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| 38 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dream | Krunjar | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 02:22 AM | |
| 23 | Share what you think is BS on this sub | Meta | Krunjar | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Face or game? | Krunjar | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 10:43 AM | |
| 2 | IOI or not? (are "false negative" IOIs a thing?) | Krunjar | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 01:31 AM | |
| 0 | You're not even shit | Rant/Venting | Krunjar | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 01:02 AM |
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| 1 | I'm Rollo Tomassi, Ask Me AnythingWhat would you say are your top 5 skills/attributes for attracting women, and top 5 for keeping them interested/attracted? (so for example in the first top 5 you might put looks high up but maybe something else is more important in the 2nd top 5) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/16 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Personality Doesn't MatterJust because chad doesn't need a personality, doesn't mean it can't help. There are different kinds of personalities and you have of course noticed that some types do absolutely nothing. Telling a girl about a story or telling funny jokes doesn't get her juices flowing, by default. Telling a story that somehow makes her feel horny, can though, and that is a different kind of personality. Its the kind of personality which reads the situation, and knows what to do. You aren't trying to make friend… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Women treat handsome guys like kings.Yeah but keep in mind that 8's think they deserve a 10, 9's think they deserve an 11. Theres no such thing as a 10 or 11, so really they're looking for 8's and 9's with the absolute best game, status and personality. So what I'm saying is, while in general women make it easier for good looking guys, as the women get hotter, game, personality and status start to make a lot more of a difference. So good looking guys still have trouble getting what they really want, they have a lot easier time with… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Oneitis - the cause, the cureI think in some ways it can be more simple: Oneitis is the inability to accept that you can't have something, and move on. Oneitis is ok if you've found a girl who you're having an LTR with and you're both mutually attracted to each other. Beyond that, its not. If you are pining after some girl who clearly is not interested, then its time to get over it and stop thinking about her, and go find other girls who ARE interested. Its the same thing if you break up with a girl and she doesn't want you… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 06:22 PM |
| 9 | I fucked up. Don't be like me.Oh I don't think this is so unbelievable.. I knew a girl once who had the outward appearance of the sweetest cutest thing ever. But she had a hobby, which was trying her best to get guys to catch oneitis over her, and then feed it, without any mercy, and totally cuck them. I mean in a way they were just beta orbiters, but she made sure they went as crazy as possible. Some of these guys I'm sure were borderline suicidal, but she didn't give a shit, and these guys couldn't even see through it, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | 8 year dry spells ends - funny world we live inIts really exactly "escalating" in that you start with small things: body language (which is more a reflection of your state of mind/confidence and intentions), eye contact, flirting (saying suggestive but plausibly deniable things), teasing, going from there you have kino, which also escalates, a touch on the small of the back or the back of the upper arm, or the hands, hugging etc, escalates into touching more private areas like the inner thighs, the butt, neck, ears, cheeks and so on, then th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Never had sex, what am i missing?Maybe you should at least try it first before you know if you care about not having it. Maybe you don't desire it because you think its not that good, or that you won't enjoy it, or it'll be too much hard work, or you're anxious about "performing". The thing is also the first few times you have sex, unless maybe you're with an experienced woman, it probably won't be that good, you have to get used to it. I mean put it this way, if you worry that one day you'll be 35 and all of a sudden realise y… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Hoes Can't bring You HappinessI think it can boil down to this, as well: If you MUST do anything pleasurable, not just for the pleasure of it, but because it "MUST" be done for some thought out reason, then you're not going to enjoy it as much. Of course sometimes you must get a job, and you might enjoy it. But talking purely about pleasurable things. If you "MUST" drive a ferrari for the day, instead of just enjoying the moment, you're sort of ticking off a checklist all day, and the moment passes you by. People do this all… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Share what you think is BS on this subIDK about 60 year olds (lol), but I do know a couple of people in their 40's who pull girls in their early 20s, however those girls are usually a little bit fucked up in one way or another, like really low self esteem. Not to say they are ugly though, just totally lack confidence and desire a father figure. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Share what you think is BS on this subOh yeah I agree 100% :) Even small amounts make a big difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Share what you think is BS on this sub:D True tbh. Although there is some stuff in the AskTRP sidebar which is s bit iffy imo. Like some of the online dating advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Share what you think is BS on this subLoads of people were agreeing with him | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:57 AM |
| 2 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedThe thing with texting is its ok to have some small conversations over it once you know a girl and more importantly she knows you, but when you're looking to meet a girl (for the first time), if you beat around the bush too long, it sets off her beta detector. I usually do the minimum I can get away with: break the ice, build a little rapport, then go for the logistics. Once a girl knows you're not a total beta, you can relax a little bit (and should, unless you want to come across a bit strange… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Are Women boring as hell or is it me?Well you're messaging them on a dating site so thats the first reason. On dating sites women want you to lead the conversation, they want you to do all the work. For the most part just break the ice and get them to meet, if they don't want to meet then move on. When you meet them in person it should be different, I like meeting women and talking to them in person, but talking to those same women on dating sites can suck monkey balls. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitI don't advise thinking about this kind of stuff all the time, only when you're your own worst enemy. The mind is so powerful it can hide the reality of the situation from us most of the time. It can run round in circles and cause roadblocks for us which we aren't even conscious of. A lot of it comes from lying to ourselves. Lying about how much time there is to do things, lying about how far we have to go, about how great we are. Its just a reality check, really. To shock you out of a rut, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 02:25 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitWell the whole point in making it sound a bit crazy is for it to stick in people's minds a bit better. Next time you are going to approach, and have a bit of anxiety, think of the vase of ashes, not in a depressing way, but in a "fuck it, I'm actually going to live my life before that happens" way. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 02:18 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitThanks, I fully agree that there is value in the more practical approach which you posted. The way I see it though, there is the practical approach and there is the shock approach. Like, anyone can read good advice, and think, "well, I will store that for later use". But then there is the shock approach which although is a little more bombastic, and some people say is nihilistic (though, I just think its realistic), sometimes we do need a cattle prod up our asses. If you want to wake someone up … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitI think really its human civilisation, society, which is the real power. But each human, for the most part, is very small. Maybe if you compare yourself to other humans, you might think you're not shit. But really you're just a different kind, maybe the smooth sausage type instead of runny... ideal, but still... :) Anyway you bring up a good point, that even if objectively barely any human amounts to much, subjectively its still possible to feel like life can't be any better. Anyway the main rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 02:02 AM |
| 2 | You're not even shitI agree with you, its all about the journey. But you can walk on broken glass, or on the most luxurious surface you could imagine. If you're walking on broken glass, wouldn't you want to at least upgrade to "blunt glass", at least? Just to see what its like before you die? Theres only so much time to do that, and thats all I'm saying really. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 07:30 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitI'm not saying you're shit at XYZ, I'm saying you're a flash in the pan. As in, you have so little existence, that its literally like nothing. Even if you're and alpha or whatever. Its directed at those who procrastinate. Who think they have forever. To give a taste of the feeling you would experience if someone said you have 5 days to live. Yeah this post is going to vanish by tomorrow, but its just meant to shock some people. Some that might be lethargic. I could have just said "lifes shorter … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 07:27 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitNo.. its not a rant. I feel no anger towards this. Its like you said, it just "is". I agree about living in a way that you enjoy, thats my point - you define what you enjoy, but you don't have a million years to see it come about. You have a limited amount of time. If your standards are low, then fine, you probably don't have to do much, and you'll be comfortable with the idea of becoming a vase of ashes, because you'll have done everything you set out to do, and the stream of life will flow ove… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitThe true alpha knows he's already dead. When a chad chats up a babe, and the beta looks on, waiting for another day, for his chance, when do you think that fucking day... is... going.... to COME!? Its not coming. Not by itself. Its not gently caressing you, its a ninja. Its coming to slice your balls off and stick your stupid head on a spike in front of the castle walls, as a warning to all the others who didn't listen. People like me, who saw it, and said, "not me, not like this". (https://www.… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:41 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitYou know I started off with the idea of the Vase of ashes. But ultimately what I'm getting at is that, if at the end, we all end up the same, and so powerless, there is no harm in being our own Gods, for our cute short existence. Please, please do it. "Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day; Rage, rage against the dying of the light." Ashes, should be the result of flames, burn my friends, burn so bright, make me you proud :) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:16 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitCool, its meant to induce ego death. You're the vase. So is everyone else though. We're just clinking against each other. But some think its not ok to clink a bit harder, just for the fun of it :D | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitI am well beyond the anger phase and I lift :D Your life is on a thread, tomorrow you could die slowly in car crash, thinking about everything you could have done. ShaneTino, you were so capable. You had some much to give, so much to receive. But you gave little, and received in kind. Now its over, forever. Yes, forever. So sorry for you, my imaginary future friend. Look at where the walls are - everything you want is right next to those walls. But, so many people are like, in line, as if, const… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitAlmost everything is an old idea regurgitated though. Only people like Einstein come up with those really new ideas ;) But if you didn't live 1000 years ago, to hear this "old idea", why would you hear it now, 1000 years later? Only if someone said it. Else it would be forgotten. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:00 AM |
| -1 | You're not even shitNo, its more of a physical reality. If you were shot dead now, you would become like a chair, or the wall. The inanimate, the "timeless" (the unaware). Except, because you're flesh you would rot. The bacteria would eat you and shit you out. Maggots would eat you. Sorry. I know that sounds a bit "weird", a little crazy. But, it is actually true. Funny that, isn't it - something that sounds so mental... oh its actually true ;) People avoid this kind of thinking, because they believe, that it can o… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 03:57 AM |
| 1 | You're not even shitWhat is your "mood"? Ever think of that? What, do you live in some illusion that everything is going to be ok? :) Sorry for bursting that bubble. Now, lets examine, how useful it is to think that everything is going to be "Ok"... What is the purpose of this illusion? To bring you happiness? Built on a foundation of... a lie? Whenever someone done something great, they faced reality. They didn't hide from it. Instead of building an illusion, build a life. The illusion says its doesn't have to be … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 03:47 AM |
| 0 | You're not even shitIts just the truth. This is "The Red Pill" after all :) Do what you like with it, see it how you will. A lot of people pussyfoot around things, fuck it. Tell it how it is. Its not really nihilism either, it just "is". Put it another way: lets say you get 1,000 chances at talking to different girls in your life. Its not like you're going to get another 1,000. You're not even going to get ONE more chance. You only get those 1,000. Forever. Then, sorry but: ashes. You see what I'm saying? Its eithe… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 03:33 AM |
| 3 | How do I give off a fun and flirty vibe, while making my intentions known?One thing you can do is think of HER as a sexual being. Look at her body and think about what it would be like to fuck her and touch her and so on. Keep the frame of mind that is why you're talking to her, and like verily_rp says, be confident, assume shes doing the same with you. If you are thinking in that way, it will be easier (even automatic) to express it, in your body language and the way you speak. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 12:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you meet and spin plates ?You can't change being bald and you can't change your race, so what point is there in even thinking about those things? You have to be almost like a machine. See a girl you like, just go up, "Hey, how are you?" (theres a million things you could say, an observation works quite well too, about her or about the surroundings). Maybe you'll get shot down, maybe even the first 20 times. But you just make it part of your life, to approach women, and not worry too much about rejection. Eventually you'l… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | What's an alternative to "we should hang out soon"That one only works if you're going to go somewhere alone, so it has to be a place which you WOULD go to alone. Lets say the driving range, thats fine, she will expect you to be alone and it doesn't sound strange that you'd be there alone. But take for example a bar. If she thinks you'll be there alone, idk if thats a good "look", ofc its fine to go to a bar alone, but I wouldn't tell a girl I go to them alone. But on top of that she might assume you mean with friends, which is ok, but its bette… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 07:54 PM |
| 2 | When are women actually telling the truth?It means keep doing it unless you're a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Help closing on okcupid hb 8.Maybe? Message her back, find out. Not like it takes much effort. But shes probably a flaker. Probably best to just set up a date to meet, then see if she flakes or not. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 07:25 PM |
| 4 | How Forward Should I BeI used to have this problem when I thought I was with a girl who I thought was "too hot" for me. I used to devolve into a beta and start thinking they would take offence. But its really simple, women don't need or want you to be too obvious, and you do the same thing with all of them, no matter how hot they are. You just have to have the confidence in doing it. They will know exactly what you mean if you: Flirt -> kino -> escalate Suggest things (places to go) which "could" mean sex but you have… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 08:14 AM |
| 10 | People with cats are easier to dominate...interesting studySays here: http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Toxoplasmosis/Pages/Introduction.aspx Toxoplasmosis is usually nothing to worry about because the immune system is normally strong enough to fight the infection and stop it from causing serious illness. After getting the infection, most people are immune to it for the rest of their life. So, doesn't look like its permanent, just happens once for a while and then never again. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 05:48 PM |
| 3 | What the hell am I supposed to do as an American born Indian male?It doesn't really matter how you justify it. Its how it looks to girls, they don't like it (a few might not mind but mostly it will work against you). It sort of makes you look like less of a man, it only works against you - you want as much as possible working for you. So don't tell them you live at home with your parents unless you have to, and move out as soon as you can. I know its kind of stupid, but its just one of those things. (Thats not to say you can't pull it off... you can, but it ju… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/16 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Whos more picky about looks, men or women?In LTR: Men are more picky about looks In ONS: Women are more picky about looks | /r/askTRP | 20/08/16 10:28 AM |
| 1 | How to tell her you want to see her without sounding needy?Just ask her normally, you'll only sound needy if you pester her about it, or ask in a really silly over-verbose way. I mean shes a plate so you must have asked her before, just ask in the same way as usual? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | mgtow is better than red pill imo!!?Well they're not the same thing, TRP is like the opposite of MGTOW. Even though it takes some advice from MGTOW like not getting married, TRP is focused on attracting women and MGTOW is focused on avoiding women. So you can't say either is better, because they are resources you use based on what your choice is (to attract or avoid women). | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 04:51 PM |
| 4 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)Yeah, its one of my challenges. I find it hard to assume attraction, I always expect girls to find something about me they don't like, I find it hard to believe they would actually be attracted to me completely. I usually am burying those feelings when I'm with girls. Mostly what I do is hold frame and game, and all the time I just think about "all I have to do is just play it right and I can fuck her", and just ignore what they think of me. I just have fun, think sexy thoughts, and remember to … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 09:28 PM |
| 32 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)Yeah I've had the weird look before. I don't get it that much though, usually I think those women are kind of insecure and trying to say, "I'm too good for you", but its like a premptive "disgust" as a rejection defence mechanism. As long as you got their attention, usually they like something about you, ugly guys are invisible to women, apart from maybe truly deformed people who they can't take their eyes off because they're a rare sight. Heres some others which are funny: The startle / rabbit … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Frame is Freedom - A Field ReportRead it all, thanks for taking the time to write it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on getting my mind and confidence back.Sometimes you will be in a dark place, most people get a few in life. Even rich and famous people have them. The important thing to remember is that it will pass, you just have to give it time, and make the best of it. Try not to get consumed by depressing/negative thoughts and look towards the future, everything that has put you in this dark place will heal. As for dating... well, spend some time here, read the sidebar, I'm sure it will help, theres tons of good advice to absorb. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I hate my face and other issues.You list all the bad things about yourself... try and spend some time listing the good things about yourself. Your lack of self esteem isn't going to help things, I guarantee it. You do exercise on and off... thats not really doing it right. Start a program and keep at it, everyone can get jacked, but you can't be "on and off" about it, it takes 1-2 years of dedication. A lot of things take time, like reading the sidebar here and internalising it. Keep working on yourself, always do something fo… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Finally broke up with my girlfriend. Did I act impulsively/irrationally?She sounds a bit Bi polar. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Girls asking about my relationships and love , what a proper thing to say?To me its a bit rude to ask about that if you don't know someone, its a shit test in a way, so just try to deflect it. If you answer it you're entering her frame. See the shit tests posts in the sidebar and it should teach you how to deal with these kinds of questions. ANY question you don't want to answer you don't have to, sometimes it might be a good idea, but the best thing to do is to deflect it, but calibrate your deflection to the girl - so you know what kind of deflection will work for h… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Who pays on the first meetup/date?Like everyone else, I don't do expensive first dates, so it doesn't really matter... but for example, if in later dates we go to a restaurant, she has the chance to pay, if she doesn't offer then I wait for her to suggest going to a restaurant next (I won't encourage it again unless I really want to go), so then when she says, "lets go to a restaurant" I say, "ok but its your turn to pay", in a cocky/jokey way, then if she doesn't at least split the bill, I won't agree to go to one with her agai… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 29 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing BitchesTest out stuff on girls you're "only just" attracted to, then, if it doesn't work its not such a big deal. If you try it on girls you really like then you might get worried about blowing it, making the whole learning process more stressful. Not to mention less hotter girls are much easier to come by. The stuff that works on the less hot girls will work on the prettier ones, only better, because they'll be less used to hearing it. Its like if you were going to do carpentry, would you buy the most… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 06:47 AM |
| 3 | I get the number, but not the meetupI usually don't tell a girl I'll be at place X meet me at X time. This is what I said to a girl I met a few days ago (immediately after getting her #): "Are you free thursday evening? I prefer meeting instead of getting to know someone over text, more fun :)" (it worked) I know that isn't exactly the way that is advised by TRP, but I think it helps to remind them why you would ask to meet: because texting is a lame way to get to know someone. So you set the frame that you won't be getting to kno… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/16 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Feeling Utterly DefeatedHave you noticed that when you're getting laid, girls respond better? Its not because they are telepathically linked or psychic, its because you naturally display that you're a guy who gets laid, without even realising it (through body language and so on, mostly subconscious). The same thing happens when you're not getting laid. So its much easier to just get laid and let that do the work, rather than faking it. Faking it takes a lot of skill, natural takes much less effort. So I agree with the … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Is reading productive?Depends if you put what you've learned into practice or not. Its pointless having information/facts and so on if you never use them. But obviously if you read enough you will inevitably use some of what you've read. But my point is you don't just read and hope for the best, you do it with a purpose, thats when its most productive. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Utterly DefeatedIts really difficult to say exactly and with certainty what is causing this to happen, since we don't have a video of you talking to girls, which would probably highlight a few things. But I would guess that your desperation is showing even though you may think you're hiding it. It may be affecting you in ways that are obvious to girls but not to you (because, like the air around you, its become unnoticeable because its there all the time). I don't know if its a popular opinion on here or not bu… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Do first few hours of meet decide about the possibility of future sex?That guy made his move and was successful, you pretended to be her friend and made no move and were unsuccessful. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Screwed, Depressed and almost given up! Failed in relationships and life, 32 year old. I want to save myself.I would suggest you talk to a professional about this. The main thing is, which maybe you already know, is the more you do to help yourself, the better you'll feel. You need to work through what you have to do, when you're 50% of the way through it, you'll feel a lot better, and the remaining won't feel as bad. Everything you complete is another load off your mind. But if you have no motivation to begin, then thats the first thing you need to address, which is why I suggest seeing a professional… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Getting my beta friend to realize his habits.Don't worry about it, hes not listening to your advice anyway. You can't force the red pill down people's throats. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/16 03:15 AM |
| 4 | An Experiment at a DinerThats true, you can say what you like with your mouth, but your body language doesn't lie. So no matter how confident you think you are acting, you can't really show confidence unless you actually ARE confident, because your body language will give it away. Also faking body language can look really awkward. Thats why inner game is so important, because its the foundation of your outer game and how genuine it comes across. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | COLLEGE: Hooking up in a shared room/dormBasically anyone who you can trade with, if they have reasons why they want you to leave, you can trade it with them leaving when you want as well. Or someone who already goes out quite a bit, so then you don't really need to trade, you can just get to know when they're not there. I would just avoid either end of the spectrums, ie a hyper nerd who never leaves, or a hyper "alpha" who might not care about keeping up his end of the agreement. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/16 01:16 AM |
| 3 | COLLEGE: Hooking up in a shared room/dormOne thing you can do is a mutual agreement, you leave if he brings back a girl, and he does the same for you, its not like it takes that long to bang. Just go for a drink or go see some friends or something. If its like 2am, well you just have to plan in advance a bit, so coincide your pulling nights with him when they're going to be late, so its like, "Will you be out late on thursday? I might bring a girl back", he might say, "no but friday I will be", then you both go out on friday and try to… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 03:19 AM |
| 2 | A Longtime Lesbian FriendShe likes the idea that you're attracted to her and doesn't want to lose that attention. Its just really childish behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 08:23 PM |
| 1 | So I'm starting my journey but have one thing holding everything back. My shitty appearance. What part do I need to fix first in my appearance.Start with the easy things. Go to doctors about the red nose/cheeks, acne, bloodshot eyes. Cut out anything that could be causing it like bad diet, drugs, lack of sleep. Try some kind of lip balm for your dry lips. Idk what to do about dark circles under eyes and nasolabial folds. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 08:16 PM |
| 3 | How do heavy deadlifts and squats rewire your brain?Well people may think it only makes you physically stronger, but it also makes you mentally stronger. You push yourself until you succeed. So eventually you develop the mental attitude where you don't just give up. So when it comes to women, the same mindset works, where you just keep going, and will eventually succeed, and you don't get all despondent over failing, you just dust yourself off and get back on the horse. It doesn't come from doing just one deadlift, but from doing loads of them. I… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Guys 40 and over, how much harder is it now to get the 18-23 college aged girls compared to your 20's and 30's?When you say horizontally not vertically, you mean go from one girl to the next until you find one that is easy, rather than working on one girl that needs a lot of effort, right? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I won't ever get laid, how can I change this?Alright but either you get over that or never get laid. You're basically cock-blocking yourself because you don't think you're good enough, when you don't really know if you are or not because you haven't tried, you're just guessing. Maybe it'll make things more difficult but not impossible, you never know it might be in your head and not really a big deal at all. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 12:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I won't ever get laid, how can I change this?You've just got to do the best you can. So I'm pretty sure you know how you can look the best you can, so do that (lift/hairstyle/teeth/clothing/grooming). Then the best way to break out of the mindset that you're not going to get laid... is to get laid. But how? The funny thing is, as you have probably seen from your uncle, is that in a way, its really easy. All you have to do is say and do the right things. But it can build up in your mind as if its a huge thing. Mostly it comes down to a few … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Long Time Lurker RantI don't know what you should do, but if you know you want to do something, then look and probably you'll see something. You've got all these interests, when was the last time you got a new one? You probably got all those interests from trying new things, so maybe start trying new things again. You don't always know if you'll like something until you do it. Also maybe you're just in a boring time in your life, and you just need to ride it out. You said you're studying a lot, maybe its drained you… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 05:59 PM |
| 3 | What sort of feelings are ok to let a girl know you have?Its the free compliments that are the bad thing. She has to work for compliments, and if you say you like something about her, it should be specific, not just "I like you in general", that sounds like you'll let her get away with anything. So instead of complimenting her looks, compliment the outfit she chose, instead of saying shes a nice person, say you like how she was polite to the waiter when they got the order wrong. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 11:27 AM |
| 2 | I can't understand covert-communication AKA "womanese" and it's making it impossible for me to have long lasting relationships with women. Am I retarded?It just takes experience really, after a while you get to recognise the same things over and over, and how to act on it or respond to it. You have to see things a bit from their point of view, if you know why they're like it, you can be more ready for it. One thing you can do is learn body language. Body language is honest. But there isn't always a lot to go on, as a man you have to test the waters and take risks, and learn from experiences with women. All most of it is, is plausible deniability… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Not feeling good enough to attract womenIts great, imagine trying to build something but not knowing what materials you need, the book explains in detail what makes up self esteem, so while reading it, I identified some areas I could improve, and was able to assess where I am, and how to go about improving things. It would have been a lot more difficult without it. If you give the first few pages a read you should be able to tell its a good book. Everything is explained clearly and progressively, so its a pretty easy read. I really th… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Not feeling good enough to attract womenTry reading this book "The six pillars of self esteem" (by Nathaniel Branden), it explains the foundations of self esteem and how to go about improving it by making those foundations stronger. Its well written and easy to understand. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Going solo to a nightclub. What to do, What to expect.Have you tried day game? If you're only going out to clubs to game women, and you don't really have much experience, its not really worth it imo, unless you're extremely good looking anyway. Go if you like clubs/dancing etc, but its just not the best (or easiest) place to game. Approaching a girl sitting on a bench in public is way easier than approaching a girl in a club, and more likely to get you a result. If you're really set on club gaming, then its good to hang out near the bar, because us… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/16 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Need Advice on Texting on POF and TinderWhy are you asking what kind of guys they like? Whats the purpose of this question? You only have a few messages to get it done so don't waste it. "what are you looking for on here?" is better imo, you can just say, "great, me too", to whatever she says. Other than that, just ask them out, something like: "I'm looking for a date on tuesday, let me know if you can meet me at X at 8, I'd prefer to get to know you face to face instead of over text" Makes it sound like you have freed up the time for… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/16 01:17 PM |
| 11 | I dont get it. I want women but I can't seem to get anyMaybe try gaming somewhere else other than a bar, all the bitch shields are in place at a bar along with the cockblockers, loud music, loads of competition, and so on. You can try just getting numbers from girls in the street, I know it seems more intimidating than a bar, but they aren't expecting it, so they don't automatically reject you just on principle. You end up with some numbers (some will be fake, some won't reply), and then you meet up with them later, at a place you can control, maybe… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/16 10:59 AM |
| 2 | When you've been with so many women sex is no longer that great anymore.. What else is there..What is left? Whatever you want to do, try some new things you like the sound of. Women aren't everything, they're just a pleasure, you'll get sick of steaks if you eat them all the time, too. Especially if you rely on that one thing to make you happy, because when you get bored of it, theres nothing to fill the void. There are so many things you could do, that its really up to you, do some thinking on it. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 06:41 AM |
| 1 | am I mis-accurately assessing my SMV?Not really enough info, maybe your SMV is lower than you think, but maybe your game isn't as good as you think, or maybe you go to places where its difficult. So, maybe ask yourself the following questions: 1) What areas of your SMV could be bringing it down? Can you improve them? 2) What areas of your game could be letting you down? 3) Could you go somewhere else to try and pick up women? (eg. Daygame instead of bars/clubs) | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Going a little "nice guy" AFTER you've slept with a girl is actually a great way to screen out crazyThere is also Gamma, Omega and Sigma, but they aren't really talked about much here. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Instead of a friendly vibe, how can I give off more of a lover/sexual/romantic one?I had the same problem, but one thing thats been working for me is to remember why I'm talking to them in the first place. It sounds simple but it changes the way you behave, on a subtle level, but, thats good because you don't want to be too overt (escalation should start with small things and build up to the bigger things smoothly). Basically remember that you think they're sexy, and they turn you on, rather than having the frame of mind of being friends first. Really all you have to do is tre… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Don't you hate when people call you handsome in real life, but you get no action from online dating?Remember with online dating, you only have the smallest ways to show alpha-ness. The pics are most important, no selfies or looking at the lens, and have at least 3 pics, you need to look good in them, and not wimpy or too try hard. Just cool photos of yourself where you look like a man, not a boy or someone who just took a photo of themselves in a bathroom mirror. In the profile don't say anything beta, just say normal stuff like, "I like this, I like that, blah blah" and keep it fairly short. … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Started gym 6 months ago with close friend. He now looks much better than me, how do I get over the feeling of inferiority?Just focus on yourself, stop comparing yourself to others. Compare yourself to who you used to be, and see the improvement, and be happy with that. There are millions of people you could compare yourself to, who are much worse off than you, and millions who are better off. The only thing that matters is that you've achieved what you wanted today, and you're better off than yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Super Thirst on Social MediaIt doesn't change the nature of women though, they still respond best to alpha behaviour, no matter how much beta white knight bs is spread around. Some men learn this, some don't, its been this way for eons, the internet just magnifies it. I know its lame but thats just the way things are, and you can't really change it, because all those people believe in it, they can't even comprehend it not being that way. The good thing is, these days they have a chance to find something like TRP, when/if t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm a M(20) who just got flaked on by a F(18) on 4th time meeting. Going to describe the chat prior to the flake, did I correctly stay in TRP frame?It wasn't that bad compared to what loads of guys do, at least you were trying. So don't beat yourself up about it. Just remember to be on your guard, when trying to "fake" things. When you have loads of options and shes just another plate, it comes naturally, but when you're feeling things for her, you have to be extra vigilant of yourself, because its so easy to slip up and reveal what you're really thinking. Just remember girls communicate differently than men, with men its all straight talk,… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 12:54 AM |
| 2 | I'm a M(20) who just got flaked on by a F(18) on 4th time meeting. Going to describe the chat prior to the flake, did I correctly stay in TRP frame?Girls don't like to say "no", they drop hints, she was basically saying, "look I'm having fun with my friends now, its not going to happen", "I'm being really flakey now to put you off". Even though she didn't use those words, thats basically what she said, in woman talk. So your message is like saying (in woman talk), "I really hope theres a chance we can meet". Because, the fact that you held out, even though she was being flakey, means you do care, and the fact that you said you didn't care m… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Response to the statement that "All redpillers are fedora wearing loners"?"Why do you care?" | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys ask EVERY new girl if they have any sort of STD/Herpes before first time having sex?Also be careful when you take the condom off, almost no point in wearing it if you touch it, get the juices on your hands, and then touch your dick :D | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to develop/deepen your voice and stop people from cutting you off mid sentence?Speak from lower down, speak more from your chest instead of your throat, if that makes sense. It takes a bit of confidence to talk like this because its more dominant, what I mean is, it can be just as much of a mental thing as a physical thing to learn. Edit: Forgot to say, hang around with people with deeper voices, it can be contagious. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Where to find more "options".Do something that women go to, like yoga, dancing, art/crafts, cooking, sports (ie badmington/tennis), social groups, etc etc | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 12:23 AM |
| 29 | How do I deal with cockblockers and women in flocks at parties etc?If they're that bad, you could just get her number, enjoy your night, and arrange to meet her alone at a later date. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Is my response good here?Ah right, well if the goal is to game her with TRP, I would try to ignore what she said about the pic for now, and just try and get her out and meet you, since it'll be hard to TRP her over text. Basically just ask her to meet you and leave the ball in her court, if she wants to she will... theres not that much more you can do. I wouldn't argue about the pic or change it, just see if changing the subject to meeting up works. You could try, "lets meet and I'll consider changing the pic", idk... s… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Is my response good here?Why are you talking to her, what do you want from her? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How to Deal with AMOGingLOL @ the amount he couldn't take it when the shoe was on the other foot. I guess the best thing to do is just ignore them, they want you to play them at their game, just refuse to play... | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 04:02 PM |
| -1 | How would you respond to this, "What are those!?"Errrmm well, can't really defend him, the shoes were shit :D Also so was the shirt. All he can really do is walk away and learn from it. He could put up a fight, but then, that guy Pauly D will just chuck him out. So... not much he could do. He left himself open to ridicule without realising it. Its done, all he can do is remember next time don't wear shit shoes and a pink shirt (unless you're in charge of the venue, anyway). | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What is the single, simple move from TRP that has changed your success with women?Abundance mentality. Almost everything that women are attracted to comes from that. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 02:58 AM |
| 2 | My weird, confusing date with a Russian girl.They won't ever be sure that you're not a weirdo from your text messages. Thats why you meet in a public place, because you can never be 100% sure. That also makes trying to prove you're not a weirdo over text pretty pointless. They already know this. If you text them for ages its beta behaviour, basically like saying, "please go out with me, I'll send you all these texts! I'll prove to you I'm worthy!". Thats why it comes across as thirsty. You want the girl to think, "I better not screw this u… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 02:46 AM |
| 2 | My weird, confusing date with a Russian girl.I saw your unedited post. The texting was about 1000 times too much, text = logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 11:33 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - "You couldn't be any luckier"Yeah, with groups, just say fuck it and walk up. But I find it's best to approach from behind or to the side. You want to target the girl you like instead of announcing your approach to the whole group. Tap them on the shoulder to get their attention, or if next to them, you could say hi. They then turn away from the group and so you never really have to deal with the group, until maybe later, but by then she will introduce you and it won't be so awkward. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 10:21 AM |
| 8 | [FR] - "You couldn't be any luckier"Offer to buy a drink = beta (she done nothing to deserve it, you're already pedastalizing her). You thought she was cute = Same as above really, shes already won most of the battle + shes heard that "line" before. Lost friends at the bar, trying to make new ones = That sounds disingenuous, if you wanted to make friends, you'd probably talk to a man, after all, he probably won't 'reject' you. What I mean by that is immediately you have lied to her and its obvious. You wouldn't say any of those th… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Finding hot plates by Photography for amateur models in area?The thing thats good about the A6000 is it has a LCD viewfinder, which is extremely useful on sunny days, and it shows how the photo will actually look (instead of just being optical). But if you don't need that then you can look at the A5000/A5100 which are really similar but quite a bit cheaper. The Canon EOS 100D is a pretty good starter camera too, also the EOS M is good if you want something compact. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else not have any friends? I'm not lonely but it's annoying having noone to go to places and bars with.You could use meetup.com just to go with people. But when you get there, do mostly your own thing. You can start the evening with them and go back to them if you want to. I've never used that site myself though, so not sure what it will be like... but maybe worth a try. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | If a woman asks if you are a nice guy"Thats the kind of thing you have to find out for yourself" | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Finding hot plates by Photography for amateur models in area?I have a Sony A6000 camera, its a good one for the money (and can shoot video, though a proper video camera would be better), get it with the lens and it'll be good to practice with. Then get a decent lens for the kind of photos you want to take. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I keep falling into a dark hole of thinkingWell it depends if you really want it or not. The Universe has always been like this, life has always had to deal with it. It really just comes down to what you want, and if it takes a lot of work, then find some way to get your head round it and get it done. Its up to you, no one else is going to be able to say, "Actually the pussy is really worth it". Its your decision, its whatever you want. Just be clear with yourself, are you using the "pointlessness" thing as an excuse (because of being we… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Girl wants to get to know me first (then includes smiley face)Never have long convos over text or dating sites, its a waste of time, either they will meet or they won't, thats all there is to it. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | I get nervous and overthink girlsYou just need to do it. Most girls are really nice, if they're not then they aren't worth your time anyway. Just go up, introduce yourself, then ask how their night is going. Just as an example: "Yeah I'm having fun" So what else do you like to do aside from partying? "This thing, that thing" Oh, what is it that you like about that thing? "Blah blah blah blah" ;) | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Can't think when with girlsJust talk to them like any other person you want to be friends with, but make it flirty. Ask them about things that makes them talk about themselves, they like that and it makes things easier. You dont need to communicate your attraction much at all through direct words, its more about suggestion/body language/power talk, keep your intent clear in your mind and just talk about "anything". You don't really need to think about what to say (its more important to remember some things/behaviours NOT … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Confrontation at highschool, did I do the right thing from a redpill perspective?Maybe record some of what they say, so that if they ever do get you into a fight, you have some evidence to show that they started it. Something risky you could try, if you plan it carefully: Make sure a teacher is nearby, who can see both them and you. Simply stand near them (but try to have a reason why) If one of them shoves you, fall over like a football player, make out they really hurt you When the teacher comes over, say they were picking on you and trying to start a fight Also have the r… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Confrontation at highschool, did I do the right thing from a redpill perspective?Sounds good to me, in my experience, these kind of people will move on if they don't get what they want, they'll find someone else whos more entertaining to them (easier prey). | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Treat her like a princess. Put her on a pedestal.Pretty cool way of putting it, but I prefer if TRP is presented as straight talk. The less confusion over what things mean the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Help me digest this one.Maybe like you said she just isn't used to that kind of place. So maybe she's the kind of girl who prefers less upscale places where things are less formal and more relaxed. I usually keep my first dates fairly neutral, not too high end not too low end. Dress semi-casual. THEN if you determine she likes upscale things, you can take her to those places (but tbh I would steer clear of women like that, its kind of gold-diggerish). I've been on dates before where women tell me about their other date… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 08:17 AM |
| 3 | I wear a top denture..Well I guess its like most things, you just have to "own it", if you're not ok with it then how do you expect anyone else to be? Btw I knew someone with dentures, he done well with women, he didn't give a shit lol. But I get that at some point there has to be the "reveal" and its scary. But I think its something you're not obligated to tell anyone. So just kiss when you want to kiss, if they say something, then say, "oh yeah I had an accident when I was younger while skating", like its nothing. … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How does the TRP work after 20s?I used to know a guy who was in his late 40s and he pulled girls in their early 20s. He was short, bald, had false teeth, he was even a bit podgy. He was NOT tough or good looking. But he did have a "look" about him (like an IDGAF look, he was the opposite of nerdy). He had a 23 year old blonde gf who was pretty attractive and slim. The thing about this guy was he was so much fun to be around, it was who he was that made him attractive. He was a good salesman and so on. Theres too much to explai… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How to become a better person and swallow the red pill ?If you have enough money, I would advise to get: A 7 foot olympic bar Olympic weight set (something like 2x 1.25kg / 2x 2.5kg / 4x 5kg / 2x 10kg / 2x 20kg) Power rack or Squat rack Bench It will cost about $450 (you could spend a lot more but you can do it for this much). Then you can do things like starting strength, stronglifts and so on. The final thing to do is get a personal trainer to come round and show you how to do the exercises, its much better than just reading from a book or videos. … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Is this the right way to keep my frame and be in control?I would say, diffuse him. Isn't he being immature? Doesn't he show lack of self esteem? Call him out on it. Say things which make him feel stupid, and everyone else feel stupid for enabling him. Maybe something like: "Isn't it hard to think when you have some guy in your ear, trying to make up for his lack of self esteem?!?" "Ah, that noise again, we need to call someone to fix that" "Someone silence the child please, I'm trying to work" Most people have weak frame, so, in your frame, make him t… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | IOI or not? (are "false negative" IOIs a thing?)I suppose, I just rather flirt in less local places, nearby places I may visit again and again, I like to keep them business only Oo but like I said it was a new thing for me, so I was curious. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | IOI or not? (are "false negative" IOIs a thing?)I'm not worried xD Why give a shit? Why not learn about women, thats why we're here isn't it? I mean it doesn't matter if shes a "minimum wage paid bitch", shes female, shes come from the same line of evolution as all the others. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | IOI or not? (are "false negative" IOIs a thing?)I bet a million dollars she didn't do that face to the last person, though. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | IOI or not? (are "false negative" IOIs a thing?)Yeah, thats exactly what I wanted to discuss. I couldn't care less about that particular girl. But I am interested in what goes on in the female mind. At the same time I want to keep myself in check. I don't want to go around thinking I have it all worked out. So I'm just asking, am I going too far, or am I seeing it right? Thats all ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else only fuck girls one time and not make them plates?Its normal in certain circumstances, but who knows what yours are. Are you going after girls you don't really find attractive? Its probably normal then. They've all been bad in bed? Normal. I mean its not much of a surprise if they're not attractive to you or bad in bed, that you wouldn't want to see them again. But if you are finding some are attractive and good in bed, then maybe ask yourself why you wouldn't want to see them again. Maybe you just like the constant novelty, but ask yourself (i… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Lost VirginityWell, sex isn't great in and of itself, it depends on lots of things. A lot of people's first time isn't that great, theres too much to think about, its too new. The more you get used to it, the more scope for fun there is. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 10:02 PM |
| 6 | These HOES ain't loyalIt really goes to show how true TRP is. I mean look at all those reasons to stick with Dan, and the reasons not to go with "daddy", but none of that logic even enters the equation, its all based on emotions/tingles/masculinity and literally nothing else. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How often should you take the initiativeIsn't that losing frame? She wants you to text her, so if you give in, you're doing what SHE wants. I think the general advice on here is to text her when you want to do something, other than that keep the texting to a minimum. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | "Are you looking to hook up. lol""I just work late today" / "I've got some things to take care of" Then its diffused without you really answering the question. You don't want to say or insinuate yes or no to that question. Its best left a mystery, after all, in her mind she hasn't even met you yet. If she pushes the question: "But really, are you looking to hook up?", then just answer with something like: "When I meet someone I let things take their natural course, we could be friends, we could be more, but its too early to tel… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 07:48 PM |
| 3 | What is your view of Tinder?This might help you https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3dajcf/the_rp_comprehensive_guide_to_dating_sites/ | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamI suppose its just the fear that comes from realising its not how I thought it was, and so I don't know if I'll enjoy it as much. But what people say is true, theres only really two options - turn my back on it and give up, or move forward and find out for myself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamYeah, that does fit me better, thanks. I don't really want to be an alpha male, it doesn't suit me. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamHe means sigma male, search that, theres loads of info about it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamYeah, I think what happened is, even though I've known about TRP, I never really believed it. But now its finally sunk in, and I can't deny it, it does make me angry, because I can't just brush it off. Its like the last finger I was hanging on with finally slipped off the ledge. It does make me feel better that its a phase that other people have been through though, and they seem to be happy enough once they've come through it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamI see what you mean. I'm probably just uncomfortable with it because I'm not used to it. I suppose the more I get into it, the more I might like it, even though its not what I expected or initially wanted. At the moment it seems like a cruel trick. A bit like if you trained to be a mechanic, but when you've finished, there are no mechanic jobs, but theres loads of openings for artists. So then you have to go and learn how to be an artist. But it doesn't mean you'll hate being an artist, its just… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamI'm happy with every other area of life, because its pretty straight forward. What I thought I would get, I got. Its fine. I'm happy with myself. Relationships are the problem - the whole dynamic of it. The fakeness of it, in spite of the reality of it. TRP is not a problem and I don't dismiss it, I accept it. But acceptance isn't the same as liking it. I don't disagree that TRP is the truth, and that its methods are the best way forward. I just don't like that it is the best way. I feel that we… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamThe whole point is you won't accomplish what you always wanted. Not with women. Its the one area where you don't get to win. Lets say you want to make money, you can probably do that. Lets say you want to get into a relationship where the woman loves you, you can't do that, ever. You'll always be propping up "rental love" forever. All I'm saying is, its a disappointment, and no amount of winning at the game you didn't care to win is going to make up for it. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 02:37 AM |
| 3 | I almost never cum from a bj, is there anything I can do about this?Main thing is just dialing down how fast you need to go in order to cum, basically set a limit on it, and that limit is about the speed you can get from sex or a bj. If you get used to faster than that, it'll make things more difficult. Also watch your breathing when you're intimate with a girl, take some deep breaths and slow it down, if you're nervous and taking fast & shallow breaths, then it'll be more difficult to relax, which is important (think about how relaxed you are when jerking off v… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 05:25 PM |
| 4 | I almost never cum from a bj, is there anything I can do about this?Maybe you don't deathgrip but you might need to go fast to cum, faster than she can blow you. So maybe try going slower and get used to that. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Where can I get the most honest possible opinions regarding my appearance? Since asking people is awkward and usually not as truthfulSign up to beatifulpeople.com, if you get in, you're above 4/10 | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Urgent: About to lose virginity; no idea what to doWell you know what to do physically don't you? :D Just be confident, the worst thing you can do is puss out on making moves. A good thing to do is while kissing, explore how far you can go with touching her, start off just touching her body, then gradually move to her boobs and inner thigh, if shes responsive to it, go further. You can offer her oral which will get her knickers off and get her turned on for sex. Then all you have to do is have a hard on and stick it in :D The two important thing… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 02:21 AM |
| 3 | TRP taught me to understand and love women.AWALT, Shit tests and so on are just nature, TRP is just like David Attenborough explaining it all ;) Its not TRP's fault thats how things are. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Been away from the RedPill too longIMO if its long distance don't bother, its really beta to do long distance, unless you only talk to her when shes in the area. As in, "hit me up when you're in my area, maybe we can see each other", then just leave it at that. All it really seems to boil down to is, you're admitting by texting/snapchatting with her that you can't get someone like her where you are, else you probably wouldn't bother. So she knows she has the power, and thats not attractive. Sounds like she used you for validation… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What if TRP is wrong?Maybe its more like a compass, keep going "north" (aka alpha) rather than "south" (aka beta), maybe you'll end up "north-west", but its better than "south-west" O_o | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | If you start from rock-bottom SMV and your buddies start talking about sexual exploits and comparing, should you abstain from talking since you don't get laid much or should you bullshit?If you lie, they won't only think you get none, they'll think you're upset about it :) They may not think this straight away, but one day it could all come crashing down if they see you're not as good as you made out to be. If they ask, just say you don't really like talking about it, its just the way you are. If they push, just say something like, "well I wouldn't want to make you all feel bad about how much better I'm doing", but not in a serious way, in a jokey way so its ambiguous. Just igno… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | If sex is the overall component of non-platonic relationships with women, why not just hire prostitutes?You can argue that time is money and its the same thing, but that would be missing the difference in arousal. If a woman wants you, and you've successfully bedded her, its more enjoyable, more of an achievement, it makes sex 10 times better. You won vs you lost and had to degrade yourself (in the sense that you had to submit to NO challenge == a whore). What kind of a MAN has to go to someone who offers no challenge? Who offers no sense of achievement, who will fuck anyone? It says something abo… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Plates vagina stinksBuy her some femfresh | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Help needed... Fallen for the wrong girl...You have to ignore your emotions about it for a second and actually weigh up the pros and cons, and when you see there are more cons than pros, you have to make a FINAL decision on what you want to do, and stick with it. Thats really all there is to it. Not saying its easy but that IS how it is. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Almost a year and still treading waterI'm reading a book at the moment called "the 6 pillars of self esteem", it might help. I don't think you can be happy if you don't feel good about yourself, if you don't feel you deserve to be happy, or theres so much negativity that it outweighs any happiness. If you think things like, "I'm useless", "I'm not good at xyz", try to think of things you are good at, and that you're a good person, remind yourself on a constant basis that you do deserve happiness, until it becomes second nature, and … | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 02:21 PM |
| 3 | The Betaization Process -Is It Really Inevitable?I think its true that once you've gone past the point of no return, you can't go back, you've been betarized. The trick is knowing when to be beta, because too much alpha will ruin things too. You want to be the alpha who knows when to smooth things over, no more no less. Its a right pain in the ass, walking a knife edge for the entire relationship. But I guess the more you do it, the more you get used to it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/16 12:59 PM |
| 1 | I can't get one plate and it's killing myself esteemThis is what happens when you put pussy on the pedestal. You will fail with women at first, it hurts, I know. But the important thing is that they're not everything. In other words find something else that you can be proud of that makes you happy, so when you get rejected you have something else to do rather than wallow in self pity. Trust me it really helps. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do I get over the fear that I will never get laid at college/university?How good is your game? If not great, then you can't say for certain that looks will hold you back. If you've done or are doing everything you can about your looks, worry more about game, because there's a lot to learn and even if you're good looking, bad game will sabotage you every step of the way. Use focussing on game as a way to get your mind off your looks, it's what I'm doing. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Lack of confidenceYou basically have to fail until you stop failing, each time is a lesson you can learn from, see it that way, and theres value in everything, even the failures. Confidence will come when you gradually begin improving and seeing results. You have to forget feeling sad about it, and just focus on what you can improve. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Almost a year and still treading waterWhy Live? There is no default reason. You make your own reason. Not that its easy, you have to know yourself, you can't plan for something if you don't know you'll like it. But your first goals can be just that, to find out what you like, then make new goals. Keep going until you know what "the" goal will be, and you'll make plans which align with that goal. You have to really want it, but I'm sure its inside of you somewhere, a desire to do something, other than get a girlfriend. You just have … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Face or game?The thing is I'm still not sure. I'm thinking maybe its just very easy to underestimate two things about game: 1) That its not important / doesn't override looks to any great extent 2) That its not that hard Sending simple opening messages is a difficult one to realise, even when you do it by accident and it works, its easy to forget thats what worked, its easy to think it was something else. Not to mention girls don't make it easy when so many of them tell you specifically NOT to do that, I did… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Face or game?Ok, thanks. I'm already doing the looks things. I looked in the sidebar and read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3dajcf/the_rp_comprehensive_guide_to_dating_sites/ I hadn't seen that before, but after reading it I realised this is exactly what I done every time I got a date with a girl I liked. The ones that failed were when I wrote too much as an opener. Also I done everything else almost exactly the same (the girl even sends the same messages), its not until I meet them that… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Was this girl interested in me?!?I think she sounds interested. All you have to do is say something like, "You seem nice, want to have a drink some time?". If she says yes, get her number. Its not like you've been nasty to her or anything, so if she says no, just be friendly and say, "Ok nice meeting you anyway, see you later". You can't always tell 100% if someone likes you until you ask, so if you really want to know, you just have to have the confidence to find out. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 12:42 AM |
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