Recommendations Needed

pua_max · 2020-12-17T08:06:33+00:00

I got the best book. You’ll love it. It’s called Practice by Going Out.

Actual plan: Read models, go out a lot, and search up specific questions here or at girlschase. Then circle back for more books.

Philipparty · 2020-12-17T09:20:02+00:00

Negging is basically teasing, with the intent of manipulating. So just tease instead.

Not sure where you are on your jurney but these books help: -Models by mark manson -No more mr.nice guy by Robert Glover

Besides that, seduction is just the ability to be yourself fully, express your desires openly, and be vulnerable and social. Also, initiating is on your shoulders Talking to a lot of women you find attractive, and telling them you find them attractive is a good start.

blunt_eastwood · 2020-12-18T19:51:20+00:00

Models is a good place to start.

MetronTheCollector · 2020-12-17T06:52:42+00:00

Don't use negging, that's mean and it doesn't give results. Don't read books that teaches you to use tricks like that, or to try to lower another person's self-esteem.

The best book to read is Models by Mark Manson. It teaches to be honest and genuine to connect with others. It's a healthier and more effective way.

ElCuervoMiguel · 2020-12-17T12:40:51+00:00

Everyone will have his favourite.

My one is undoubtedly, absolutely "The Game: penetrating the pick up artist society", by Neil Strauss. Then you can also add, of the same author, "The rule of the game".

Why?

"The Game" is not a how-to manual. First of all it is a wonderful tale.It's an autobiographic novel, which also shows some how-tos and tricks.

This for me was very important, for several reasons.

it creates an excalation from doubtful curiosity, to empathy for the protagonist, to engagement and eventually to full commitment for the cause.
it creates involvement: it is like learning how to be Ironman by watching the Avengers, rather than watching a documentary on mechatronics
it shows characters, with their weaknesses, fears and achievement, making the "seduction stuff" close to normal people.
it has a lot of literature (you can find extra referencesfor your reading)

-you understand the importance of not being alone: seduction is mostly personal, but most of personal things are better done with a spoonful of cooperation.

After this you will be warmed up for skyrocketing. And you will be ready for the "how-tos". "The rule of the game" is the next reading I reccomend, but you will be probably ready to pick up the reading you prefer on your own.

Keep us posted.

Swogmoggle · 2020-12-17T08:41:50+00:00

Personally I like: 'The Mystery Method'. I found it a very comprehensive and enjoyable book on the social dynamics of being attractive to new people not just girls.

Title	Recommendations Needed
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Date	December 17, 2020 6:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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