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Nice! If you you could attach a theme to it, what would it be?
/r/MenSupportMen15/12/21 01:18 AM
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I really like this painting! The color composition and blending is great. Is this an old one, or did you just make it?
/r/MenSupportMen18/10/21 03:44 AM
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It's up to your interpretation, sort of like an ink blot test.
/r/MenSupportMen15/10/21 05:21 PM
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Congratulations!! I hope you get the job!
/r/MenSupportMen11/09/21 01:49 AM
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Here's a resource on learning how to run a soup kitchen. You might find it helpful: http://www.startasoupkitchen.org/pdf/mission-possible.pdf
/r/MenSupportMen28/08/21 11:45 PM
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It sounds a little bit like you're going through an emotional malaise, partly because all these problems, many of which aren't necessarily connected, are being lumped together in your mind. Do you think you can try approaching one of them at a time? I only say this because, as someone who's experienced it, it's much easier to be disappointed in yourself if you feel encircled by your personal weaknesses. Could you, for example, buy certain less expensive foods you like well in advance so that you…
/r/MenSupportMen28/08/21 11:37 PM
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My 19 year old self felt pretty similar to what you've described here. If I had the chance to meet him, I would tell him to be patient with himself. Here's a favorite quote of mine from the poet David Whyte on loneliness, one that I'm still trying to live by even now: "It's interesting to think of aloneness, even loneliness, as a doorway to becoming - quite often a difficult and vulnerable doorway, and one you don't want to go through, but one that's simplifying our life and bringing us down to …
/r/MenSupportMen28/08/21 10:43 PM
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Mini poodle. I’ve been talking with a German lady who breeds them professionally.
/r/MenSupportMen21/08/21 02:48 PM
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I will share pics with the sub once I get him/her.
/r/MenSupportMen21/08/21 04:15 AM
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Dude, I'm going to be getting a dog soon.
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/21 10:06 PM
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I don't think I'm smart enough or experienced enough to answer this question. In fact, I've found that a lot of what being a man is is faking it 'til you make it. Like I know I am a man, but if I break it down, none of the single components that make me a man are good enough in and of themselves. If manliness is a cake, I have no idea what the flour is. And being confused about this is totally fine, because society, and its standards, are changing at a disorienting pace, and nobody is sure where…
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/21 08:43 PM
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All around, it's been a better week than usual. I got to finally watch Evangelion 3.0+1.0 after almost a decade of waiting and a beta for Back 4 Blood, basically Left 4 Dead 3, was awesome to play. "Chronicle", a great movie about friendship and superpowers is also getting a sequel. So many great things from the past coming back unexpectedly.
/r/MenSupportMen14/08/21 09:41 PM
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Hey, thanks for reaching out here! If it's okay to ask, what can we talk to you about that will help you feel less alone and potentially ease your anxiety, even if a bit? You can DM me if you only want to talk in private.
/r/MenSupportMen14/08/21 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the update! Mine should be ready in a day or two.
/r/MenSupportMen14/08/21 09:27 PM
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I’ll add that, for those that can’t afford to buy board games, tabletop simulator on steam has a bunch of good games that can be played with online friends.
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/21 04:50 PM
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Just this week, I was out for a walk and a man I passed by complimented my hair. It felt really nice to get that compliment.
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/21 06:21 PM
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Congratulations on getting into grad school, and for not letting your previous difficulties with school stop you from trying again. I've been out of grad school for a couple years now, and I think the best social experience I had during that time was taking a fencing class at my school's athletic center. Hopefully you'll be able to connect with others doing something you enjoy athletically as well while you're there. And while you are doing a great thing in supporting your partner as well, make …
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/21 03:49 PM
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Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for being supportive of the art challenge idea. It's extremely difficult to find genuinely healthy spaces for men online these days. Helping run the art challenge gives me something to do, which is good for my own MH since there isn't a whole lot of anything else to do where I live at this point in time. I search on meetup for events locally, but I haven't seen a single event that is in-person so far. People are just that scarred from recent months I suppose.
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 10:43 PM
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Hey! Thanks for submitting for the monthly challenge. I really like what you've written. If it's okay to ask, what's been keeping you from connecting with your friends recently?
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 10:33 PM
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Thanks for contributing to the monthly challenge! There's no need to worry about sticking to the theme too much, as the point is for it let you express whatever internally responds to it. It sounds like you've been dealing with this burden for quiet a long time, which makes you a strong person but equally deserving of whatever mental healthcare services you can access where you live. I hope to see more of you on the subreddit in the future. Stay strong!
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 10:15 PM
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Sounds like a good idea. Thanks!
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 12:03 AM
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Thanks for replying. I didn’t know only two stickies were allowed, but I see you linked it in the welcome post. Thanks for that! As for the event post, it could work to keep it one post, but the major limitation would be visibility since people submitting images would need to link via imigur, which could be a barrier to participation. If you’d like, we can try the first month containing it to a single thread and see how it works out.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 11:35 PM
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Thanks for doing this. To get us started, it would help if u/a-man-from-earth could pin this thread for greater visibility to newcomers. We could discuss a new theme first week each month and update the theme in the pinned post. And, to answer u/Algoresball, I think it would be fine to just submit your own post with something in the title like "ART EXPRESSION:" followed by whatever you've titled it. u/peanutbutterjams, do you mind adding this rule to your post?
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 09:14 PM
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That’s a good point. I’m sure we can call it something else like art expression.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 05:58 PM
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This is an amazing poem, dude! It's full of fantastic descriptors, and I like that it mixes the emotional, like the sense of gratitude communicated, with the ordinary, like a dentist appointment. Going to the dentist is strange for me too these days. It used to be "You're clean as a whistle, see you in 6 months", but now it's become "well, we'll need you to come in every 3 months just to make sure what's going on doesn't become much worse." Seeing those x-rays of my teeth really reminds of my mo…
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 09:37 PM
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A lot of good ideas right here 👆. I’ve found for myself that art of any kind requires people exercise a level of self awareness and mindfulness that normal conversation doesn’t usually facilitate. I’d like to hear your poetry about your tooth and any others you’ve written.
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 04:42 PM
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Sure thing, I’ll start us off with some art therapy and see where is goes. Thanks!
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 04:32 PM
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