothing special. Also most people are easy to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:44 PM
2

Friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:04 PM
12

John shaming is everywhere, to different degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:58 PM
2

They have a madonna/whore comples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:03 PM
1

I have been in the friendzone before and it's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:07 AM
1

I am a women who is flakey but it's not mean-spirited, I just get cold feets very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:13 PM
2

Hypergamy is present in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:25 AM
1

I Don't know ANYONE who brag about their partner being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:11 AM
2

Success is inherentely attractive to me, but I value looks and social skills much more. The examples you picked either are too old/ugly or too socially retarded . That said, succesful nerdy men are less likely to get "screwed over", they get divorced less than policians, athletes, and artists..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:33 PM
1

Most women have less than 10 partners though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:31 AM
1

People need to understand that when you enter a LTR, waiting for sex is part of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:25 AM
9

Befriending Chad will have the opposite effect, you will remain in Chad's shadow. You should Watch the DUFF movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:15 PM
3

I have a chad friend. Extremely good looking and social.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:58 PM
2

I Don't think a ho/slut phase is necessary but settling down with your first is a bad idea. It's true for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 10:33 PM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:00 AM
1

gross is like immoral on a lesser scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:00 AM
3

No shaming is based on moral. Eating your booger s in public might not be grave enough to be "immoral" but It's still gross. There is no reason for sleeping around to be gross only for women. Also you can find promiscuous women unattractive, without shaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:53 AM
1

None of what you say justiify slut shaming. Shaming is based on morals, not on difficulty level. If sleeping around is wrong , then It's wrong for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:17 AM
2

Nope, still average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:18 PM
1

Nope, he is average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:06 PM
1

I Don't want to get married and a "commitment ceremony" sounds like marriage without the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:01 PM
0

As an unattractive/plain woman, I enjoy being invisible.Also being ugly is better to have genuine friendship with others: women Don't see me as a threat, men Don't want to secretely bang me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:38 PM
1

To me being respectful and kind is not even a dating advice but basic human decency. Like I said earlier, people shouldn't go to their parents for dating advices, that's dumb. But there is nothing wrong with being respectful and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:40 PM
1

Well, you can be assertive and kind and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:32 PM
-1

In both genders, attractive people are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:13 PM
5

I Don't see the point of this whining. People who are less attractive have to put in more effort. It's true for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:36 PM
1

In what way does it contradict my point ? The problem is not being kind, It's being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:40 PM
3

It doesn't. You can be nice and set boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:22 PM
2

the problem is that you can't force a woman to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:27 PM
11

Parents give bad dating advice in general. However being kind and respectful doesn't make you a pushover. It sounds like you are trying to blame your mother for your flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:20 AM
1

I think It's the reverse. All promiscuous men I know prefer promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:05 AM
6

Pro-choice. Women who abort usually have good reasons to do so:either they are too young, either they are too poor, or maybe It's because the dad doesn't want it etc. i think that abortion is much better than raising a kids in bad conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:26 AM
2

Plenty of rich men love gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:55 PM
2

I have had friends of both sexes, all platonic. I Don't respect male "friends" who try to get in my pants. The only time, a male friend proposed me this type of FwB arrangement, he dropped off my friends' list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:08 PM
1

It's just ONE advice. As a woman, I Don't think that the poster was in the wrong (except for sniffing her panties, that's gross). His wife should visit a sexologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:47 PM
1

I Don't have a problem with sex toys but sex is more than PIV. Also ED is curable and size issues, unless It's a micro penis, I Don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:18 PM
3

They like fat women: https://www.nytimes.com/2001/02/12/world/maradi-journal-on-the-scale-of-beauty-weight-weighs-heavily.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:59 PM
1

Long hair is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:40 PM
3

African men like fat women, not necessarily obese, but definetely overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:26 PM
1

Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:43 PM
1

Pick-mes and not-like-the-other-girls types are different. Pick-mes are women who will do anything to attract or keep a guy. They are enabler and doormat . See Sakura from Naruto is a pickme (weeb reference I know). Not-like-the-other-girls are women who reject feminity and think they are special. They aren't necessarily like that to attract men though. Cool girls TM are girls who pretend to be sexually adventurous, independent and fine with a NSA Relationship but actually are romantic deep down…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:56 PM
2

A high N count woman is by definition promiscuous. That said, there is nothing wrong with sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:17 PM
8

I think there is hypocrisy in both genders. That said, hypergamy in the west is really overrated. Women aren't really marrying up anymore, people stay within their own social class. I will even add that there is a trend of high corporate women marrying artist types men. Women who are looking for hypermasculine men or daddies tend to be broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:15 PM
-1

Women like this are called pickmesha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:16 PM
67

They don't want traditional masculinity, they want the best of both world. Men who bitch the most about wanting submissive women, Don't have much to offer financially speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:33 AM
1

From what I've seen people in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:28 AM
4

Casual sex doesn't cure loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:56 PM
2

Sounds like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:52 PM
3

You can be sexually attractive and be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:24 PM
6

The majority of women are already hooking up with Alpha(bad boys, assholes, criminals) Lol no they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:53 PM
1

Imo both suck and I never understood parents' obsession with their daughter getting pregnant. Like you are worried about that, and not about your son doing drugs or becoming a delinquent or Something ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:50 PM
1

More protective and strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:32 PM
2

That's why I don't believe in opposite attract… if there is no common ground, it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:00 PM
2

Parents are more controlling of their daughter than of their son.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:39 PM
2

I Don't feel threatened by TRP, I just think It's misogynistic. TRP attracts bitter men with a severe madonna/whore complex who goes from pedestalizing women to bashing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:33 PM
1

Most people into BDSM aren't very creative, they just follow gender roles but in more extreme fashion. Most female in BDSM are sub, and most men are dom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:44 PM
3

What is a macho suit bro ? I just disagree with the idea that women marry educated men for comfort while secretely lusting for ghetto men. I would take the pasty white dude over the gangsta any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:00 AM
3

I grew up partially in the ghetto and It's something I have noticed as well. Ghetto has a worse influence on boys than on girls. Girls are more likely to climb the ladder and leave the Hood than boys. Macho culture turns men into losers. I know men here hate feminism and their terms, but the notion of "toxic masculinity" applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:01 PM
7

I Don't know about Moody but Atlas has ghetto tastes, her tastes aren't representative of the average woman. Most women Don't find civilized men repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:58 PM
2

Men aren't desperate to get married and start a family. Though they defintely choose quantity over quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 12:38 AM
1

It depends on the person. If they enjoy it and protect themselves, then I Don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 10:25 PM
1

You are unlucky. Your standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:47 AM
2

As a woman, I disagree. I think some women just have a madonna/whore complex. A woman who just want some dick will call the resident manwhore not the tradcon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:31 PM
1

Promiscuity,risk taking behaviour, also it makes sense that men who are not Relationship oriented have more casual sex in compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:55 PM
1

Jerks having more casual sex doesn't mean that they are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:36 PM
1

The most important life Lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:21 PM
1

Women are not unhappy they are just whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:36 AM
1

Yes, Success is inherentely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:27 AM
-2

It's just a case of people acting like manchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:14 AM
1

I Don't see "Being respectful and nice to women" thrown around as a dating advice tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:16 AM
8

Yes If It's an open Relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:41 PM
2

Nope. Being a stepparent sucks, It's a shit deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:31 PM
1

Traditionally, It's women who have more control which is why they don't pay for sex. Also people are still forming families.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:21 PM
1

I am 100% pro-choice. I also think women who abort are much more responsible than the ones who raise their kids in miserable conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:49 PM
1

Yes. Unless you are very attractive physically, making friends of the opposite gender is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:49 PM
3

Two things: - Hippy culture is retarded - Status makes men more attractive => Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:14 PM
16

Not my experience. I am plain and never had any problem making guys wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:03 PM
3

Women do find Young men hot, they Don't want to feel like a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:13 AM
2

I don't think the whole being friends first is a bad strategy, a lot of people date in their friends circle. However there needs to be a minimum of attraction (escalation is not a absolute necessity tho), and there is no guarantee. The problem with nice guys TM is that there are sore losers. They think being nice entitles them to sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:08 AM
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