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| 2 | To the person who just asked what he can do to improve his face - here is my answer. Someone made fun of you and you deleted the topic before I finished the response.agreed | /r/askTRP | 06/08/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What about Roosh V and other "Red Pill Celebrtities"?Not as big as the names youve mentioned but I think /u/no_face has some great fucking posts. His writings have helped me a lot. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 10:57 PM |
| 0 | On Smoking WeedYou sound like my mother. Do a bit more research, have articles at the ready and try posting again without being condescending. And try addressing other substances as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 11:52 PM |
| 9 | How to get ahead as a 5ft4 dude?Lift more. If you feel insecure about your height and feel the need to compensate for it; get jacked. Personally I think you should just accept the fact that you're a bit short. Sure women have a preference for tall guys, but that doesn't mean a 5ft4 alpha is out of the picture. Learn to accept the parts of yourself that you cant change. Also, congratulations on getting in to med school. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | [META] Reddit rolls out first ban wave of "Harassing Subreddits"We'll still have Puerarchy. Also we dont tend to expand to other subreddits (unless its related to RP) so we might just get breezed over. Probably not, but there is a chance. Hopefully they fix up puerarchy to be a bit like reddit ie. usernames and such. Regardless its been a pleasure gents! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Ex-wife giving me stuffBitches be crazy. Careful about what she puts in those edible gifts. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What I’ve learned from having my first set of platesLol this is exactly what I mean. The problem is, they are the majority in the area I currently live. And they seem to be the majority back in my hometown too... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:27 PM |
| 24 | What I’ve learned from having my first set of platesI don't think karma exists. Some bad people have great lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 11:44 PM |
| 14 | Flirting with girls while on the jobI try not to shit where I eat. If a girl takes something the wrong way she has the power to call you out, maybe go to your boss. That being said I'd say it also depends on where you work. This summer I'll be working as a bartender and the guy who got me in said its one of the best places/positions to pick up girls. If you must approach them just treat it as you would any random street encounter. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, my captain cheated on me and I'm not sure how to proceedFuck him. Anyone who cant stay committed to you is not worth your love/affection. See it as a gift, you could have married a guy who is stupidly impulsive and untrustworthy. I've been cheated on too, it'll take time but you'll get over it and be stronger afterwards. Some tips: -Cut all contact (social media included). If you see him out and he approaches you, be civil - but be firm. You are not his gf anymore. Take care | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Got a new student willing to do anything. Give me ideas!Have her eat taco bell then put it in her pooper... If shes willing to do anything just have her do what you want to do lol | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 05:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop myself getting upset about a hopeful LTR failure?Judging by you getting strung up by one girl I don't think you're even ready to enter a relationship. She could be different, cool, funny etc but you have to understand there are literally thousands of woman out there that can be interesting to you. Get some plates first, and try not to jump into a relationship if you still get nervous about being rejected by girls who present themselves as "interesting". | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 05:12 AM |
| 2 | How early in the relationship with a new plate do you make it clear that she's not the only girl you're dating?I told my 2 FWB's that I had no intention of dating/relationships when I first met them. Of course I didn't introduce myself like that, but when the topic of relationships/sex came up I told them. I used to be led on all the time in high school. Hell, I kinda feel like I was led on in my last relationship. I know how it feels and I wont do that to someone who may actually like me or want a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | I have *feminine* interests like drawing, literature, and poetry. I feel ashamed. What do you think?I think some of the greatest artists were men. Da Vinci, Van Gough, Salvador Dali. Nothing feminine about poetry, literature, or finding beauty in everyday life either. You're cultured, you can stand out a lot like that. Don't worry so much. Just be you; as long as you lift, maintain frame, and spit game. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Is there a "beta allowance scale" I can use to be more approachable among the younger crowd of college girls 18-20?Girls usually don't approach ever. The worst thing that can happen to them is a rejection from a good looking guy, based on their personality (which most girls at this age lack). Just approach them when you see them eye fucking you. Its not that hard. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Classy Cunt Convinces Clueless Cuck to ConformYes you can not be a sarcastic shit. I feel this (posting BP stuff) is along the lines of posting something from jezebel or some shit. I think its unproductive. If you disagree that's fine but don't be childish. Its embarrassing. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Classy Cunt Convinces Clueless Cuck to ConformYes it's only our ideology that makes us stupid/fat/ugly. They group everyone here as a woman hating virgin. They don't understand that not everyone here is following a set path. There is no one way to follow TRP. Just like that "Salad Bar" post said. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Classy Cunt Convinces Clueless Cuck to ConformFrom her own admission: "The good advice (like work out and make yourself a confident person) worked No shit it worked. So maybe she bagged an alpha after all. I remember her saying he still says "sexist" shit sometimes too, she just blows it off and disagrees. He now apparently shares her viewpoints as a feminist ally. So you can be a feminist and get with girls, just be hot and confident... I wonder if we'll see any follow up posts from this girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Classy Cunt Convinces Clueless Cuck to ConformI always thought blue pill was just a term we used here... I actually never thought there was a blue pill subbreddit. After looking through their stuff they take everything posted here as a lie, so in like - I'm going to go ahead and take this story with a grain of salt. Maybe she did "convert" this guy to her opinion, if their both happy (which we wont know from his side) all the better to both of them. Hopefully she wont fuck him over when Chad thundercock comes around. Maybe this dude is DT a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I just can't do it.I struggle with that still on rare occasions too, don't worry. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 03:23 AM |
| 4 | InsolesHeight can add to your SMV. But I'd rather deal with being under 6" than getting insoles to be taller. Lol imagine insoles slipping out when you take off your shoes in front of a girl. Imagine her questioning as to why you're shorter sometimes. Its as sad as a girl who's insecure and has to stuff up her bra. Deal with it smurf. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 03:20 AM |
| 6 | This girl I just went on a date with...she's very fat (cute face though), but great personality, and she's super kinky and into my fetishes. I want to make her a fuck buddy, not LTR. What to do?Bestiality is such an odd fetish. Ill never understand it. Anyways just state your intentions and take it from there. Make sure you guys only meet up to fuck, and don't hang out in public together... or at all... unless you're fucking. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 03:16 AM |
| 7 | I just can't do it.You get attached because you might not be used to the attention. That's what happened to me. I find myself pulled to the more traditional monogamous relationship stuff as well. I guess you put it as "morals". But here's what I've been doing. Start with 1 FWB; someone who you are attracted to enough to have sex with, but turned off by their attitude/personality to not stay with them. Then do that to another girl. Boom now you have plates. Plates will raise your SMV through providing confidence, a… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 03:02 AM |
| 12 | Gf wants to do naked shootsMy girlfriend met a photographer who does naked shoots and the photos would be for private use. So no modelling catalog and no portfolio? A dude is taking pics of your girl naked? Don't be an idiot. Next her. You're obviously blinded by feelz so you shouldnt keep her as a plate. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 02:52 AM |
| 3 | GF called me another guys name during sex.I would go radio silent and see what she does. Hell, regardless of what she might say/do I'd even dump her. I've never had this happen to me, but I'd be livid. Keep that frame however its going to be your best friend. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Ear piercings and TattoosYou don't need tattoos or piercings to improve your aesthetics. Go on and get the piercing if you really want it, but remember tattoos are permanent. I know someone who got a cross tattoo at 18 who is now an atheist at 20. If you're that set on getting a tattoo do this: print it up on a paper then put it on your mirror and keep it there for 8 months (minimum). If you don't get sick of looking at it, go ahead and get it. That method has talked me out of 2 tattoos so far. Also you're parents shoul… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it easier to swallow the pill when living on your own?Yes and no. Its hard swallowing the pill no matter what. I live alone so certain aspects are easier to enact however; ie I can bring girls home whenever. And don't make a huge fuss about moving out. Especially if you have to pay for it yourself. Most of my expenses are covered by student grants and my parents (well off family), but shit is still expensive. Save that money! | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Expressed my feelings, got rejected because has bf. calls back crying...She doesn't want to be your friend. She wants an orbiter who she knows is attracted to her. Validation is like fucking crack for women. Think about yourself - seeing her frequently while having feelings for her, but never being able to enact those feelings? No thanks. A little FYI most women you meet will never be friends of yours in the true sense of the word. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | FR: AWALT, My LTR after surgery drops bombs.This depressed the fuck out of me. How much do these girls keep bottled up? How can it not effect their conscious? Lying to someone you love. Fucking them to the one celebrity you could get with but not keep. God Damn. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 02:01 AM |
| 11 | Don't know how to fix my mind... Starting to lose hope. Would like some objective perspectives from TRPers.Sometimes you just don't belong in certain places. I am miserable when I go out to nightclubs for example so I avoid them. Find an environment your comfortable with then work there. Practice your social skills in said environment then bring it out slowly. As for feeling inferior, this is a very big insecurity - one I used to have. Honestly I still have it, but only with certain people. I think it will just go away eventually (it has been for me) but you may want to see a therapist to speed thing… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Music to smash to?Banks "Waiting Game" "Brain" "Goddess", everything by The Weeknd, most things by Frank Ocean, Lorde "Buzzcut Season", Some of the new JT stuff. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What To Do In An ApartmentReading books increases your vocabulary, writing skills, and can improve your memory. Also if you read non-fiction you'll probably learn something new. Sure video games are entertaining and awesome, but they're really just a waste of time for entertainment. Sure it takes a certain level of "skill" to be good at Dota or something. But, I'd rather be well read in subjects I enjoy than brag about my win/loss ratio on Dota. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/15 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Warlock's LawYeah I actually read somewhere that Sweden is at risk to drop into being a third world country in like 50 years or so... if I can find it I'll link it here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 02:23 AM |
| 3 | What To Do In An ApartmentHe has created a 3-D map of our state and is almost finished painting it; he has an Enterprise to deck out once the map is finished; he works out Sounds like he's got a bit to do already. Netflix, and video games are great and all, but realistically they are just time wasters. More things to do; read, cook together (you can make that very fun), and really just find things both of you can do (time permitting). Don't think of that hiking bit short term, make it into a hobby - something the both of… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/15 02:18 AM |
| 3 | My old oneitis is trying to get me backDon't go back, don't respond. If you see her in public just be civil and keep it short. You sound like you need a lot more work on yourself before you start going after girls again, let alone someone you were previously attached to. You'll make it though man. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/15 01:55 AM |
| 30 | My redpill walk away rulesYou put too much thought and effort into something simple. Don't like whats going on? Walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Pedestalizing certain types of women and how to stop doing it.You've posted this already and I'm tired of answering shit like this. Read the sidebar and go lift. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 09:54 PM |
| 4 | I only have 2 bluepill "friends" from before getting into the pill - Do I leave them behind?I have BP friends, I have feminist friends. As much as they annoy me with their theories I love them to death. They're real bros. If these guys are your real friends, in the true sense of the word, why cut them off for their views? That being said if they don't add to your life, or they bring in some toxicity you'll probably have to cut them off eventually. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girlsWatch some RSD videos, maybe some simple pickup, but the best thing to do is to just slowly work your way up to approaching. If you read Models by Mark Manson, there is an exercise you can do to get more comfortable talking with people. I'm not giving you the whole thing but here it is in a nutshell. Start by asking someone (try for girls only) the time, 5x a day, for 1 week. Then ask them the time, and make a comment on the weather, etc. It'll be awkward sometimes but its better than not even t… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Oneitis ChallengesHalf sister means they're still related right? If so that is fucking disgusting. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out for the very first time in my lifeCongratulations! Make that the first of many approaches. Keep lifting, reading, and running game. Finding friends will help with social skills (I know its easier said than done but remember; people want to like you). We're all gonna make it someday. And careful about NoFap. I like that place too and find it positive, but its full of beta idealizations. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 04:48 AM |
| 6 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”You already posted saying you don't believe the story and that's fine. Try not to be an ass about it now. I post things here for good feedback, not to wallow in fake internet points. I appreciate the insight you gave me before but if you're going to post unproductive, sarcastic shit then fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 03:03 AM |
| 19 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”Yeah it did. I'm relatively new when it comes to approaching women. After reading some comments here I guess she was into me from the start, and I just misread her and acted like a douche. I was pretty surprised with the affection she gave me afterwards. I personally don't see myself as having an SMV high enough to do what I did but hey, I guess it was all in the moment. Ill be reading those books when I can, thanks for the recommendations. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 08:37 PM |
| 30 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”Yeah she is not a very interesting person aside from her beauty. I don't think feelings will be too much of a problem, and honestly I don't expect this to last very long. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 08:10 PM |
| 8 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”It's fuckwads like you that drive me. When you're a washed up loser, Ill be in my prime. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”I have a problem recognizing shit tests and girls who are just being bitchy. I always just assume the worst of people, but I'm working on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 07:56 PM |
| 12 | [FR] “What makes you think you have a shot with me?”At the time I didn't even think of her being playful... I just automatically assumed she was being a bitch. I got to work on that guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Putting certain types of women on a pedestalnand how to STOP doing it.My friend, you have posted time and time again and it is always the same thing. You should be posting this to /r/askTRP but I'll answer you here. You need to go on a monk mode. Get women out of your head, they're not that important anyways. Start lifting (if you haven't), read the sidebar again, read some books, and address this obsession you have with blonde women. And if you want to fuck a blonde woman so bad just hire an escort, honestly. They're nothing special - just like most of the girls … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How are you improving yourself?I've been doing a mixology class on and off. Its fun man. I've really gotten into it, and its cool to experiment with different mixtures. And nothing loosens up any potential LMR like a good cocktail (PSA if the girl is wasted don't hit it, fool) Other than that its the usual: Lifting, reading, cooking, and studying a new language. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Continue improving yourself but let go of the idea that the hot girls who passed you up are going to suffer.I have this problem. Throughout high-school I was ignored, then the first girlfriend I had left me for another guy. Ever since it feels as though I'm trying to improve myself to spite them, and it bothers me. Because the things I'm doing to improve myself (except for learning Portuguese) ARE for the purpose of attracting women. Attracting new girls, and making old ones jealous seems to be my only motivation - and I don't think its the healthiest motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Hypothetical situation: Almost all of the hot girls in your area go for white guys but you are not white, should you even bother trying?Maybe Canada is different from the states but I do see white girls with non-white boyfriends. Hell, a friend of mine is Sri Lankan-Canadian and dating a pretty good looking blonde girl (and that's coming from someone who doesn't find blondes to be all that attractive). But, to answer your ending question... give up. Let us steal your women. Live life on your own and watch us bang all the girls from little-India to Korea-town. This is race whining without stating your race. Get your shit together… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Reaching your mental peakOf asking what? There was no question in either of my posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Reaching your mental peakAnyone planning on taking St. Johns Wort should speak to their MD or Pharmacist to see if it will be beneficial for them. And I wouldn't give out any dosage recommendations unless I was one of the above professions. Just because St. Johns Wort is natural and available OTC doesn't mean it will be a quick help. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Reaching your mental peakThis isn't a guide on mental fitness. It encompasses one aspect being: memory and "other cognitive functions", but doesn't talk about the equally (and some would argue more) important aspects such as emotional well-being, self esteem and self image, conceptualization etc. It also doesn't have much detail; especially for some of the drugs you talk about. In addition one link doesn't send you to a nootropic forum directly, and the other looks like its just trying to sell you the product instead of… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 03:00 AM |
| 1 | She stopped resonding. Wondering what my next move should be?Don't text her, but don't next this girl based on one unresponsive text. But, if she flakes on you a second time that's when I'd soft next. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Does it piss anyone else off that men are basically excluded from a ton of things, while women are not?So be passionate about those things and go do them. Why do you give a fuck about what people will think of you? Or whether they accept you? If you're that passionate about it, go do it instead of whining. If you still care about what others think with all this passion you have then you have some insecurities that you have to take care of. I'm a male nursing student. I'm in a female dominated field. I'm passionate about the care I give to my patients. I don't give a fuck about someone thinking I'… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Height and Women♂ | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask again ?You've been stuck on a single girl who has shown no interest in you for this long? Go read the side bar, and follow that up with a monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Does it piss anyone else off that men are basically excluded from a ton of things, while women are not?Men have satchels. But seriously who gives a fuck? Lots of whining here... you shouldn't care about what they can do and what you perceive you cant do. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Is stealing/cheating red pill?They wouldn't be forced to do anything. They are strong independent women, and it is in their nature to branch swing. They look for the highest status man they can get. And good luck getting the collective liberal hivemind to start slut-shaming anytime soon. That being said you have the power to reject a woman's branch swinging attempt if you are the "recipient" of it. And that choice is up to you and your morals. Think shes hot? Steal her, fuck her good, but you're an idiot if you think shes a … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 09:51 PM |
| 21 | Stay stoic in the worst of situations always pays off.Shit man, I'm hoping your daughter turns out OK. Always a shame when someone is diagnosed with cancer, especially when they are that young. No matter what happens just keep that calm you seem to have. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 03:51 AM |
| 1 | The red pill's truth about race/ethnicity.Don't put on any "act", just be yourself as long as you have an alpha mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Odd trend I have witnessed about how women react when you hold doors open for them vs their ethnicity. Still AWALT?AWALT no matter her ethnicity And I hope that this ethnicity thing isn't the next big "trend" here. The movie thing was enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 03:29 AM |
| 1 | The truth behind the Blue Pill vs Red Pill mentality.Have you tried the lifestyle we live? Do you lift/read/meditate/learn new things on the daily? Have you tried improving yourself naturally instead of taking psychedelics and believing you're enlightened? Because that's what the TRP theory does for me. I take responsibility by improving myself. Women are a byproduct of my improvement, and I don't feel as though I'm superior - but I acknowledge that we are extremely different. And have you read the field reports? Guys are going out there and tryin… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 03:20 AM |
| 1 | The red pill's truth about race/ethnicity.I've seen it. My buddy is Sri Lankan (born in Canada) dating a French Canadian blonde. He is jacked as fuck, and from a rich family so his SMV is pretty good I guess. If he wasn't the above 2 things however, who knows if she'd be with him. Like I said, I think race matters, but not that much. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 02:40 AM |
| 3 | The red pill's truth about race/ethnicity.I like Mark Manson's take on this kind of thing. Polarization. From what I can tell black males polarize women the most. Its usually one of two extremes; either "don't steal/rape/assault/etc me", or "please fuck me". I also noticed Indian and Asian men generally have negative responses, but every once and a while there's the girl that's interested in them just for their race. And white guys like myself are in a nice spot I think. I notice we (generally) polarize Asian, Indian, and Latina girls m… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Low Volume Growling as Alpha IntimidationI'd pay to see a video of someone doing a low pitch growl towards another human to assert their dominance. That would be some funny shit man. Straight out of an r/cringe thread... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 03:48 AM |
| 6 | Drugs and alcoholI love weed. Weed feels fucking amazing. But, I've noticed I am demotivated as fuck when I smoke. I don't want to do anything. No reading, no working out, no trying to pick up girls. So, I try to stay away from it now. I smoke very rarely and the good side of this is that now when I do smoke I get high as fuck (body isn't used to it anymore). You shouldn't use stimulants or depressants as a crutch (especially alcohol; people don't realize how dangerous it can really be). Try going on a little mo… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Give it to me straight, RPersbeen around the block I'm going to assume you mean shes gotten dicked by the entire neighborhood. You want the neighborhood bike when its old, rusted, and used up? I wouldn't. You haven't given us very much but, from what you have given, I guarantee most guys here will tell you to next or keep her as just a plate. I'd say next. After all why waste time on a girl who hasn't even put out on the 3rd date when she has probably done worse with other guys who have put in less effort. You're better tha… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Are you gay?Sometimes when a guy takes care of himself and holds himself highly, people assume he is gay. Its not a compliment or an insult. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Which girl to select out of these two?If you're looking for an LTR number one is the clear choice I think (although she has a few qualities I would not consider for LTR). If you're not going for the LTR keep both, and look for even more. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Nothing Going For Me At 20.I empathize with you man, a lot. I'm also 20 and at one point not too long ago I felt completely unmotivated. But we're young man. We have an amazing potential for growth, we have a head start. Look at what you have going now - and what it will be in the future. STEM guys make a fuck-tonne of money. Read up on u/IllimitableMan 's link on monk mode. Its the same one I read. Not seeing gains? I wasn't seeing gains because I wasn't on an actual program. SL5x5 and Starting strength are amazing. As f… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 01:52 AM |
| 4 | I am aware I have deep seeded beta tendencies and noticed I actively avoid women even though I want one in my life. What is step 1 to bettering myself?Its said on this sub over and over my friend... Lift, read, and find a hobby. Don't worry about getting a woman yet, they don't matter that much anyways. In fact, I've noticed they don't add very much to your life in general. Once you got your shit on track they usually make themselves available to you anyways. At that point just continue to do what you were doing, and enjoy that female attention. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Good SGM-Worthy Sex Scenes?Why watch the scene when you can make it yourself? Go out and find someone to sleep with and just follow SGM. I understand you might want to visualize it before experiencing it maybe... but trust me. Its better to act than it is to dream. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with my LTR of 2 + years.. not handling it wellListen to this man right here OP. Went through something similar myself and I can assure you everything is indeed a gift. I am grateful for the relationship I once had. I had some good times and learned a lot about myself. I'm also better prepared for my next relationship - if I ever choose to have another one. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Best way to compete for an indecisive prospect?Status can be obtained through networking wherever you frequent most. Lets say Jack goes to clubs all the time. If he builds a rapport there with the bartenders, bouncers etc he gains status. If however he would try to take that status to an art gallery - it would be a joke. He's got to work on it wherever he most frequents and then some. By Christian I'm going to go ahead and think you mean practicing evangelist/baptist kinda thing (raised without religion here so I don't really know the differ… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Unstable libidoI don't know your full story but I can give you some things that I think help. If you don't want your libido to decrease raise those T levels. Get lifting (compound lifts; ie squats), eat aphrodisiacs (avocado, oysters etc), and cut out all porn (its hard as fuck, trust me). Cut out or limit masturbating and you'll be dieing to bust a nut in no time. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Stating intentions?My answer wont be popular but I state my intentions straight up, and pretty early on. I came out of a relationship a while ago and had some major oneitis... and it still kind of lingers. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, and I'm not going to waste someones time if they are looking for one. So, I straight up tell girls I meet that I just want to fuck. Some run away and call me a pig, some end up feeling sorry for me, and some end up in my bed. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't more of you guys into bdsm?I enjoy it but I don't have the desire to buy any of the toys/tools that are usually used. So it ends up being light BDSM... so kind of like the 50 shades stuff probably (didn't watch it, or read it so i don't actually know). Also I find its hard finding girls who would be into the harder stuff anyways. Girls love being dominated but I think there is a threshold that they wont cross without some time/commitment. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Best way to compete for an indecisive prospect?Jack should go lift some weights and keep doing what he's doing. He sounds like a guy with at least a financial plan, which is a great start. He sounds likable. But, it sounds like Jack isn't Jill's first choice. To become a women's first choice Jack needs to have the full package - looks, money, status. Once Jack gets all those things, Jill will want him. Remember if someone wants to see you (or be with you), they will. But once he has achieved all those things he'll realize Jill was being a sh… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 04:44 AM |
| 7 | PrioritiesIn general I think this is the right idea. I think a lot of the newer guys here have a problem setting priorities (Bettering yourself etc) and skip straight into "I'm an alpha now" mindset just because they're TRP aware. But God damn it sounds like you're so bitter. Could have been a great post without all that anger. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Confused about my relationships with girls I'm not banging.Most of the girls that say they are my "friends" aren't actually friends of mine in the true sense of the word. Does that make me their orbiter? I don't think so. Especially since I don't even see them that often. But, when I do see them we go out and they provide social proof for me. Its a beneficial relationship to me. What you have sounds like beneficial relationships with these women. In fact, the one that is nice to talk to and the one who helps you with style sound like nice people. They r… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 04:21 AM |
| 3 | I'm in pretty serious need of advice on how to deal with roommate.If you can, move out. If I felt as though my belongings weren't safe in my own home, I'd move. If you cant move you need to find a logical way to deal with this. Lower yourself down to his level of stupidity, take in his perspective, and come up with some compromises to make things work. If he still doesn't like you after that - fine hes obviously a dickwad. Or my personal favourite, find a sexy ass Asian girl (or his sister if you can). Bring her home on a date while he is there. Then hop into … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 02:42 AM |
| 4 | How to convince friends to do stronglifts with me @ the gym?Cant force anyone to like something or do something. Its great you guys all go to the gym together even though they aren't as intense as you are. Enjoy the company and don't force anything. However, I've found that the best way to get people to join you in anything is to show them the results of doing it. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Meeting new people.Go do shit you like to do and be social with the people around you. People want to like you. Chat with the trainers at the gym (when you're done your workout). Join a men's league sports team. Even though its a college town I'm sure they have one that doesn't only cater to college students. Another place I personally like meeting people is in classes. I mostly meet girls in these classes but there are guys there too. Since you're looking specifically for male friends try a mixology or self defen… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Rusty with game and need advice (college).Talk about things that interest you. Have a good time yourself and stop making the girl a priority. From what I've noticed if you're having a good time, the girl is too. Its like she can feel some positive vibes coming off you. Just remember to not make this a "friend" conversation. You want to sleep with these girls, not hang out with them. Or maybe both, but if you fuck them good they'll stick around anyways. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I look like a Beta....Work on the things you can change, embrace the things you cant. Lift, whiten your teeth, get a retainer to fix your jaw/chin (if you can afford it), new wardrobe etc. Looks matter. But confidence triumphs everything. I've seen dudes who i think are ugly get lots of girls. They just have to work harder, or more. They have that confidence that will get girls attracted to them. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 04:32 AM |
| 3 | My Old Coworker Hung HimselfMy condolences buddy, he seemed like a chill guy. I wish he would've told someone about his feelings. Suicide is always preventable. Its a permanent solution to a temporary problem (I believe people can bounce back from anything). And as for the final paragraph, who knows? Who knows if he'd still be alive if he didn't get married. Where would he be? He'd have never felt the love of his children. Some people here still want a traditional lifestyle; marriage, kids, house with a white picket fence.… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 02:54 AM |
| 1 | She said she don't love me... AnymoreOh my word. What an extravagant post. If this isn't a troll post you have a lot of shit to figure out man. If its possible, cut your losses. Get out of this and set up a life before getting married again. I don't know too much about your cultural norms but marriage this early doesn't work (clearly). Get out of it. Then read the sidebar, focus on your own life goals, and if you get confused about theory, or need insight post here to AskTRP. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 05:04 AM |
| 1 | No responses to "Let's hang out"?Soft next. If she contacts you, great. If she doesn't, move along. Maybe she regrets her decision hooking up with you and shes just trying to be nice (they usually don't like outwardly rejecting guys cause they like the attention). Maybe one of those text convos turned her off (texts should really be just for logistics anyways; cut out those convos). Hell, maybe she just has been busy and/or forgot to text you back. And lastly your texts give off a needy impression. Its super obvious you want to… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice for plating older chicks.Game them the same as you would a girl your age. Some will like you, some will not. Some wont take you seriously as you're younger, others might see a "fun younger guy". | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 03:45 AM |
| 8 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsIn nursing school we're taught that we cant give patients certain medication (they have to administer it themselves). And yes for some scenarios there are legal issues about med administration. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsYes and I love it so far. If you have questions or concerns feel free to PM me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 03:10 AM |
| 7 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsTrust me, I've written her off for good. And that fucking hurts. I simply just cant trust her anymore. I wont even plate her because I have a feeling the emotional attachment will just stay longer. And I know I have securities. Most of them stem from her. Once I get over her I'm hoping they subside more or just disappear entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 01:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsYeah I knew where her epi-pen was. After thinking more about the situation so did some of her friends however. I don't blame them for freezing up though. I was a little anxious and angry when I wrote this FR, probably came across as conceded. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 01:09 AM |
| 17 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsAfter reading the replies here I might not even entertain her with a talk unless she thanks me or starts acknowledging my existence at school. I'll make up my mind on the spot for that one. I'll keep a note to do a follow up if anything interesting happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:29 PM |
| 17 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsI will make a note of doing a follow up. I think you're right with Briffault's Law though. I haven't even received a thank you from her. Her mom has sent me an email however. Nice lady. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:25 PM |
| 8 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsWhy wouldn't I? I'm not going to sit idly while someone else gets hurt. Unless of course there is a greater chance that I harm myself with them. I was trained in first-aid before being in nursing so there is still a kind of "first response" instinct. However I will acknowledge your point. I really hope and think I'm not the person that freezes up when something can be done. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:21 PM |
| 48 | [FR] On maintaining stoicism in extreme situationsNot going there again. I think gaming girls in your program is akin to gaming girls at your workplace. I'm not shitting where I eat. But lets hope they do anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Yesterday I had a girlfriend of two years, and today I don't.If you want support and someone to hold your hand as you get over this girl I don't think this is the place. Believe me I can empathize with you. But you have to support yourself. Find a system that will help you deal with the rage/sadness and the eventual void you will feel. If you want my opinion, go monk mode. Work on yourself and keep busy. Have empty time slots in the day? Fill them with something productive. Gym, language lessons, reading, more time studying etc. Don't rush into any relati… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Gaming Chinese GirlsWe talking about the ones born in the western world or brought over by the airplane? Cause the two are VERY different. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with Girls in GroupsGo out with no expectations. Better yet go out to have fun whether you are by yourself, or choose to invite your buds. These girls are simply going to be part of your night. You have nothing to prove to them, and you don't need to entertain them. If they cockblock you from the girl you want, find a new girl. I mean you're going to be in an area where there's a whole bunch of bars, no? How hard will it be to meet another girl if things go south with the tinder one. Go have fun. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Friendzoned... kind of?You have an attachment to this girl there is no doubting this. Why hang on to something that will never be? Keep her as a FWB and you could get more attached, especially since you're new. I've had a similar experience to this. What I would tell you to do is hard next this girl and go monk mode (depending on your level of attachment). Trust me, her idea of "friends" is not the same as yours. She does not care about you anymore. She will use you when she is lonely/horny and wants something easy/av… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Caught plate and another guy, I still get her. How should I treat her now?Its a plate. Why die a little inside? I think you have some underlying oneitis you need to deal with before its too late. If that's the case then you need to: 1) Make your intentions clear (If shes receptive, good. If shes not receptive to the idea, oh well hard next. or 2) Just hard next this girl and get more plates. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Long-time friend, hooked up recently but makes out with guy in front of me... How to proceed?Proceed as if you don't care about her, cause she obviously doesn't care about you. She was horny/lonely and used you for sex, because she knew she already had you. That is not a friend. FYI most women will never be friends of yours in the true sense of the word. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Short FR and questionsWell if its true that you're very attractive, you're presence must be polarizing. Think of the BP you. An HB9 just walked up to you and started hitting on you, how are you going to feel? Surprised? Shocked? Frightened? A BP guy might be a mix of all 3, and that's what it is like for these girls. They're thinking about what to say to not sound stupid/ditsy etc. They don't want to fuck up this opportunity (remember girls hate rejection). Just keep doing you. Be kind (not the nice guy^TM kind), app… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I distance myself from losers? I'm becoming one of them...Who gives a fuck? Own who you are. If you like manga or some shit like that then own it. Someone you know likes "alternative medicine"? Ok that fine, its their opinion. Do you like that person? Do they add to your life in any way? Do they push their views onto you? Those are the questions you should ask yourself when confronted by people who have "strange" interests. If it really bugs you that much, simply tell them that it bugs you. "I don't like X" will solve it most of the time. If they think… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Need help with social gameThis is going to sound stupid, but just go out. Not necessarily to clubs and bars or whatever. Try a meet-up website, look for local sports clubs, join a club at school, enroll in a dance/cooking/mixology class. Do something you like and then meet other people who do the same thing. People want to like you. Fyi I find classes the easiest places to make friends (both school classes and classes that you sign up for; like dancing). | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 04:07 AM |
| 1 | In Need of some spring break pointersDon't overlook the chance of her cheating on you, she'll have endless "excuses". "I'm on vacation to have fun", "It's spring break", "Its a one time thing", "This doesn't usually happen" etc. That being said if you make sure you're the one in her bed every night then that lowers the chances. But then you kinda wasted the money on your own hotel room, no? My ultimate advice: go and have fun. Smash her good every night. If by any chance she does something stupid you're surrounded by spring break s… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 03:59 AM |
| 11 | Don't shit where you eat - University?It depends really. I'd say to not hunt within your program/major. From personal experience it can get quite awkward afterwards and if the girl is petty she can really ruin your reputation (thank God this girl wasn't). So game outside your field of study. That way you wont have to see each other everyday. On top of that, talking about school is no longer boring. She has different stories about her classes than you will and you can learn from each other. Its a much better dynamic overall. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/15 03:49 AM |
| 1 | What would you do.I think you jumped the gun a little early, but since its already over I'll move to the next part. Don't try to reconnect with her. Don't let her reconnect with you. Want to plate her? Bad idea. If there are still feelings involved it will make everything complicated. And don't overestimate your feelings for this girl regardless of how strong you think you are. You obviously have options as you were cheating throughout the entire relationship, so why add her as a plate anyway? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 05:27 AM |
| 0 | How do you define your dreams and aspirations?Kind of. I'm young, in the past 3 years I've changed my mind on what I've wanted to do several times (however all choices where health/medical related). But that shouldn't stop you from going after what you want NOW. Want to get bigger? Start now. Want to learn Russian/Spanish/Fucking Sanskrit? Start now. Your'e dreams and aspirations will come with age, experience, and opportunity. I feel like I know what I want to do right now, but who knows what my stance will be once I get my degree? The sec… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with shit from my LTRHappy to hear things are working out. Don't let this get your guard down however. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 04:44 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with shit from my LTRFirstly, try not to lose that frame of yours. Stoic men don't snap at people because there is no point in entertaining them. Easier said than done, I know. Right now what she needs is a little dread. Do your own thing for a while. Gym, friends, reading, take extra work shifts, just keep busy. Don't even bother interacting with her till shes trying to molest you for attention. Also you moved avoid moving in with your LTR's until marriage or something. I've never heard of a story where that ends u… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 06:05 AM |
| 1 | End of an LTRIn my experience; if you have to question whether you're happy, its not worth sticking it out. Plenty of fish in the sea that could make you a happy man. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is being attractive going to keep me away from arbitrary false and phony rape accusations?No, nothing will keep you safe from rape accusations. A mistake you're making is overlooking the fact that foreign women can do this as easily as domestic ones. There are ways to cover your ass however. A post titled "Exit Strategy: playing safe in a false claim society" by /u/Nuzz88 is a great read. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | When is best to next my LTR in this situation?Amazing! And yeah I really want to see an update on this. OP pls | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Should i just get it over with ?First off do a good grammar check before you post here again. It's hard to read what you wrote. I assume you just want advice on whether or not to just lose your virginity. If its that much of a problem for you; where you wonder if you should "just get it over with" you're going to come off as a thirsty bitch. Being a thirsty bitch wont get you laid anyway so... Work on yourself. A lot more. What I read here makes me wonder how far you really need to go to be where you want. Stop fapping btw, it… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Date/plate throws water in my face. Shit test?If it was me, I would have gone to the washroom to dry up. If she was waiting outside for me to apologize I would accept and invite her to my place making it really obvious what we would be doing. If she wasn't waiting outside to apologize, I would simply leave and call some friends to go hang out. Also I'd hard next her if she didn't apologize in the bar/restaurant regardless if she texts an apology to me afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | need help with gameIf you're looking for books; Models by Mark Manson is probably the one most guys here will point you to. Its a great read. But, just like /u/abdada said its not enough. Just get up and start approaching. You don't even need to get a number out of it. Hell the girl doesn't even need to be attractive (although that helps). There's an example/experiment in Models that helps make approaching easier. Go up to 10 women in a day and ask for the time; do that for a week. The next week you'll ask for the… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Hiking for dateI like active dates. I can get her sweating, I can command her to keep up (great teasing), or show her how things are done (cant really do that last one for hiking however). Enjoy yourself and take in the scenery, make some good conversation and don't worry about things going south. If you're having fun, which is whats really important, shes having fun. If things are going really well and you're good with escalation hike up to a more private spot for some alone time. Have fun buddy. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 04:38 AM |
| 17 | Date/plate throws water in my face. Shit test?I think she may have thought that throwing water would be a funny thing to do, but then she realized how fucking stupid it actually was once she saw you leave to the washroom. That's when it sunk in for her. She apologized profusely then let you bed her to keep you around. Or you actually offended her so she threw the water at you in spite. She saw your ability to simply walk away in frame and got some tingles. Either way you handled it well enough to smash later that night so I wouldn't worry a… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel like its too lateI said its hard to stay motivated, not that I was giving up. Be a real man and act your age instead of being a condescending little bitch. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Is high intelligence an alpha or beta trait?Depends on how you use it. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 08:53 PM |
| – | Height and WomenCan you expand on the other ways of having a larger presence? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Somalians and dating market.Yes I can spot you guys out in a line of other black people. No you don't have it as bad as Indian/Asian guys. There are women out there who fetishize black men (just like some non-white women fetishize white men). Just follow TRP and you'll turn out fine. People here love bringing up their race for some fucking reason; but it doesn't matter as much once you're jacked, dress well, and run good game. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Why is Toronto considered such a hell-hole?This is accurate. Everyone thinks theyre big shit in Toronto and "name-dropping" is pretty common. Even worse you got the 905ers comming down every weekend and adding to the degeneracy. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | TRP what's your take on dating, or spinning plates, with older woman?All I can tell you is that older girls always try to find a chink in your armour... its relentless. They try to not take you seriously; and I'm not sure if its because your younger, or because she feels guilty/lower SMV by continually sleeping with a younger guy. Just don't ever lose frame with older girls. Trust me, at the first sign of weakness and/or "immaturity" they are gone like the wind. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | What I’ve learned from having my first set of platesPossible actually, never met him. The way she describes him though I doubt it. He's very nice as she stresses. And I wouldn't let a plate meet my family. | /r/TheRedPill |
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