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Honestly I'm just having a hard time finding time between class, internship, working out and studying to spend time meeting girls. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:58 PM
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Opinions on monk mode for all of college till I finish my comp eng degree in 2 years?
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:00 PM
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Don't think about it too much. A lot of times numbers don't lead to anything and "planning to hook up" puts you in a bad mental state. Just hit her up and go on a date or meet up.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 10:00 PM
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I started around the same age as you. The best thing for me was not focusing on women at all for close to a year and just building myself up.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:51 PM
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Sounds like you're either provoking emotion for no reason or have sensitive friends. I used to have this happen with an old group of friends. Wasn't worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:47 PM
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Talk to a lawyer asap. No one here will have better advice.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:33 PM
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I like to rent a small sailboat at a park near where I live. Took me two weeks to get good at it and only costs me 25 dollars to rent. I like to invite girls to join me on my daily run. Usually I do a 6-7 mile run but I'll do less if they're struggling. I like that one because it lets me know if they're fit or not, something I look for.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:32 PM
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I love skating. It's always a great way to blow time and have fun.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:26 AM
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The best way is to have super high SMV and get good at cold approach. Then you can just practice day game without having to go to bars/clubs and spending money. Good looks, strong, dress well and a good job plus good game and then you won't have to invest much time with a girl to get a sexual relationship.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 06:58 PM
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Yea, you can only lose around 1000 fat calories a day before you lose muscle. Don't fast for an entire day. I'm currently on a cut and have had huge success with not losing muscle and losing lots of fat by sticking to that.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 05:12 AM
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It's kinda hard to say much from what you wrote. Most states have places you can camp. I had a great experience going camping by myself, going on hikes and whatnot for one of my breaks in college.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:57 AM
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I was visiting a friend at that school, got a ride with him and was in super good shape (a couple of weeks before I had a fight). I saw her waiting outside the school and started talking to her and got her number. Called her a week later and went to some event she was participating at her school and just escalated the whole time. Then from there on called her every so often and she would visit my school, or I would visit hers until I got a car. Then we dated like normal, going out to stuff toget…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:54 AM
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For me, the best thing was to immerse myself in other things. Once I started spending all my time either at the gym, doing school work, at my work or skating I stopped giving a fuck about what people thought. I had too much to worry about so it was the last thing on my mind.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:49 AM
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When I was in high school, only a few years ago, I never did any of that shit and I had a girlfriend at another school on the other side of town. You don't need to text people. I mean at least have the balls to call them if thats all you can really do. If you don't want to talk to you on the phone, they aren't interested.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:48 AM
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Do you put a lot of effort into dress and fitness? If you do, just suggest some things that you think she could wear. Bring it up with something like "I think you'd look really cute/sexy in this". If you don't put effort into it then you have no place to ask her that. And if you don't this is only another reason to start working on it.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:44 AM
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Losing weight is calories in vs calories out. According to what you said your daily calories burned without exercise is around 2700. So you put on close to half a pound of fat today. Just stick with dieting, this is only a set back.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:41 AM
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Did you know her at all before this? She might just be looking for a hook up or she wants a date with less pressure before doing something like ice skating. Or she might just feel embarrassed to ice skate.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:39 AM
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Were you cutting before this? For me when I'm on a cut I can get irritable.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:37 AM
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Have structure. If you planed to go out with friends or go to the gym, don't change your plans if she asks. Then she will know she isn't your only priority. This will make her know she has to work to be a part of your valuable time.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 11:02 PM
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They like the photos of your ex and you're upset about it. That's the problem? First, dude she's your ex, who cares what happens. Second, you sound really sensitive. Your friend who's married liked your ex's photo, why the fuck do you care. You get upset super easy. Grow a pair.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 10:58 PM
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If you can go out 3 or more times a week you're either really smart or your major isn't too difficult. What is your major?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:08 PM
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I don't understand what compels someone to reply like this. Your question has validity and isn't easily answered by sidebar material. Don't bother with this guy.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 08:07 PM
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Exactly this, as well as one more reason. Most women text as a way to get validation. They use it as a way to get more of your time and to get compliments.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 01:46 AM
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To be completely fair 62.8 percent of adult women are overweight or obese. Just not being fat makes a women way more attractive. Factoring in her age, I think it's fair to say she is slightly below average. So a "4" is probably realistic, if 5 is the average adult women in the US. I think the way most people rate women doesn't take into account the large number of women that we simply look away from in shame. Keep in mind that I'm not saying this affords her all these things the author assumes s…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:30 PM
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Yea, I don't know where OP heard on TRP that Maher should be respected. All he does is say things that have shock value and pander to liberals. Burr has tons of respect on this forum though, for good reason. He holds frame extremely well.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:35 AM
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If you already do physical activities forget the rest of what I say but... I personally have focused more on the aspect of bettering myself financially and worldly. I have found monk mode extremely difficult to do, specifically because of my current situation with women. From your post I get the idea you're making an excuse not to lift. Sorry, but there is no good reason not to improve yourself physically. Even if you're doing all these other things, working an hour out of each day to do some li…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 05:28 AM
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Get some piece cheap of jewelry from forever 21. $10 or less. You've only been LTR 2 months, don't do too much.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 10:17 PM
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Kino. You have to physically escalate. You should also have a few good stories that display value. These will help to make your SMV higher to her during the date. Don't be afraid to neg her, when done right it looks like teasing. If the date is a nighttime date, don't k-close at the end. Do it earlier after some kino escalation.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:57 PM
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While I completely agree OP won't always have motivation, there are good habits to have for the periods where you don't have it. For example, I write down small goals for each day and have created a habit of completing them. Keeping myself organized has also helped me achieve all my goal much easier.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:53 PM
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Leave this retard. He's clearly addicted to weed, yes it is psychologically addicting. Why stay with a loser, beta pothead? Next.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:51 PM
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Focus on yourself, improve your own life. You can offer your opinion to others but don't expect to get anywhere. And NEVER tell other people shit like, go check out the red pill. Don't talk about the red pill to others.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:49 PM
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Yea OP, wtf?
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:58 PM
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Leagues don't exist, but that doesn't mean you only communicate with 9s and 10s. When I go out I go after anything that moves until I'm in the zone. That doesn't mean I'm actually following up with/dating/fucking the ugly ones, but rather not using looks as an excuse for not approaching. Approach everything and you'll see that you can do a lot better than your perceived league.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 08:29 AM
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The number one problem I think red pillers fall into is not holding frame. They can hold frame to get the girl, but then become lazy and comfortable and become their old selves. Then they start blaming the girl. This isn't true in all cases on trp, but when it comes up I don't understand how these guys don't see it. She gets tingles from the frame you started with, not this lazy, beta you are now. Go out there and improve before you blame someone else.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:27 PM
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I don't know what you're getting at with this post. So women stay with beta bux because he can give her a home? Why do successful women stay with guys who make less than them. There are tons of examples of stay at home dads who don't provide a "parking spot". Now those relationships have a multitude of problems that TRP tries to enlighten us to, but they do exist. The issue of what causes a woman to stay loyal to a man is more complex than you're trying to make it. All over TRP people have FR an…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 10:19 PM
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Around 6 months in most plates start to have a problem with it being a waste of time. They realize they aren't going to get commitment from you, so they try to get you to realize they want more. If you don't give them more, its over. That's how plates work, they are temporary.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 09:59 PM
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What type of career are you pursuing?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:07 PM
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What do you do for a career? To blow off steam I practice guitar and skate.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:04 PM
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For career? For dating? Hobbies? Be more specific.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:02 PM
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Most of the friends I make are guys I see as high value as well. We understand that we need time for improvement and respect that. But we also spend time going out together and opening sets together. I've met some of them in classes and some of them when I was going out.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 10:01 PM
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First, approach the second you see a girl you want. If you don't you stale out the set. They know you saw them and your SMV lowers the longer it takes you to approach. Second, go for the girl you want and isolate her. Ask her to come with you after a few minutes. Don't leave the bar or anything, but get into a one on one. Make sure you kino escalate the whole time and then get the number. Say something like you gotta go see a friend. And then go find another set. You spent too much time on one s…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:57 PM
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Sounds like you entered interview mode. You should talk about the things that interest you and tell stories that display value. Don't just ask a stream of questions. From what you said you do sound boring, why should she be interested in you?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:47 PM
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The problem with texting is you can't escalate well. The whole time she is just fishing for validation and you either give it to her or you don't. When you are on a date you can kino escalate and put more emotion into what you're saying. You can actively see ioi and iod. This allows you to respond accordingly. You also give her less time to react, allowing you to lead better.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:43 PM
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I'm only a year older than you, but when I was living at home 2 years ago to save money I rolled with my mom being childish and needy. You're living off of her so there isn't much you can do when you're around the house. During that year I spent most of my time studying at the library, working out at the gym or going out for drinks. Try to get outta the house as much as possible and just deal with it for now. Unless you're ready to move out, it's just a part of your life for now.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 09:25 PM
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How old are you? Are you living with her? Is Dad in the picture?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:48 PM
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Some cheap crap from forever 21. Easy to get something that looks ok for less that $10.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:41 PM
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Super easy, build attraction first in less than 20 messages. Then just say you want their number. Once you have it just set up logistics and meet up.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:38 PM
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You're asking them what's going on in their lives and complaining that they talk about their problems? Control the subject of conversation better. Don't open with "what's up?". Be more creative.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:34 PM
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Wait you have a plate and you're in an LTR? Just fuck her for a while and ignore your LTR. Easy dread game.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 08:24 PM
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How is that different from what I'm saying?
/r/askTRP24/01/15 07:50 PM
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I don't think OP knows what a plate is.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:11 PM
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There are mixed views. My view is that it is bad if you're jerking off instead of going out or improving.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 06:00 PM
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Yea I don't know what the fuck OP thinks. It's obvious that he is just providing validation to this girl across the country. Waste of time.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 09:39 PM
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I'm getting a degree in computer science engineering right now (almost done) and I don't love it. You don't have to be passionate about it. All of that do what you love stuff is everyone gets a medal type bullshit. You're good at math? Be an engineer. Work your ass off so hard you don't have time to think about how you're depressed.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:07 AM
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Only exception to no sex by at least the third date, is she is on her period and blew you instead.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:52 AM
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Yea I do tell them. Any girl that doesn't want to isn't plate/LTR material to me. It means they're too stuck up/high maintenance.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 11:27 PM
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Unless OP at least makes out with her OP is just a beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 11:24 PM
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You're good at making excuses. I would have been d1, get a fucking grip. You either are something or you're not. Swallow the pill and join us back in reality.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 08:01 PM
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For me personally, I learned to sail. When I take a girl on a day two, or the first meet up after getting their number, I invite them to sail on the local lake in a small sail boat. It only costs me $20 dollars to rent the boat and I get a lot of good reactions. Think about a hobby you have and a way to incorporate your girl.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:14 AM
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Stop texting, it comes across poorly and gives her too much time to react. Second, what is your escalation like? Where are you getting with kino and why aren't you getting her to your place? The last thing I know you're doing wrong is dates. Coffee and drinks one on one. You seem boring. Get a hobby and make it more interesting. It will increase your value.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:59 PM
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You aren't going to change your friends mind. Why are you strung up on this? Worry about your own self improvement. Unless you're making a ton of money and banging tons of high quality women on the regular you need to focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:54 PM
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You could get different results if you behaved differently. It's unclear what you're looking for though. Plates? LTR? All I can tell is you want more of a relationship than just fucking these girls.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:47 PM
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Next time just go for it. Not asking for a number or meet up today shows you lack confidence. Mystery always says to keep thoughts, words and emotions in line. Never think you want to make a move and then hesitate and think about it later. Between now and the next time you see her tons of guys will hit on her an she probably won't remember this interaction. That or she will see you again and the emotional state will be different than the frame you had today, a good one to ask her out with.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:38 PM
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If you think that things work that immediately if you just say the right magic words, you need to work on building rapport and holding frame way better.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:32 PM
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Yea, OP might be coming across as a creep. Good game should seem really natural to a girl, like RSD Julien. From what OP said, he is doing the right things. I just wonder if his delivery is poor.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 11:28 PM
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Negging had to fit into the frame. Don't just throw insults at women, it has to be fun. You're taking the scenario you created, whatever the little story you're running is, and teasing her. This lowers her value in relation to yours, and makes the frame stronger.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 11:19 PM
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Yea, sexting is like going for a k-close too early. You can do it and succeed, but the girl now got what she wanted from you, validation. Now she has no reason to talk to you anymore. She'll just dismiss it as "having fun" and be done with you.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 11:04 PM
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Unless you are already good at cold approach, you shouldn't use these apps. I spent a lot of time learning how to pick up girls in public spaces and social atmospheres before these apps became popular. These apps give you sub optimal women that you're only communicating with so you don't have to preform uncomfortable cold approach.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:52 PM
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Yea, I wish people would spend more time reading trp/side bar before posting. I spent a year on trp just lurking trying to learn about what red pill was and the vocabulary before I started posting. And even I came from a pua community. I think a huge problem is many of our member base is getting younger (under-21). These members have little experience and don't understand that fucking a girl makes a huge difference in the relationship between the two of you.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:47 PM
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Yea, what are you going to do, show up at her work? Then she'll think you have nothing better to do or you think she has extremely high value. You gave her the option to call you or not. All you can do is wait.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:42 PM
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Yea sounds like depression. I would suggest hitting the gym more and finding a good hobby. Get invested in something you find exciting.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:36 PM
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It starts off slow so that you can focus on form. I never went to the gym for anything but cardio before that. Once I got the form down I was able to steadily increase the weight every time by 5 pounds for 2 and a half months. Then it starts to take more than one day to get another 5 pounds. Over 6 months my physique and posture improved substantially from the program. I still use it.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:17 AM
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I remember a quote from RSDTyler in his motivation video that connects with this. He says that all your brain wants to do is have some kids and survive. It doesn't care about your goals. Oneitis is a symptom of your brain completing your biological function, not what you want. edit: the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_1qY_Bqj5U
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:40 AM
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Yea, models is also a very good book for learning. I would also highly suggest it.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:34 AM
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Lol, my bad. I read the first part of it and it sounded like a lot of other posts. For me, I started learning pua from The Game, over 6 years ago. I think that book is an excellent starting point for anybody trying to learn the various parts of game. For cold approach, I think the real social dynamics youtube channels do a great job of teaching you. For a beginner I would suggest watching a lot of stuff from RSDTyler. Once you get more experience watch RSDJulien, its more like learning from a na…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:20 AM
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Any open air shopping area or mall. People generally aren't playing too close attention to time at those places. Depending on where you live there might be some good open air locations. For example I live in SF and there are a few really good parks and tourist locations.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:14 AM
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I think that this is just an individual that is exceedingly cruel. She has nothing to gain by being mean to you, it can't be a shit test by the relationship you described. Don't think about it too much, she is just a shitty person.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:52 AM
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I'm not saying using such products is bad. I get acne if I don't use the skin care products from the store for example. I was simply saying that people vocally make fun of these products because they point to an insecurity someone has.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:40 AM
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I forgot where on the TRP subreddits I was told about it, but stronglifts has changed my life. I started being able to lift a lot more, much quicker than I was with their program. It seems like something that should be displayed better to the community.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:09 AM
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I think that this has more to do with those products displaying insecurity. If you aren't confident in what you were given then you aren't a true alpha. It shows that you care too much about what others think of you, a trait that highlights low value.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:06 AM
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No, it isn't wrong. What's wrong is using it as an excuse for not learning game or seeking comfort. The second you feel comfortable in life you are failing. If you don't keep fighting your physique, relationships and job will fall apart.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:59 PM
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What's your body fat percentage? Some people need a really low percentage to get rid of chubby cheeks.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:58 PM
1

Honestly, you need to get him off games then. Online games are an addiction for many people today. They fulfill your competitive nature so you don't have to improve the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:56 PM
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Yea, you don't have to lie to her to get what you want out of this. In fact, if you have good game you should never have to lie about your intentions. I think giving off the provider vibe will put you into beta bux category and make it harder to get laid. Tons of guys are probably trying that one on her if she is attractive.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:54 PM
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He has never had a hang out with this girl before. She was clearly dodging a meetup on this day and trying to force it makes you look desperate.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:28 PM
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Those are the only things you can do. Almost anything else will lower your value. If you argue with her, you care too much. She then will see her value as higher than yours and start looking for someone else. If you really intend to stay with her through this and you're doing everything else, invest more time into your hobby. If you think about this situation too much you'll fuck it up.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:20 PM
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Just get him to start lifting. He's still young, he has a lot of time to improve everything else. But, if you get him to start lifting, he will see improvement in every part of his life. Just go with him to the gym for 30 ish days and it will become a routine for him.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:16 PM
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Don't call it a date, for people in high school that puts too much pressure on the situation. Just call her and meet up to do something. I would advise against drinking, your game will get a lot better very quickly if you learn how to succeed without drinking. Kino the whole time and go for make out early. Do NOT leave kissing her as the last thing before she goes. It puts too much pressure on that moment. Last, make sure you two have fun.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:11 PM
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Sitting her down was a huge mistake, it shows lack of value. You should increase your SMV. Lift, dread game and dress better. Then she won't be able to resist you.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:06 PM
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Are you in high school?
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:03 PM
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Sounds like you're tired of trying and you're going to settle for a shit situation. Since we only know what you tell us, I bet your rationalizing her behavior. Learn how to be stronger and next this girl. There are literally billions of women out there, don't rationalize a shitty situation.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:02 PM
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When you told her to let you come examine her, you fucked up. You turned meeting her into something too important. Now she thinks you're a loser who has nothing better to do.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:59 PM
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Car 100%. You have a good reason not to have your apartment furnished, but not having a car makes you look like a loser.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:53 PM
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Motivation will fail you. The only way to get better is by having self discipline. Force yourself to study and workout everyday until it becomes routine. This is the only way to make it a normal part of your life.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:44 PM
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Don't text people, it gives them too much power in their time to think of responses. Call them.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:05 PM
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TRP is about more than just girl problems. If you want to spin plates, improve or keep an LTR, you need to have self discipline. Drunk driving shows you lack self control. The fact you act like a smart ass after shows insecurity. There are many things you need to improve before you worry about girl problems.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:01 PM
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You have to learn from experience, nothing we tell you will help. Just go for the kiss and do what you think is right. You'll get better with experiences.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:44 PM
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I'm referring to OP.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 05:03 PM
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He said that it is the seduction and pua community. The reason that they adopt that philosophy is that it becomes another challenge. I remember RSDJulien talking about how he tried to get fat once just to make it more of a challenge to get women. To that community having such good game and frame control that you're ugly to look at, but can still get attractive women would make you the best.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 06:52 AM
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How did you find out she is very wealthy? Some people aren't directly connected to the wealth of a family and aren't going to get anything but lie about what they're going to get. Or she be telling the truth but have a set up where she only gets the money from her family when she meets a certain criteria: finish university, reach a certain age, get married, etc. If she is indeed wealthy, then frugality could be a value her parents instilled in her while growing up. Many people become wealthy by …
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:08 AM
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The most important thing about style is knowing what identity you want to adopt. Tattoos fit a certain style and attract women that want a guy that is like that. Many styles work for different people but I wouldn't say that there is any type of tattoo that increases SMV across the board.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:03 AM
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Stop dating online. The women that go looking to date people online are mostly poor partners in many ways. Start going out to clubs/bars and hitting on anything that moves. Yes, anything. You need to learn how to pick up women in these atmospheres, it will improve your seduction skills many fold. BB is beta bux. It is the beta guy women have around to take their time and money even though they aren't attracted to them. Last, the only thing you can do is what I suggested. Call and set up another …
/r/askTRP19/01/15 05:58 AM
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Two reasons: Time is a limited resource. Not only do you need to train your body, but your mind as well. Read more, get better at your hobby(or get one), do better at work/school. Anyone who is in the shape you are lacks self discipline. Being overweight requires constant rationalization. You need to learn to control yourself. The women you can get at your weight are unattractive(99% of the time). You need to become stronger in order to attract someone of high value. And don't start talking abou…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 05:54 AM
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I'm not used to situations like you're in. I spent about half a year going out 4 nights a week to learn how to better my game. I forced myself to learn how early I could start escalating, so not even having kissed a girl on the first date is a weird concept to me. If you really think things went well just call her in a few days and set up another date. In the event she is "busy" just next her. Even if she is willing to go on another date when she is completely free, you are BB to her now. If she…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:52 AM
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Honestly, I think you should just go for it. Nothing has helped me improve my game more than failure. I learned to not give a fuck from every single time I tried to get with a girl and was rejected. For 6 months I went out 4 nights a week and just tried to make out with girls every night. After a few months you stop caring, and you start learning how to properly read signals. Failure can be a great experience.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:48 AM
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Holy shit dude, don't even focus on dating right now. From what you've said about your current fitness level, you're almost obese. Go to the gym. In 4-6 months you could start to look good and have a chance with some good looking girls.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:44 AM
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Whats the point of looking at all the negatives of trp? When I learned about the red pill it gave my life meaning. I used to blame my failures on all kinds of external factors, but trp taught me that I was the one making mistakes. This made me focus everything I had on improving so I could no longer blame myself.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:40 AM
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I prefer to use mystery's approach to situations like these. Treat everything as a value calculation. I tell stories that reflect strong value, without bragging too heavily. He says that stories should reflect a value of a tribal leader such as leader of men, bravery, decisiveness and other alpha values. This raises your value. Then ask some questions but never get into "interview mode". Try to be interesting with your stories and don't be afraid to neg/tease her. When used properly negs/teasing…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:38 AM
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I believe it was created by a group of people from /r/seduction. They all had similar ideas on things outside of just PUA and decided to form a community.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:42 AM
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/u/TRPdating is completely correct. The only reason you are "ending up" with older women is by choice. If you wanted younger women you would put in the time and dedication to meet them and look better for them.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:35 AM
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Hes right, if you were going to fuck her you would have done it already. Just go out and meet other women. Don't go out to make this girl jealous, there are tons of other women. Sounds like you might have oneitis by how much you're thinking this through.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:31 AM
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They don't think it through this logically. They use excuses such as getting caught up in the moment. They don't walk around thinking about why they behave the way they do.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:28 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA Slow down. First you get some woman to come back after knowing her a month and you're committing to having her live in another country with you. Then you meet a girl a couple days later and you're fawning over her.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 08:49 AM
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I'm saying that my communication patterns are similar to someone who is from the upper class. The point I'm trying to get across is that acting like someone from a higher class will get you treated as if you are from that class.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 08:20 AM
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This is most correct. For parties that are meant to include underclassmen /u/Abadalt is correct. But this case is different, it is a 21st birthday party. This means that the party is more of a way for people to gather and drink a little before going out to local bars.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:39 AM
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Are you on antidepressants? Or do you feel depressed at all? Low libido is a symptom of both of these. The fact that you want to have children especially if they are your own, not adopted, implies that you are not asexual but rather have a different problem.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:35 AM
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I have been diagnosed with adhd as well. The first thing to understand is that it IS NOT an excuse. When I was diagnosed 6 months ago I immediately looked into everything I could do to improve myself. DO NOT rely fully on medication. It is only one piece of what will make you succeed. What I learned was that to cope with my disability I have to live an extremely structured life. I wake up and go to bed at the same time every day. I write down everything I eat, everything I need to do and everyth…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:25 AM
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If you don't get any of the luxury extras the price that they give you is almost never going to be unreasonable or very negotiable. Now if you want the extras you have to negotiate to get a good deal. This is because they have a high profit margin for the dealership to sell you more extras. My biggest piece of advice for this is having an idea of how many extras you want in the car and a price that is reasonable for them. Then you have to be willing to leave and not get the car if they will not …
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:17 AM
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I come from a middle class family but I don't wear clothing that expresses the amount of wealth that I come from. Nor do I drive an expensive car or have anything ornate. However, people pick up on my background from the way that I communicate. I pause often and pick my words carefully. And I don't swear. There are many times in my life where having this kind of communication pattern has gotten me preferential treatment.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:11 AM
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First off, set your expectations low. Remember that you are a newbie, everything takes practice to become skilled. At the same time, make sure you get yourself out there. Don't be the guy sitting with a drink in his hand back against the wall looking at his phone. This guy is never cool. Don't rationalize with "oh this isn't my kind of party" or "I'm too cool to talk to those people". Try to make friends with anyone and everyone. Now for some more detailed advice. First, get yourself in the righ…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:07 AM
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First, its important to know that most people go though some bullying. Don't use it as an excuse, but rather as something you've overcome. When you're working out or doing something hard, remember how bad you felt then and realize that the pain of improving is extremely small compared to what you experienced. Second, I would suggest that you just keep working at it. Over time it will get better and when you meet new people they won't know how bad you used to be. Last, just keep working out and i…
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Whats important to learn from stand up isn't what they say, but how they deliver it. It's an art form. You have to stop worrying about the exact words, but more about the way that you're delivering.
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Listen to standup comedians. When I was growing up I had similar problems, but after listening to people whose job it is to be extremely good at talking to others I learned a lot about how to communicate with others.
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Joe Rogan's podcast can be pretty rp sometimes. Real Social Dynamics youtube channels are rp, imo.
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You have a ton to improve on. Kissing is easy and fun. I can get girls to make out with me in 10-15 minutes after meeting them. By not going for kissing earlier you're making it a bigger deal. And heavy kino is touching boobs/butt/pussy. It is not anything else. You need to be more aggressive, it looks like she's giving you TONS of chances and you're fucking up.
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