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1

be yourself if you’re being funny for the wrong motives then you’re doing too much, but let shit flow, you being funny shouldn’t be regulated lmao
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:52 PM
-1

if you have to ask if she’s interested, she wasn’t
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:51 PM
1

bro you haven’t even experienced life, stop focusing on the path and change the fucking future
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:48 PM
1

they can also bring beneficial value to your life of purpose
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:47 PM
1

be yourself and take your time
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:45 PM
-1

Try to get her alone
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:43 PM
1

i’m 6’1 and around 130 lbs
/r/newTRP23/07/22 04:10 AM
1

you really gotta explain what her shit tests are
/r/newTRP23/07/22 03:41 AM
8

Well if you game her right and have her wrapped around your finger to where she’s begging for relationship, you can give her ultimatum where she either works towards losing weight with you or be done all together
/r/newTRP23/07/22 03:40 AM
1

i’m skinny and pull a lot of women, maximize your looks and don’t change yourself over women, women stereotype skinny guys for having a big D. As long as you work out and toned you good confidence is what matters, women will say anything about men big small tall short skinny muscular, it’s all about you loving yourself
/r/newTRP23/07/22 03:35 AM
1

You should’ve let her message you and also stop caring
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:40 PM
1

Just wanted to know if a guy my weight and height should be trying to box or just focus on gaining weight
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:27 PM
1

This was an amazing reply
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:42 AM
1

I read books Don desire and like once a month I’d look a porn video for educational purposes to learn something but not for beating my meat
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:35 AM
2

Thank you needed this
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:21 AM
2

Yeah that makes more sense, I guess I just need to step up the amount of calories I take in then if I incorporate cardio back
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:54 PM
2

I work out but I’m pretty skinny and trying to gain weight so I stay away from cardio unless I’m playing soccer with friends, so I don’t work out much maybe 1-2 a week. But I do sit at my desk a lot because of my little side business
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:41 PM
1

I tell her I love it’s just that I’m not in Love, loving someone and falling in love is different, I feel as if falling in love is a distraction.Thanks for the last statement, I am saving That, really hit home
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:43 PM
5

They are looking for fans who are beta orbiters
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:15 AM
1

Yes I totally agree, never run away from eye contact
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:23 PM
9

This is pretty normal in the dating scene, she is ready to date but somewhere in the process you probably messed up in her eyes so she flaked and made up an excuse. All I can say is just Move on and don’t give them second chances when they flake, always have a backup on the days you have a date. She wants to date but doesn’t want to date you
/r/seduction13/02/21 06:43 AM
1

Well on dates I would recommend doing fun things that are interactive than regular eating. So overall you got remember this is all practice but you got to see your self as the prize, you’re giving this woman a chance to be in your life.If you’re nervous she’s nervous, she’s a reflection of you. On dates do fun activies that removes the nervousness.Thers millions of girls, nothing should prevent you from escalating, you got nothing to lose, if you’re working out and your life is in order that’s a…
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:55 AM
19

You can search up stimulating questions on google and pick the ones you like, here are 2 good videos on it https://youtu.be/0sdLAO8QEbo https://youtu.be/6slzPqwDBfo
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:34 AM
4

It’s all about bringing up her interests and stuff she likes which will end up making her talking for a long time, eventually lead you into asking stimulating questions and sexual questions to escalate.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:33 AM
19

Try to be touchy on dates, not in awkward way yk when talking or doing something interactive that puts you in a position where you can out your hand on her, bump into her etc Ask emotionally stimulating questions and sexual questions on the date, that comes with having open body language and being able to start these conversations with it being appropriate. Then comes the game spitting You shouldn’t be doing most of the talking, she should talk about her interests and she’ll talk for a long time…
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:30 AM
8

1.Nope it’s pretty normal 2.I wouldn’t put your job on the line over some p0ssy, there’s millions of women and even if he told you it’s fine, he’s still going to feel some type of way. Never ask him for permission btw. You should know right from wrong if you were in his shoes
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:23 AM
2

Regardless of wether or not it’s too late it’s important to get your body right, redgardles of the wall you need to make sure you putting out your best self
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:20 AM
17

We can’t body shame, slut shame or anything judging anymore- people wil bash you for these opinions now
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:15 AM
74

Kind of, with the use of social media and things like body shaming etc you know, it puts them in the perfect position to not be judged like the past, behaviors like this would be unacceptable and judged negatively long ago but now this has change and became the normal, mostly because men lost their power.The double standard caused all of this to happen. This age is controlled by social media,and if men weren’t so thirsty and feed into thirst traps, things would change
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:14 AM
3

I can’t blame the friend, plus also being drunk. It would be the girl being cut off, I wouldn’t even bring it up that I was talking to her with the friend. Because it wasn’t his fault and clearly the girl let him fuck regardless. Bringing it up to the friend who fucked would be unnecessary and may hurt the friendship
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:36 AM
3

You need to change yo your diet a bit and try things like black seed oil and macaroo which is good for down there. Change up your diet and maybe take a lil break from hookups and p0rn(semen retention). Stop taking things because it will make it worst. Eat natural herbs theres a lot of videos on these situations. Also contact doctor if it continues to happen
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:18 AM
9

If he knew that y’all were talking, gotta cut him off. But regardless you don’t want his left overs. He hooked up with her, which meant you could’ve hooked up with her without talking stage or whatever. Maybe that was a sign she wasn’t the one. Personally I wouldn’t deal with both and distance myself after that. If yo homie was able to hit in no time, that’s all you needed to know about the type of girl she is. Just talk to me girls g
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:14 AM
5

If you want to maximize your chances with 10s, you got to maximize your cards,Meanings look, physique etc. He may not have abs but that doesn’t mean anything, women could be attracted to him for a complete different reason. What works for him may not work for you. Of course you can get women without Being in shape but your chances are lower with high quality women
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:11 AM
3

Maybe because the grass wasn’t greener on the other side, aswell as you the individual leveling up. They are so driven by their emotions that these things give them thrill, they watch these toxic movies and shows and mimic what they do
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:53 AM
3

You can do fun shit with a plate and have no sort Of girlfriend type relationship.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 06:36 AM
1

Yeah I know it’s just more on the fact that I haven’t heard much on feminism from redpill stand point, not so much of the tinder thing
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:10 PM
1

It was in her passion section, I was asking a simple emotionally stimulating question g, I don’t really care I just never heard a lot of redpill opinions on feminism.she already showing high interest and plus I have a lot more matches to give a shit
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:07 PM
6

Your revenge is becoming the best version of yourself and leveling up, karma will find its way- stop giving a duck about her and focus on yourself and leveling up.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:44 PM
2

Yeah I have them but I just laugh, there’s betas that will be like this their whole life so that makes me happy
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:04 PM
1

Ain’t no good K/D ratio, forget that, getting number doesn’t mean your ducking so why does it matter?
/r/seduction23/12/20 03:54 PM
2

You fuck her mentally, then foreplay till she’s begging for the pipe. Find something that turns you off from her that will make you last longer, you gotta treat/see her like she’s a 5. Take breaks during sex - switching positions and kissing and shit to slow it down
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:51 PM
2

Everyone has it, just know you’re not the same now, all those people you were beta to, just know it will never happen again when you level up
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:44 PM
6

Do nothing, if she’s interest find another girl your rotation and focus on yourself. Maybe stop doing same vanilla sex and spice it up. Go on a date and control her with vibrator, have sex in random places outside the house. Give her sex to remember the same sex is prob hella boring to her
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:42 PM
3

Stop giving a shit about what people think and work on yourself
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:15 AM
24

Might just cut it off, 1 because you won’t be seeing her as much anymore. You will never know if she cheated it or not but, that prank is very suspicious- never seen anyone joke about that before so definately a red flag You are a man and don’t have time for games, she staying there even longer could justify for the “ex” that moved in Save yourself the time and move on g, you shouldn’t be in these type of situations and back and forth long distance relationships never work out, she could be goin…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:26 AM
1

When guys are horny they do stuff that they wouldn’t normally do so when their senses kick in after, there will be a difference
/r/seduction21/12/20 06:32 AM
1

Usually men come to their senses after sex which is why they could be acting different, it happens to every guy but don’t think you’re damaged goods, there’s nothing you can do about the past but change how you carry yourself now, block them out of your life and just start over
/r/seduction21/12/20 06:30 AM
3

Oneitis
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:15 AM
1

Keep the app to find replacements if some are dropped
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:42 AM
6

Just say “I’m grown”’next time and try to avoid or change the topic when it’s about age. Obviously when y’all talked you didn’t give off that vibe that you were “young” so don’t even bring it up or just say you’re grown , or jokingly say stuff “ I could be your Daddy” - but never lie
/r/seduction20/12/20 09:52 AM
1

You thinking about that is time you’re are wasting towards your dreams, stop letting wondering thoughts distract you from end goal, stay motivated and keep pushing. This will only be the same if you let it, don’t let age fool you king
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:45 AM
8

AMS is definitely redpilled I am not aware of the other gentleman
/r/askTRP20/12/20 09:43 AM
6

I mean you should’ve been focusing on yourself since the day you got back, you shouldn’t have hit her up after y’all got back to begin with, plus the validation. You should’ve been distant for a while then hit her up or vice versa, now she prob feels like you’re chasing her and prolly lost interest. You can always go out by yourself, you don’t need friends or girls to be doing shit.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:57 AM
1

A better one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RP77WwPVoq4&feature=youtu.be , all I can say is, if you’re able to pull her, you will be able to pull way better females if you just focus on yourself and level up. Shit she will prob even come back when she sees you level up
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:34 AM
2

Watch this king https://youtu.be/RP77WwPVoq4
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:32 AM
3

Oneitis
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:25 AM
4

First block them on all social media and number, whatever that’s causing you to think Of them block it. Secondly bro just face it, you’re not fucking her no more, she will be fucking other guys. Nothing you can do but level up and fuck even badder and better girls than her. She isn’t thinking about you g, she already moved on stop holding on. Go out with friends and by yourself and enjoy time, work on yourself and fill your daily schedule with things to do that prevents you from thinking about h…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:25 AM
9

You got to respect yourself and move on g, 3 times ? , you should’ve been done after 1. She isn’t interested
/r/seduction20/12/20 08:19 AM
3

Don’t tell people you trust everything, maybe some family members but friends is a no and always. Give back to those who helped you but don’t let them know what you have unless they figure it out their own naturally. You can. He funny hot and stuff on social media without showing money, it can show in the things that are revealed naturally but don’t go out your way to make it obvious, you will always attract the wrong people with money. If anything you being funny and all that and keeping the mo…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 07:26 AM
2

Don’t say anything if she doesn’t come, you did a good thing for not changing what you got going on to see her.If she can’t see you just hit up another plate.You got your priorities inorder and didn’t go back on your word
/r/askTRP19/12/20 06:49 AM
0

Today
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:19 AM
-1

Call her two days before the meet up just to check up on the situation
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:15 AM
1

Don’t settle for less essentially
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:14 AM
2

A man teasing a woman isn’t a bad thing and can get results depending on how you carry it out
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:13 AM
1

Check the average wait for someone your height and age, I’m currently underweight myself at 6’0 and trying to work on it, also hit the gym too
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:01 AM
2

Just tell her bruh, “ I prob told you I don’t really like tiktok, and most of these I don’t have the time to watch them so save your time, we can do a few tiktoks in person but let’s just keep our messages as real convos” sum like that where it isn’t as mean and gets to the point and lil sexual if you will
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:00 AM
1

Do something fun depending on the girl and bring her back home. Paintball, go out for drinks, or whatever fun activity, in which after to push towards her coming back to the crib
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:56 AM
1

It doesn’t matter where or what, if the girl is feeling you she feels you, just go ahead and cold approach and update us with results
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:55 AM
3

Having girl friends is bad in my opinion especially when they all see you as beta, they just there for your attention but nothing else, I would drop them, you are doing something wrong that gives every girl that vibe, maybe it’s just you being too nice(girls don’t like nice guys) and I feel like if you’re a nice guy, that may be the reason.
/r/seduction13/12/20 02:54 AM
2

You can get it but don’t rely on it
/r/seduction10/12/20 10:35 PM
5

Red flag
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:02 PM
11

I have a best friend that’s a girl, but there’s benefits involved, having girl best friends or even friends doesn’t make sence. There’s always one person wanting more from the other. I feel like having a friend that’s a girl most likely mean you’re orbiting her until your turn. But I feel like I’ve experienced some friends that it seemed very genuine but that’s only 1 girl. Being friends with a girl really means nothing but you giving her attention and she faking that she cares mostly
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:56 AM
1

Yeah you shouldnt have invited the other couple, that can mean a lot of things in woman’s head that can turn her off.She eats,piss,shits bro, don’t get caught up with looks, try to find one thing about her that turns you off.You have to get used to be being around hot chicks.( she wants all the attention on the date, she may think that you may be nervous on the date to the point you gotta invite someone to help, or she overall could be uncomfortable meeting you and strangers at once. And shouldn…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:32 PM
2

With doing a lot of work it’s good to take timeout for yourself and with your friends, you can balance the game and start going out more, wether it’s with friends and stuff, since you’re working hard you are becoming more high value so more females will soon start chasing you especially with the football. It wouldn’t hurt going out more and just enjoy doing fun things and going out your comfort zone.Reading books , playing the game, going out as a gift to yourself for working hard because you’ll…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:20 PM
2

Sounds good
/r/seduction09/12/20 07:32 AM
2

You got to realize, women reach their prime at an early age while men reach theirs later in life. Which is why we get the last laugh because women’s looks deteriorate by the time we reach our prime, regardless of how nervous you are they eat,shit,piss and all that, stop thinking of people being higher than you when you know your own potential, knowing you can be richer and have the last laugh.Just continue to keep working on yourself and don’t get distracted from what will always be around you (…
/r/seduction09/12/20 07:20 AM
1

How outgoing are you?
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:10 AM
10

Sports, working out/gym , try to learn a new skill to possibly have a side business with
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:01 AM
1

Hell yeah
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:42 AM
8

Where ever you go you have to see the circumstances surrounding the area to create convo. Example at the gym “ so what are we working on today” legs?? That’s cool, I’ve been looking for a spotter and you seem like the type of person I am looking for Or that’s cool we should work out sometime my name is BLLANK , then you can go for number Train “ so where are we going today” Oh You live there? Man it seeems so boring there , etc Just look at where you are and come up with sum while k on the spot.…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:38 AM
2

Not the google hangout mane😂
/r/seduction09/12/20 12:30 AM
6

It’s best to realize that she is never talking to just one guy, I recommend being more mysterious and not respond fast enough even if she does, then she will chase you more because you don’t give a lot of attention
/r/seduction09/12/20 12:29 AM
30

Girls live off attention, it’s the new norm to show off their bodies and they have things to back them up like “slut shaming” “body shaming” to say to protect. They reach their primes early but their looks will fade eventually. They have nothing else to offer but their body
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:40 PM
8

She prob brag to her friend about you and now she wants to find out, why not?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:48 PM
10

Yes man semen retention is gold
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:40 PM
1

Hell yeah bro, crack sexual jokes. Especially when the movie has anything to do with sex aswell. Break the touch barrier. If she shows resistance, try again later. She just needs to warm up and be comfortable
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:57 PM
1

Maybe have conversation create sexual tension within the convo, when you see each other hug or possibly kiss depending.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:39 PM
2

I think could to establish some sexual tension before you came back to your house so it doesn’t become awkward.Make sure to have some sort of alcoholic drinks to get you guys in the mood aswell, and set the mood with lights and stuff.Establish having arms over her shoulder or even let her chill in your bed. Try to initiate making out, if it doesn’t work just pull back and try again. The movie doesn’t matter if anything you can say stuff like “you know we didn’t come here to watch this movie” the…
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:24 PM
1

Abort
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:16 AM
2

Most those guys in her dms she won’t fuck tbh, most of them are simps and she just does that to show off.Dont take advice from a female, and she’s never talking to just you g(cold truth), she says all that but unless you setup a date and put it in action, she is just leading you on g
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:06 AM
1

She isn’t interested in you g, it’s more of a manipulation tactic girls use to force guys to double text. If she has to text you after you like the pic, basically means ohhh I forgot you texted me ... meaning you aren’t on her mind g. Move on to another girl, if she isn’t showing interests and wants to link up with you... then that only means she wants you for attention. Don’t message her because it makes you desperate and she will definately make up her mind to keep you as a friend
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:56 AM
3

You value yourself more by not making her your main priority, you should be working on your purpose and other priorties. Treating her like #2, she will treat you like #1 . Once she sees your value going up, that will another reason for her not to leave you because you becoming a high value man which is hard to find, since looks doesn’t make you high value. If you value you her more than yourself she will leave you because it seems that you are putting her on a pedestal instead of yourself.If you…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:53 AM
5

It’s possible, you just need to have the mentality that you are the prize in the relationship and not the girl, you giving her the opportunity to be apart of your life. Value yourself more than her. Looks aren’t the only thing that attracts females, and those guys entertaining your goal most times are actual simps feeding her attention. If you know you can plate females, you have value g, not because she’s pretty that doesn’t mean she’s above you. Stop worrying about who’s looking at her and jus…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:12 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:00 AM
2

That’s an idea that you need to get rid of because it is not alpha at all,alphas don’t care about his female entertaining chads and tyrones, you have a scarcity mindset when it comes to that
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:48 PM
5

Just move on and ignore her, if she’s not showing interest in seeing you and blaming it on covid, just find someone else. You shouldn’t settle for any flake, I would put her on ice for wasting my time
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:26 PM
3

You are still attached to her and need to block her after y’all relationship ended. You need to develop a rotation of females to bang until you meet that 10/10, by doing this having a rotation will prevent from being attached and also lose feelings s for you ex. Covid drought is affecting all of us but have you tried dating apps like tinder? Work on yourself continue working on yourself, hit the gym find a nice haircut and maximize your looks to increase attraction. It seems like you have oneiti…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:21 PM
1

I would recommend testing her and seeing reactions from certain scenarios to test her behavior
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:17 PM
8

Stop spending time on social media and try to get a part time job,get in the gym and maximize your looks and potential. You gotta man up and stop holding yourself behind and take action today and mute or uninstall social media apps that you are addicted to for a week and when you develop this behavior of being detached from it, install it back and only use it every now and then. If you want to become responsible and change, CUT OFF THE SOCIAL MEDIA and help your mom, seeing her struggle every da…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:27 PM
0

Listen man, as an alpha you got to be good at everything. In regards to your looks bro, just hit the gym develop a nice body find a haircut that suits and just try to maximize the cards you were given. D wise, make sure you’re good in every aspect of sex. Looks aren’t the only thing girls care about and if you have a good mouth piece where you can seduce a girl like nothing, looks won’t play a huge role. Just stop giving a fuck what people think of you and just maximize your potential. Average g…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:09 PM
1

Ahh, I don’t know... it may come off a little childish/corny. It may depend on how seductive it sounds
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:59 PM
1

It’s not a bad thing that you want to be ethical, you can still have the same outcome by being ethical but it’s just how you say it
/r/seduction07/12/20 09:51 PM
2

God sees your true intentions that you didn’t mean to manipulate her, maybe she’s just overwhelmed with God and her past and needs some time alone to think. Just keep praying and God will lead her back
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:45 PM
1

“I’m just looking for a good time, have some fun and then maybe in the future a relationship might come”
/r/seduction07/12/20 09:41 PM
1

Ignore it, she will eventually come back, if you know you didn’t do nothing wrong, don’t apologize and don’t go after her attention. That’s what happens when you try to help people that came from a dark place
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:35 PM
2

I mean if still wants to bang her he most likely will,other than that he gotta move on.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:42 PM
1

Maybe because it’s just the same boring sex, you are working on yourself but maybe with the women you bang. Experiment be and adventurous and spontaneous with sex, like go on a date controlling her with vibrator or something or have sex in random places to get each other’s emotions all over the place. To me it it just seems like you have gotten used to the same boring sex and just need to experiment, maybe limit the amount of times you have sex and just go all out and do sexual things to remembe…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:36 PM
13

Yeah bro that’s all your fault g, you full out embarrassed her. You gotta make it up with her because that’s straight violation
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:32 PM
1

Nothing you can do but take action, once you take it you won’t regret it and in reality you have nothing to lose, you are giving these other girls the chance to be apart of your life. Just man up and stop being a poosy.The more you start now, you won’t even think twice about it later about going up to female If you are still scared, only go up to girls that give you the signal that they are interested it you aka staring and other things
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:30 PM
5

Since she flaked on you, she should be trying to make it up to you. If she keeps was it your time and won’t meet up move on, not because it’s your first 10 that doesn’t mean you can’t treat her like a 6. Just focus on the fact that you’re pulling 10s now and there’s more to come. Post on social media with other girls and going out to make yourself seem outgoing, she will get jealous and definately go out her way to see you g. I personally wouldn’t even pay much attention to a girl that flaked on…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:27 PM
1

Just keep working through the drought
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:23 PM
3

Majority of them aren’t celibate
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:22 PM
1

Continue to work on yourself and maximize your look, continue to hit the gym ,eating healthy and find a hair cut that’s suitable for you.Don’t approach women unless they give you a choosing signal. Maybe you come off too much as a nice guy when approaching( women usually has made up their mind in the first 20 seconds of meeting you if they will mess with you or not) I can’t see why because you’re working on yourself but keep working to maximize your potential
/r/seduction07/12/20 06:58 PM
2

Yeah everyone had to go through this, have you tried using dating apps like tinder? You gotta start putting that workout health back together, it’s understandable but we’ve made it this far, us alphas just gotta adapt to the changes.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:18 PM
1

Yes lol sorry
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:10 PM
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You should be trying to save all the conversation for the date so you have a lot to talk about. Get to know her a little bit and then set the date. Try to get that done within that range of messages and when setting the date call her a day or two before to make sure everything is set.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:10 PM
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Unless you’re going to plate her only, you doing this for a relationship could only be a disaster king. Those red flags are hot good at all. Or just go out more and start talking to more chicks don’t rely on one, we all have droughts when it comes to getting chicks, you can only work on yourself or go out more and get choosing signals or cold approach
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:08 PM
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Well you need to start posting more pictures, maybe now hitting the gym and making sure you are fit, getting haircut and stuff and start posting more to have some sort of social media value, she can’t be the only one getting hotter. Personally I would just setup a quick date where y’all message 15-20 to plan the date. In which you will not double text , use too many emojis and behave high value. If she says no GO OUT AND POST YOU HANGING OUT WITH HOT CHICKS, she can still possibly see you as bet…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:03 PM
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To stand out, do not double text and do not respond right away, you are older which means you aren’t glued to your phone and actually have things to do. You should do minimum of 15-20 messages to set up a date. Texting should solely be used as a way to setup a date. Do not use a lot of emojis aswell. Your smv friends phones are blown up by simps that your friend knows she/he is not interested in. Personally I have a small circle so I am able to count on my hands the people that I call good frien…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:59 PM
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Girls never approach you because unless you’re 10/10 that’s how the game works. They will only give you choosing signals aka staring at you and being in your vacinity to give you the opportunity to start a conversation. It’s just something you have to get used to. You got to kill the anxiety from now so it will be easy later
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:37 PM
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Based on the first two paragraphs , since you’re shy you may tend to overthink things. When a girl is interested in you especially in public when you you both catch eyes and she tries to be in your vacinity. That’s your cue to shoot your shot and go up to her and try to get her number g. If it doesn’t work out you can’t be mad because you just took action which thousands of guys are scared to do. Taking action will make you less shy. Just make a quick convo based on the setting which could be gr…
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:35 PM
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Well the fact that you don’t want a relationship and still like her that much could be oneitis possibly, just have a lot of more girls in your rotation so you don’t get attached to her since you’re not looking for a relationship just have a rotation of chicks to plate to prevent attachments
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:29 PM
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It could be a shit test, I personally would do something about it sexually, “ who you telling to stfu? And I grab her neck or something” since it’s your ex it may not be weird but females do things like this to test you and for you to put her in her place. The best thing is to be emotionless and don’t take what she says seriously.maybe when you playe her you bring it up in sex” who you telling the stfu” in a way to talk dirty but don’t take it seriously
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:21 PM
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Don’t ask her if you can call her g, you should be alpha, alphas don’t ask for permission just randomly call her
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:16 PM
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Okay exes, this is pretty easy just start flirting with other females at your job and make sure she sees it, she will get jealous, she will try to do things to get your attention, ignore them for a bit then when she does it and you ready to , just invite her over to your crib for some “drinks” or whatever that can eventually set the mood for you to plate. Don’t feed your ex attention she should be doing it to you
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:19 AM
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You have her going on an emotional roller coaster g, continue to play the cards right. All that free attention she gets means nothing because she isn’t going to have ses with any of them and she knows it
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:16 AM
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Oh shoot my bad king. Then this should be easy then, she only has her mind on you so this will be easy plate, I would even go far as flirting with other females at the job so she gets jealous which makes her want You more. Since she’s your ex invite her over your crib one night to have drinks and take it from there
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:01 AM
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No you can’t ignore them g regardless if she treats you like a king. If it doesn’t show it self now, it will later on.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:47 AM
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Do not double text , short and simple and do not use too many emojis. As the other said 15-20 messages to plan the date. When you set the date FaceTime or call her a day or two before the meet up to make sure everything is cool. If she flakes don’t be upset. Never hit her up again and if she does. Up to to you to decide, I would make her make it up to me.
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:59 AM
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I Respect it, you only give these females one chance, in some cases they are given to chance make it up to me or just be forgoten
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:41 AM
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Don’t ask her out again, you gave her the opportunity and there’s only one chance you should give. I personally have a friend that does this, in reality it’s not a real relationship. All of those 15 friends are simps that are feeding her attention. Don’t feed into her simp bachelor foolishness. Like I said I have a female friend that does this, they don’t have to be good looking to be the center of attention online, she keeps saying she wants love so more simps can feed her attention
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:34 AM
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You played everything right but where are you taking this? This seems like a lot of opportunities where you and her could setup a link out of work, obviously you stood out against the other simps. Take it to the next step g
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:26 AM
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Just break up with her, when you level up from Beta to Alpha in a relationship, it never really works out. Get that fresh start next year or as soon as possible. Start talking to new females now and don’t even worry about her and faking feelings. When you get more chicks in rotation the feelings will be gone. Also got to make sure in the future make these females respect you king.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:18 AM
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I don’t even think this is a shit test bro, she trying to start a conversation with you in these situations. This is your sign to link up after work. She showing interest , but I would recommend you being careful with banging chicks or cuffing chicks that you work with
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:11 AM
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