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He deleted my comment that was slightly not on the same page as him. I don't like the way he talks with his guests. He seems uninterested in what they have to say. It's subtle, but if the host is not excited, then the listeners won't be excited too. He's such a great alpha Entrepreneur, but he spends so much time to get YouTube spare change, hustle money? Yeah right. There's some good advice on his channel, I like some guests, but he is milking this topic for profit, like many other YouTubers no…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 11:39 PM
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Woah, you digged this old thread ;) Anyway, the idea is to have fun / adventure / doing interesting things instead of just "hunting". Spending Friday night just punishing yourself with "hunting" and rejections is a bad idea. The goal is to be social, to gather your friends (inviting them is also leading), planning some interesting stuff (there's a lot of things happening in bigger cities, choose something that vibes with YOU). Then when you approach a girl, you in fact are not seducing, you are …
/r/seduction07/05/19 10:21 AM
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For me it ruins the sexy vibe if a girl breaks down and gets out with her insecurities. But if you play them hard, most girls break and let loose. I really like when a girl plays too, keeps the illusion/facade, it's rare, because it demands a willpower. And also my whole pickup style is about making a girl open up with me. I can't tip toe, I just push and push so it usually turns out the same.
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:01 PM
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I think he wants you to become a monk ;)
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:30 AM
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I think I got this thing down when I was 15-16 while... learning to play guitar. I was obsessed about Michael Schenker soloing (I know it's obscure af). I was listening till my ears bled, trying to copy how he played and his tone/feel. No chance... Then I realized that it can't be done, that I'm trying to copy something personal. I realized that I'm different, that if I go my own way I will (hopefully) develop my own magic, personal to me. Otherwise if I keep trying to copy him, my playing will …
/r/seduction25/02/19 04:28 AM
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Nah, definitely not, I've known her before. She was attracted to me, I wasn't that much, so I stringed her for a bit of time, I was inviting her and her friends out to meet my other guy friends, and spiked her emotions when she was getting too cold. Then she met this guy, I didn't know this, I pulled her. Then she wrote "I've met somebody good for me", but I sexted her anyway, she was responding super well and once wrote at the end that "you made me silly (wet) again, you and your friends have a…
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:34 AM
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Whatever you do, your life is an automatic cycle of your habits. In order to change it in a planned direction, you need to achieve some level of awareness and willpower. Some people have it naturally, they have bigger prefrontal cortex or they develop it by stuff they do, or the approach they have to it (mindfulness). For some people it's natural, like some people have naturally bigger muscles. They have more willpower and more awareness. But you can work on it like a muscle. I strongly recommen…
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:33 PM
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This is nice! There's nothing more attractive than if a girl is enthusiastic about you.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:59 AM
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He was way past being "overweight". He was obese, with legs like an elephant, with troubles with hygiene. This level of unhealthiness is just not comparable to having a "dad bod". Yes, you can get girls with a "dad bod", assuming you have game. He had none of it. No game, no LMS. What do you expect?
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:59 PM
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If a girl is willing, smiling, talkative, jumps into your bed etc... It's not seduction. Seduction in this cases comes down to not derailing attraction. Usually guys are attracted to girls that are hard to get and need to be seduced. If your son stops pursuing every girl that's not smiling to him from the get go, he might never get girls that he wants.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:01 PM
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You are implying this, not me. In fact her advice has this assumption that every girl responds one way.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:10 PM
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A girl that's hot and popular is not going to respond like this, without him playing it hard.
/r/seduction19/02/19 01:53 PM
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You are!
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:29 PM
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Telling a girl that you want to kiss her / leading with words diffuses tension. Girls that are into you like to feel this tension not knowing what you will do. In dom/sub situations in bed, submissive side often enjoys the unknown the most. There's no excitement in being dominated when you know everything that's going to happen. If you can, learn to lead to a kiss without words. Just eye contact, body language and escalation.
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:50 PM
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Hope it helps a bit ;) Your best bet is screening for girls that have a place to fuck. Also have some money to grease logistics, don't be cheap on this, if a girls hot for you and you don't have money for a cab, that's bs... As for this girl that you are going to meet next week - expect that emotions already fizzled out. She wanted to fuck you then, now she's cold again. You need to turn her on again. Don't text friendship bs with her. Text her something casual, then throw something sexy and lig…
/r/seduction16/02/19 07:24 PM
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Yep, fucked up logistics. You were unlucky that she didn't have her place closer. Next time save money for cheap hotel and a cab, and figure out a room before going out. If this town has universities, most likely there are cheap hotels for academic staff that visits universities for conferences etc. I've fucked in those couple of times. Make sure you are keeping her mood up on the way there. Try taking this girl (if she's still hot for you, not only in club setting) for a cheap weekend trip to a…
/r/seduction16/02/19 06:49 PM
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Add something like [2/100] brackets with your progress to your posts topic/text and update it with each new raport ;) Also... I'm calling it, you will go deep with our 3-4th girl haha... I don't think you will get to a 100 ;)
/r/seduction15/02/19 09:44 PM
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What do you think? Is "No. Get away from me. No. Leave me alone. I'm serious." a better response than giggling? Anyway, it's a positive response, but don't read too much into it. She might be drunk and silly just from %. It's a positive response, but the important question is what is she responding to? If you look silly then she thinks you are funny. If you told her a silly joke, she things the joke is funny. But if you told her something sexy and she's giggling... You catch my drift.
/r/seduction15/02/19 03:04 PM
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It was a year ago, this doesn't matter anymore. Next time stuff like this happens with some girl, follow up with a subtle physical escalation to test her / check her cards. Then you will know. Otherwise it's just to vague. Also @21 people girls try things in life, if a girl is vibing with you, don't treat "I have a boyfriend" as a hard boundary. And definitely don't run around with "she has a boyfriend" thoughts in your head, they are counterproductive and distract you from vibing and seeing how…
/r/seduction15/02/19 02:31 PM
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Then everybody cums and reality comes crashing in for both of you. But for a brief time in the universe you actually did fall deeply in love, and your motives were pure. I thought that you are more optimistic haha - I've had a lot of great time and deep conversations after cumming with girls ;)
/r/seduction14/02/19 09:08 PM
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I need a little more insight on what i can do to boost her attraction towards me Somewhere along the lines you wrote that you ditched her, because you wanted to go out with friends, doing your things. If you want to rise your attractiveness, don't resign from being yourself. Make sure that you are turning her on, that you are dominant sexually and that she gets orgasms during sex. Then don't rise your availability. Keep the tension up by not being around all the time. But don't do this artificia…
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:47 PM
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This is such a clusterfuck of a mess. My good friend was a player. He got this girl pregnant but he wanted to party. He remained a player. Pregnant girl was into him 150%, but he fucked around, so she ditched him. Then he saw his son... And realized what he lost. He flipped. He went the opposite way, very beta, very needy to create family. He begged his way into the relationship... They live together, but... the girl flipped too. She screwed around as far as I know, and now she got fat and she's…
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:50 AM
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" She rejected me in the past, then later confessed that she hated herself for rejecting me " - this sounds like she fucks with bad boys and she sees you as "nice guy" choice that she should make (because her mama and papa say so), but she won't feel it until she's older and ready to get things steady. Your function in her "asset wallet" is giving her comfort, that if everything goes to shit (guys she fucks start to aim at younger girls than her), she has guys like you to fall back on to. " BUT …
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:46 AM
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This sounds as a description of a great opener haha, need to try it out ;D Goofy style. Cracking voice + falling over a chair + lying on the floor for prolonged time ;)
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:31 PM
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"we cuddled and slept in the same bed twice before this night" + "When we were going to sleep she asked what was up as I wasn't actively cuddling her" = She really likes you dude. She's a good girl. She has lots of understanding and I feel that she's a type of girl that you can have great sex life with. She's not rushing, likes to spend time with you, listens to you, is interested in what you feel. You can explore crazy sex fantasies with girls like that. Tell her that. ​ "I told her a couple th…
/r/seduction10/02/19 11:22 AM
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They do if they like you, but it's subtle. Last month I've exchanged eye contact with some girl at the mall, I've noticed that she was looking at me. She then made sure to bump into me 5-6 times, staring at me trying to make eye contact again. Mall was big, so there was no mistake that she did it intentionally. I remember other examples, but they all come down to the fact, that girls will try to "expose" themselves more to you if they want you. They likely won't talk to you first or approach, bu…
/r/seduction07/02/19 09:14 AM
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So I hit her up and said “I’m free on Friday or sunday... coffee at 12?”. But hey, did you warm her up before asking her out? Did you write something to spike her? I don't feel that you have any emotional traction with her, just some dry exchanges on social media, no vibe. Anyway, I don't think she's interested. It seems like she just enjoys attention from you, but she's not in it for more. She ignored your proposal as if it didn't even exist - writing to her more won't help a thing, it will scr…
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:54 AM
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Their bs detectors are laser precise. Don't pretend you are something you are not. Play it open. They know what they want. If they are dtf, they are down. Just pull her and don't screw it up. She wants sex, you are the man. You don't need to dance like an idiot. Don't overthink, just trust male-female chemistry, relax in it, go with the flow. At the same time, express your desire a lot, in sincere way. It's hot for them, they appreciate it and feed on it. Doesn't mean you shouldn't be a bit chee…
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:28 PM
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Enjoy sex.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:13 PM
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Express some sexy vibes, so she subtly knows what's up, but be firm about your game. Subtle doesn't mean meek. Then just start pulling / baby stepping her to bed. You wrote that she didn't respond well to you trying to isolate. Ok. Next time try rising her emotions first, then isolate/pull. If she's not ready for another step, she's not warm enough yet. Warm her up. And be ready to melt her excuses in a fun/light manner. Remember that a lot of excuses are just bs shit tests.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:11 PM
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This. Cute girls are blaze/jaded/stuck up/bored. And they have many options. Be sure they are feeling emotions, make them invest and if you can, try turning them on. Otherwise you are just another boring number in their phone.
/r/seduction06/02/19 01:59 PM
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Who cares? It's not optimal because she won't be isolated and it will be hard to escalate, but worth just hanging out, you have nothing to loose (if they are not scamming you for dinner, be careful). Just be cheeky and ask jokingly if the friend is down too ;)
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:19 PM
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"Hey you know what?"... Pull your phone, create new contact, input "cute girl from a train"... Give her your phone... "you are cute and it was fun talking with you, I would love to meet you next week, write your number here".
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:13 PM
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You can't change people, she is who she is. She's at the party stage of her life, don't expect much. If you want LTR material, meet some girl that's more about spending time with you, more about hobbies and friendships. There's nothing wrong in your FWB going without you to a club and getting wasted around other men, but it's not a behavior desired for LTR. You see it yourself, but you got attached. Girl that you met wants fun, go out yourself, pick other chicks, meet with her with fun from time…
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:06 PM
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Hey, the fact that you text with girls and especially that you are trying to express your sexy thoughts... Is great. Don't stop, but maybe change how you express sexy stuff. Mind that if you haven't seen a girl, she will react badly to a kind of sexy stuff that you still can't know about her. If you haven't seen her ass yet, don't write stuff about it - you will come off like a creep that lives in his fantasy world. Your goal in texting should be to meet her with writing as little and as casual …
/r/seduction02/02/19 01:57 PM
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You need to be more proactive. From what you described, you are reacting to their actions. Take more actions than them and be one step ahead. This might be counterintuitive, but if you are the one to set the tone of how communication goes in your group, then you can hype your friends up. This way you will be on top, because you will seem like the one that has nothing to loose. Them being negative in this context will seem low status. But it's definitely a good idea to learn amog. Just to be awar…
/r/seduction02/02/19 12:41 PM
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Ultimately its always about the bait you use to attract women. You can attract using your status, money, personality, sex etc. You need to understand that attracting with body =/= attracting with sex. You can show off your body, but this doesn't mean you will turn on girls and make them wet with it. If you are meek chode obsessed about your body you will come off as gay. It's not a masculine energy. This doesn't mean that looks are not important, it's just something you need to treat as extra ad…
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:34 AM
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This is some bs not worth looking at or mentioning. Not funny, not shocking, not interesting, probably staged.
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:22 AM
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There's a long road ahead of you dude... Get to it.
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:17 AM
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Increase amount of time you are meeting/talking with him - if he likes you, he will jump at you. At first start placing your body closer to him, then increase touch using bs excuses ("woah, what a shirt, nice fabric", "your tie is crooked, let me correct it", "it's slippery, can you hold my hand?", "I'm cold, can you sit closer?" etc). Hold longer than needed eye contact during this moments. Try isolating him, meeting him 1on1 outside your work. Be easy at first, but as soon as you feel he swall…
/r/seduction31/01/19 12:59 AM
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Well... That's some heavy shit to ingrain into your mind. But I guess if somebody wants to walk around with a "poop mindset" instead "I'm a social guy, approaching is something natural, girls want to be approached" then why not... But then after years of game you will say to your son "everything I achieved in life I owe to poop". "Son, when I've met your mother for a first time, I immediately thought about... poop". "Poop is the way of life son".
/r/seduction30/01/19 11:50 PM
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I would resort to school stuff only as a backup. You need to quickly make it about sex. But I would make that switch irl, not by text. If you are meeting her at class, isolate her. Ask her to go together to a college bar or some other 1on1 place. Invite her in light manner, just approach and "hey I'm hungry, let's grab a bite together". If she's not a stuck up bitch, then express interest, slip compliments, start making this little pauses when you are just looking at her so she feels your subtle…
/r/seduction29/01/19 11:19 PM
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Find some common topic like movies/tvshows/travel/books. Mix it with getting to know her, figuring out her logistics and telling her sexy stuff so she's turned on. It should be mostly about sex, if she resists a bit then go back to common interest. When she talks with you she should think about sex. Try telling her something hot that will stay in her head even after ending your conversation. Obviously push for the meeting irl.
/r/seduction29/01/19 11:05 PM
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Anyway, make sure that you turn the heater on. From what you written it seems that your interactions are more friendly than man-to-woman. Get into sex mode. Express more of your desire and be unapologetic about it. On the other hand it seems that what you have going on was working up to this point. So you might consider keeping that style up (no pressure, like you don't give a fuck about sex). This might not be the case after this sexless night. You need to go by intuition if it's better to make…
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:14 PM
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She definitely was down, but why this shit happened - "we ended up just falling asleep"? What's up with that? Too drunk?
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:42 PM
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In every situation like this first weapon to use should be humor. Humor is a tool that's above all boundaries. Because of that, even if your boss is amoging you, you can respond with humor to one up him and if he reacts badly, then he will look bad, because humor is giving other people good emotions, other people that are present had a good laugh and if your boss acts weird, he's killing good fun. Good bosses often engage in cheeky humor stuff with their employees, because it gives good example …
/r/seduction26/01/19 07:41 AM
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If you want to expand on a first point, read "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. It's a must read book to read to understand male-female dynamics. It's a short one. You will have a clear picture in your head how things work. "How can I let a girl understand that I just want to fuck occasionaly without telling her?" Look, my point is that you can tell her that, she will agree, but you will still screw up if you provide her LTR emotions with your actions (texting about everyday life, fuc…
/r/seduction24/01/19 11:19 AM
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"However she said she didn’t feel a spark with me " - she's not wet. You are not turning her on. Turn the heat. She left her bf. 100% she wanted to fuck around hard. She wanted to have fun, be silly, get dirty to relieve the stress. Yet... "A couple days afterwards she ended up getting super high and ended up making out with me in bed (she was sleeping with me in my bed) " - this is not how things work dude. Girl that ends up in other mans bed after a breakup wants it deeper and dirtier than wit…
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:52 PM
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I get you. You got to a point where you can make average girl submit to you, and you are satiated. Push the boundaries even harder with each girl. Condition yourself for their submission. Explore their fragile submission. You will be surprised how much they can give you if you push, and at the same time you will find out that its them that are getting more out of it. They crave submission, they want to swim in it. And also this satiated "hot guy blaze" state is needed if you want to get 10/10 gi…
/r/seduction20/01/19 03:27 PM
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Babystep this and entertain / make her wet on the way.
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:49 PM
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You managed to get into her place, but nothing happened. With the next girl, try turning her on, making her wet, escalating physically along the way to her/your place, so when you are there, she's wet and ready for your dick. If she's dry, it's never going to happen.
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:33 PM
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- Be more attractive (LMS). Increase it. - Be hyped about your actions, not their reactions. You can't control how they react. You can control how you maintain eye contact, how you approach, what you say, and how you touch... Be hyped about the man you are, about your bravado, about your style, about the fact that most men are passive and you are creating opportunities. - You already are approaching girls. The world is yours. Keep at it.
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:48 AM
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Tai Lopez is a bullshitter, but his book list is a nice starting point: https://www.tailopez.com/books
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:56 PM
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Ah there's also one very important thing. If you are lifting, then you probably consume good food. Remember that you need to train your brain (solving problems) and feed your brain with good content too... If you feed yourself on social media, YouTube, misogynist content, porn, tumblr and stuff... Then you will suffer mentally. Read good books everyday. It's not only about getting wiser. Browsing social media makes your brain adhd, reading books improves focus. I would argue that reading books c…
/r/seduction14/01/19 06:47 PM
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Woah, we have a badass over here, that thinks he's above instincts that are imprinted in our DNA. You are so smart and enlightened dude.
/r/seduction11/01/19 12:31 PM
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That's unrealistic. You are absolutely right, that as a man we should go our way with our goals, and set our own expectations. This doesn't change the fact, that getting pussy makes us lazy, it works unconsciously, you can't get around it. This is why 80% guys develop, they go up, rise their status, but when they catch the girl, they get married and stop rising, they stagnate. Even if you know all this, you are not immune to that validation aspect, neither am I.
/r/seduction10/01/19 05:29 PM
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Well, that's true up to a point, because nobody is perfect at any given moment. It's good to meet new girls even if your life is still a mess, because you see the possibilities and rejections can be motivating if you have a right mindset. Waiting for that perfect moment when everything in you life is aligned will block you. What can be toxic is approaching with a frame "I'm a looser and I don't care". It's possible to succeed with it. That's why there are a lot of girls meeting with fuck boys wi…
/r/seduction10/01/19 12:26 PM
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It took me 3 years to get over one girl that was the biggest obsession of my life, way back when I was after high school. So time IS a factor in all of this, especially if you have your life and your inner game handled. As others pointed out, if some time has passed, you have changed, it's worth showing her your new self and trying again, but don't ditch other girls. On the other side, if you are so kin on her, it might be worth trying to turn it all into your biggest romantic "fall". Because yo…
/r/seduction04/01/19 08:53 PM
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I think we have different context in mind. If you know that the girl you are thinking about is into you, that her emotions are already spiked up... Then yeah, nothing creepy about it. But if you are in a friend zone with her, she thinks about you as a friend, and you want to go for a kiss in a car... Ok. More power to you, I would play it out differently.
/r/seduction03/01/19 10:58 PM
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Well, the simplest example of that "resistance" is getting disciplined about getting up early in the morning on a free day. When I go to sleep sometimes I already know that I don't want to wake up early. Then when I say to myself that I will wake up, it feels like a struggle, I feel inner resistance, laziness. Even saying "I will wake up" is a bit painful. Well, if I repeat that affirmation long enough, the resistance goes away, I feel "decided" and when the alarm goes off in the morning, chance…
/r/seduction03/01/19 10:49 PM
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Dude, you seriously need to meet new girls, in batch quantities. Think about it. Obsessing about some text from a flaky girl is not healthy even for a day... And you are doing it for weeks. It's not right. Talk to new girls ASAP.
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:53 PM
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For me, visualizations / affirmations work, when I feel inner resistance when I practice them. After couple repetitions they ease out that resistance and it makes executing irl easier. That's my experience, although I strongly believe that taking action trumps inner game. I believe in conditioning and creating new neural paths, and then reinforcing them. Once you done something once (approaching, escalating, pulling) then that path is in you for the rest of your life. Then you need to reinforce …
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:47 PM
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This is creepy to be honest. If you never expressed sexy thoughts to her and she thinks of you as a friend, then be playful in a car, maybe throw in some mild sexy stuff but nothing crazy, and make a move when she's not trapped with you in a metal cage haha
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:14 PM
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This were just 4-5(?) girls in 2018... In 2019 try seducing 5 girls a week. Be in places where you can talk girls every week. Be normal. Casual. No crazy shit. Just low key, express yourself without filter.
/r/seduction03/01/19 07:08 PM
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Express what you are truly thinking sexually. Be unapologetic about it. Light. Casual. If you have her hooked and invested, stop being casual, be more intense, try making her shy, treat her with being "true", make her feel like a loved little girl. Strong eye contact.
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:40 PM
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Pretending that you are seducing ugly girls that don't excite you is a waste of time. There's no pressure, you don't want to fuck them anyway, what's the point? Obviously you can have fun and you should hang out and make friends, but that's being social.
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:35 PM
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You have a green light as other pointed out. You shown her already that you can be easy going. Now ask her out and start switching from this playful tone to more serious, sexy, sleek, calm, grounded. Get into that mode of "there's something sexy between us", create that sweet bubble around you and her, that every girl craves.
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:33 AM
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Good luck.
/r/seduction28/12/18 09:59 AM
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Jakkolwiek, byle kutas wyglądał na ogarniętego i zadbanego. Raz się zgoliłem na zero i poczułem się jak bobas... Jakoś mi zgolony na łyso nie pasuje do dorosłego mężczyzny, może jakbym miał naście lat...
/r/seduction27/12/18 10:25 PM
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What concepts read on seddit helped you?
/r/seduction27/12/18 01:00 PM
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If you are not talking to 5-10 new girls a week, nothing is going to change or happen.
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:50 PM
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Offer a power play (make him work for your sweetness and even if you are submissive type, make it hard and exciting to sub you), chase (have options and don't be available all the time) and variety (clothing, makeup, hair). Your beauty game should be on point and you should meet with new men weekly (they don't need to be perfect matches for you), even if you are serious about one guy. You need to have options as a woman.
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:45 PM
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Conquer your remaining fears. I'm sure there are many left. We all have them. Destroying them daily gives confidence. If your beliefs are so deep, then internet advice is not going to help you. Seek cb therapy. Good therapist will guide you how to conquer them, but you will need to take action.
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:41 PM
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Your friend is right about making sure she thinks you want her as a man, not as a friend. But always try to avoid doing that over text, because it's cheap and easy. Express that in person, use text just to hold her interest and set up dates. Seducing girls is about making them wet, but wet pussy over the phone means her masturbating, not you putting your dick inside. Also be more commanding instead asking questions. Instead "are you down to go just you and me", go "I want you and me alone", and …
/r/seduction25/12/18 11:24 PM
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Your mistake wasn't saying "no". It was you being "1 or 0". "No" is a closed answer, that limits play. Just think how answering "that depends" would have opened up whole conversation ;)
/r/seduction25/12/18 10:49 PM
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Girl, you should ask other women how it's done, not some pua dudes. From guys perspective: As others pointed out, try to isolate him. Sexy stuff happens one on one. Be easy to date, if he proposes something, go for it or if it doesn't fit your schedule offer your alternative straightaway. If he makes small moves on you, like touching you etc, give him green lights. Compliment his desired behavior. If he talks to you, say you enjoy talking to him. If he touches you, smile and say "that felt nice"…
/r/seduction25/12/18 10:31 PM
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There's no real dilemma, just don't humiliate yourself, you can get sexier girls :)
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:45 PM
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Next time push for meetings in person, because... Well do I need to explain this? Don't you want her smell, her body, her touch, her eyes? Phone game is just for making it happen in person, so limit it to minimum, otherwise every interaction you make will go stale. And don't go for friendship, because what you described is not friendship. If she rejected you, you still want her and you keep it that way it's a cuck zone. Don't go to that dark place.
/r/seduction22/12/18 11:06 PM
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She blew you off, move on, but props for trying. Don't write to her. Zero. But on the off chance if she writes something, then write something sexy right away.
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:55 PM
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Do you even meet her in person from time to time? I feel like you could flip it, because "she was responsive" at some point. But the whole thing is bs from your side honestly. You want to smash, but you have "scheduling conflicts", she was responsive but you didn't finish it of, you settled for talking with her for months... Just bleh. Boring and lousy af.
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:43 PM
1

Be a fucking man. Your friend is not being true with you, tell him in person, without emotions that his behavior sucked and spend time with other friends, if he talks with you just be neutral and move on. No big deal, but look for a friendship and good time somewhere else. Act the same with that girl. If you had sexual connection with her before, then you could try turning her on when you had a chance, trying to swing her on your side. But it seems to me that you were in a friend zone, so you wo…
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:22 PM
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That was a bit of a joke, but if you greet her group and talk with them for a couple of times, it doesn't even need to be successful, you will become familiar and it will be easier. So don't give up, even if they are shy and you can't build this big fun convertstion. Even little one's are worth it. Obviously if you really care about that girl so much. Are you prepared to talk to her if you happen to see her alone? The trick is - don't be prepared. Take a deep breath and jump into conversation wi…
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:04 PM
1

What? :D
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:48 AM
1

You did it? Great! Do it again :D Be like Coca-Cola :D https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere-exposure_effect
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:41 AM
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Read "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. It explains male-female energy dynamics. Your goal is to express your sexuality without filter of shame, guilt, shyness and "what people will say". You know what to say. When you see a chick that's sexy, you have ideas in your head. Start small with this and build up. Your goal is to put sexy visions/fantasies into girls head. I once met 4 times this 19yo chick (I was 28 back then). She wanted it casual, but I was in other relationship that I va…
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:17 PM
2

You are thinking about this in a wrong way: -"She’s always around her friends" -> That's a good card to play. Showing that you can befriend her friends and you are not scared of groups. If you can casually approach her group and just start a light conversation with them all, about their class or what they are studying in panic ("damn you all look so stressed, what are you studying for?"). Just sharing fun stuff, laughing, small talk. Forget about stiff introductions and exchanging names, first s…
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:24 PM
1

I'm not sure if you still read this thread but... You need to understand the fact, that depending on your attitude and skill, you can talk with a girl for a year and know her less than the guy that has skill (or is natural) and has talked to her for 2 days. There's a saying in martial arts, that you can get to know a person better by sparring with him for 10 minutes full contact than if you spent time with him for a month. Seducing girls is about building sexual connection with them. You can bul…
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:41 AM
1

Relax. This date is for you. Enjoy her feminine energy, the way she talks, the way she smiles. Focus on the softness of her being through the whole date. Let her soothe you. Tell her you enjoy her presence. Double down on rising her emotions and turning her on. Rise her emotions by expressing yourself without filter. If she's shocked or disgusted or you crossed the line, hold the frame, but turn it around jokingly, make it absurd and show that you have distance and you are playful. Turn her on b…
/r/seduction18/12/18 11:44 AM
2

Just go through the motions anyway, don't think, push through it and after couple girls like this your brain will rewire. Will it create distress? Yes, but that's the point. If you force yourself and do it anyway, you will force your brain to find different narrative. Take your brain by the balls.
/r/seduction14/12/18 06:41 PM
1

Definitely you should ask her before the break (so you can spend some time with her if it works out, and also because things like breaks and holidays change the landscape, girls meet new friends, spend time away etc.) It's a bad situation when a girl thinks "I really like him, but I'm not sure if I feel right about him (because whole thing is dry), I hope that accepting his invitation doesn't mean he will expect something". You know how when you add more and more raspberry sizzup to your drink i…
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:05 AM
2

Depending on where you live, it might be a criminal offence. If it's not criminal in your country, then well, she's young. Don't push her, don't force anything, go with the flow, if she's ready and she wants it, it will happen. For young girls first sex is tightly connected to relationship expectation, just bear that in your mind.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:29 AM
1

Wait till some crazy ass comes to your apartment 3am banging on your doors, screaming like she's skinned, waking up your neighbors. Wait till some girl that you are with, goes into public heavy tantrum like she's 4 year old that didn't get newest LEGO set... Calm guy + crying girl. Guess who's guilty in the eyes of people around? You will have at least 2 white knights at your back out of nowhere in 5sec. And it's not like desperate, crazy stalker guys that are disappointed are somewhat better. D…
/r/seduction10/12/18 05:16 PM
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Most women feel more comfortable in her place. You can also eject whenever you want. Plus she doesn't know where you live, so if she turns out crazy, then you have no worries about her haunting you. At the same time, don't be sneaky. It's important to be able to tell her it's not working and she should leave (call and pay for her taxi). If she turns out crazy, then you should be able to hold your calm and deal with the situation in civil fashion, even if she truly is bat shit insane. Both option…
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:17 AM
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If you only communicate fun and friendly energy, and she responds well... It still doesn't mean shit. If you make clear sexual moves and she gives green light... Now you know. If you have troubles judgeing it, you probably are not direct and sexual enough. Girls from class/work... Increase their emotions with fun and friendliness in order to invite them to party/bar/club where you can game her in private with sexy vibes.
/r/seduction20/12/17 08:07 AM
1

Remember to buy her flowers. Whole situation doesn't seem promising. Anyway, it's great that you made some kind of move, even if it's a little one :) Aim for a journey, adventure of getting good with women. Getting experiences good and bad.
/r/seduction16/12/17 05:38 AM
1

You should handle it with honesty mixed with a bit of jokes. Honesty, because if you want her to be your girl to have fun with, it's much better to send signals that you are a guy that's fucking girls and doesn't make big deal about it. It's better to fall into sexy boy than good boy category in her head. Honesty, because fakeness slows down attraction. Girl needs to know what kind of person you are to get attracted. People that seduce fast, are good at feeling out each other fast. If you bullsh…
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:53 AM
1

Also, don't be delusional. For some girls if a guy has a big nose it's a no go, and they just won't be attracted. Same stuff applies to height - for some girls if you are short, they just are not gonna get wet about you. But who cares? Getting girls that are not into you is pointless. It's like paying huge extra salary just to hire some guy that doesn't give a fuck about your company and his work for you will be constant maniana anyway. Good chemistry is exciting. Aim to surround yourself with p…
/r/seduction06/12/17 06:46 PM
2

Don't overthink your situation. Get into "collecting experiences" mode. Don't judge yourself harsh if they are bad. If you get a bad one, remember the lesson out of it and forget the rest of it. Stick to expressing yourself honestly. Use "no big deal" rule - don't overhype your successes and don't make a big deal out of your failures. Tell things neutral as they are. Don't impose judgement on yourself and your situation or your actions when you talk. Let people judge you freely. Even if you are …
/r/seduction22/11/17 05:12 AM
1

She craves your attention, she want's to feel that you still want to fuck her. She has fun/validation out of denying you. If you are still on and she's off, you give her power she can use to be more confident and less needy around other guys. That's why I have huge respect girls for that ditch quickly, honestly and bluntly. They make life easier for less assertive guys. It's so harsh to see your friend orbiting around one mean bitch for 10 years bc he has one-itis.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:13 PM
2

Get your life together first, so you are independent emotionally. Maybe you don't think about it like this consciously, but if you have problems in your life that you are not actively solving, you are unconsciously in victim mode, and girls hate that. You unwillingly can come off as looking for new mommy that will fix your life. Girls don't fix men's life. They screw it up or at best they can help you be normal. So get in order yourself so you can face their chaos. On the other hand, don't use t…
/r/seduction20/11/17 05:46 PM
1

Maybe it's a shit test or maybe you are not interested in them enough and you run the same routines on all the girls you meet, instead of focusing on the one that's in front of you and flowing with the moment.
/r/seduction20/11/17 05:40 PM
1

Focus on giving. My perspective changed a lot when I got some success with girls. I know what I can give to a woman, in terms of emotions, sex, adventures, romance, sexy moments. I know that I can arouse girls. My confidence is based on what I can do, based on the way I behave around girls, not on how great and awesome I think I am... Spread sexyness around... And you will get success ;)
/r/seduction08/09/15 01:45 PM
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Don't get too excited and don't think every 18 girl is like that... Don't assume too much.
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:29 PM
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Girl, I thought about treating you as a fuck toy whole day and it made me so hot inside...
/r/seduction05/05/15 07:11 PM
1

There's no "right way" to seduce girls. That's my way, and it works for me, and it gets me girls that have what I need.
/r/MGTOW10/04/15 10:58 PM
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"My biggest problem is that what I really crave, way, way more than sex is intimacy. I don't want to bang a girl, I just want to be intimate with her (cuddle, kiss, get naked and get my hands over her, that kind of thing)." Be honest about it to the girls that you meet. Just tell them what you crave. But tell them slowly... tell them the real deal... if you see how their hands are delicate... say it... say your hands your so feminine... I would go crazy if you touched my hair with them... Tell h…
/r/MGTOW10/04/15 04:07 AM
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The deal is - you will never be good at anything if you judge people so easly. That's 100% sure...
/r/seduction08/04/15 04:47 PM
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That whole show is so fucking sleazy :D "This is the pinnacle" - what?
/r/seduction08/04/15 01:47 AM
2

Change your environment. Save money for 3 months of rent+food and move out to the other side of the country. Rent in city center. You won't find a job in 3 months? Bullshit. Especially if you can code.
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:16 PM
1

Save money for living on your own for 3 months and move out, to create pressure on yourself. Changing place and a real deadline gives motivation. Also, you can move out to the city that has a job for you. Ask your dad for money to move out? This rises a bar even higher - you will feel additional pressure of not failing other people. Are you strong enough? Or there are some excuses? By putting yourself in tough situation, new town, running out of money, you might find strength in yourself that yo…
/r/seduction22/12/14 08:47 PM
1

Nah, don't write her off. Just don't pay too much attention if she's not so hot about you. Be cool, without placing all bets on her. Rise the amount of activity with other girls and minimize your initiative with the one who flakes.
/r/seduction21/12/14 06:51 PM
2

"Ok, no problem" and move on - look for other girls. Cool.
/r/seduction21/12/14 06:26 PM
1

Some girls are like "I'm fat and not ashamed of it, I'm not gonna do anything about it"...
/r/seduction21/12/14 06:06 PM
3

Lower-back tattoo. Others are fine if not excessive (Kat Von D is ugly). Fake tits. I really prefer small natural tits than any fake ones. Smoking cigs. Facial piercings. Any kind of tunel piercing. Flat cap. Excessive pink color in her clothing/makeup or tons of gold jewelery. Panda eyes makeup covering the fact that her face is ugly, which makes it even worse. I like long nails but I don't like nail lacquer... It's not a turn off, but it seriously is when this lacquer is old and falling off. I…
/r/seduction21/12/14 07:45 AM
1

Make this a reality for them... And it's not about going to Thailand or money, but about providing emotions, new experiences... Providing what they really want, not what you think they should get (so you need to be interested, not interesting, find out what they truly desire and quench their thirst...). Girls just wanna have fun, it's that simple :D Give it to them ;) Check out Calvin Harris or house/trance guys music vids, they are packed with lifestyle promises... That's the vibe...
/r/seduction03/12/14 08:49 PM
3

"How to you appeal to younger girls, if you are older than them." I will show you life. I will show you how to roll girl. Lets make your desires and passions come true. You are older, so you have more to offer than stupid 18 yo kid. Offer them a lifestyle. Quality of life. Way of living that will make them truly happy. Everything is possible and easy when you are around. Something that a kid living with their parents can't do, bc he has no lifestyle on his own, he is just starting out.
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:14 AM
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"What is the quickest way to really boost my confidence?" Amount of reference experiences. Going for what you really want in every situation. Don't "try" to be confident. Don't try to be alpha or some other bullshit. Just go for what you want and defend values that you stand for. But the quick fix is, having a sense of direction every day, all the time: Choose your "north star goal". Sit down, think and write down path to achieve it, step by step. Stick to it at all cost. No excusses, no "tommor…
/r/seduction29/11/14 01:04 AM
2

What you describe is a quick fix... You still feel you are a looser, you just try to think of others like they are below you. In the short run it might work for you. Maybe you even get all the girls that you want.... But do you want to end up with attitute towards world that
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:48 AM
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